2026-08-27
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[2026-08-27 07:06:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I didn't toss and turn it off, thankfully So I don't know I didn't work out maybe that was it but I've been working out at night and it's been fine so I don't know that video Don't ever told you this I probably have but I may have not also because I've been trying to catch it on video but it's hard to do from the angle but whenever I'm laying on the sofa and creek comes around and I start petting him obviously bear gets jealous He starts doing this thing like if I don't let him like a lot of times so just like poke his head and where my hand is and I'll start but if that doesn't work if I keep petting creek bear will like get up on me and sit down like with his butt like on my side or hip or belly or like depending on how I'm laying But just on top of me with his paw is still like on the sofa and if I keep ignoring him Works his way up like over the course of a minute he'll like stand up and Scooch his butt up further towards my head and sit there for a minute and wait and see, and eventually, if I don't ever pay attention to, I end up sitting like on my head like you'll have his butt on my head and sometimes his hands either all my like chest or side or whatever or on them On the sofa with like his whole body, completely smother It's hilarious and it's a lot like it's a lot like in the video except because he's sitting So yeah, that was funny Oh Oh God, so you had a All things going on yesterday your House is gotta be checked out in Indy because of the flood stuff You've scheduled to fix the drywall cracks, but did the contractor come out and like look at it and tell you oh it's just drywall cracks I forget because the insurance company or bank or whatever already needed also needed something about that so Where are they gonna give you that like verification in writing or something? And then you gotta be packing time coming on up I'm excited for you Especially about the shopping and buying all new stuff when you get here that's like the best sport. I wish I could do it with you because that would be super fun. So yeah, getting ready to head into the office I gotta get back to the gym tonight one day too The night before last, but I think the day before that I did not go I don't feel like I haven't gone a while I know I have, but I feel fatter. I don't know. I've got this feeling like I've taken one day off and. Like damn noticeably fatter which I don't know it's probably just my imagination or that sub I ate yesterday with the cookies that's probably what it was cause I hadn't been eating much any junk food or sugary stuff For the prior couple weeks That kind of Leaning out a little bit, I think from that and lost all my motor weight that I've been holding on to So I guess I had to start running again too that's the part But I need to be doing some kind of cardio All right, nothing interesting I guess just regular shit But I hope you're having a great morning. I hope you slept well. I hope you understand how pretty you are and how hot your back is Oh God in your new your big old booty I can't wait to see that Can't wait to grab that. I just see it. Can't wait to see Miss you love you bye
[2026-08-27 08:56:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mean like I feel like that's not like boiler plate Like people actively fucking decided that honestly so fucking pissed off at my realtor and not the sellers because the sellers were supposed to provide that within 10 days me signing the contract I think five days of signing the contract and it's been over two weeks and three weeks So I don't know I'm trying to be logical but we know how that is for me. I'm trying to tell myself like they have that in there so I don't run a doggy daycare out of my business or out of my house so I don't breed animals in my backyard so I get that, but I'm also like four dogs is way different than two not to mention Simba being outside Elton sometimes going outside I don't even know I'm concerned I don't know what the fuck he's gonna do about it but I feel like it's his responsibility to make me feel better Anyway, just say I just tossed If anything, if this house falls through, you just move in with me until you find something else. I'm just like I don't wanna fucking do that. So to say I'm just not a very bad mood OK, let me get ready some more and I will get back to you but also that stuff about bear. You've told me some of it. They haven't told me like the whole like routine that he goes through. It's fucking funny and hilarious. I love the little jealous dogs. Whenever they're like nicely, jealous, and not like you know trying to attack creek or something you know so I think Lexi gets a little bit like that, but not at all like that level of extreme so anyway All right Be back in a bit. I have a call in 15 minutes and then another call after that and then probably another call after that so I'll be back soon.
