2026-05-18
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[2026-05-18 07:50:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the headache I slept pretty well. I'm working from home this week. I went to sleep and woke up, thinking about you. That's nothing new of course I think mostly I'm going to work on this Rocker dock today I printed a couple out yesterday and realized I had some issues So I got a little adjustment And then Get a final prototype out send to Dominic so yeah doing that I can't wait to talk to you today And I can't wait to see you in just a couple weeks. It's gonna be so great. I think the last thing we said was something about snuggling yes I cannot wait to snuggle up next to you. Watch the big Lebowski. Yes Right Sweetheart, I hope that you have a wonderful morning and I hope you sleep super late Don't wake up until like 10 and then lay there for another half an hour or so and just relax And I hope you feel great and glad to be home Yeah, looking forward to talking to you. Oh I guess now you can just voice message me whenever you want. When you're at home so that's interesting All right sweetheart I love you so much and I can't wait to see you
[2026-05-18 09:55:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-05-18 10:02:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. You know OK I do remember that sleeping with all the dogs is not quite as enjoyable as I had it in my mind because what happens is I end up sleeping at about a 45° angle Maybe like 60 so my hips hurt and they're they're not only sleep on the bed but they have to sleep with their bodies up against me so there's no way for me to move my legs. I just I'm like this little. Thing A turd won't ever give kisses he'll come up to you and then host in a few and then he will like snort almost like in discussed But it's very good to be home although like the house is literally never been this empty because obviously when Joe and I moved in, we had all the room like so it's five bedrooms 3 1/2 of them right now are like completely fucking empty like completely So like when Joe moved out, he didn't take hardly anything and then when Chaz died obviously I mean all the shit was mine anyway and so this is the first time I'm having to like literally split up shit, way most of the shit was also mine, but whatever But shit is just empty and now I'm just like I do not want this house what's in your mouth? I don't know what these dogs are up to no good. I can tell you that but I'm so glad I took the day off. There's just absolutely no way and. There is nothing to eat in this house so first order businesses get ready and go to the grocery store But Christian will sometime today because Because he still got quite a bit here Like seriously but I'm so glad you took a remote and I might've already said that but OK how long does it take to print one rocket Launcher, no rocker docker I don't know how long does it take to print? I'm curious and then how long does it take to print one of the adapters? How are the new printers? All the things Anyway, I miss you and I also can't wait to see you and It's gonna be a great day Sure OK bye
[2026-05-18 10:05:00] Sam Willis: Well shit
[2026-05-18 10:06:00] Dave: You sound great 🥰
[2026-05-18 10:07:00] Dave: Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
[2026-05-18 10:07:00] Sam Willis: It still was nice to cuddle!
[2026-05-18 10:08:00] Dave: Yeah wtf… I thought everything was mostly yours lol
[2026-05-18 10:08:00] Sam Willis: I let him have too much
[2026-05-18 10:09:00] Dave: Actually lold
[2026-05-18 10:09:00] Sam Willis: Definitely not!
[2026-05-18 10:09:00] Dave: Lmao rocket launcher
[2026-05-18 10:09:00] Dave: You mean there’s nothing left from all the “groceries” you bought last week
[2026-05-18 10:09:00] Sam Willis: Also god I’m going to have to spend all weekend painting. These rooms look rough.
[2026-05-18 10:11:00] Dave: 1 set of rocker docks takes about 5 hours to print
[2026-05-18 10:12:00] Dave: And the adapters vary. I print 4 at a time and they take 8-13 hours.
[2026-05-18 10:16:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-05-18 10:21:00] Sam Willis: BK is over your shit
[2026-05-18 10:25:00] Dave: He dgaf
[2026-05-18 10:30:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-05-18 10:31:00] Sam Willis: They look so weird. I never knew what the 3d printers looked like.
[2026-05-18 10:32:00] Dave: Really?
[2026-05-18 10:43:00] Sam Willis: The head swing is hilarious He does this thing where anticipates me scratching him, or playing or something… where he like goes to flop over. Sometimes he jumps into when I walk up to him and that’s hilarious
[2026-05-18 10:43:00] Sam Willis: The head swing is hilarious
[2026-05-18 10:44:00] Sam Willis: So wait. This thingy does the exact same thing as the other 2 newer ones? Weird.
[2026-05-18 10:44:00] Sam Willis: So wait. This thingy does the exact same thing as the other 2 newer ones? Weird.
[2026-05-18 10:49:00] Sam Willis: Going to the grocery store in the middle of a week day is absolutely where it’s at
[2026-05-18 10:52:00] Dave: Oh for sure
[2026-05-18 10:53:00] Dave: Well… it doesn’t differently, and has a lot more features. And can print with more materials.
[2026-05-18 10:53:00] Dave: Well… it doesn’t differently, and has a lot more features. And can print with more materials.
