2026-08-04
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[2026-08-04 07:47:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while Like 20 minutes Last night when I got in bed and then Turned it off and rolled over and then Woke up. It felt like a few minutes later, but it was like six hours later. Don't think I moved again. And then, of course, I went right back to sleep and didn't wanna get up when the alarm went off Well, hopefully I know it's a lot going on, but hopefully some stress and pressure is Melting away I don't know what they call it reducing cause like with offers in your house and putting an offers on the other house like big steps being checked off the list I'm super excited for that That's why I was Trying not to be A Debbie downer yesterday with my silly little feelings and add more to your plate But I'm looking forward to checking in today Hopefully We can find time for that Oh God I'm printing out rocker docs full steam ahead think I've got the design Finalized and I'm stacking them up. I'm waiting on magnets to come in today or tomorrow and I have. Like a bunch of Rubber sheets for the backing on them Though So I'm gonna keep cranking out keep cranking them out and Try to streamline that process and they're gonna get with that guy Mr. Subaru to do some advertising and I think I'm gonna create an Etsy shop today Hopefully that picks up some, but I feel much better about it now that I'm got the desire. I'm happy with that looks and everything. So yeah That's all I got going on getting Grayson every day at 11 this week and then taking them back before that's a paid like what the fuck The fuck would I do if I didn't have a flexible job right I don't I don't know whatever Just thought it works out Anyway, I love you and I miss you and I can't wait to hear your voice OK bye
[2026-08-04 09:47:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don't have the passenger door shut or like. Something with the AC I have no idea anyway I feel like I'm losing my mind I should be able to check in today around two my time that's when my last meeting is over and then I'll head to my car Call if you're free then I don't know what your schedule is with Grayson Let me know Both houses are under contract as exciting I accepted the offer last night that's like 17.5 over my asking price so I tell you that the dude I don't think I told you so I'll have to look back and see if I told you before I waste your time telling you it over again I've already told you anyway house is under contract So What's happening all this guy must be out of gas cause he just is pushing his car into the gas station that sucks. How does one just run out of gas these days I mean are you just like really risking it waiting till the last possible second to fill up, I don't understand. No plans for this evening thank God, but I have so much work to do so that's fine It's really bothering me. What is going on over my passenger side Anyway, let me know how the dock stuff goes and if you could add to shop created to the social media accounts get started I'll be a creeper follow them Anyway All right, well I have you so I can't really think But I will talk to you soon OK bye
[2026-08-04 09:48:00] Dave: Is the window rolled all the way up?
[2026-08-04 09:50:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here's this offer if you wanna ask your buyer if he is interested in trying to beat it, he came in at 5:15 so 17.5 above asking price He didn't ask for any concessions and he's waiving his inspection. What the fuck like that's amazing. But what the fuck and so my realtor was like he really really want your house this is the Marine who ex marine who maybe is disabled or something I don't know disabled in the military. I feel like these different than the disabled that I'm used to because when I think of disabled, I'm thinking of like wheelchair handicapped is that proper English anyway And but this guy is like seems fully functioning anyway, but disabled that and has two or three kids and he's the one who backed out of the other house because I guess it had like 3 to 50 or something thousand and repairs so as long as it appraises for 515 then like we're golden as long as the appraiser doesn't like noticing anything choo-choo crazy that they're concerned about but like appraiser is not really Get inspect anything so fucking wild so anyway I went ahead and accepted it last night at like 9 o'clock so I don't know if he's still gonna get an inspection just for fun just to see if we need to what does pop up but he already signed the inspection form saying that he's not asking for anything like that's a fucking crazy and amazing Anyway, I order the inspection on my house though in Indy for next Tuesday so yeah
[2026-08-04 09:51:00] Dave: Oh, you’re telling me now..
[2026-08-04 09:51:00] Dave: That’s wild
[2026-08-04 09:51:00] Dave: Omg!
[2026-08-04 09:51:00] Dave: No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
[2026-08-04 09:57:00] Sam Willis: Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
[2026-08-04 10:07:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yesterday I told you that my feelings were hurt And yeah, like you know, why from what I texted you And you know so I Just felt like making a shitty comment and I didn't, but you saw that I was thinking about it so I came clean and I didn't because I didn't want to add to your Stress and everything that you've got going on And because I also know that it's just A way that I was feeling, and it would pass But then today Like this morning, I was just sitting here thinking, and I also feel I guess left out because so much stuff has happened Like big huge things in your life over the last like 48 hours and I haven't been I feel like I haven't been like as Apprised to it as I'm used to, and it's not any of this your fault I'm just I don't expect to be had to expect to be involved but like after going from knowing Everything like in your life at all times and what's going on in your head constantly to All these big things offers being given and accepted and big life changes and it's kind of felt like on the sidelines to that which is again Where I belong I mean, you know for being honest, but it's just how I feel like I understand the reality but I just I'm also Wanting to put out there how I feel So I think I don't know if that is contributing to things feeling off from your perspective Maybe that's part of it for you too. Maybe it's all just the way that I'm acting. For the last day or two I don't know or I guess really just yesterday Or maybe longer like I mean, I haven't been trying to Be short with you or you know be shitty I don't know But yeah, I feel just kinda sad and left out Because of all the things going on And I'll be fine and you don't have to reply to this right now or at all if you don't want to I just I guess wanted to talk through that while it's still while it's still fresh because who knows If I'll remember, I'll be able to articulate it later and I don't know if 2 o'clock is gonna work cause I gotta do a pick up. You know actually pick him up at 11 and then he has to take him back. To school for football at four, so I'll drop them off at probably I'll leave here about Four I think So sometime after that 415 maybe So maybe before work OK, just wanted to just want to say that and I just also want emphasize that it's not your fault and I don't know It's all you know it's all just my my dumb feelings and I really am excited and happy for you. Maybe that's part of it too is that I'm super excited for you. But I don't really have an outlet for that maybe I don't know I don't know
[2026-08-04 10:09:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showings It's totally understandable But then I just thought of another thing That you said about, you didn't tell me about the offer. I guess the counter offer because I was in bed but like. Normally I don't know like sometimes you text me about Midwest safety videos after I've gone to bed, but not something that here you know I don't know I don't know just just throwing out feelings and observations
[2026-08-04 10:11:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same shit I've been in You know That might be feeling That might be like contributing to how I'm feeling