[2026-08-27 09:01:00] Sam Willis: I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
[2026-08-27 09:01:00] Dave: Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
[2026-08-27 09:01:00] Dave: And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
[2026-08-27 09:03:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I thought it said that there was an exception for if you're breeding them but even still like. I don't think anybody's gonna say anything and to the realtor you just risk him like bringing it to their attention like if he contact the HOA or the homeowners or whatever he's like my clients got four dogs so she's super worried so now they know you have four dogs so I seriously don't think it would be an issue Can anybody even see into your backyard like your neighbors if I'm trying to recall what it looks like out there I just don't think it'll be an issue
[2026-08-27 09:04:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: That being said though, I totally get why you're concerned and I'm sorry that you have to deal with. This is just like one thing after another. But there's dogs are your babies so Just don't worry about it. Hope you're fine. What are they gonna do? Yeah, I'm sure nothing's gonna go wrong with the house either have to move Canada That's at least a good fallback. If you do have the can she have room for dogs? Cause that day
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Sam Willis: I’m so grumpy dude
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Sam Willis: So so grumpy
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Dave: No
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Sam Willis: I’m like a ball of anxiety
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Dave: You’re welcome ☺️
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Sam Willis: Fml do I even go into the office this afternoon 😭😭
[2026-08-27 09:40:00] Dave: Easy
[2026-08-27 09:41:00] Dave: It’s ok to be anxious about all the things you have going on
[2026-08-27 09:41:00] Dave: Yeah I can feel it
[2026-08-27 09:42:00] Dave: We can talk through everything that’s making you anxious when you have time, if you want.
[2026-08-27 09:43:00] Dave: That has helped in the past, and we haven’t done it in a while
[2026-08-27 09:50:00] Sam Willis: It’s the HOA bullshit
[2026-08-27 09:51:00] Dave: Yeah I’m sure that’s the main thing. But don’t discount all the other things that are still weighing on you
[2026-08-27 10:05:00] Dave: Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
[2026-08-27 10:23:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: I really appreciate everything you said and you're very complementary but normal people could absolutely do this and do and the normal people do it with like fucking tons of kids Anyway I have to think ahead because There's so many moving parts that like you have to be thinking about lining it all up timing wise and everything is about logistics and I get your point too I'm just more so than anything and I didn't listen to your advice sorry I texted my realtor because at the end of the day This is I'm holding him pretty fucking responsible like this was not an unknown about how many animals I had. This was the number one thing. I told him when we had a call back in May or June 1 time I ever spoke to him I said I want you to know I have seven animals. And some HOA's might have a limitation so please you know that is a huge consideration. The other big nonnegotiable is offense how many times do we talk about the fence? In the fact I have tons of animals and then the fact that. Per the contract, I was supposed to get HOA documentation three weeks ago and he should've been hounding the sellers agent every single fucking day or the title company every day to get this shit and I understand they had a fucking flood for a week and blah blah blue but like we're already we're already out of the contract terms, and that leaves me in a fucking bind And it's like I just feel like he didn't fucking advocate for me. How hard would've been for him to ask the sellers agent from like day one hey can you have the sellers just read their CCR's and see what it says about the pet limit like actually fucking just have the seller pull them out themselves and just let us know you know before we go down this whole fucking path. I just feel like he didn't. Fucking look out for the thing that was the most fucking important for me and that's literally his fucking job so anyway I texted him an hour ago. I said I'm pretty concerned because I read the CCR's last night and there's a two pet limit… And I sent him a screenshot of it and he hasn't said a fucking word. So probably cause he's like oh fuck oh fuck scrambling And I know it's like likely fine It's just some fucking pissed off
[2026-08-27 10:33:00] Sam Willis: 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
[2026-08-27 10:33:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 10:42:00] Dave: Ok. That changes things - you aren’t just grumpy or anxious. You’re rightly pissed that this fucking guy is slacking (and now deflecting 🙄). Which is completely justified considering the animals were your first and main instruction.
[2026-08-27 10:44:00] Dave: And yes, you obviously have to think ahead. I guess I was trying to differentiate the things that need thinking of ahead of time from the things you can handle at the time. And this is now back in his lap where it belongs
[2026-08-27 10:44:00] Dave: And I disagree that you aren’t exceptional… but I’ll digress
[2026-08-27 11:30:00] Sam Willis: One good thing is the house doesn’t but up directly to another fence
[2026-08-27 11:30:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 11:31:00] Sam Willis: So hopefully the unfenced places have no dogs. What really gets Levon going is if he knows there’s another dog literally right on the other side of the fence. Bc here all of us share block walls
[2026-08-27 11:31:00] Dave: AND it’s a privacy fence right?
[2026-08-27 11:33:00] Sam Willis: In cuter news:
[2026-08-27 11:33:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 11:34:00] Sam Willis: What a derp Layla is
[2026-08-27 11:35:00] Sam Willis: Then someone is all up in Lexi’s butt lol
[2026-08-27 11:35:00] Dave: Something looks…. Rapey… about this guy 😅
[2026-08-27 11:36:00] Sam Willis: Levon looks on drugs
[2026-08-27 11:36:00] Sam Willis: Look at her tail all tucked down lol
[2026-08-27 11:37:00] Dave: Can you believe this shit
[2026-08-27 12:13:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: I'm thinking of making a Reddit post in the local like the towns Reddit page and just me like hey I'm moving to Westfield in a few weeks and just curious how much of stickers the HOA's are around there Blah blah blah not specifically say what neighborhood or specifically about the number of pets So I'm kind of thinking that
[2026-08-27 12:14:00] Dave: Not a bad idea
[2026-08-27 12:15:00] Dave: Unless your login is your name
[2026-08-27 12:15:00] Sam Willis: Reddit posts you’re anonymous right?