[2026-05-18 10:53:00] Dave: Or at 0700 😉
[2026-05-18 11:26:00] Sam Willis: I’m going through the pantry today and just throwing so much shit out. Starting overrrr
[2026-05-18 12:17:00] Sam Willis: Oh I watched two birds fuck this morning. It was very awkward
[2026-05-18 12:20:00] Dave: Right?!
[2026-05-18 12:20:00] Dave: It feels so dirty to watch
[2026-05-18 12:20:00] Dave: Nature ☺️
[2026-05-18 12:20:00] Dave: But I love it
[2026-05-18 12:23:00] Dave: HATE HATE HATE HATE
[2026-05-18 12:23:00] Dave: Also…
[2026-05-18 12:26:00] Sam Willis: Proud of you baby
[2026-05-18 12:26:00] Sam Willis: Omg!!! You’re crushing it!!!
[2026-05-18 12:26:00] Sam Willis: Damnit I gotta get my ass in gear!
[2026-05-18 12:26:00] Sam Willis: Ugh
[2026-05-18 12:27:00] Dave: Thanks sweetie 🥰
[2026-05-18 12:27:00] Sam Willis: Do you kind of love it yet? 😂
[2026-05-18 12:27:00] Dave: Thanks sweetie 🥰
[2026-05-18 12:30:00] Dave: Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️
[2026-05-18 12:30:00] Dave: Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️
[2026-05-18 12:31:00] Dave: What are you up to? Straightening your shit up?
[2026-05-18 12:31:00] Dave: What are you up to? Straightening your shit up?
[2026-05-18 12:33:00] Sam Willis: Yasssss!!
[2026-05-18 12:33:00] Sam Willis: Yasssss!!
[2026-05-18 12:34:00] Sam Willis: Ugh yes. Trying. Folding laundry now. Christian said he’ll 330 and asked if I could transport stuff back to his house too. He thinks he can get it all if we both load up.
[2026-05-18 12:34:00] Sam Willis: Ugh yes. Trying. Folding laundry now. Christian said he’ll 330 and asked if I could transport stuff back to his house too. He thinks he can get it all if we both load up.
[2026-05-18 12:35:00] Dave: It’s just never ends with that guy
[2026-05-18 12:36:00] Dave: He had all week to take care of this shit and still waits to make sure you have to do some if the work 😠
[2026-05-18 12:39:00] Sam Willis: 😭
[2026-05-18 13:20:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-05-18 13:20:00] Sam Willis: She’s asleep. wtf lol
[2026-05-18 13:29:00] Dave: The front legs stretched out 🤣
[2026-05-18 13:29:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-05-18 13:31:00] Sam Willis: Pitiful
[2026-05-18 13:47:00] Dave: Do it!
[2026-05-18 13:47:00] Dave: I dozed off after my shower
[2026-05-18 13:47:00] Dave: Only for like, 20 mins though
[2026-05-18 13:47:00] Sam Willis: I feel like I could use a nap
[2026-05-18 13:48:00] Dave: Might go for another one lol
[2026-05-18 13:51:00] Dave: Today is to recover from your trip. YES, take a nap
[2026-05-18 13:51:00] Sam Willis: I have so much to doooo though. But I don’t like HAVE to do it all today. Ugh. Might be nap time lol
[2026-05-18 13:51:00] Dave: That’s an order
[2026-05-18 13:59:00] Sam Willis: Today was to get my house looking like a normal house again 😭
[2026-05-18 14:01:00] Sam Willis: OK I’ll take a quickish one. Maybe. . If the dogs allow it lol
[2026-05-18 14:41:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-05-18 15:03:00] Sam Willis: That actually felt really good
[2026-05-18 15:03:00] Sam Willis: I needed that lol
[2026-05-18 15:56:00] Dave: Hehehe… I just woke up 🤭
[2026-05-18 16:00:00] Sam Willis: You bum hehe jk
[2026-05-18 16:00:00] Dave: Well ok… not just
[2026-05-18 16:01:00] Sam Willis: You’re so so yummy
[2026-05-18 16:01:00] Sam Willis: Mmmmmmm
[2026-05-18 16:01:00] Dave: Hehehe
[2026-05-18 16:01:00] Sam Willis: Yasssss!!!
[2026-05-18 16:01:00] Sam Willis: Ahhh!!!
[2026-05-18 16:07:00] Sam Willis: How was it??
[2026-05-18 16:07:00] Dave: You were amazing, as always 🫠🫠🫠
[2026-05-18 16:11:00] Dave: It felt so good
[2026-05-18 16:11:00] Dave: And kinda horrible
[2026-05-18 16:11:00] Dave: Oh! I didn’t tell you… after my run I took a contrast shower! I got in the shower and turned it on and blasted cold water from the start
[2026-05-18 16:27:00] Sam Willis: Fuckkkkk that
[2026-05-18 16:27:00] Sam Willis: You little weirdo 🤪
[2026-05-18 16:28:00] Dave: Hahaha
[2026-05-18 16:30:00] Dave: It feels so great to push through the initial shock and get your breathing under control
[2026-05-18 16:49:00] Sam Willis: I bet but stilllll
[2026-05-18 17:18:00] Dave: How is getting your life back together going?