[2026-08-04 10:22:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime in you after the house was staged and then you brought up like that I've been mentioning Christian a lot. I think you had said I feel like. Those Aren't really it Like I feel like what you're mentioning today is for the root of what you're feeling versus what you said yesterday and maybe I'm Psychoanalyzing you or something like that, but I just feel like I didn't wanna expand upon it yesterday cause one I just I'm fried too. I just feel like that's not it and that you need time to like maybe figure out more what's bothering you and I think that now you've said more what makes sense to me, but I'm not making sense. So I'm just gonna say things on my mind and I'm not trying I don't wanna come across this defensive or anything, but it might come across as defensive but I'm just telling you like where my head is at dude I'm tired. I haven't been sleeping. I have constant headaches. I'm on the phone. Constantly the past few days like yesterday I think I had 14 different phone calls come in and that's not even work and that's not even all the text messages not audio messages to people like I don't want you to feel left out and I'm not trying to make you feel left out, but I just have a lot going on and I'm that shit drains me I'm drained And just constant headache, headaches and so I'm not eating right and just all these things so I'm just I just feel like I'm fried and so I just can't give as much as like I want to give or maybe you're used to me that's one thing too I told you yesterday that like I told you before like I feel like I'm constantly just talking about myself. I'm constantly like complaining about how tired I get sick of listening to myself and I know that you say that you don't, but like I have been trying to make a conscious effort of not giving you the play-by-play of every single fucking thought in my brain. Especially when my thoughts are so overwhelming to me and so I get what you're saying about how like you know you haven't been texting me basically the play-by-play I've been trying not to do that But also, I have a lot of like I'm having to coordinate things with Candace and she's texting me. You know trying to figure out where she needs to be and coordinate shit with her schedule and then two realtors and then a lender and then now title company inspection there's my parents family like there's just a lot going on in like Christian is the least of it. I went to Christian's house Saturday to shower and shave my legs. He wasn't even there. He went to go work out and then he went on a date so I didn't hang out with him at all Saturday. Not that I wanted to or needed to that's not even the point I wanted to get out of my house and be able to actually fucking shower and shave my legs and silent and then Sunday I went over there because my printer was out of toner I sat at his kitchen table and worked on my disclosures while he listened to a podcast. We didn't even speak to each other and while he was cooking and I was over there so he could make me a meal because I haven't been making myself food and so and then yesterday was the movie and yes, I wanted to know if it feels good to hang out with him and Kai, especially cause I'm not gonna be here for much longer but also it's really nice to just sit in the Fucking. Quiet theater and have a perfect excuse not to talk to anybody or get phone calls or emails or whatever for you know a few hours and so anyway I just maybe I have been bitching Christian a lot just because I've been like Coordinating things with him in a sense of like going over to his place I don't know Anyway, sorry if I'm sounding exasperated I'm just my brain but also the other thing is you did mention you mention a couple times that like sometimes you get sad thinking about you know me moving and just all the changes happening And that's another thing that I've been thinking about I don't want it. I don't want to sit here and talk so much about me and myself even though I already do incessantly and like make you feel even more sad about things and so I don't know.
[2026-08-04 10:24:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from feeling some sort of way and also because I just feel like I'm too much And very thing I was trying to do to make things better I think made things worse citizens of like it made. You feel some sort of way like I was. Holding back or whatever but anyway just know none of it intentional and and there are just some days where I just can't keep up and I don't like talking on the phone so much and I I'm just I'm overstimulated with how much communication is going on In life right now and so I'm sorry if I don't have the mental capacity to do anymore and some days I will and some days I just won't and hopefully I can get some good night sleep and feel like a new person but that hasn't been happening, unfortunately I've been Fucking really struggling to sleep I'll get one good night sleep a week so anyway, it should be getting better though now that things are over contract and hopefully it's smooth sailing from here and now it's just a matter of packing and the logistics of getting from .8 Anyway That's my thought
[2026-08-04 10:34:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, so I haven't finished listening to the first message but there's a lot there so I wanted to hit it before I get into even more so one is not. It isn't about Christian at all like I doesn't bother me in the least like you are. Perfectly like you have friends, he's a friend that's fine like that's totally fine. It's not. About spending time with him or or whatever that is And like it really maybe that maybe the FaceTime thing was just a catalyst for these larger feelings, but that definitely was like what Like when I feel like you kind of blew it off like it was no big deal, but it was kind of a big deal to me To for me to just you know, enjoy it with you. You know to like I don't know and I know you have no way of knowing that I don't blame you for that like it's like I 100% understand all you have going on and that's exactly why I wasn't gonna say. What I was gonna say yesterday because you like I totally get How busy you are and and that you're just completely rundown totally get it. I've been trying to give you space too for that cause I know like you just only have so much pain. And like, maybe it's the combination of that and you consciously not giving me the play-by-play, but I don't want like we've gone through this before and like if you are trying to consciously not give me the play-by-play For reasons Other than my benefit or what you think I want then I want you to know that that's not the case because like that's kind of what's been missing I feel like that's why I feel left out now I don't Want to like I don't want you to feel obligated either like I mean like you said you have Candace you have your parents you have the realtors you have multiple realtors So from that angle, definitely don't you know waste time texting me but if you have time and you want to then I definitely want you to like because that's I think is the part that's missing Is that so I know I've kind of both sides of that I guess but I guess but the point is, don't you know I don't want you to Abstain from from texting me because you think I don't wanna hear it because I do and I feel like Helping you kind of work through and sort things out has been And like the gratification I get from that and the gratification you get from having a helping hand with it like That's like part of this waves arms. You know what I mean. So I think so OK so let me go back to the thing with Christian like the only reason I think that I mentioned Christian was because I feel like he talked to him frequently on the phone And I have said that I would like to talk to you more So those two things between that and then the FaceTime thing that's like what made me feel kind of just blown off So whether that's its own thing and this is another thing, I think it's two separate things that we're talking about like that I think that really was the issue not that I'm jealous of Christian for say, but that I just felt kind of hurt that You have time you know I don't wanna say for other thing I don't know just I'm also just thinking out loud Through you know what I'm feeling so I don't want to come off as accusatory or whatever and I know you said that you don't wanna come off as defensive and you didn't or you are not I again 100% understand what you're going through and In reality, don't have any expectations But like in my head, I guess I do I don't know I don't talk to explain. I'm not gonna be mad at you for having too much going on is what I'm saying.