[2026-08-27 13:38:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 13:38:00] Sam Willis: I can’t risk it.
[2026-08-27 13:40:00] Sam Willis: No I’m going to ask the HOA for an exception
[2026-08-27 13:40:00] Sam Willis: And if they don’t give one then I have to walk away
[2026-08-27 13:40:00] Sam Willis: And yes I can
[2026-08-27 13:40:00] Dave: CAN you?
[2026-08-27 13:40:00] Dave: Are you seriously going to walk away because of this??
[2026-08-27 13:40:00] Dave: Whoa whoa whoa
[2026-08-27 13:41:00] Dave: Wow
[2026-08-27 13:41:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 13:41:00] Sam Willis: Second paragraph
[2026-08-27 13:42:00] Dave: Ok, I support you ofc ❤️
[2026-08-27 13:42:00] Sam Willis: They can put liens on your house. They can take your dogs. Like I’m not risking it. Not to mention, in what lifetime will I ever have just 2 animals??
[2026-08-27 13:42:00] Sam Willis: It’s not my dream home. I’ll be fine. In the grand scheme of things, this temporary pain is going to be less than if I get there and they make my life living hell
[2026-08-27 13:43:00] Sam Willis: Am I fucking crazy? Yes. But I’m moreso fucking livid
[2026-08-27 13:43:00] Sam Willis: If they’re that strict about pets then it can’t be the place for me.
[2026-08-27 13:44:00] Dave: I get it. And I can’t disagree with your logic.
[2026-08-27 13:45:00] Dave: The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me.
[2026-08-27 13:45:00] Dave: The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me.
[2026-08-27 13:47:00] Dave: You’re sure you’re not letting your distaste/anger for the realtor drive this decision? Are you subconsciously looking for a way out of the sale?
[2026-08-27 13:51:00] Sam Willis: No not at all. Why would I be looking for a way out?!? This has amplified my stress 10 fold.
[2026-08-27 13:52:00] Dave: I don’t know, and I don’t think you are. It was just a thought.
[2026-08-27 13:53:00] Sam Willis: My head is going to explode
[2026-08-27 13:53:00] Dave: I bet!
[2026-08-27 13:54:00] Dave: BUT, who knows… the hoa may be totally fine with an exception 🤞
[2026-08-27 16:01:00] Dave: How ya doin?
[2026-08-27 16:02:00] Sam Willis: Still have not eaten
[2026-08-27 16:02:00] Sam Willis: God I need food
[2026-08-27 16:02:00] Sam Willis: Forwarded you an email
[2026-08-27 16:03:00] Sam Willis: MY FUCKING IUD IS EXPIRED
[2026-08-27 16:03:00] Sam Willis: OH!!
[2026-08-27 16:03:00] Sam Willis: COOL COOL COOL
[2026-08-27 16:03:00] Sam Willis: Oh and I gave blood today so extra shakey
[2026-08-27 16:03:00] Sam Willis: I haven’t told you yet THE BEST NEWS
[2026-08-27 16:04:00] Sam Willis: fuck everythinggggggg
[2026-08-27 16:04:00] Dave: It’s probably still fine
[2026-08-27 16:09:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Oh, for fucks sake, I just read that email Oh God, that's such bullshit So what are your thoughts? Are you gonna try your luck with the attorney review like or are you just gonna back out on the sale? Oh God that sucks.
[2026-08-27 16:17:00] Sam Willis: From my realtor
[2026-08-27 16:17:00] Sam Willis: At best you might get a response to whether you can petition an exception. It appears an actual exception being 9th is nearly impossible. I think we should find you another house where we have confirmation of HOA pet regulations or no HOA. Let me know. Call me if you need to. I would still recommend if we are backing out, having me contact the realtor tomorrow morning…. Just in case you receive some other response from the HOA.