[2026-05-18 17:21:00] Sam Willis: Slowly
[2026-05-18 17:21:00] Dave: Heh, yeah I bet
[2026-05-18 17:23:00] Sam Willis: I don’t want to workkkkkk
[2026-05-18 17:23:00] Dave: Me either
[2026-05-18 17:23:00] Dave: Ugh
[2026-05-18 17:24:00] Dave: What if we won the lottery and just disappeared together 🤪
[2026-05-18 17:25:00] Sam Willis: Do you even play the lottery?
[2026-05-18 17:25:00] Dave: lol no
[2026-05-18 17:25:00] Dave: K, that’s the plan!
[2026-05-18 17:25:00] Sam Willis: We gotta bring the pets though
[2026-05-18 17:25:00] Sam Willis: Otherwise. DEAL
[2026-05-18 17:26:00] Dave: SoOoo… this plan is all on you lol
[2026-05-18 17:26:00] Dave: I’m not much of a gambler
[2026-05-18 17:28:00] Sam Willis: I don’t gamble either!! Maybe one day though lol
[2026-05-18 17:31:00] Sam Willis: Christian’s on his way. I’m a sweaty pig. About to be even more sweaty. Sigh
[2026-05-18 17:37:00] Dave: I take it you’re helping him finish moving his shit?
[2026-05-18 17:38:00] Dave: Or.. your shit lol
[2026-05-18 17:38:00] Sam Willis: Sigh. I definitely don’t want to! But here I am lol
[2026-05-18 17:39:00] Sam Willis: It gets it out sooner though
[2026-05-18 17:39:00] Dave: Jeez… tf is he gonna do without you
[2026-05-18 17:39:00] Dave: True true
[2026-05-18 17:40:00] Dave: You’re a sweetheart ❤️
[2026-05-18 18:02:00] Sam Willis: He brought 3 boxes. THREE
[2026-05-18 18:04:00] Dave: Oh you have to PACK too?!
[2026-05-18 18:05:00] Dave: I thought you just had to load stuff up and take it over
[2026-05-18 18:06:00] Dave: Bruh.
[2026-05-18 18:07:00] Dave: Go walk the dogs or something
[2026-05-18 18:07:00] Dave: Just let him fucking piddle around and toil on his own until its done
[2026-05-18 19:06:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: I'm on my way over to his place now to drop off all the shit that's in my car and then he has a bunch of shit in his car yeah like all that all the dishes and stuff that just was all over the counter that had to be packed up. There's still like a few minor things left, but it's nothing too crazy. We got the vast so I am pleased about that I am tired. I am gross. I have anxiety about going to work tomorrow and leaving the dogs essentially have Sunday scary on a Monday but also thinking about like all the painting I need to do. I don't need to do it this weekend but I want to do it this weekend. Where I want to repaint Three bedrooms and then their bathroom And get that in order for when I'm gonna sell the house so Anyway Oh what else I'm feeling fairly accomplished. I'm very pleased about why I'm pleased, but it's also sad because it's so fucking empty, but I totally cleaned out the. Pantry in the fridge and it's like sober but also like it's only shit that I'm going to eat so I'm actually very excited about that well mostly I might not use a few of the things but for the most part it is actually what I want and not like I threw out expired shit and just like gave Christian shit I'll never eat It feels good so Anyway All the things but yeah It feels good to have my space back I'm honestly not looking forward to seeing the kids at his house because I think it's gonna be awkward. I think Kai's in a mood I don't really wanna deal with emotions right now. I have too many of my own so Anyway, he made a weird comment about. He's like basically telling me like how I was such a great girlfriend and he loves me and you know thank you for everything and then he like he was like you know I don't often think about my exes and he goes well yeah I do. I'm like. I don't like, but I'm just really grateful you know I've had some really good partners and you know that I've made a positive impact on my life and you know you're one of them just like I don't need to know all this stuff but Also, I just ate one of those builder bars for the first time ever in my life and is our super pretty good. I got the chocolate peanut butter one. And yeah, I will eat it again which I have to because I bought six of them were like 610 I don't know Of the mini, so yeah, at my place, the only two flavors where the chocolate peanut butter and chocolate mint so I don't know if that's like truly the only flavors or what
[2026-05-18 20:17:00] Dave: I think those are called Monday scaries 🤪
[2026-05-18 20:18:00] Dave: I love a nice clean pantry!’
[2026-05-18 20:19:00] Dave: Lmao… he fucking better be greatful 😒
[2026-05-18 20:19:00] Dave: Yeah you don’t have bandwidth for OTHER peoples emotions
[2026-05-18 20:20:00] Dave: You got builder bars!!