[2026-08-04 10:39:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, just finished the rest and yeah, I think that is maybe what happened because yeah I definitely have Had some episodes it has made me sad just with the whole moving thing in general, but I've kind of gotten over that it's happened. There was one meantime and then maybe mentioned it before but like or again since then, but it hasn't really been as bad. I feel like it's only been kind of that one meantime And then you consciously not You talking about things just the fair from being sparing from heaven to like Deal with it I think I'm on my end. I've kinda dealt with it and now I'm like ready to experience you know or ready to kind of like share in your your joy and your experience. And you're not you're not sharing because you're trying to steal my feelings so Maybe we are just On different pages for once in our lives With that so That makes sense and again you don't have to defend hanging out with Christian or going over there like it's not as really not that Nor do you have to offend to not defend, not having the capacity you know I maybe I should I don't know
[2026-08-04 10:40:00] Dave: I stopped that abruptly because I kind of trailed off and lost my train of thought lol
[2026-08-04 11:41:00] Dave: It’s ok baby
[2026-08-04 11:41:00] Sam Willis: Sorry, I’ll be on calls for quite a bit. Might not be able to really get back to this until our check in 😔
[2026-08-04 11:42:00] Dave: Concentrate on work
[2026-08-04 11:42:00] Dave: Thanks for acknowledging it though
[2026-08-04 12:04:00] Sam Willis: My lender gave me an appraisal waiver on the Indy house! Said they’re confident it’s at or below market value 🥳🥳
[2026-08-04 12:05:00] Dave: House sold quick and easy, bought a new house quick and easy…
[2026-08-04 12:05:00] Dave: Jeez! You seriously couldn’t ask for a better outcome to l this 😊
[2026-08-04 12:06:00] Dave: I know the last few weeks have been a whirlwind of stress and hard work, but objectively speaking, it could have been soooooo much worse
[2026-08-04 12:06:00] Sam Willis: I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop 😅
[2026-08-04 12:06:00] Sam Willis: You will be SHOCKED to hear this (not lol), but…..
[2026-08-04 12:07:00] Dave: And it never does
[2026-08-04 12:07:00] Dave: You’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop
[2026-08-04 12:07:00] Sam Willis: That’s why I can’t even celebrate. I’m like it’s too much good. Something bad will happen
[2026-08-04 12:07:00] Sam Willis: But what if it DOES?!? lol
[2026-08-04 12:07:00] Sam Willis: But what if it DOES?!? lol
[2026-08-04 12:08:00] Dave: That’s what makes you such a good risk manager!!
[2026-08-04 12:21:00] Sam Willis: Interest rates suck
[2026-08-04 12:21:00] Dave: Oh! What’s it gonna be? I didn’t think about that?
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Sam Willis: Hell no bro
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Sam Willis: Give me the money!!! Lmao
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Sam Willis: 6.75% is what he’s telling me. And not to brag, but I have great credit. Fuckers
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Dave: But that would a loan for a lot less
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Sam Willis: Give me the money!!! Lmao
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Sam Willis: Hell no bro
[2026-08-04 12:22:00] Dave: How much are you putting down? All the profit from the sale of your house?
[2026-08-04 12:23:00] Sam Willis: Do you want to know how my girl math works?
[2026-08-04 12:23:00] Sam Willis: I’ll put 20% down. MAYBE 25%. Maybe. Ew.
[2026-08-04 12:23:00] Sam Willis: Forever
[2026-08-04 12:23:00] Sam Willis: But I’m fine having a house loan
[2026-08-04 12:23:00] Dave: Which would be a lot les interest
[2026-08-04 12:24:00] Sam Willis: For meeeeeeeeee to do whatever I want with
[2026-08-04 12:24:00] Sam Willis: Putting more down on my home loan is the last thing on my mind to do with it hehe
[2026-08-04 12:24:00] Sam Willis: Sold my house for $515. Bought a house for $480. That means I just downsized. And I have $35k of FREE money
[2026-08-04 12:25:00] Dave: How much do you owe on your house?
[2026-08-04 12:25:00] Sam Willis: Dog door and nice shaded thingy for the backyard
[2026-08-04 12:25:00] Sam Willis: I’M GOING SHOPPING!!