[2026-08-27 16:19:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: So how are you feeling about this right now? About the realtor I guess cause like I feel like This is kind of on him Is that how you feel? I think I feel that way because of the vibe I was getting from you and you know I'm not getting you the shit like he was supposed to. And now he's like oh we should just find another place like that's no fucking big deal. I would maybe think about getting another realtor and fuck this guy, but I don't know maybe that's overreacting. Where is your head at on that like if you can even if you can even articulate it right now I totally understand if you can
[2026-08-27 16:20:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Here's the deal the fact that that their own board can't even make a discretionary decision because the law might not allow them to just goes to show how freaking scary HOA's actually are like it's honestly ridiculous at the end of it and I'm almost feeling more and more like This is not the right place if that if it's that strict, they don't even have a legal loophole to be able to add their own discretion. That's insane.
[2026-08-27 16:20:00] Dave: I can talk if you’d like
[2026-08-27 16:21:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: I feel like they can do that at their own expression And they just don't want to like the recourse quotes for you is to talk to their attorney who is gonna take their their side like I don't know
[2026-08-27 16:48:00] Sam Willis: I had Suneal review. He used to be a lawyer
[2026-08-27 16:48:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 17:15:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: So I just tried to post on Reddit under my non-sexy account and I posted in the R Indianapolis thread whatever you guys call it I think it's a thread anyway it says I was automatically. My post was automatically removed because it does not meet the karma threshold this is likely because you've not been active and making poster comments on. Post comments on Reddit or you know you've been consistently downloaded or reported well how the fuck am I supposed to be more active? If I can't even pose I don't need the karma threshold. It says somebody will manually my God, so I can't even fucking query Reddit.
[2026-08-27 17:17:00] Sam Willis: I guess that makes sense
[2026-08-27 17:17:00] Dave: Yeah they set that to prevent spam
[2026-08-27 17:17:00] Sam Willis: Sigh
[2026-08-27 17:17:00] Dave: The expectation is that you comment elsewhere
[2026-08-27 17:18:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-27 17:18:00] Dave: What are you gonna ask them?
[2026-08-27 17:19:00] Dave: That 1 is your own
[2026-08-27 17:19:00] Sam Willis: I even had views and an upvote!
[2026-08-27 17:20:00] Sam Willis: For?
[2026-08-27 17:20:00] Sam Willis: Oh.
[2026-08-27 17:20:00] Dave: Have you considered calling the owner/manager of the doggy daycare?
[2026-08-27 17:32:00] Dave: For intel on where to look for a house
[2026-08-27 19:05:00] Sam Willis: How are you doing?
[2026-08-27 19:08:00] Dave: Like shit
[2026-08-27 19:08:00] Sam Willis: I’m very proud of you!!
[2026-08-27 19:08:00] Dave: Because I’m going to the gym 😭🤢😩
[2026-08-27 19:08:00] Dave: 🤭
[2026-08-27 19:08:00] Sam Willis: What’s going on??
[2026-08-27 19:08:00] Dave: Thanks sweetiepie
[2026-08-27 19:09:00] Dave: Is the real question lol
[2026-08-27 19:09:00] Dave: How are YOU doing
[2026-08-27 19:11:00] Sam Willis: Trying to relax
[2026-08-27 19:11:00] Sam Willis: Head is pounding but I’m ok
[2026-08-27 19:14:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: How can you possibly relax if you're trying to do so that seems like a paradox to me, but I hope you are That's what you need What so like what are you thinking like what's on your what's on your mind with this house thing? I think it's settled that you're gonna pull out right There's a UT job there too Yeah, like are you gonna try to find a house like in the next two weeks or like you are you gonna go live with with Candace cause like you gotta be out of your house? Soon, so are you still moving like yeah like maybe that's too much free to talk about right now but Yeah God I'm just feel so bad for you. I know it's such a pain and so much stress. Anger I'm sorry I've been telling you everything gonna work out just fine and apparently I was wrong so just don't ever listen to me again
[2026-08-27 19:15:00] Sam Willis: OMG YOU’RE RIGHT!!! I’m gonna take a gummy!!!!
[2026-08-27 19:16:00] Dave: Hehehe I hoped that would be your response
[2026-08-27 19:47:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-08-27 19:52:00] Sam Willis: I’m go get it later tonight or tomorrow
[2026-08-27 20:17:00] Sam Willis: I’ll talk more to you tomorrow too. Sorry baby. I’m fried tonight.
[2026-08-27 20:18:00] Dave: No worries baby. Take it easy and chill
[2026-08-27 20:18:00] Dave: I love you lots
[2026-08-27 20:20:00] Sam Willis: I love you too
[2026-08-27 21:40:00] Dave: Nite nite sweetie. Hope you get some sleep ❤️
[2026-08-27 21:41:00] Sam Willis: I love you baby. Sweet dreams!!
