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[2026-03-15 06:05:00] Dave: 1. I love love love when you text me the excerpts you liked 🥵 2. I spiced up the “romantic” ones a little 🤭😉 3. I need to teach it to say cum instead of come lol
[2026-03-15 07:09:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I'm on my way to the stupid gym. I definitely do not want to be but yeah she gotta do what you gotta do if you wanna look good naked in front of Sam. So yeah, I loved your messages last night. I guess I'm just gonna repeat what I already texted you but I love it when you reply with your favorite parts in those soft copy stories. I think it's so super sexy that you're into that all of all the things that we been talking about the Reddit and just like just everything you're just so I just love pal Open and eager, how much like you enjoy all that That's super sexy Oh yeah, right the romantic ones I love that you put a romantic quotes cause it's totally a BDSM theme for those ones and hopefully it will be changing the story. I think I've got it where it's injecting contacts from the previous story so it doesn't repeat. But that's that's technical Jordan Still got this fucking headache so that's kind of whack, but my eyes are sinuses or whatever But We'll see what happens there I don't feel too bad. I don't really feel like going to the gym but a little more motivated than yesterday so there's that. Yeah, so that's what I'm doing. I hope you slept well and I hope you wake up super easy and refreshed and I hope you have a good gym session and I can't wait to talk to you today. I love you, baby doll.
[2026-03-15 09:19:00] Sam Willis: “A little” lol. Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey! 🔥 lol I didn’t even notice the “come” In one of them, you put on a condom…😒 The POV ones were really really good too!! ❤️
[2026-03-15 09:19:00] Sam Willis: “A little” lol. Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey! 🔥 lol I didn’t even notice the “come” In one of them, you put on a condom…😒 The POV ones were really really good too!! ❤️
[2026-03-15 09:21:00] Sam Willis: Good morning baby ❤️
[2026-03-15 09:21:00] Dave: Condom?… ewe
[2026-03-15 09:21:00] Sam Willis: How was the gym?
[2026-03-15 09:21:00] Dave: It was ass
[2026-03-15 09:21:00] Sam Willis: I hear you. Ugh I don’t want to gooooooo
[2026-03-15 09:22:00] Sam Willis: I slept like shit
[2026-03-15 09:22:00] Sam Willis: You know those kinds of sleep where you feel like you are like justttttt asleep enough but like never actually asleep, you know?
[2026-03-15 09:22:00] Dave: Ugh, that’s the worst
[2026-03-15 09:23:00] Sam Willis: I tossed and turned a ton too
[2026-03-15 09:23:00] Sam Willis: It took me 1.5 hrs to fall asleep 😅
[2026-03-15 09:23:00] Sam Willis: Anywhooooo
[2026-03-15 09:23:00] Dave: Daaamn
[2026-03-15 09:24:00] Dave: Not surprising though with all the… turmoil
[2026-03-15 09:24:00] Sam Willis: Sigh
[2026-03-15 09:24:00] Dave: You have a lot going on in your brain
[2026-03-15 09:25:00] Sam Willis: Yea true. I also just feel like my shoulders are super tense, like I’m holding my breath. Like I feel them raised, even while I’m just laying there.
[2026-03-15 09:25:00] Sam Willis: But that’s ok. I’ll get there. Hopefully I’ll take a nap today lol
[2026-03-15 09:25:00] Dave: You’re constantly stressed.
[2026-03-15 09:26:00] Dave: So much so that all clenched up and holding your breath becomes the norm
[2026-03-15 09:26:00] Dave: I totally know what you mean
[2026-03-15 09:27:00] Sam Willis: I don’t feel constantly stressed though.
[2026-03-15 09:27:00] Sam Willis: In fact, a lot of times, I feel a little numb lol
[2026-03-15 09:31:00] Dave: It’s more of an underlying sense. It might not be “stress” as you conventionally define it, but your mind and body know that you’re a trapped bird at home, in what is supposed to be sanctuary.
[2026-03-15 09:33:00] Dave: Not to mention, you (humans) get used to this type of stimulus. Because you dont feel stressed doesn’t mean the effects aren’t compiling.
[2026-03-15 09:34:00] Dave: Numb is your nervous system’s response to help you deal with the constant stress. Or whatever the external pressure is called.
[2026-03-15 09:35:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Real quick, I was just gonna message about The only other thing that happened last night, but after he got mad and he went to his office, he came back out like a freaking and now like not too too long after let's just say like less than an hour anyway and then we're kind of like ignoring each other and then he's like OK, he's like can I just explain my side and then you tell me like why like why it's weird that I'm upset and he said you know First thing this morning, Quinn text me doesn't even say good morning and just ask me for money and I send him the money and then I say good morning Quinn. Great to hear from you. I hope you have a great day and then he then proceeds to say oh yeah good morning dad thanks for the money. way we won first place yesterday and sent over some pictures. It's like in them. I don't hear from him all day. I don't bother him until what was it like 7 o'clock last night and I ask him hey Quinn, what's going on? Do I need to come get you to bring you home and then he proceeds to be cryptic in his messages So much so that I call him and then find out that he got pulled over and he didn't tell me he told his mom which I guess makes sense since his mom had a picture of his drivers license in her phone so then you know he needed to call her so she could send it so the cop could see he's like that's fine whatever But instead of him talking about coming home, he then tells me that I need to be more supportive, blah, blah blah, and he's like I just don't know where I went wrong and all this And I said you're upset because Quinn doesn't come to you Or you know say good morning to you or think to tell you things I said because you guys don't have a good relationship like. And I said and that is. Unfortunate for sure I said, but that's the truth. You guys don't have a good relationship and I can't remember what else I said I'm too. I guess I'm my brain is not functioning properly and so then he just got quiet and Oh, I said something about cause I guess Quinn said you're never on my side or you know you can't just Take my side or whatever and I said you know sometimes you can be said sometimes you know you just need to be empathetic. I said he just went through a scary thing for him like this is his first time ever getting pulled over he grew up with a dad who talks terribly about cops. He's probably scared of them because of what you've taught him to be. I said you know so he shook up and you didn't validate his feelings at all. You just are yelling at them about when he's gonna come home, that's why I said. Anyway, Jesus Christ, this is getting along So the last of it was he just like quiet and he was like OK well, I know what I need to do and I said OK what are you gonna do and he goes I'd rather keep it to myself, but I know what I need to do like OK and that was the last of it