[2026-05-18 20:20:00] Dave: Chocolate PB are the gotos but Oreo ones are good too. Sometimes I’ll get vanilla almond for something different
[2026-05-18 20:22:00] Dave: And how did we not check in today?!
[2026-05-18 20:22:00] Dave: Is it because you hate me and don’t want to tell me??
[2026-05-18 20:22:00] Dave: Are you sick of WAA??? 😭
[2026-05-18 20:30:00] Sam Willis: Oh fuck!!! We didn’t check in!!!
[2026-05-18 20:30:00] Sam Willis: Tomorrow!!
[2026-05-18 20:30:00] Sam Willis: Omggggg
[2026-05-18 20:30:00] Sam Willis: YOU FORGOT TOO
[2026-05-18 20:31:00] Dave: Whoa Ms blamey mcblame face
[2026-05-18 20:31:00] Dave: I was just sayin’
[2026-05-18 20:32:00] Dave: Oh no wait lol…. I said those other things 🤭
[2026-05-18 20:32:00] Dave: But I was just foolin 🥰
[2026-05-18 20:32:00] Sam Willis: Jerk
[2026-05-18 20:32:00] Dave: Oh no wait lol…. I said those other things 🤭
[2026-05-18 20:33:00] Dave: I did like it better when you were on CST lol. I’m getting tired and it’s only 6:30 there
[2026-05-18 20:44:00] Sam Willis: I know 😩 it really sucks
[2026-05-18 20:44:00] Sam Willis: So, we’re checking in tomorrow right??
[2026-05-18 20:46:00] Dave: Are you waiting for tomorrow?!
[2026-05-18 20:46:00] Dave: …you didn’t say you don’t hate me though!! 😫
[2026-05-18 20:46:00] Sam Willis: I love you fool
[2026-05-18 20:47:00] Dave: I love you too 👍
[2026-05-18 20:47:00] Dave: Phew
[2026-05-18 20:47:00] Dave: Ok good. I was worried for a minute there.
[2026-05-18 20:48:00] Sam Willis: Did you just thumbs up me?? 😂
[2026-05-18 20:49:00] Dave: Hehehe
[2026-05-18 20:59:00] Sam Willis: How was your day overall?
[2026-05-18 20:59:00] Dave: Took some naps
[2026-05-18 20:59:00] Dave: Got my run in
[2026-05-18 20:59:00] Dave: It was pretty good 😊
[2026-05-18 21:00:00] Dave: What else is there
[2026-05-18 21:07:00] Sam Willis: Talked to meeee
[2026-05-18 21:08:00] Dave: That’s a given, baby
[2026-05-18 21:08:00] Dave: 🥰
[2026-05-18 21:08:00] Dave: Hbu? I know yours was pretty good
[2026-05-18 21:14:00] Sam Willis: It has been a long day lol
[2026-05-18 21:15:00] Dave: Yeah I bet
[2026-05-18 21:26:00] Sam Willis: Changing all my passwords to smart home stuff is a grade A pain in the ass
[2026-05-18 21:39:00] Dave: Ugh, no shit
[2026-05-18 21:40:00] Dave: Hehehe
[2026-05-18 21:40:00] Sam Willis: Sweet Dreams baby ❤️❤️
[2026-05-18 21:40:00] Dave: Good for you though… doing it
[2026-05-18 21:40:00] Dave: Speaking of doing things… guess what I’m getting ready to do
[2026-05-18 21:41:00] Dave: 👸
[2026-05-18 21:41:00] Sam Willis: Can’t wait to talk to you tomorrow!
[2026-05-18 21:41:00] Dave: Samsies
[2026-05-18 21:41:00] Dave: I love you so so much babydoll
[2026-05-18 21:41:00] Sam Willis: I love you very much 😍
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DAY OVERVIEW A playful and affectionate day, where Dave and Sam shared updates on their personal lives, work, and home projects. The mood remained light and loving, with moments of teasing and vulnerability. A notable moment was Sam's recounting of the emotional and physical challenges of moving and organizing her house after her partner left, interspersed with their shared excitement about their upcoming reunion.
TOPIC INVENTORY - Work and Projects: Dave is working from home this week, focusing on printing and fine-tuning his "Rocker dock" designs. Sam is taking a day off to help her friend Christian with moving, and she's also planning to repaint several rooms in her house.
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Dogs and Home Life: Sam discusses the challenges of sleeping with her dogs and the overall emptiness of her house after her previous partner moved out. She also mentions the need to clean out the pantry and fridge and expresses a newfound excitement about having a space that's exclusively hers.
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Food and Snacks: Sam buys and tries builder bars for the first time, particularly enjoying the chocolate peanut butter flavor and considering the chocolate mint flavor as well.
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Future Plans and Dreams: They joke about winning the lottery and disappearing together, including bringing all their pets, and consider the logistics of how they would make it work.