[2026-08-04 12:25:00] Dave: What’s the first thing?
[2026-08-04 12:25:00] Sam Willis: New bed furniture and a fancy office
[2026-08-04 12:26:00] Sam Willis: $275
[2026-08-04 12:26:00] Sam Willis: $275
[2026-08-04 12:26:00] Sam Willis: Would have been way less had I not taken out a HELOC a few years ago. Hmph
[2026-08-04 12:27:00] Dave: So what are you doing with the 240k if not putting into the new loan?
[2026-08-04 12:27:00] Sam Willis: Well 20% of that goes to the new home
[2026-08-04 12:28:00] Sam Willis: I’ll pay off my car. Buy fancy things. And invest!
[2026-08-04 12:28:00] Dave: I’m jealous
[2026-08-04 12:28:00] Sam Willis: You could sell yours too!!!
[2026-08-04 12:29:00] Sam Willis: You’ve had it for 5 yrs bro
[2026-08-04 12:29:00] Dave: I couldn’t even sell it for what I owe
[2026-08-04 12:29:00] Sam Willis: I don’t get how you wouldn’t have equity in it
[2026-08-04 12:30:00] Dave: 1 because 5 years pays like nothing towards the principal. And 2 the value has dropped with the market.
[2026-08-04 12:32:00] Dave: Interest rate is only 2.7 though 😊
[2026-08-04 12:34:00] Dave: Well… maybe I could sell for I owe, which is 352k
[2026-08-04 12:34:00] Dave: Just looked it up
[2026-08-04 12:40:00] Sam Willis: You only have a 2.7 interest rate?!?! Omg I hate u lol
[2026-08-04 12:41:00] Dave: Hahaha
[2026-08-04 12:42:00] Sam Willis: Samesies
[2026-08-04 12:42:00] Sam Willis: Do you have a 30 yr loan or 15?
[2026-08-04 12:42:00] Dave: Shiiit I can’t afford a 15 year loan payment lol
[2026-08-04 12:42:00] Dave: 30
[2026-08-04 12:43:00] Sam Willis: Samesies lol
[2026-08-04 12:43:00] Dave: Actually, I probably could. And it would probably definitely be better use of my money lol
[2026-08-04 12:43:00] Sam Willis: Oh I’m not doing that lol
[2026-08-04 12:55:00] Sam Willis: lol
[2026-08-04 12:55:00] Sam Willis: Btw…. Were you playing around with fidget thingies when you were voice messaging me?
[2026-08-04 12:56:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-08-04 12:56:00] Dave: I honestly don’t remember but… probably
[2026-08-04 12:56:00] Dave: Did you hear clicking or something?
[2026-08-04 12:59:00] Dave: 🤭
[2026-08-04 13:47:00] Sam Willis: He’s famous!! lol
[2026-08-04 13:48:00] Dave: Daaamn
[2026-08-04 13:48:00] Dave: That’s pretty sick
[2026-08-04 13:55:00] Sam Willis: Small town for the win 😅
[2026-08-04 14:02:00] Dave: Is he a “partner at the firm” lol
[2026-08-04 14:21:00] Sam Willis: I guess. Something like that!
[2026-08-04 14:21:00] Dave: Right. I was trying to dress it up a little 😛
[2026-08-04 14:21:00] Sam Willis: I don’t think it’s that fancy though lol
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Dave: On everything!
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Sam Willis: Just locked in 6.675% interest rate. 🤮
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Dave: Congratulations
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Dave: Buying
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Dave: Being awesome
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Dave: Whatever! YOU GOT A NEW HOUSE!!
[2026-08-04 14:22:00] Dave: Selling
[2026-08-04 14:40:00] Sam Willis: I want to scream
[2026-08-04 14:40:00] Dave: You should!
[2026-08-04 14:40:00] Sam Willis: Thanks love
[2026-08-04 14:40:00] Sam Willis: Answering these fucking disclosure questions
[2026-08-04 14:41:00] Sam Willis: I have one question left
[2026-08-04 14:42:00] Sam Willis: And no one knows what I’m asking
[2026-08-04 14:42:00] Sam Willis: And then I accidentally hung up
[2026-08-04 14:42:00] Sam Willis: And I’m on the god damn phone with the water company
[2026-08-04 14:43:00] Dave: Or just say no lol
[2026-08-04 14:43:00] Dave: Have you ever had a plumber out?
[2026-08-04 14:43:00] Sam Willis: It says, if your property is connected to a sewer, are you aware if a professional verified the sewer connection? If yes, how and when?
[2026-08-04 14:43:00] Sam Willis: I mean wtf
[2026-08-04 14:44:00] Dave: It probably ins’t a big deal
[2026-08-04 14:47:00] Sam Willis: These are so stupid
[2026-08-04 14:48:00] Sam Willis: My*
[2026-08-04 14:48:00] Sam Willis: OK I’m standing up and walking away
[2026-08-04 14:48:00] Sam Willis: And just like that…by brain is done again lol
[2026-08-04 14:49:00] Dave: Yeah, don’t overdo it
[2026-08-04 15:35:00] Dave: Taking Greyson to football at 3:45 my time so should be available to check in at 4 if you still have time.
[2026-08-04 15:58:00] Sam Willis: Call me when you’re free
[2026-08-04 18:01:00] Dave: I bought a box of rubbers
[2026-08-04 18:01:00] Dave: 🤪
[2026-08-04 18:04:00] Sam Willis: I’m like who tf are you having protected sex with?!??
[2026-08-04 18:04:00] Sam Willis: lol I was like wait huh?? lol
[2026-08-04 18:05:00] Dave: Hehehe
[2026-08-04 20:08:00] Dave: Hahaha I’m sure you got something going
[2026-08-04 20:08:00] Dave: Whatcha up to? Working?