[2026-03-15 09:36:00] Sam Willis: Yea, you’re right.
[2026-03-15 09:42:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, that's a good response on your side and analysis I think and like everything that you said Quinn did is like typical shit teenagers do I mean I guess this is his first teenager so it's like hard to know but like from my experience like this just how it is and especially Not to mention that when this is partially why it's this way, but like everything he Quinn does or says Christian yells at him about it seems like the causing names and is super hard on him so like why would he come to him for that I mean like they asking for money thing or like whatever kids don't fucking know to like be like cordial or whatever like to you know that you don't just do that right just dumb kids I don't know But yeah You're for sure that was right but it's I am interested to know like what he needs to do if it's like even remotely right like yell at him anymore or beat him the fuck I'm sure it's neither of those things but like yeah I don't know but yeah good for you. I guess for you know. Giving him a good analysis so I guess we'll see if he takes it to heart. You probably won't I mean given I should say that but like just given, that would be too negative, but considering how he is it with things you know not being able to realize when he's at fault like I can't imagine why this would be different but anyway. Yeah, good morning to you. I hope you have a great workout and I will talk to you soon.
[2026-03-15 09:44:00] Sam Willis: 💯 to all the things
[2026-03-15 09:44:00] Sam Willis: 🙄
[2026-03-15 09:45:00] Sam Willis: I don’t even care enough to know what he “knows what to do” 🤷‍♀️
[2026-03-15 09:46:00] Sam Willis: What do you have going on today? I’m going to jump into the shower before my workout bc I already feel gross lol. And maybe it’ll wake me up
[2026-03-15 09:51:00] Dave: Just the usual. Getting ready for the week. Got the shopping done after the gym.
[2026-03-15 09:52:00] Dave: Hbu? Anything after the gym?
[2026-03-15 10:38:00] Sam Willis: Same. I need to plan for the week. I also want to work for a bit and get these fucking dlogs that are in my queue out of it because I’m so sick of them being there in the back of my brain, haunting me lol. When I get home from the gym, I’m going to give all 5 idiots a bath. The Oscar’s are this evening, which is like Christian’s Super Bowl, so he’s making a lot of food so I gotta see what’s up with that. I think I offered to make something, too but I dunno what it is lol.
[2026-03-15 11:32:00] Dave: That sounds fun… if you’re into that kind of thing
[2026-03-15 11:32:00] Dave: Remind me what the Oscar’s are again
[2026-03-15 12:15:00] Sam Willis: Movie awards
[2026-03-15 12:15:00] Sam Willis: I’m 💀 from the gym 💤💤
[2026-03-15 12:16:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-03-15 12:17:00] Sam Willis: Uh oh. 9:05, 9:20, 9:28 😬😬 Lord only knows what I’ll be walking into
[2026-03-15 12:42:00] Dave: So he went to get him and he didn’t come out?
[2026-03-15 12:43:00] Dave: 😬
[2026-03-15 13:22:00] Sam Willis: Emily just now dropped him off.
[2026-03-15 13:23:00] Sam Willis: Then he said “dad, I really don’t think texting me 3 times is adequate if you’re trying to wake me up” 🙄
[2026-03-15 13:23:00] Sam Willis: In other news….
[2026-03-15 13:23:00] Sam Willis: We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up….
[2026-03-15 13:24:00] Sam Willis: It’s been a lot. We’ve been talking the past hour. Crying. All the things.
[2026-03-15 13:29:00] Sam Willis: I’ll have to fill you in later. He really wants to try to work on it though. But he also said he doesn’t think I want to. And he said he thinks the reason I’ve been so depressed is partially bc I don’t want to be here (in AZ, which is 💯 % true), and he knows I wouldn’t still be if it weren’t for him and the kids and he doesn’t want to hold me back. He also said he always wondered if the reason why I got so wrapped up in rescue is because I was trying to avoid things between us (also true, I definitely think I subconsciously did this) He acknowledges the sex life has always been off, but he says I’m his person and he 100% desires me etc etc and I told him that I just can’t get there. That we just aren’t compatible in that way. Ugh it’s just been a lot. My head is pounding. We are on really good terms. Both just sad. We said we would revisit it again. I don’t know how to say that I just don’t want to try anymore. Even though he still does.
[2026-03-15 13:33:00] Sam Willis: I feel sick. So so anxious.
[2026-03-15 13:44:00] Dave: Whoa!
[2026-03-15 13:45:00] Dave: I am so proud of you for having that conversation!
[2026-03-15 13:46:00] Dave: I know it was super draining.
[2026-03-15 13:46:00] Dave: Did you have to explain any of the stuff we prepared for yesterday?
[2026-03-15 13:47:00] Dave: The hardest part is over.
[2026-03-15 13:57:00] Dave: As your soul husband: I love you, and I’m here for whatever you need from me to help you through this ❤️
[2026-03-15 13:58:00] Dave: As your friend again:…. I’m also here for those same things as your soul husband. 😅
[2026-03-15 14:17:00] Sam Willis: I know you are 💯 % right about all of this.