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DAY OVERVIEW Thursday began with playful morning banter about Dave's dogs and Sam's HOA pet limit issues, which escalated into anger and frustration as she considered pulling out of the house purchase. The day's defining theme was Sam's escalating stress and anxiety over the HOA and realtor problems, with no clear resolution in sight. Emotions ranged from playful to anxious and heated, with tender moments of support from Dave.
TOPIC INVENTORY - Morning Routine: Dave's morning stretches, Sam's coughing. Playful, relaxed. - Notable: "You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning." - HOA Pet Limit: Sam's stress over the 2-pet limit, her history with the realtor. Angry, anxious. - Key Points: Sam's anger at the realtor, decision to ask for an exception, potential to walk away. - House Purchase: Details about the flood, drywall repair. Neutral, informative. - Dave's Gym: His concerns about weight gain, gym attendance. Self-critical, resolved. - Notable: "I don't feel like I haven't gone a while, I know I have, but I feel fatter." - Reddit Post: Sam's attempt to post about HOA rules, approval issues. Frustrated, resigned. - Notable: "This is likely because you've not been active and making poster comments on Reddit." - IUD Expiration: Sam's unknown IUD expiration, canceled appointment. Surprised, concerned. - Moving Plans: Potential move in with Candace, finding another house. Uncertain, cautious.
SEXUAL & PHYSICAL CONTENT - No explicit sexual content, but references to Sam's physical appearance and Dave's desires. - "Oh God, so you had a... oh God, in your new your big old booty I can't wait to see that." - "Can't wait to grab that. I just see it. Can't wait to see."
EMOTIONAL DYNAMICS - Dave supportive, Sam vulnerable/angry. Power dynamic shows Dave's caretaking and Sam's frustration. - "I feel bad for you. I know it's such a pain and so much stress. Anger... just don't ever listen to me again." - Expressions of love and support, tension over decisions.
MEMORABLE LANGUAGE - "You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning." — Dave, playful morning routine. - "Honestly, it makes me a little like sick." — Sam, about the HOA pet limit. - "I just feel like he didn't. Fucking look out for me." — Sam, frustration with the realtor. - "You’re sure you’re not letting your distaste/anger for the realtor drive this decision?" — Dave, questioning Sam's motivation.
CONTINUITY HOOKS - Sam's HOA issue remains unresolved, potential to ask for an exception or walk away. - Dave's gym goals and weight concerns. - Sam's IUD situation and potential health discussion.
MOOD MAP Relaxed morning → Playful teasing → Anxious frustration → Heated anger → Tender support → Resigned uncertainty
Daily briefing
Messages were split almost evenly. Most frequent detected signals: Status update, Emotional support.
Partial analysis
Message activity below is available, but complete signal-analysis coverage is not established for this day.
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Messages exchanged
123
56.4 fewer; previous daily average 179.4 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
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Conversation sessions
20
6.1 fewer; previous daily average 26.1 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
How you connected
| Measure | Dave | Sam Willis |
|---|---|---|
| Messages sent | 58 · 47% | 65 · 53% |
| Average reply time | 54s (n=28) | 7m 9s (n=28) |
| Conversation starts | 2 of 2 · 100% | 0 of 2 · 0% |
Reply comparisons and metric definitions
Replies measure the gap when the sender changes; gaps of an hour or more are excluded. They do not measure time since a message was read.
- Dave replying to Sam Willis: 54s (n=28). 73% shorter; pooled historical mean 3m 19s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 306 historical observations).
- Sam Willis replying to Dave: 7m 9s (n=28). 60% longer; pooled historical mean 4m 28s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 300 historical observations).
Starts count the first message of the day and messages after a long gap. Sessions split after a short gap or an explicit conversation change; single messages also count as sessions.
Session gap: 5 minutes. Start gap: 2.0 hours.
Dave's initiation share: 100.0%; 45.5 percentage points higher than the pooled historical share 54.5% (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 11 historical opportunities).
Average session duration: 4m 45s, counting only sessions with multiple messages.
Messages in multi-message sessions: 96.7%. This is the former ‘High Velocity’ metric; it is a grouping measure, not a reply-speed score.
Notable changes
- Message volume: 31% lower than the previous daily average of 179.4 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
- Average Response Time — Dave Replying To Sam Willis: 73% shorter; pooled historical mean 3m 19s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 306 historical observations).
- Average Response Time — Sam Willis Replying To Dave: 60% longer; pooled historical mean 4m 28s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 300 historical observations).
Conversation rhythm
Recorded messages per actual hourly interval, in America/Chicago.