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Relationship Reflection: Sam recounts an awkward interaction with her ex-partner, Christian, who expressed nostalgia and gratitude, which Sam found somewhat unwanted and uncomfortable.
SEXUAL & PHYSICAL CONTENT - Physical Longing: Dave mentions being able to voice message Sam now that she's home, hinting at a desire for more frequent and intimate communication.
- Sexual Wisdom: Dave describes his recent workouts, including a challenging and invigorating run, and a cold shower afterward, which they both discuss with a mix of fascination and humor.
EMOTIONAL DYNAMICS - Dave and Sam maintain a playful and affectionate dynamic, with Dave taking a caring and encouraging role, and Sam expressing vulnerability and gratitude for their support. Dave leads in offering comfort and reassurance, while Sam is vulnerable and open about her struggles and emotions.
MEMORABLE LANGUAGE - "Good morning sunshine," - Dave, in an affectionate greeting. - "Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the headache," - Dave, expressing concern and care. - "I thought the last thing we said was something about snuggling." - Dave, hinting at their physical intimacy and longing. - "I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM." - Sam, giving a candid update on her sleep. - "Hope you have a wonderful morning and I hope you sleep super late," - Dave, encouraging Sam to relax and recuperate. - "I can't wait to snuggle up next to you. Watch the big Lebowski." - Dave, expressing eagerness for their physical and romantic reunion. - "It's gonna be so great. I think the last thing we said was something about snuggling," - Dave, emphasizing their longing for physical closeness. - "He brought 3 boxes. THREE," - Sam, showing frustration with her ex-partner's lack of organization. - "I love a nice clean pantry," - Dave, celebrating Sam's initiative to reorganize her home. - "I don't need to know all this stuff," - Sam, responding to her ex-partner's unsolicited compliments. - "You better be grateful," - Dave, jokingly reacting to Sam's ex-partner's sentimentality. - "It feels so great to push through the initial shock," - Dave, sharing his positive experience with a cold shower. - "You little weirdo," - Sam, teasing Dave over his cold shower practice. - "I don't want to work," - Dave, in a collective lament about their shared reluctance to engage in work responsibilities. - "What if we won the lottery and just disappeared together," - Dave, fantasizing about escaping their daily routines and commitments. - "We gotta bring the pets though," - Sam, ensuring their shared future includes their beloved animals.
CONTINUITY HOOKS - Sam's plans to repaint and sell her house, a significant personal journey and major life change. - The dynamic of Sam's relationship with her ex-partner, Christian, and the emotional challenges that arise from their interactions. - Dave and Sam's ongoing "Rocker dock" project, hinting at future collaborative work and shared interests. - The unresolved tension around Dave's workout and the cold shower, a potential source of future jokes or conversations. - The fantasy of winning the lottery and disappearing together, reflecting their shared desire for freedom and a simpler life.
MOOD MAP Playful morning → Reflective and affectionate midday → Playful and teasing evening
Daily briefing
Most frequent detected signals: Humor, Frustration.
Partial analysis
Message activity below is available, but complete signal-analysis coverage is not established for this day.
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Messages exchanged
175
241.1 fewer; previous daily average 416.1 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
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Conversation sessions
28
3.4 fewer; previous daily average 31.4 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
How you connected
| Measure | Dave | Sam Willis |
|---|---|---|
| Messages sent | 104 · 59% | 71 · 41% |
| Average reply time | 4m 47s (n=41) | 6m 30s (n=42) |
| Conversation starts | 1 of 2 · 50% | 1 of 2 · 50% |
Reply comparisons and metric definitions
Replies measure the gap when the sender changes; gaps of an hour or more are excluded. They do not measure time since a message was read.
- Dave replying to Sam Willis: 4m 47s (n=41). 217% longer; pooled historical mean 1m 31s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 690 historical observations).
- Sam Willis replying to Dave: 6m 30s (n=42). 159% longer; pooled historical mean 2m 30s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 687 historical observations).
Starts count the first message of the day and messages after a long gap. Sessions split after a short gap or an explicit conversation change; single messages also count as sessions.
Session gap: 5 minutes. Start gap: 2.0 hours.
Dave's initiation share: 50.0%; 16.7 percentage points lower than the pooled historical share 66.7% (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 9 historical opportunities).
Average session duration: 5m 46s, counting only sessions with multiple messages.
Messages in multi-message sessions: 96.0%. This is the former ‘High Velocity’ metric; it is a grouping measure, not a reply-speed score.
Notable changes
- Message volume: 58% lower than the previous daily average of 416.1 (7 usable days out of the previous 7).
- Average Response Time — Dave Replying To Sam Willis: 217% longer; pooled historical mean 1m 31s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 690 historical observations).
- Average Response Time — Sam Willis Replying To Dave: 159% longer; pooled historical mean 2m 30s (7 usable days out of the previous 7; 687 historical observations).