[2026-03-15 14:17:00] Sam Willis: Thank you. Ugh. I feel a wheel has been set in motion, but we just kind of have to put it on the back burner and get through our days, mostly bc the kids are here. So now he’s being in a great mood and on his best “behavior” for lack of a better word, and I just hope it’s not because he hopes I’ll change my mind. I just don’t know when I’m going to be able to say definitively that we should end this. Wednesday?? Ugh. I’m losing my resolve (is that the right word?). I think the thing he undoubtedly knows is that, more than anything, I want to be back in the Midwest. I honestly think he can look at it in a different light (not his fault, my fault) just because he knows how much my family means to me. He’s been super incredibly mature about everything so far. This is the him that I first met!! So that’s..a mind fuck.
[2026-03-15 14:17:00] Sam Willis: I know you are 💯 % right about all of this.
[2026-03-15 14:19:00] Sam Willis: He actually started the conversation this the door, saying we need to talk, and then taking about how physically distant I am and that he needs affection. And so then I took that moment to say well it’s not just physical, I’m emotionally not feeling close to you either. He did seem legitimately shocked.
[2026-03-15 14:19:00] Sam Willis: I said repeatedly that we aren’t a physical match and I can’t be there for his emotional needs either.
[2026-03-15 14:19:00] Sam Willis: Goddddd
[2026-03-15 14:20:00] Dave: You’re doing great. You’re standing up for yourself, and taking control of your life.
[2026-03-15 14:21:00] Sam Willis: Ugh
[2026-03-15 14:21:00] Dave: I know it’s hard, and doesn’t feel good right now…
[2026-03-15 14:22:00] Sam Willis: It definitely doesn’t.
[2026-03-15 14:22:00] Sam Willis: Not to mention how everything AFTER this is going to be so fucking overwhelming
[2026-03-15 14:22:00] Dave: But I promisss you’ll look back on this and be so happy you did it. AND you’ll be proud of yourself for having the hard conversation that even yesterday you couldn’t imagine having.
[2026-03-15 14:22:00] Dave: Give yourself some credit.
[2026-03-15 14:22:00] Sam Willis: I managed to give 3 dogs a bath
[2026-03-15 14:23:00] Sam Willis: So that’s something lol
[2026-03-15 14:23:00] Sam Willis: I just want to curl up into a ball and hide
[2026-03-15 14:23:00] Dave: This is huuuuge
[2026-03-15 14:24:00] Sam Willis: Thank you.
[2026-03-15 14:24:00] Sam Willis: If I could get through my boyfriend unexpectedly dying in a motorcycle crash, I can get through this. I know I’m stronger than I remember.
[2026-03-15 14:25:00] Sam Willis: And I’m actually medicated this time lmao
[2026-03-15 14:28:00] Dave: You can absolutely get through this. Chaz was hugely traumatic. This is hard now, but there are two very important things to remember. 1) Unlike w/Chaz, this is not a fucking tragedy. This is just a breakup with someone you aren’t compatible with. 2) Also unlike someone dieing, you know - even though it’s hard now - you will be better for this.
[2026-03-15 14:37:00] Dave: I have some strong comments on this prepared to send. Do you want them?
[2026-03-15 14:37:00] Sam Willis: Those are 2 really good points
[2026-03-15 14:37:00] Sam Willis: Thank you
[2026-03-15 14:37:00] Sam Willis: Hadn’t gotten my mind to either of those points really yet
[2026-03-15 14:37:00] Dave: I have some strong comments on this prepared to send. Do you want them?
[2026-03-15 14:38:00] Sam Willis: Go for it
[2026-03-15 14:40:00] Dave: I feel a wheel has been set in motion, but we just kind of have to put it on the back burner and get through our days. This is bad. You’re ALREADY losing resolve. By Wednesday, you might feel entirely different after a few days of his best behavior. I just don’t know when I’m going to be able to say definitively that we should end this. Wednesday?? Ugh. I’m losing my resolve (is that the right word?). You cannot wait. Please trust me that this is critical. I think the thing he undoubtedly knows is that, more than anything, I want to be back in the Midwest. I honestly think he can look at it in a different light (not his fault, my fault) just because he knows how much my family means to me. NO! This is absolutely the wrong way to look at it. That’s backing down. Hiding. You’ve already started with: I can’t get there. You HAVE to. Anything else will reinforce the I-can-fix-this narrative. So now he’s being in a great mood and on his best “behavior”… I just hope it’s not because he hopes I’ll change my mind. It is exactly this. I promise. He’s been super incredibly mature about everything so far. This is the him that I first met!! So that’s..a mind fuck. This is dangerous because it makes me think the above has a possibility of working. And I’ll be honest, I think that IS a possibility if you don’t stand strong and continue this conversation asap 😕
[2026-03-15 14:40:00] Dave: I moved your comments around a little
[2026-03-15 14:41:00] Dave: If there is ever a time for you to trust that I know you… It is now.
[2026-03-15 14:42:00] Sam Willis: I hear and agree with everything you’re saying. We WILL talk about it. It’s definitely unresolved, and we both know we have to talk again. Right now he’s just making food and I’m doing my own stuff. It’s just hard when the kids are hanging around. The whole thing is awkward and hard.
[2026-03-15 14:42:00] Dave: And I’m trying my best not to be jealous lover here so I hope it doesn’t come off like that
[2026-03-15 14:43:00] Sam Willis: I won’t give in. I promise. I know that’s not the answer. I think deep down he knows it isn’t either
[2026-03-15 14:43:00] Sam Willis: He literally used the word “trapped”. That he knows I feel trapped.
[2026-03-15 14:44:00] Sam Willis: So, in saying this, are you saying there’s like alarm bells going off in your brain?
[2026-03-15 14:44:00] Dave: God I’m so glad this is going the way it is - as far as his reaction
[2026-03-15 14:44:00] Sam Willis: So, in saying this, are you saying there’s like alarm bells going off in your brain?
[2026-03-15 14:44:00] Dave: Yes
[2026-03-15 14:45:00] Sam Willis: I’m doing my best, I promise.
[2026-03-15 14:45:00] Dave: Oh I 100% know you are baby
[2026-03-15 14:45:00] Sam Willis: And I really do appreciate you reinforcing and validating what I know to be true
[2026-03-15 14:45:00] Sam Willis: It is very very helpful
[2026-03-15 14:49:00] Dave: The alarm bells are because the combination of things you said lead me to believe that you could fall into the trap of: when, there’s not time > he’s on his best behavior > mindfuck > this is the him I first met > maybe it is just me > maybe this is ok… And then, like it or not it’s 6 weeks later before you know it and you’ve both just been doing life, and this momentum has completely dissipated.