Source coverage limitation: cache rows establish observed daily activity, not completeness of source import. Empty intervals mean no recorded messages in the available rows, not proven silence outside them.
Signals in your messages
Share of all 123 messages with each qualifying signal. Labels can overlap, so these percentages are not additive.
All other signals
Most frequent signals by sender
- Dave: Emotional support (15), Status update (12), Encouragement (8), Affection (7), Checking in (7)
- Sam Willis: Status update (18), Frustration (14), Vulnerability (9), Affection (5), Humor (5)
Tension and positive follow-ups
7 of 18 detected tension episodes had a positive follow-up in the same session (39%).
11 had no positive follow-up observed within that session.
These are detected signal sequences, not determinations of relationship conflict or resolution.
Follow-up timing and definitions
A tension episode is a consecutive run of qualifying tension-signaled messages. A positive follow-up must occur later in the same session.
Average time to positive follow-up: 1m 34s. Includes only episodes with an observed follow-up.
Episode evidence
Showing 3 of 18 detected episodes. A positive follow-up is a later qualifying signal, not proof of resolution.
Episode 1 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Positive follow-up · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
Episode 2 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Dave
Yeah I’m sure that’s the main thing. But don’t discount all the other things that are still weighing on you
- Context · · Dave
Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Sam Willis
Transcription: I really appreciate everything you said and you're very complementary but normal people could absolutely do this and do and the normal people do it with like fucking tons of kids Anyway I have to think ahead because There's…
- Context · · Sam Willis
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
Episode 3 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Dave
Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: I really appreciate everything you said and you're very complementary but normal people could absolutely do this and do and the normal people do it with like fucking tons of kids Anyway I have to think ahead because There's…
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Sam Willis
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Dave
Ok. That changes things - you aren’t just grumpy or anxious. You’re rightly pissed that this fucking guy is slacking (and now deflecting 🙄). Which is completely justified considering the animals were your first and main instruction.
Messages with detected signals and calculation details
111 of 123 messages (90.2%) had at least one qualifying signal.
This measures detected labels, not whether every message was successfully analyzed. A message with no qualifying signal is not necessarily missing analysis.
| Sender | With a signal | Share |
|---|---|---|
| Dave | 53 / 58 | 91.4% |
| Sam Willis | 58 / 65 | 89.2% |
Qualifying score threshold: 0.6. Counts use unique message-label assignments. Average scores below include all scoped non-fallback assignments, including lower scores; they are model scores, not percentages of messages.
| Signal | Average model score |
|---|---|
| Affection | 0.84 |
| Appreciation | 0.90 |
| Boundary setting | 0.75 |
| Checking in | 0.67 |
| Deep sharing | 0.72 |
| Disagreement | 0.67 |
| Emotional support | 0.79 |
| Encouragement | 0.77 |
| Excitement | 0.73 |
| Flirting | 0.50 |
| Frustration | 0.81 |
| Humor | 0.73 |
| Planning | 0.70 |
| Sexting | 0.82 |
| Status update | 0.61 |
| Vulnerability | 0.71 |
- Model: openai/gpt-4o-mini
- Prompt: signals.v2
- Generated: 2026-09-16 13:43:03
- Schema: 1.4.0
Supporting messages
Each finding shows a bounded chronological preview from its exact detector associations.
Affection
Showing 3 of 12 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
score 0.90 · confidence 0.8075
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Detected signal · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
score 0.70 · confidence 0.6375
- Context · · Sam Willis
So hopefully the unfenced places have no dogs. What really gets Levon going is if he knows there’s another dog literally right on the other side of the fence. Bc here all of us share block walls
- Context · · Dave
AND it’s a privacy fence right?
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
In cuter news:
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
What a derp Layla is
Appreciation
Showing 1 of 1 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.95
- Context · · Dave
No
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m like a ball of anxiety
- Detected signal · · Dave
You’re welcome ☺️
- Context · · Sam Willis
Fml do I even go into the office this afternoon 😭😭
- Context · · Dave
Easy
Boundary setting
Showing 2 of 2 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
I can’t risk it.
- Context · · Sam Willis
No I’m going to ask the HOA for an exception
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
And if they don’t give one then I have to walk away
- Context · · Sam Willis
And yes I can
- Context · · Dave
CAN you?
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
It’s not my dream home. I’ll be fine. In the grand scheme of things, this temporary pain is going to be less than if I get there and they make my life living hell
- Context · · Sam Willis
Am I fucking crazy? Yes. But I’m moreso fucking livid
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
If they’re that strict about pets then it can’t be the place for me.
- Context · · Dave
I get it. And I can’t disagree with your logic.