Conversation rhythm
Recorded messages per actual hourly interval, in America/Chicago.
Source coverage limitation: cache rows establish observed daily activity, not completeness of source import. Empty intervals mean no recorded messages in the available rows, not proven silence outside them.
Signals in your messages
Share of all 175 messages with each qualifying signal. Labels can overlap, so these percentages are not additive.
All other signals
Most frequent signals by sender
- Dave: Humor (20), Frustration (15), Status update (13), Affection (11), Checking in (10)
- Sam Willis: Frustration (11), Humor (11), Affection (10), Checking in (9), Emotional support (6)
Tension and positive follow-ups
10 of 21 detected tension episodes had a positive follow-up in the same session (48%).
11 had no positive follow-up observed within that session.
These are detected signal sequences, not determinations of relationship conflict or resolution.
Follow-up timing and definitions
A tension episode is a consecutive run of qualifying tension-signaled messages. A positive follow-up must occur later in the same session.
Average time to positive follow-up: 1m 54s. Includes only episodes with an observed follow-up.
Episode evidence
Showing 3 of 21 detected episodes. A positive follow-up is a later qualifying signal, not proof of resolution.
Episode 1 · 1 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Dave
Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
- Context · · Sam Willis
It still was nice to cuddle!
- Tension signal Episode start/end · · Dave
Yeah wtf… I thought everything was mostly yours lol
- Context · · Sam Willis
I let him have too much
- Positive follow-up · · Dave
Actually lold
Episode 2 · 2 tension-signaled message(s) · Frustration
- Context · · Sam Willis
Definitely not!
- Context · · Dave
Lmao rocket launcher
- Tension signal Episode start · · Dave
You mean there’s nothing left from all the “groceries” you bought last week
- Tension signal Episode end · · Sam Willis
Also god I’m going to have to spend all weekend painting. These rooms look rough.
- Context · · Dave
1 set of rocker docks takes about 5 hours to print
Episode 3 · 2 tension-signaled message(s) · Disagreement, Frustration
- Context · · Dave
And the adapters vary. I print 4 at a time and they take 8-13 hours.
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
- Tension signal Episode start · · Sam Willis
BK is over your shit
- Tension signal Episode end · · Dave
He dgaf
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
Messages with detected signals and calculation details
153 of 175 messages (87.4%) had at least one qualifying signal.
This measures detected labels, not whether every message was successfully analyzed. A message with no qualifying signal is not necessarily missing analysis.
| Sender | With a signal | Share |
|---|---|---|
| Dave | 89 / 104 | 85.6% |
| Sam Willis | 64 / 71 | 90.1% |
Qualifying score threshold: 0.6. Counts use unique message-label assignments. Average scores below include all scoped non-fallback assignments, including lower scores; they are model scores, not percentages of messages.
| Signal | Average model score |
|---|---|
| Affection | 0.82 |
| Appreciation | 0.78 |
| Boundary setting | 0.75 |
| Checking in | 0.69 |
| Deep sharing | 0.71 |
| Disagreement | 0.65 |
| Emotional support | 0.74 |
| Encouragement | 0.71 |
| Excitement | 0.76 |
| Frustration | 0.72 |
| Humor | 0.69 |
| Passive aggression | 0.60 |
| Planning | 0.72 |
| Status update | 0.66 |
| Vulnerability | 0.65 |
- Model: openai/gpt-4o-mini
- Prompt: signals.v2
- Generated: 2026-09-15 20:49:31
- Schema: 1.4.0
Supporting messages
Each finding shows a bounded chronological preview from its exact detector associations.
Affection
Showing 3 of 21 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
score 0.85 · confidence 0.765
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Context · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Detected signal · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
- Context · · Dave
Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
- Context · · Sam Willis
It still was nice to cuddle!
Appreciation
Showing 3 of 4 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Detected signal · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
- Context · · Dave
Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
- Context · · Sam Willis
It still was nice to cuddle!
score 0.90 · confidence 0.95
- Context · · Dave
Thanks sweetie 🥰
- Context · · Sam Willis
Do you kind of love it yet? 😂
- Detected signal · · Dave
Thanks sweetie 🥰 This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️
- Context · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️ This message responded to an earlier message.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Ahhh!!!
- Context · · Sam Willis
How was it??
- Detected signal · · Dave
You were amazing, as always 🫠🫠🫠
- Context · · Dave
It felt so good
- Context · · Dave
And kinda horrible
Boundary setting
Showing 1 of 1 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.75 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Dave
Today is to recover from your trip. YES, take a nap
- Context · · Sam Willis
I have so much to doooo though. But I don’t like HAVE to do it all today. Ugh. Might be nap time lol
- Detected signal · · Dave
That’s an order
- Context · · Sam Willis
Today was to get my house looking like a normal house again 😭
- Context · · Sam Willis
OK I’ll take a quickish one. Maybe. . If the dogs allow it lol
Checking in
Showing 3 of 19 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
Proud of you baby
- Context · · Sam Willis
Omg!!! You’re crushing it!!!