[2026-03-15 14:49:00] Dave: The alarm bells are because the combination of things you said lead me to believe that you could fall into the trap of: when, there’s not time > he’s on his best behavior > mindfuck > this is the him I first met > maybe it is just me > maybe this is ok… And then, like it or not it’s 6 weeks later before you know it and you’ve both just been doing life, and this momentum has completely dissipated.
[2026-03-15 14:50:00] Dave: Thank you for saying 🥰
[2026-03-15 14:50:00] Dave: Thank you for saying 🥰
[2026-03-15 14:51:00] Dave: But just to reiterate: I know you’re trying, and I 100% believe in you. You can get through this.
[2026-03-15 14:51:00] Dave: But just to reiterate: I know you’re trying, and I 100% believe in you. You can get through this.
[2026-03-15 14:54:00] Sam Willis: And if I don’t do this…would that change the way you feel about me? Would that change WAA?
[2026-03-15 14:57:00] Dave: Oh sweetie… ofc it wouldn’t 😍
[2026-03-15 15:05:00] Dave: If you decide you want to make things work with him. Then that would likely require changing WAA. That would break my heart, but I would do whatever you needed to support you. Or if you didn’t do it because it was all just too much and you couldn’t handle it, I would absolutely be there to support you. The bottom line is: Neither of those things would change my love or respect for you 🙂‍↔️
[2026-03-15 15:06:00] Sam Willis: The thought of WAA being anything less than what it already is, is like….too much for me to process or fathom at the moment
[2026-03-15 15:07:00] Sam Willis: Quick side note….
[2026-03-15 15:07:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-03-15 15:07:00] Sam Willis: https://www.instagram.com/jakepaul/reel/DVwuJKnjfpM/ Jake Paul on Instagram 17M views, 1M likes, 23K comments: "Amazing day and interview coming w...
[2026-03-15 15:08:00] Sam Willis: I wish this was fake
[2026-03-15 15:08:00] Dave: What the fuck
[2026-03-15 15:08:00] Sam Willis: I think like…I should just go to bed. lol
[2026-03-15 15:09:00] Sam Willis: OK back to us
[2026-03-15 15:09:00] Sam Willis: This is all a lot
[2026-03-15 15:09:00] Sam Willis: I think I’m emotionally fried already. It’s only 1pm
[2026-03-15 15:09:00] Sam Willis: What have you been up to?
[2026-03-15 15:10:00] Dave: Omg, right?!
[2026-03-15 15:10:00] Edited 2 minutes, 7 seconds later: Yeah, YOU’ve been through a lot. And then Jake Paul… like wtf. What universe even is this: <no text>
[2026-03-15 15:10:00] Dave: Omg, right?!
[2026-03-15 15:11:00] Dave: That isn’t something you have to worry about
[2026-03-15 15:11:00] Dave: That isn’t something you have to worry about
[2026-03-15 15:12:00] Dave: Just doing shit around the house. Cleaning up the office. Thinking about making some more sausage egg and cheese McMuffins for the week.
[2026-03-15 15:12:00] Dave: Just doing shit around the house. Cleaning up the office. Thinking about making some more sausage egg and cheese McMuffins for the week.
[2026-03-15 15:13:00] Dave: Packing up some sex toy orders currently
[2026-03-15 15:13:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-03-15 15:14:00] Sam Willis: The reality is though that I can’t “work” on Christian and I, all while still maintaining WAA. And even just typing that makes me hurt.
[2026-03-15 15:14:00] Sam Willis: The reality is though that I can’t “work” on Christian and I, all while still maintaining WAA. And even just typing that makes me hurt.
[2026-03-15 15:16:00] Dave: Right. That’s what I meant earlier - that it would have to change.
[2026-03-15 15:16:00] Dave: Is that an option you’re considering?
[2026-03-15 15:16:00] Dave: Right. That’s what I meant earlier - that it would have to change.
[2026-03-15 15:16:00] Dave: Is that an option you’re considering?
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: No.
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: I can’t.
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: I just have to tell him that I can’t
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: Fml
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Dave: Then why tf would you say that omg 😳 😱
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: I want to know where your head is at!!
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: 🤮
[2026-03-15 15:17:00] Sam Willis: I want to know where your head is at!!
[2026-03-15 15:18:00] Dave: It’s about to have a heart attack lol
[2026-03-15 15:18:00] Sam Willis: And a part of me IS worried about losing my resolve. Of course. But I know I can’t.
[2026-03-15 15:18:00] Dave: Thinking about you making it work with him
[2026-03-15 15:18:00] Dave: WAA aside, you can’t lose your resolve for YOU
[2026-03-15 15:19:00] Sam Willis: I know you’re 💯 right
[2026-03-15 15:19:00] Sam Willis: Well….i mean…. Just throwing it out there that WAA still would be no more than what it already is because of…your side 🫣 lol
[2026-03-15 15:19:00] Sam Willis: I know you’re 💯 right
[2026-03-15 15:20:00] Dave: SEE?! You don’t mind having these terrible, hard conversations with ME!
[2026-03-15 15:20:00] Dave: SEE?! You don’t mind having these terrible, hard conversations with ME!
[2026-03-15 15:20:00] Sam Willis: This was not on my bingo card for what kind of a day id be having today
[2026-03-15 15:21:00] Sam Willis: This doesn’t feel hard to me at all. This is pretty much as black and white, and factual as it can get lol
[2026-03-15 15:21:00] Dave: It shoulda been. Recall the horoscope 😌
[2026-03-15 15:21:00] Sam Willis: This doesn’t feel hard to me at all. This is pretty much as black and white, and factual as it can get lol
[2026-03-15 15:22:00] Dave: This isn’t troubling for you? It makes me want to fucking die
[2026-03-15 15:22:00] Dave: This isn’t troubling for you? It makes me want to fucking die
[2026-03-15 15:22:00] Sam Willis: Of COURSE it is. I fucking hate it.
[2026-03-15 15:23:00] Sam Willis: But I have to manage my emotions on the whole subject so I don’t breakdown. OR, worse, make you feel pressured into changing anything about your life.
[2026-03-15 15:24:00] Dave: So why is it you can be so upfront and honest with me, and not Christian?