- Context · · Dave
The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me.
Checking in
Showing 3 of 10 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.65 · confidence 0.595
- Context · · Dave
That has helped in the past, and we haven’t done it in a while
- Context · · Sam Willis
It’s the HOA bullshit
- Detected signal · · Dave
Yeah I’m sure that’s the main thing. But don’t discount all the other things that are still weighing on you
- Context · · Dave
Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: I really appreciate everything you said and you're very complementary but normal people could absolutely do this and do and the normal people do it with like fucking tons of kids Anyway I have to think ahead because There's…
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Not a bad idea
- Context · · Dave
Unless your login is your name
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Reddit posts you’re anonymous right?
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
I can’t risk it.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
If they’re that strict about pets then it can’t be the place for me.
- Context · · Dave
I get it. And I can’t disagree with your logic.
- Detected signal · · Dave
The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me.
- Context · · Dave
The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me. This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
You’re sure you’re not letting your distaste/anger for the realtor drive this decision? Are you subconsciously looking for a way out of the sale?
Deep sharing
Showing 2 of 2 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.7
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
score 0.75 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
Disagreement
Showing 3 of 3 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.5525
- Context · · Dave
Ok. That changes things - you aren’t just grumpy or anxious. You’re rightly pissed that this fucking guy is slacking (and now deflecting 🙄). Which is completely justified considering the animals were your first and main instruction.
- Context · · Dave
And yes, you obviously have to think ahead. I guess I was trying to differentiate the things that need thinking of ahead of time from the things you can handle at the time. And this is now back in his lap where it belongs
- Detected signal · · Dave
And I disagree that you aren’t exceptional… but I’ll digress
- Context · · Sam Willis
One good thing is the house doesn’t but up directly to another fence
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
And if they don’t give one then I have to walk away
- Context · · Sam Willis
And yes I can
- Detected signal · · Dave
CAN you?
- Context · · Dave
Are you seriously going to walk away because of this??
- Context · · Dave
Whoa whoa whoa
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me.
- Context · · Dave
The dogs are definitely your life. And I think this is the comment that makes the most sense to me. This message responded to an earlier message.
- Detected signal · · Dave
You’re sure you’re not letting your distaste/anger for the realtor drive this decision? Are you subconsciously looking for a way out of the sale?
- Context · · Sam Willis
No not at all. Why would I be looking for a way out?!? This has amplified my stress 10 fold.
- Context · · Dave
I don’t know, and I don’t think you are. It was just a thought.
Emotional support
Showing 3 of 19 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.85 · confidence 0.765
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Detected signal · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
score 0.80 · confidence 0.7224999999999999
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: That being said though, I totally get why you're concerned and I'm sorry that you have to deal with. This is just like one thing after another. But there's dogs are your babies so Just don't worry about it.…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m so grumpy dude
score 0.85 · confidence 0.765
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: That being said though, I totally get why you're concerned and I'm sorry that you have to deal with. This is just like one thing after another. But there's dogs are your babies so Just don't worry about it.…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m so grumpy dude
- Context · · Sam Willis
So so grumpy
Encouragement
Showing 3 of 9 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.75 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: That being said though, I totally get why you're concerned and I'm sorry that you have to deal with. This is just like one thing after another. But there's dogs are your babies so Just don't worry about it.…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m so grumpy dude
score 0.80 · confidence 0.7224999999999999
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: That being said though, I totally get why you're concerned and I'm sorry that you have to deal with. This is just like one thing after another. But there's dogs are your babies so Just don't worry about it.…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m so grumpy dude
- Context · · Sam Willis
So so grumpy
score 0.75 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Sam Willis
Fml do I even go into the office this afternoon 😭😭
- Context · · Dave
Easy
- Detected signal · · Dave
It’s ok to be anxious about all the things you have going on
- Context · · Dave
Yeah I can feel it
- Context · · Dave
We can talk through everything that’s making you anxious when you have time, if you want.
Excitement
Showing 2 of 2 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
score 0.88 · confidence 0.765
- Context · · Sam Willis
COOL COOL COOL
- Context · · Sam Willis
Oh and I gave blood today so extra shakey
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
I haven’t told you yet THE BEST NEWS
- Context · · Sam Willis
fuck everythinggggggg
- Context · · Dave
It’s probably still fine
Frustration
Showing 3 of 17 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.85 · confidence 0.765
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.95
- Context · · Dave
Yeah I’m sure that’s the main thing. But don’t discount all the other things that are still weighing on you
- Context · · Dave
Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: I really appreciate everything you said and you're very complementary but normal people could absolutely do this and do and the normal people do it with like fucking tons of kids Anyway I have to think ahead because There's…
- Context · · Sam Willis
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: I really appreciate everything you said and you're very complementary but normal people could absolutely do this and do and the normal people do it with like fucking tons of kids Anyway I have to think ahead because There's…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Dave
Ok. That changes things - you aren’t just grumpy or anxious. You’re rightly pissed that this fucking guy is slacking (and now deflecting 🙄). Which is completely justified considering the animals were your first and main instruction.