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Damnit I gotta get my ass in gear!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Ugh
- Context · · Dave
Thanks sweetie 🥰
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️
- Context · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️ This message responded to an earlier message.
- Detected signal · · Dave
What are you up to? Straightening your shit up? This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
What are you up to? Straightening your shit up?
- Context · · Sam Willis
Yasssss!!
Deep sharing
Showing 3 of 3 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.77 · confidence 0.663
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Context · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
score 0.75 · confidence 0.663
- Context · · Sam Willis
They look so weird. I never knew what the 3d printers looked like.
- Context · · Dave
Really?
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
The head swing is hilarious He does this thing where anticipates me scratching him, or playing or something… where he like goes to flop over. Sometimes he jumps into when I walk up to him and that’s hilarious
- Context · · Sam Willis
The head swing is hilarious This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Sam Willis
So wait. This thingy does the exact same thing as the other 2 newer ones? Weird. This message responded to an earlier message.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Yeah you don’t have bandwidth for OTHER peoples emotions
- Context · · Dave
You got builder bars!!
- Detected signal · · Dave
Chocolate PB are the gotos but Oreo ones are good too. Sometimes I’ll get vanilla almond for something different
- Context · · Dave
And how did we not check in today?!
- Context · · Dave
Is it because you hate me and don’t want to tell me??
Disagreement
Showing 2 of 2 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
And the adapters vary. I print 4 at a time and they take 8-13 hours.
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
BK is over your shit
- Context · · Dave
He dgaf
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
And kinda horrible
- Context · · Dave
Oh! I didn’t tell you… after my run I took a contrast shower! I got in the shower and turned it on and blasted cold water from the start
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Fuckkkkk that
- Context · · Sam Willis
You little weirdo 🤪
- Context · · Dave
Hahaha
Emotional support
Showing 3 of 9 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.8
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Sam Willis
Omg!!! You’re crushing it!!!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Damnit I gotta get my ass in gear!
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Ugh
- Context · · Dave
Thanks sweetie 🥰
- Context · · Sam Willis
Do you kind of love it yet? 😂
score 0.77 · confidence 0.68
- Context · · Dave
It’s just never ends with that guy
- Context · · Dave
He had all week to take care of this shit and still waits to make sure you have to do some if the work 😠
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
😭
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
She’s asleep. wtf lol
Encouragement
Showing 3 of 6 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.748
- Context · · Dave
Also…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Proud of you baby
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Omg!!! You’re crushing it!!!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Damnit I gotta get my ass in gear!
- Context · · Sam Willis
Ugh
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Lmao
- Context · · Sam Willis
Pitiful
- Detected signal · · Dave
Do it!
- Context · · Dave
I dozed off after my shower
- Context · · Dave
Only for like, 20 mins though
score 0.78 · confidence 0.697
- Context · · Sam Willis
I feel like I could use a nap
- Context · · Dave
Might go for another one lol
- Detected signal · · Dave
Today is to recover from your trip. YES, take a nap
- Context · · Sam Willis
I have so much to doooo though. But I don’t like HAVE to do it all today. Ugh. Might be nap time lol
- Context · · Dave
That’s an order
Excitement
Showing 3 of 11 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.74 · confidence 0.6715
- Context · · Dave
He dgaf
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
They look so weird. I never knew what the 3d printers looked like.
- Context · · Dave
Really?
- Context · · Sam Willis
The head swing is hilarious He does this thing where anticipates me scratching him, or playing or something… where he like goes to flop over. Sometimes he jumps into when I walk up to him and that’s hilarious
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Do you kind of love it yet? 😂
- Context · · Dave
Thanks sweetie 🥰 This message responded to an earlier message.
- Detected signal · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️
- Context · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️ This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
What are you up to? Straightening your shit up? This message responded to an earlier message.
score 0.80 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
Thanks sweetie 🥰 This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️
- Detected signal · · Dave
Today was actually the first run in A LONG time where I actually went into it feeling strong and with good form. A distantly familiar feeling that I was pretty happy about tbh ☺️ This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
What are you up to? Straightening your shit up? This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
What are you up to? Straightening your shit up?
Frustration
Showing 3 of 26 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
- Context · · Sam Willis
It still was nice to cuddle!
- Detected signal · · Dave
Yeah wtf… I thought everything was mostly yours lol
- Context · · Sam Willis
I let him have too much
- Context · · Dave
Actually lold
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
Definitely not!
- Context · · Dave
Lmao rocket launcher
- Detected signal · · Dave
You mean there’s nothing left from all the “groceries” you bought last week
- Context · · Sam Willis
Also god I’m going to have to spend all weekend painting. These rooms look rough.