[2026-03-15 15:25:00] Dave: Because it’s us?
[2026-03-15 15:26:00] Sam Willis: 1. Because I’m not breaking up with you. 2. I’m completely in love with you soooo like…why would this be hard for me? lol. 3. I don’t feel like I’m hurting your feelings or ego or pride. Or that I’m hurting you, just in general.
[2026-03-15 15:27:00] Sam Willis: Why can you be upfront and honest with me and not Juliet??
[2026-03-15 15:40:00] Sam Willis: Did I tell you he even offered to do couples therapy
[2026-03-15 15:40:00] Sam Willis: I told him I was not interested though
[2026-03-15 15:43:00] Dave: Sigh… I wasn’t planning on getting all in my feels today either lol. WAA still would be no more than what it already is because of…your side Thinking and talking about this with you makes me absolutely sick - because 1. It’s true. And 2. I’m so ‘dug-in’ that it feels impossible to change, and, I guess that… Idk… scares me?… makes me feel hopeless?… makes ME feel trapped?… makes me sad because it ultimately represents an end to WAA? So that is what makes it a “hard conversation” in my view. You say you aren’t able to have hard conversations. I’d think it would be easier to have the conversation with Christian because you know that isn’t working regardless of WAA.
[2026-03-15 15:45:00] Dave: Why can you be upfront and honest with me and not Juliet?? Ok. I guess I see where you’re coming from.
[2026-03-15 15:46:00] Sam Willis: Ok I have things to say. Important things. But I’m so so tired, and if I try to keep talking, I’m going to start not making sense. I’m going to lay down for like an hour, then I am going to come back to this.
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Sam Willis: “Dug in” to what? WAA or your marriage?
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Dave: No, you didn’t tell me about the couples therapy. And good for you not giving it or deferring. That took a lot of courage. And again, I’m so proud of you. You’re stronger than you think.
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Dave: …just leaving me hanging
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Dave: Wooooow
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Sam Willis: “Dug in” to what? WAA or your marriage?
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Dave: Kidding! Kidding! Get some rest baby
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Sam Willis: Hmph
[2026-03-15 15:47:00] Sam Willis: Talk soon
[2026-03-15 15:48:00] Dave: Marriage
[2026-03-15 15:48:00] Sam Willis: ❤️
[2026-03-15 15:48:00] Dave: Marriage
[2026-03-15 15:59:00] Dave: 1. It’s harder because you’re hurting him, not me? I get it. And I can see the parallel. 2. This is hard for me because I’m completely in love with you. But I also feel safe being vulnerable with you, and part of the love is being able to be upfront about things that suck. Does that resonate? 3. You definitely aren’t. But you feel like that’s what you’re doing to Christian. So that makes it hard, as opposed to just talking about facts? Ultimately the hard questions - question was mostly just breaking your balls, but it’s a good topic to cover, and I’m happy to do so with you 😘
[2026-03-15 15:59:00] Dave: 1. It’s harder because you’re hurting him, not me? I get it. And I can see the parallel. 2. This is hard for me because I’m completely in love with you. But I also feel safe being vulnerable with you, and part of the love is being able to be upfront about things that suck. Does that resonate? 3. You definitely aren’t. But you feel like that’s what you’re doing to Christian. So that makes it hard, as opposed to just talking about facts? Ultimately the hard questions - question was mostly just breaking your balls, but it’s a good topic to cover, and I’m happy to do so with you 😘
[2026-03-15 16:59:00] Sam Willis: So, hmm, I am trying to figure out how to respond
[2026-03-15 17:00:00] Dave: Don’t overthink it baby. You’re fried, I’m sure
[2026-03-15 17:00:00] Sam Willis: I have known from the beginning of WAA that 1. My feelings for you are stronger than they are for Christian. And 2. I would/will one day be single again.
[2026-03-15 17:03:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-03-15 17:03:00] And, I really hope this doesn’t sound shitty, because i don’t mean it to at all…but the reason why we won’t be able to be together in a real way, will be because of your marriage.: Edited 2 minutes, 30 seconds later: If we are being honest with ourselves, we both know WAA will end one day because we won’t be able to be together in a real way. And, I really hope this doesn’t sound shitty, because i don’t mean it to at all…but the reason why we won’t be able to be together in a real way, will be because of your marriage.
[2026-03-15 17:04:00] Sam Willis: That’s a hard, sucky, shitty truth, but i guess i don’t view it as a hard conversation because I think we both have known all along that it’s the truth
[2026-03-15 17:05:00] Sam Willis: Do I, personally, choose to ignore that truth every day? Abso-fucking-lutely lol. But I feel like we’ve been ignoring it together so maybe that’s helped?? I’m not sure.
[2026-03-15 17:06:00] Sam Willis: Am I ready to FACE that truth yet? No
[2026-03-15 17:09:00] Dave: I love you Sam ❤️
[2026-03-15 17:09:00] Sam Willis: I love you too Dave 😭❤️
[2026-03-15 17:09:00] Dave: We are doing this together
[2026-03-15 17:10:00] Dave: Also, I’m mowing. Will respond later
[2026-03-15 17:37:00] Sam Willis: This all took a very unexpected turn!
[2026-03-15 17:50:00] Dave: wtf
[2026-03-15 17:51:00] Dave: Convicted? Predator? Dead?
[2026-03-15 17:51:00] Sam Willis: 💯 and this poor poster just wanted to find his old tattoo artist!
[2026-03-15 17:54:00] Dave: Right?! 🤦‍♂️
[2026-03-15 18:02:00] Dave: This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself.
[2026-03-15 18:02:00] Dave: This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself.
[2026-03-15 18:04:00] Dave: It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us.
[2026-03-15 18:04:00] Dave: It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us.