Humor
Showing 3 of 11 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.6375
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
- Context · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
score 0.75 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
- Detected signal · · Dave
And lol… you got a cough in right at the end 🤣🤣
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: I honestly wouldn't even tell the realtor anything I think I've seriously think you'll be just fine with the dog situation Would you read me last night and the HOA contract? It said that the limit was to I…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: That being said though, I totally get why you're concerned and I'm sorry that you have to deal with. This is just like one thing after another. But there's dogs are your babies so Just don't worry about it.…
score 0.80 · confidence 0.7224999999999999
- Context · · Sam Willis
In cuter news:
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
What a derp Layla is
- Context · · Sam Willis
Then someone is all up in Lexi’s butt lol
- Context · · Dave
Something looks…. Rapey… about this guy 😅
Planning
Showing 3 of 3 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Look at her tail all tucked down lol
- Context · · Dave
Can you believe this shit
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: I'm thinking of making a Reddit post in the local like the towns Reddit page and just me like hey I'm moving to Westfield in a few weeks and just curious how much of stickers the HOA's are around there Blah blah blah not spe…
- Context · · Dave
Not a bad idea
- Context · · Dave
Unless your login is your name
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
I can’t risk it.
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
No I’m going to ask the HOA for an exception
- Context · · Sam Willis
And if they don’t give one then I have to walk away
- Context · · Sam Willis
And yes I can
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
Trying to relax
- Context · · Sam Willis
Head is pounding but I’m ok
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: How can you possibly relax if you're trying to do so that seems like a paradox to me, but I hope you are That's what you need What so like what are you thinking like what's on your what's on your mind with…
- Context · · Sam Willis
OMG YOU’RE RIGHT!!! I’m gonna take a gummy!!!!
- Context · · Dave
Hehehe I hoped that would be your response
Sexting
Showing 1 of 1 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.82 · confidence 0.82
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
Status update
Showing 3 of 30 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.61
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m so grumpy dude
- Context · · Sam Willis
So so grumpy
- Detected signal · · Dave
No
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m like a ball of anxiety
- Context · · Dave
You’re welcome ☺️
Detector evidence: Fallback label applied because no other signal was returned.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.61
- Context · · Dave
You’re welcome ☺️
- Context · · Sam Willis
Fml do I even go into the office this afternoon 😭😭
- Detected signal · · Dave
Easy
- Context · · Dave
It’s ok to be anxious about all the things you have going on
- Context · · Dave
Yeah I can feel it
Detector evidence: Fallback label applied because no other signal was returned.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.61
- Context · · Dave
We can talk through everything that’s making you anxious when you have time, if you want.
- Context · · Dave
That has helped in the past, and we haven’t done it in a while
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
It’s the HOA bullshit
- Context · · Dave
Yeah I’m sure that’s the main thing. But don’t discount all the other things that are still weighing on you
- Context · · Dave
Those are all on your mind too, you’ve already solved most of them - you have people scheduled, etc. but your brain is probably still coming back to what-ifs about them.
Detector evidence: Fallback label applied because no other signal was returned.
Vulnerability
Showing 3 of 9 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.7224999999999999
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I just got to the office a few minutes earlier than usual Oh God You cough every morning and I stretch and yawn for half to call every morning Sleeping went much better last night I di…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I slept like shit Dude, I'm so freaking out about that HOA animal limit thing. I'm just like honestly it makes me a little like sick. A limit of two is so low that it feels really intentional you know what I mea…
- Context · · Sam Willis
I tried not to cough!!! Almost made it!
- Context · · Dave
Awe you poor babe 😢. You sound so worried.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
So so grumpy
- Context · · Dave
No
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
I’m like a ball of anxiety
- Context · · Dave
You’re welcome ☺️
- Context · · Sam Willis
Fml do I even go into the office this afternoon 😭😭
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m like a ball of anxiety
- Context · · Dave
You’re welcome ☺️
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Fml do I even go into the office this afternoon 😭😭
- Context · · Dave
Easy
- Context · · Dave
It’s ok to be anxious about all the things you have going on