- Context · · Dave
1 set of rocker docks takes about 5 hours to print
score 0.65 · confidence 0.595
- Context · · Dave
Lmao rocket launcher
- Context · · Dave
You mean there’s nothing left from all the “groceries” you bought last week
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Also god I’m going to have to spend all weekend painting. These rooms look rough.
- Context · · Dave
1 set of rocker docks takes about 5 hours to print
- Context · · Dave
And the adapters vary. I print 4 at a time and they take 8-13 hours.
Humor
Showing 3 of 31 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.95
- Context · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Context · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
- Detected signal · · Dave
Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
- Context · · Sam Willis
It still was nice to cuddle!
- Context · · Dave
Yeah wtf… I thought everything was mostly yours lol
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
Yeah wtf… I thought everything was mostly yours lol
- Context · · Sam Willis
I let him have too much
- Detected signal · · Dave
Actually lold
- Context · · Sam Willis
Definitely not!
- Context · · Dave
Lmao rocket launcher
score 0.78 · confidence 0.697
- Context · · Sam Willis
I let him have too much
- Context · · Dave
Actually lold
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Definitely not!
- Context · · Dave
Lmao rocket launcher
- Context · · Dave
You mean there’s nothing left from all the “groceries” you bought last week
Passive aggression
Showing 1 of 1 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Oh no wait lol…. I said those other things 🤭
- Context · · Dave
But I was just foolin 🥰
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Jerk
- Context · · Dave
Oh no wait lol…. I said those other things 🤭 This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Dave
I did like it better when you were on CST lol. I’m getting tired and it’s only 6:30 there
Planning
Showing 3 of 11 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.7
- Detected signal · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
score 0.70 · confidence 0.6204999999999999
- Context · · Sam Willis
So wait. This thingy does the exact same thing as the other 2 newer ones? Weird. This message responded to an earlier message.
- Context · · Sam Willis
So wait. This thingy does the exact same thing as the other 2 newer ones? Weird.
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Going to the grocery store in the middle of a week day is absolutely where it’s at
- Context · · Dave
Oh for sure
- Context · · Dave
Well… it doesn’t differently, and has a lot more features. And can print with more materials.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Dave
Well… it doesn’t differently, and has a lot more features. And can print with more materials.
- Context · · Dave
Well… it doesn’t differently, and has a lot more features. And can print with more materials. This message responded to an earlier message.
- Detected signal · · Dave
Or at 0700 😉
- Context · · Sam Willis
I’m going through the pantry today and just throwing so much shit out. Starting overrrr
- Context · · Sam Willis
Oh I watched two birds fuck this morning. It was very awkward
Status update
Showing 3 of 17 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.60 · confidence 0.61
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Context · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
- Context · · Dave
Hahaha, I knew sleeping with the dogs wasn’t all it’s cracked up to be lolol
Detector evidence: Fallback label applied because no other signal was returned.
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Dave
You mean there’s nothing left from all the “groceries” you bought last week
- Context · · Sam Willis
Also god I’m going to have to spend all weekend painting. These rooms look rough.
- Detected signal · · Dave
1 set of rocker docks takes about 5 hours to print
- Context · · Dave
And the adapters vary. I print 4 at a time and they take 8-13 hours.
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
score 0.90 · confidence 0.9
- Context · · Sam Willis
Also god I’m going to have to spend all weekend painting. These rooms look rough.
- Context · · Dave
1 set of rocker docks takes about 5 hours to print
- Detected signal · · Dave
And the adapters vary. I print 4 at a time and they take 8-13 hours.
- Context · · Dave
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
BK is over your shit
Vulnerability
Showing 3 of 11 exact detector associations; open the transcript for full text.
score 0.70 · confidence 0.6375
- Context · · Dave
Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I hope you slept great in your own bed with your dogs all over the place. I'm sure they were super happy to see you. Hope your night was good and you got to relax and get rid of the he…
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
Transcription: Hello love yes I get to voice message you whenever I don't need to mute our conversation anymore it's so fantastic I'm getting kisses from the dog. Oh my God I slept pretty damn good. I did wake up like 1 AM 6 AM no 5 AM. Yo…
- Context · · Sam Willis
Well shit
- Context · · Dave
You sound great 🥰
score 0.60 · confidence 0.7
- Context · · Sam Willis
It still was nice to cuddle!
- Context · · Dave
Yeah wtf… I thought everything was mostly yours lol
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
I let him have too much
- Context · · Dave
Actually lold
- Context · · Sam Willis
Definitely not!
score 0.70 · confidence 0.8
- Context · · Dave
It’s just never ends with that guy
- Context · · Dave
He had all week to take care of this shit and still waits to make sure you have to do some if the work 😠
- Detected signal · · Sam Willis
😭
- Context · · Sam Willis
<no text>
- Context · · Sam Willis
She’s asleep. wtf lol