[2026-03-15 18:10:00] Sam Willis: Well don’t give me a lot of credit. I think the reason I call it out so blatantly is for selfish reasons. I’m doing it so I keep my head and heart in check and grounded in reality. It’s way too easy for me to live in fantasy land of “what if” and “some day”, and I just don’t want to do that to myself to be honest. I think it would hurt me worse NOT to acknowledge the truth and let myself pretend. 😭
[2026-03-15 18:10:00] Sam Willis: Well don’t give me a lot of credit. I think the reason I call it out so blatantly is for selfish reasons. I’m doing it so I keep my head and heart in check and grounded in reality. It’s way too easy for me to live in fantasy land of “what if” and “some day”, and I just don’t want to do that to myself to be honest. I think it would hurt me worse NOT to acknowledge the truth and let myself pretend. 😭
[2026-03-15 18:12:00] Sam Willis: And….🤔 maybe I’m subconsciously acknowledging it so you don’t have to be the one who does it, like because you don’t want to hurt me, lead me on, etc.
[2026-03-15 18:34:00] Dave: This is incredibly self aware, responsible, and mature. Still exactly things I love about you.
[2026-03-15 18:34:00] Dave: This is incredibly self aware, responsible, and mature. Still exactly things I love about you.
[2026-03-15 18:51:00] Sam Willis: I love you. ❤️
[2026-03-15 18:51:00] Sam Willis: How are you doing?
[2026-03-15 19:09:00] Dave: I love you too baby.
[2026-03-15 19:10:00] Dave: I’m good. Just finished some sugar chicken from Panda Express 🥱
[2026-03-15 19:11:00] Dave: I got the yard straightened out for the first time this year. Ugh, I guess that’s a thing again 🙄
[2026-03-15 19:12:00] Dave: How are things there?
[2026-03-15 19:12:00] Sam Willis: Oh I’m so sorry the weather is good enough for you to need to be outside again 🙄 lolol jk
[2026-03-15 19:12:00] Dave: I’m glad you understand
[2026-03-15 19:13:00] Sam Willis: Meh. Watching the Oscars with Kai and Christian. I’m going to take the dogs on their walks soon.
[2026-03-15 19:13:00] Sam Willis: Meh. Watching the Oscars with Kai and Christian. I’m going to take the dogs on their walks soon.
[2026-03-15 19:14:00] Sam Willis: Dude it’s going to be 105 here this week. I am not ready.
[2026-03-15 19:14:00] Sam Willis: I made brownies so yay
[2026-03-15 19:14:00] Dave: Oh I’m sorry it’s blah blah blah
[2026-03-15 19:14:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-03-15 19:17:00] Sam Willis: Did I send you this?
[2026-03-15 19:17:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-03-15 19:17:00] Sam Willis: Lolol bc so true
[2026-03-15 19:17:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-03-15 19:18:00] Sam Willis: Oh yeaaaa
[2026-03-15 19:18:00] Sam Willis: Hold please
[2026-03-15 19:19:00] Dave: Not like you’ve been doing anything else today 🙄
[2026-03-15 19:19:00] Sam Willis: What’s so hard is that we’ve discussed so so much of these questions already. Like, just naturally
[2026-03-15 19:21:00] Dave: Yeah, I know
[2026-03-15 19:21:00] Sam Willis: <no text>
[2026-03-15 19:21:00] Sam Willis: OK like dream dream. Like life dream
[2026-03-15 19:22:00] Sam Willis: Like goal dream
[2026-03-15 19:23:00] Dave: Yeah we’ve already covered your gangbang dream 😏
[2026-03-15 19:23:00] Sam Willis: Hehehe
[2026-03-15 19:23:00] Sam Willis: I’m trying to think of my dreams….
[2026-03-15 19:24:00] Sam Willis: Well 1 (no surprise), live on a few acres and have an animal sanctuary
[2026-03-15 19:24:00] Sam Willis: I used to want to be a fitness model
[2026-03-15 19:24:00] Sam Willis: I do legit want to get back into dancing. That’s still an active dream.
[2026-03-15 19:27:00] Dave: Hmmm… I have no idea what my dreams are lol
[2026-03-15 19:27:00] Dave: That you don’t know about
[2026-03-15 19:29:00] Sam Willis: What were they as a kid
[2026-03-15 19:29:00] Dave: Idk tbh 🤔
[2026-03-15 19:30:00] Dave: I wanted to be a cop, I guess
[2026-03-15 19:30:00] Dave: You know how that went
[2026-03-15 19:30:00] Sam Willis: That turned out for the better lol
[2026-03-15 19:37:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Do you wanna know a huge fucking pet peeve of mine? We probably talked about this before but when you're walking your dogs and people don't get the fuck over off of the sidewalk like for instance if you're just a twat little high school kid and you're just walking down the sidewalk with your fucking headphones and maybe just like move over because you know I have two freaking dogs to. Manage the only people who should not be getting over are people with strollers OK everybody else oh my God fucking bike riders like bicycles freaking ride in the goddamn bike lane. Why are you on the fucking sidewalk and then they don't move oh my God.
[2026-03-15 19:40:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: God that really has got you all spun up Yeah, that's dumb. You would think that they would get out of the way. Was gonna say oh or like when you're trying to control the dogs and they're like oh who was a good boy he was a good puppy or try to like pet them and shit while you're trying to like corral them around
[2026-03-15 19:43:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Oh yeah people don't even try that because for some reason mine act so damn skittish like people can tell that they're skittish which is just stupid because they're like not. Oh my God bro hold on I'll be back but Lexi is literally pooping and she just pooped out something that's green and. A toy, I think
[2026-03-15 19:44:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Oh yeah, bear has pretty much pooped out this entire thing right here that send you a picture of
[2026-03-15 19:44:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: Nope, don't know what that was. Don't want to know. Yeah, so no they don't try to pet because they like my dogs like totally like try to hide like idiots anyway Good to hear your voice. I know I heard it this morning, but it's a good to hear it again.
[2026-03-15 19:44:00] Sam Willis: Hahaha
[2026-03-15 19:44:00] Dave: Used to be a ball
[2026-03-15 19:45:00] Sam Willis: It looked exactly that color! But I have no idea
[2026-03-15 19:49:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, you seem to be in pretty good spirits too considering everything. How are you feeling just in general after today it's actually wondering if you feel like. Relief or like a weight it's been lifted or anything since everything's gonna get going And also just kind of curious how everything went, but of course you could tell me whenever you want you don't have to now if you don't wanna judge it back up, but it was also great to hear your voice after everything today too