[2026-08-04 20:24:00] Sam Willis: I just had the dogs pool. So hot out. Tonight’s bulk trash so I gotta do that. But now I’m going to eat a sandwich and then I bought myself a slice of cheesecake!!
[2026-08-04 20:27:00] Sam Willis: What are you up to
[2026-08-04 20:28:00] Dave: I got pulled into a whole series this 🤭
[2026-08-04 20:28:00] Dave: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XRWxNiZLowM LADbible Stories 18K likes, 1.8K comments. "Gender Surgeon On Orgasms, Surgical Risk...
[2026-08-04 20:29:00] Sam Willis: Ummmm lol. Create a vagina?!!
[2026-08-04 20:30:00] Dave: Its surprisingly tasteful
[2026-08-04 20:32:00] Sam Willis: I just started this documentary on prime about a conman
[2026-08-04 20:33:00] Dave: What’s it called?
[2026-08-04 20:33:00] Sam Willis: The Other Mrs Jordan
[2026-08-04 20:34:00] Sam Willis: Any man that tells me he’s in “intelligence”….
[2026-08-04 20:34:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-08-04 20:35:00] Dave: Right?!
[2026-08-04 20:35:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-08-04 20:36:00] Sam Willis: Like I don’t even believe all the shit JB says he did
[2026-08-04 20:36:00] Dave: Black ops 😎
[2026-08-04 20:37:00] Dave: I bet it’s all based in truth at least
[2026-08-04 20:37:00] Sam Willis: Fine. Sure. But any other Jo schmo that comes along and tries to tell me he’s in intelligence or some stupid shit: “Good for you. Not interested.”
[2026-08-04 20:37:00] Dave: Slightly imbedded
[2026-08-04 20:38:00] Sam Willis: Do you know what they actually are?
[2026-08-04 20:38:00] Sam Willis: There’s too many conmen!!!
[2026-08-04 20:38:00] Sam Willis: Broke
[2026-08-04 20:39:00] Sam Willis: 🤣🤣🤣🤣
[2026-08-04 20:41:00] Sam Willis: Another massive red flag: fuckers that ask you to marry them after 2 weeks
[2026-08-04 20:42:00] Dave: Hahaha
[2026-08-04 20:42:00] Dave: Omg it’s so crazy
[2026-08-04 20:43:00] Sam Willis: Do you know that you can’t find really anything about YOU on the internet??
[2026-08-04 20:43:00] Sam Willis: My spidey senses also go off when I can’t find shit about someone on the internet
[2026-08-04 20:44:00] Sam Willis: I KNEW IT
[2026-08-04 20:44:00] Dave: But I’m in black ops…
[2026-08-04 20:44:00] Sam Willis: Very Sus Dave, very Sus
[2026-08-04 20:44:00] Dave: I’ve never told you this Sam
[2026-08-04 21:27:00] Sam Willis: It’s gonna be amazing
[2026-08-04 21:27:00] Sam Willis: I’m going to take out the bulk trash then I’m going to go to beddddddd
[2026-08-04 21:32:00] Dave: Yeah I’m about to hit the hay myself
[2026-08-04 21:33:00] Dave: You should take a gummy before bed
[2026-08-04 21:36:00] Sam Willis: Mehhh I’m gonna take a Benadryl
[2026-08-04 21:41:00] Sam Willis: ❤️
[2026-08-04 21:41:00] Dave: Love you
[2026-08-04 21:41:00] Dave: I can’t wait to yaks talk to you tomorrow
[2026-08-04 21:41:00] Dave: Nite nite baby
[2026-08-04 21:41:00] Sam Willis: Good night. I love you I can’t wait either
(missing Obey)
(missing Odyssey)
(missing Pulse)
DAY OVERVIEW The conversation began with Dave expressing affection and excitement over the recent progress in Sam's house sale and move, while also sharing his feelings of being left out of the significant events happening in her life. The day's primary theme revolves around Dave's emotional struggle with the changes and his desire for more involvement in Sam's life as she moves on to a new chapter. The mood was initially tender and tender, but it shifted to vulnerable and anxious as Dave and Sam discussed his feelings of being left out and the emotional toll of the upcoming changes.
TOPIC INVENTORY 1. House Sale and Move - Sam received an offer on her house for 17.5 over the asking price, which she accepted. She also mentioned ordering an inspection for the new house. - The house sale is described as "wild" and "crazy," with Sam feeling a mix of excitement and anxiety about the rapid pace and potential issues with the new home.
- Emotional Left Out Feelings
- Dave expressed feeling left out from Sam's life due to her busy schedule and the significant events she's been experiencing. He also felt sad about her moving on to a new phase while he remains in the same situation.
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Dave's feelings of sadness and being left out are a recurring theme, with him acknowledging that he's happy for Sam but also struggling with the emotional impact on his own life.
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Work and Stress
- Sam mentioned being overwhelmed with work and the constant communication required for her move, which is contributing to her exhaustion and stress. She also shared that she's not sleeping well and is experiencing constant headaches.
- Dave's work schedule, including picking up and dropping off Grayson, is also discussed, highlighting the contrast in their current life stages.
EMOTIONAL DYNAMICS - Dave led with his feelings of sadness and being left out, expressing a desire for more involvement in Sam's life. Sam followed by acknowledging his feelings and sharing her own struggles with the stress and exhaustion of the move. - There was a tension in the conversation as Dave expressed feeling left out and Sam tried to explain her side, leading to a vulnerable moment where both shared their emotional states. - Dave expressed love and support, emphasizing his excitement for Sam but also his need to feel included. Sam reciprocated with affection, encouraging Dave to express his feelings and reassuring him that she's not intentionally excluding him.