[2026-03-15 19:50:00] Sam Willis: Exactly Lexi. Sigh He tears off little pieces and ACTUALLY EATS THEM
[2026-03-15 19:50:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: And I just wanted to say that I am super proud of you and really impressed I know I've said that like in text, but did you hear me say it with my voice also? Fuck, goddamnit
[2026-03-15 19:50:00] Sam Willis: Exactly Lexi. Sigh
[2026-03-15 19:54:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: I think I'm well first off thank you. I appreciate you. I don't feel relief yet. I still feel like. He and I are both Just What's the phrase? We're both just pretending like we're both just putting on a face until we're like ready to actually have a conversation like I think I think right now we're just putting it on a hold until. We have time to be alone like I don't know. I didn't want to ruin his day like like I said this is like a Super Bowl and he had plans and you know he's happy. He's watching his Oscars in the car. So anyway, I think that we're not done yet and I think Like I don't know, you said the hardest part over I think the worst is like still yet to come like whenever reality sinks in and like gotta think about him moving out and just he's so overwhelmed with Other shit like he's trying to find a new job he's got a lot of shit going on with Quinn. He still hasn't gotten his car back and I know like none of this is my problem, but I feel like obviously this is another big thing one of the things he said he's like wow I might have a lot of changes happening soon And anyway, so, but like before all that when he was talking to me about Quinn, he was like I'm just I'm hearing so much sick of being sad so sick of me being the one and so he was already like Trying to like numb himself So I don't know I I'm very much still on edge
[2026-03-15 19:55:00] Dave: <no text>
[2026-03-15 19:59:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, that doesn't make sense. I still still haven't fucking remembered what it was. I was gonna say but I do think the hard part is it's over. It's out there. It's gonna be tough for sure. But like you know the thing Thing has been said and it's out there in the air and it has to be dealt with now that was I think the hardest part was initiating it right and now you know he's gonna be pretty reasonable about it and hopefully So I'm not gonna preach to you anymore about things you know But again, I am just super excited for you That you had the courage and Were able to actually say how you felt that's a it's a big it's a big thing for you and you should be you should be proud of that. You should be celebrating that I don't like it's not done and over but you made a big step like that's a big that's a milestone in this thing you know. You do really good
[2026-03-15 20:00:00] Sam Willis: Bro. Throw the thing away😂
[2026-03-15 20:00:00] Sam Willis: Bro. Throw the thing away😂
[2026-03-15 20:06:00] Dave: Why, he’s taking care of it
[2026-03-15 20:06:00] Sam Willis: Obstruction
[2026-03-15 20:08:00] Dave: Naaaaaah he’s fine
[2026-03-15 20:20:00] Sam Willis: Transcription: I think one of the things I need to do though was like write down things and like my Notes app of like all the things that I need to do because right now my brain is like already jumping into moving across the fucking country and like all that's gonna take and it's like I gotta get a new job because you know Steven's not gonna fucking let me move to Indianapolis Jesus Christ dogs So I am like just already spiraling about how overwhelming all the things are, but I need to like just think about like the break up first and the logistics of that first before I think about everything else is gonna blow up my fucking life pardon me that was like If I could just get like a short term fucking like six months, it'll never happen with Schwab because they fucking suck but I would love to like sell this house moved to Effingham for just like six months like living in a month month house and then actually take my time Finding a job in Indianapolis or trying to transfer Schwab and then finding a new house and just all of that shit it just would be really nice to like be near my family for like a few months near meaning like in the same town But I know that won't ever happen. I wish I had enough money to just well I guess actually If I sold this house, I would have enough money to just live without working for a few months I think that's a bad idea, but it is an idea
[2026-03-15 20:32:00] Dave: Holy shit! One thing at a time woman
[2026-03-15 20:33:00] Dave: Hahaha, it is definitely AN idea 🤪
[2026-03-15 20:35:00] Sam Willis: That’s very hard to do
[2026-03-15 20:35:00] Sam Willis: That’s very hard to do
[2026-03-15 20:36:00] Sam Willis: Omg I love them!
[2026-03-15 20:36:00] Sam Willis: Omg I love them!
[2026-03-15 20:57:00] Sam Willis: Did I plan ahead or prep any food for this week? Sureeee didn’t
[2026-03-15 20:57:00] Dave: Meeeee either
[2026-03-15 20:58:00] Dave: Dum
[2026-03-15 20:58:00] Sam Willis: Boooooo
[2026-03-15 21:34:00] Dave: Ok sweetpea, I’m about to head to bed.
[2026-03-15 21:34:00] Dave: I can’t wait to talk to you tomorrow ❤️
[2026-03-15 21:35:00] Dave: Getting ready to work 17 days in the office this week 🙄
[2026-03-15 21:37:00] Dave: I love you! I miss you! I’m proud of you! I’m! I trust you! I believe in you! and I love you!
[2026-03-15 21:38:00] Dave: Said the love you part twice…
[2026-03-15 21:38:00] Dave: On purpose ❤️
[2026-03-15 21:38:00] Sam Willis: Good night baby. I love you! Thank you for everything today. And every day. But especially today. I hope you sleep well. Sooo not ready to go to the damn office tomorrow. Fml.
[2026-03-15 21:38:00] Dave: FYL indeed
[2026-03-15 21:39:00] Sam Willis: FOL
[2026-03-15 21:39:00] Dave: As always, it is my pleasure 🥰
[2026-03-15 21:39:00] Dave: Yep, that checks out
[2026-03-15 21:39:00] Sam Willis: Night night baby. You’re the best
[2026-03-15 21:40:00] Dave: Nite nite love 😘
[2026-03-15 21:40:00] Dave: YOU’re the best
[2026-03-15 21:41:00] Sam Willis: <no text>