MEMORABLE LANGUAGE - "Good morning sunshine" — Dave, affectionate greeting. - "I've been trying to make a conscious effort of not giving you the play-by-play of every single fucking thought in my brain" — Sam, explaining her recent communication changes. - "I feel like I'm losing my mind" — Sam, describing her current state of exhaustion and stress. - "I don't want to sit here and talk so much about me and myself" — Sam, expressing her desire to not burden Dave with her issues. - "I'm just fucking stuck in the same shit" — Dave, contrasting his situation with Sam's moving-on to a new life. - "I can't keep up" — Sam, describing her inability to manage all the communication and tasks involved in her move. - "I'm fine having a house loan" — Sam, with a playful tone, discussing her financial plans post-move. - "I want to scream" — Sam, expressing her frustration with the disclosure questions for her new house. - "I'm going to go to beddddddd" — Sam, ending the day with the intention to rest, reflecting her exhaustion.
CONTINUITY HOOKS - The unresolved feeling of Dave wanting more involvement in Sam's life as she moves to a new chapter. - Sam's continued stress and exhaustion from the moving process, which may affect her communication and availability in the future. - Dave's reflection on his current life situation and the contrast with Sam's upcoming changes, setting up potential future discussions about their differing life paths.
MOOD MAP tender → vulnerable → anxious → playful → reflective → affectionate
Daily briefing
Messages were split almost evenly. Most frequent detected signals: Status update, Humor.
Partial analysis
Message activity below is available, but complete signal-analysis coverage is not established for this day.
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Messages exchanged
168
4.9 fewer; previous daily average 172.9 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
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Conversation sessions
22
2.1 fewer; previous daily average 24.1 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
How you connected
| Measure | Dave | Sam Willis |
|---|---|---|
| Messages sent | 81 · 48% | 87 · 52% |
| Average reply time | 1m 15s (n=43) | 5m 46s (n=44) |
| Conversation starts | 3 of 4 · 75% | 1 of 4 · 25% |
Reply comparisons and metric definitions
Replies measure the gap when the sender changes; gaps of an hour or more are excluded. They do not measure time since a message was read.
- Dave replying to Sam Willis: 1m 15s (n=43). 56% shorter; pooled historical mean 2m 50s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 297 historical observations).
- Sam Willis replying to Dave: 5m 46s (n=44). 26% longer; pooled historical mean 4m 36s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 293 historical observations).
Starts count the first message of the day and messages after a long gap. Sessions split after a short gap or an explicit conversation change; single messages also count as sessions.
Session gap: 5 minutes. Start gap: 2.0 hours.
Dave's initiation share: 75.0%; 13.5 percentage points higher than the pooled historical share 61.5% (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 13 historical opportunities).
Average session duration: 5m 38s, counting only sessions with multiple messages.
Messages in multi-message sessions: 96.4%. This is the former ‘High Velocity’ metric; it is a grouping measure, not a reply-speed score.
Notable changes
- Average Response Time — Dave Replying To Sam Willis: 56% shorter; pooled historical mean 2m 50s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 297 historical observations).
Conversation rhythm
Recorded messages per actual hourly interval, in America/Chicago.
Source coverage limitation: cache rows establish observed daily activity, not completeness of source import. Empty intervals mean no recorded messages in the available rows, not proven silence outside them.
Signals in your messages
Share of all 168 messages with each qualifying signal. Labels can overlap, so these percentages are not additive.
All other signals
Most frequent signals by sender
- Dave: Status update (20), Humor (17), Emotional support (10), Excitement (8), Vulnerability (6)
- Sam Willis: Status update (33), Humor (15), Frustration (12), Vulnerability (6), Emotional support (4)
Tension and positive follow-ups
9 of 17 detected tension episodes had a positive follow-up in the same session (53%).
8 had no positive follow-up observed within that session.
These are detected signal sequences, not determinations of relationship conflict or resolution.
Follow-up timing and definitions
A tension episode is a consecutive run of qualifying tension-signaled messages. A positive follow-up must occur later in the same session.
Average time to positive follow-up: 1m 0s. Includes only episodes with an observed follow-up.
Episode evidence
Showing 3 of 17 detected episodes. A positive follow-up is a later qualifying signal, not proof of resolution.
Episode 1 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Dave
That’s wild
- Context · · Dave
Omg!
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
Episode 2 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Disagreement
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from fe…
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, so I haven't finished listening to the first message but there's a lot there so I wanted to hit it before I get into even more so one is not. It isn't about Christian at all like I doesn't bother me in…
- Positive follow-up · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, just finished the rest and yeah, I think that is maybe what happened because yeah I definitely have Had some episodes it has made me sad just with the whole moving thing in general, but I've kind of got…
- Context · · Dave
I stopped that abruptly because I kind of trailed off and lost my train of thought lol
Episode 3 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Sam Willis
But what if it DOES?!? lol This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
That’s what makes you such a good risk manager!!
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Sam Willis
Interest rates suck
- Context · · Dave
Oh! What’s it gonna be? I didn’t think about that?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Hell no bro
Messages with detected signals and calculation details
158 of 168 messages (94.0%) had at least one qualifying signal.
This measures detected labels, not whether every message was successfully analyzed. A message with no qualifying signal is not necessarily missing analysis.
| Sender | With a signal | Share |
|---|---|---|
| Dave | 77 / 81 | 95.1% |
| Sam Willis | 81 / 87 | 93.1% |
Qualifying score threshold: 0.6. Counts use unique message-label assignments. Average scores below include all scoped non-fallback assignments, including lower scores; they are model scores, not percentages of messages.
| Signal | Average model score |
|---|---|
| Affection | 0.88 |
| Appreciation | 0.80 |
| Checking in | 0.66 |
| Deep sharing | 0.55 |
| Disagreement | 0.75 |
| Emotional support | 0.76 |
| Encouragement | 0.73 |
| Excitement | 0.77 |
| Frustration | 0.68 |
| Humor | 0.77 |
| Planning | 0.73 |
| Request | 0.67 |
| Status update | 0.64 |
| Unmet need | 0.70 |
| Vulnerability | 0.75 |
- Model: openai/gpt-4o-mini
- Prompt: signals.v2
- Generated: 2026-09-16 13:06:44
- Schema: 1.4.0
Supporting messages
Each finding shows a bounded chronological preview from its exact detector associations.
Affection
Showing 3 of 8 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while L…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
score 0.76 · confidence 0.7224999999999999
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, just finished the rest and yeah, I think that is maybe what happened because yeah I definitely have Had some episodes it has made me sad just with the whole moving thing in general, but I've kind of got…
- Context · · Dave
I stopped that abruptly because I kind of trailed off and lost my train of thought lol
- Detected signal · · Dave
It’s ok baby
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sorry, I’ll be on calls for quite a bit. Might not be able to really get back to this until our check in 😔
- Context · · Dave
Concentrate on work
score 0.85 · confidence 0.765
- Context · · Sam Willis
I want to scream
- Context · · Dave
You should!
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Thanks love
- Context · · Sam Willis
Answering these fucking disclosure questions
- Context · · Sam Willis
I have one question left
Appreciation
Showing 3 of 3 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sorry, I’ll be on calls for quite a bit. Might not be able to really get back to this until our check in 😔
- Context · · Dave
Concentrate on work
- Detected signal · · Dave
Thanks for acknowledging it though
- Context · · Sam Willis
My lender gave me an appraisal waiver on the Indy house! Said they’re confident it’s at or below market value 🥳🥳
- Context · · Dave
House sold quick and easy, bought a new house quick and easy…
score 0.70 · confidence 0.85
- Context · · Sam Willis
My lender gave me an appraisal waiver on the Indy house! Said they’re confident it’s at or below market value 🥳🥳
- Context · · Dave
House sold quick and easy, bought a new house quick and easy…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Jeez! You seriously couldn’t ask for a better outcome to l this 😊
- Context · · Dave
I know the last few weeks have been a whirlwind of stress and hard work, but objectively speaking, it could have been soooooo much worse
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop 😅
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
On everything!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Just locked in 6.675% interest rate. 🤮
- Detected signal · · Dave
Congratulations
- Context · · Dave
Buying
- Context · · Dave
Being awesome
Checking in
Showing 3 of 7 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while L…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same…
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from fe…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, so I haven't finished listening to the first message but there's a lot there so I wanted to hit it before I get into even more so one is not. It isn't about Christian at all like I doesn't bother me in…
Deep sharing
Showing 1 of 1 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
But I’m in black ops…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Very Sus Dave, very Sus
- Detected signal · · Dave
I’ve never told you this Sam
- Context · · Sam Willis
It’s gonna be amazing
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m going to take out the bulk trash then I’m going to go to beddddddd
Disagreement
Showing 3 of 5 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.75 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from fe…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, so I haven't finished listening to the first message but there's a lot there so I wanted to hit it before I get into even more so one is not. It isn't about Christian at all like I doesn't bother me in…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, just finished the rest and yeah, I think that is maybe what happened because yeah I definitely have Had some episodes it has made me sad just with the whole moving thing in general, but I've kind of got…
- Context · · Dave
I stopped that abruptly because I kind of trailed off and lost my train of thought lol
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
But that would a loan for a lot less
- Context · · Sam Willis
Give me the money!!! Lmao
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Hell no bro This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
How much are you putting down? All the profit from the sale of your house?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Do you want to know how my girl math works?
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
Forever
- Context · · Sam Willis
But I’m fine having a house loan
- Detected signal · · Dave
Which would be a lot les interest
- Context · · Sam Willis
For meeeeeeeeee to do whatever I want with
- Context · · Sam Willis
Putting more down on my home loan is the last thing on my mind to do with it hehe
Emotional support
Showing 3 of 14 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while L…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Omg!
- Context · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from fe…
Encouragement
Showing 3 of 3 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
It’s ok baby
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sorry, I’ll be on calls for quite a bit. Might not be able to really get back to this until our check in 😔
- Detected signal · · Dave
Concentrate on work
- Context · · Dave
Thanks for acknowledging it though
- Context · · Sam Willis
My lender gave me an appraisal waiver on the Indy house! Said they’re confident it’s at or below market value 🥳🥳
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
But what if it DOES?!? lol
- Context · · Sam Willis
But what if it DOES?!? lol This message responded to an earlier message.
- Detected signal · · Dave
That’s what makes you such a good risk manager!!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Interest rates suck
- Context · · Dave
Oh! What’s it gonna be? I didn’t think about that?
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Selling
- Context · · Sam Willis
I want to scream
- Detected signal · · Dave
You should!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Thanks love
- Context · · Sam Willis
Answering these fucking disclosure questions
Excitement
Showing 3 of 12 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while L…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here'…
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here'…
- Context · · Dave
Oh, you’re telling me now..
- Detected signal · · Dave
That’s wild
- Context · · Dave
Omg!
- Context · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Oh, you’re telling me now..
- Context · · Dave
That’s wild
- Detected signal · · Dave
Omg!
- Context · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
Frustration
Showing 3 of 15 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
That’s wild
- Context · · Dave
Omg!
- Detected signal · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
But what if it DOES?!? lol This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
That’s what makes you such a good risk manager!!
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Interest rates suck
- Context · · Dave
Oh! What’s it gonna be? I didn’t think about that?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Hell no bro
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Interest rates suck
- Context · · Dave
Oh! What’s it gonna be? I didn’t think about that?
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Hell no bro
- Context · · Sam Willis
Give me the money!!! Lmao This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Sam Willis
6.75% is what he’s telling me. And not to brag, but I have great credit. Fuckers
Humor
Showing 3 of 32 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, so I haven't finished listening to the first message but there's a lot there so I wanted to hit it before I get into even more so one is not. It isn't about Christian at all like I doesn't bother me in…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, just finished the rest and yeah, I think that is maybe what happened because yeah I definitely have Had some episodes it has made me sad just with the whole moving thing in general, but I've kind of got…
- Detected signal · · Dave
I stopped that abruptly because I kind of trailed off and lost my train of thought lol
- Context · · Dave
It’s ok baby
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sorry, I’ll be on calls for quite a bit. Might not be able to really get back to this until our check in 😔
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
I know the last few weeks have been a whirlwind of stress and hard work, but objectively speaking, it could have been soooooo much worse
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop 😅
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
You will be SHOCKED to hear this (not lol), but…..
- Context · · Dave
And it never does
- Context · · Dave
You’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
You’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop
- Context · · Sam Willis
That’s why I can’t even celebrate. I’m like it’s too much good. Something bad will happen
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
But what if it DOES?!? lol
- Context · · Sam Willis
But what if it DOES?!? lol This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
That’s what makes you such a good risk manager!!
Planning
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score 0.70 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
That’s what makes you such a good risk manager!!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Interest rates suck
- Detected signal · · Dave
Oh! What’s it gonna be? I didn’t think about that?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Hell no bro
- Context · · Sam Willis
Give me the money!!! Lmao This message responded to an earlier message.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
But I’m fine having a house loan
- Context · · Dave
Which would be a lot les interest
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
For meeeeeeeeee to do whatever I want with
- Context · · Sam Willis
Putting more down on my home loan is the last thing on my mind to do with it hehe
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sold my house for $515. Bought a house for $480. That means I just downsized. And I have $35k of FREE money
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sold my house for $515. Bought a house for $480. That means I just downsized. And I have $35k of FREE money
- Context · · Dave
How much do you owe on your house?
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Dog door and nice shaded thingy for the backyard
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’M GOING SHOPPING!!
- Context · · Dave
What’s the first thing?
Request
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score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while L…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here'…
- Context · · Dave
Oh, you’re telling me now..
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
Putting more down on my home loan is the last thing on my mind to do with it hehe
- Context · · Sam Willis
Sold my house for $515. Bought a house for $480. That means I just downsized. And I have $35k of FREE money
- Detected signal · · Dave
How much do you owe on your house?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Dog door and nice shaded thingy for the backyard
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’M GOING SHOPPING!!
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
Dog door and nice shaded thingy for the backyard
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’M GOING SHOPPING!!
- Detected signal · · Dave
What’s the first thing?
- Context · · Sam Willis
New bed furniture and a fancy office
- Context · · Sam Willis
$275 This message responded to an earlier message.
Status update
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score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept really well last night. I know I did. I went to sleep and woke up thinking about you. So that's always wonderful I Listen to my audiobook for a while or little while L…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here'…
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Good morning I'm just heading into the office But I'm glad you slept well. My car is doing something weird on my passenger side. It sounds like error. I don't know what's going on. Sounds like air is like coming out if I don…
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here'…
- Context · · Dave
Oh, you’re telling me now..
- Context · · Dave
That’s wild
score 0.60 · confidence 0.61
- Context · · Dave
Is the window rolled all the way up?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: No, I looked and I didn't tell you When I was in the movies, my realtor texted me so we had the offer come in for 12.5 but asking price so she went back to the guy who made the first offer and was like just so you know here'…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Oh, you’re telling me now..
- Context · · Dave
That’s wild
- Context · · Dave
Omg!
Detector evidence: Fallback label applied because no other signal was returned.
Unmet need
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score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
Answering these fucking disclosure questions
- Context · · Sam Willis
I have one question left
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
And no one knows what I’m asking
- Context · · Sam Willis
And then I accidentally hung up
- Context · · Sam Willis
And I’m on the god damn phone with the water company
Vulnerability
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score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
No, you haven’t really told me anything other than you got an offer.
- Context · · Sam Willis
Yea she didn’t call me last night to walk through it until after you had gone to bed. And I was like let’s sign. Let’s be done. lol
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same…
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Hey, sorry to hit you with this before. Your brain is even working, but I just was sitting here thinking and I wanted to get it out before or while it's still kind of fresh but still figuring it out. So yes…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from fe…
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And just just add to like when I say, I know that it's not your fault like I mean I know how fast these things move and like it's just a lot I mean you've got a lot to worry about going on doing the showing…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: And another thing Maybe I'm also just feel sad Because you are like moving on with your life to a new phase and a new place, making a big change to a new chapter and I'm still just fucking stuck in the same…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: OK, so yes I definitely wanted to talk about this today and it's easier probably to just start with audio messages as you have time but What you said yesterday about? How you were kind of upset that I didn't end up FaceTime…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: It cut me off, but what I was basically saying is, I think I was purposely trying to scale back all the random constant stream of consciousness that I tell you about and I was trying to do that purposely To spare you from fe…
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: OK, so I haven't finished listening to the first message but there's a lot there so I wanted to hit it before I get into even more so one is not. It isn't about Christian at all like I doesn't bother me in…