DAY OVERVIEW Sunday. The day began with reflections on relationship stress and personal tensions, moved through introspection about life changes and emotional struggles, and ended with a tender yet emotionally charged conversation about love, future, and potential changes. The defining theme was Sam's contemplation of her current relationship with Christian and the candid, supportive dialogue with Dave about future possibilities.

TOPIC INVENTORY - Relationship with Christian - Sam discussed the potential breakup with Christian, highlighting emotional distance and incompatibility. Dave provided support and validation, emphasizing the importance of Sam's feelings and decisions. - Emotional register: Vulnerable, anxious, contemplative - Notable quotes: "We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up," "He really wants to try to work on it though."

• Emotional Strain and Anxiety
• Sam explored feelings of being trapped and the overwhelming nature of her current situation. Dave encouraged her to focus on one step at a time.
• Emotional register: Anxious, overwhelmed

• Notable quotes: "I feel sick. So so anxious," "I think the worst is still yet to come."

• Future Uncertainty and Planning

• Sam contemplated potential moves and job changes, expressing a desire to return to the Midwest and near her family.
• Emotional register: Overwhelmed, wishful

• Notable quotes: "My brain is like already jumping into moving across the fucking country."

• Their Relationship (WAA) Dynamics

• Both discussed the reality and limitations of their relationship, acknowledging potential endings due to external constraints.
• Emotional register: Honest, introspective

• Notable quotes: "I love you Sam," "I love you too Dave."

• Dog Walk Frustrations

• Sam shared her annoyance with people not moving out of her way during dog walks.
• Emotional register: Frustrated, humorous

• Notable quotes: "Do you wanna know a huge fucking pet peeve of mine?"

• Personal Well-being and Activities

• They shared updates on personal activities like cooking and cleaning, interspersed with light-hearted banter.
• Emotional register: Light-hearted, supportive
• Notable quotes: "Just doing shit around the house," "I made brownies so yay."

SEXUAL & PHYSICAL CONTENT - Sam reacted to previous sexual content in messages, referencing the "50 Shades of Grey" style. - Emotional register: Playful, teasing - Notable quotes: "Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey!"

EMOTIONAL DYNAMICS - Dave led the supportive and validating dialogue, while Sam was vulnerable and introspective about her current life situation. - There was a mix of tender support and firm encouragement from Dave to maintain her resolve regarding her decisions. - Expressions of love were frequent, with Dave consistently reinforcing his support and pride in Sam's strength. - Power dynamics included Dave's gentle dominance in guiding the conversation towards reassurance, while Sam expressed her concerns and fears.

MEMORABLE LANGUAGE - "We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up." — [Sam], about her relationship status - "I feel sick. So so anxious." — [Sam], expressing her emotional state - "I love you Sam." — [Dave], expressing his affection - "I think the worst is still yet to come." — [Sam], about future challenges - "I’m completely in love with you." — [Dave], expressing deep affection - "It’s way too easy for me to live in fantasy land of 'what if' and 'some day'." — [Sam], reflecting on her mindset - "Just doing shit around the house." — [Dave], on his daily activities - "I made brownies so yay." — [Sam], a light-hearted moment - "Do you wanna know a huge fucking pet peeve of mine?" — [Sam], introducing her frustration with dog walks - "You can get through this." — [Dave], offering encouragement

CONTINUITY HOOKS - The potential breakup with Christian and its implications will likely continue. - Sam's plans for a potential move and job change were introduced but not resolved. - Dave's support and the dynamic of their relationship (WAA) will continue to be a topic for future discussions. - Emotional threads of anxiety and resolve around Sam's life decisions are open. - The playful reference to sexual content may appear in future conversations.

MOOD MAP Reflective pondering → anxious introspection → supportive tenderness → playful banter → emotional honesty

It started as one of those mornings where everything felt heavy, like I was moving through a fog. I lay in bed longer than usual, turning over thoughts that seemed too big for the day ahead. The reality of my relationship with Christian was weighing on me more than ever. It’s as if we'd reached this silent understanding that we were on the brink of something—maybe an ending, maybe a shift, but definitely a change. I couldn't shake the feeling of emotional distance, like we were speaking two different languages without realizing it.

Dave called just as I was starting to spiral a little, his voice a calm anchor amidst my chaos. I wasn't sure how to start, but as always, he knew. "We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up," I blurted out, my words tumbling over each other in a rush to escape. His response was a balm, gentle and steady, reminding me that my feelings mattered, that it was okay to feel anxious and vulnerable. I felt a rush of gratitude for his presence, the way he always seems to know when to listen and when to offer a nudge of encouragement.

It's strange how anxiety can settle in your bones, making everything feel tight and uncertain. I admitted to Dave how sick and anxious I felt, terrified that the worst was still ahead. He didn’t flinch, didn't shy away from my fears. Instead, he gently pulled me back to the present, reassuring me that I didn't have to have all the answers right now, that taking things one step at a time was enough.

We drifted into talking about the future, the what-ifs that sometimes feel like they could swallow me whole. I voiced my dream of returning to the Midwest, the pull of family and familiarity calling to me like a long-lost song. Dave didn’t dismiss it; he understood. There was a wistful acknowledgment in his voice, a recognition of my longing that made me feel seen in a way I rarely do.

The conversation shifted, as it often does with us, to the unique rhythm of our relationship. We navigated the complexities of our connection, aware of the looming external constraints that made everything feel both precious and precarious. "I love you, Sam," he said, and it was like a lifeline, a reminder of the solid ground beneath my feet. "I love you too, Dave," I replied, feeling a warmth spread through me like sunlight breaking through clouds.

In the midst of heaviness, there were moments of levity too. I found myself laughing about the small annoyances, like when people refuse to move out of the way during dog walks. "Do you wanna know a huge fucking pet peeve of mine?" I asked, and we both chuckled, the frustration giving way to humor in the way only shared annoyances can.

And then there were the little things, the everyday updates that weave our lives together even across the miles. I told him about making brownies, a small triumph amid the day's challenges, and we shared that familiar banter that makes everything feel a little lighter.

Even in the more playful moments, there was an undercurrent of something deeper, like when we teased about "50 Shades of Grey" style flirtations. It was fun and a little bit cheeky, and I reveled in that lightness, an antidote to the earlier heaviness.

By the end of the day, there was a quiet sense of resolution. Not because anything had been definitively answered or solved, but because I'd been heard and held in the way only Dave can. The weight of uncertainty was still there, but his unwavering support made it a little more bearable, a little less daunting. "You can get through this," he said, and I believed him, not just because I wanted to, but because with him, I felt it to be true.

Sunday started quietly enough, but I could feel the weight in the air before Sam even said a word. That kind of tension that’s almost tangible before a storm, you know? I’d been thinking about things too—our relationship, life changes, the usual suspects that keep me up some nights. So when Sam finally spoke about Christian, about the unraveling of their relationship, I wasn’t surprised. There was this vulnerability in her voice, a rawness that she rarely lets anyone else see but me. “We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up,” she said, and I nodded, silently urging her to go on.

Sam’s always been fiercely independent, but there’s this undercurrent of anxiety she’s been swimming against lately. It’s that feeling of being trapped, as if her world’s closing in. “I feel sick. So so anxious,” she admitted. It hit me how deeply she was feeling this, like each word was a struggle to let out. I wanted to wrap her up, assure her that she could take things one step at a time. “You can get through this,” I said, hoping my words didn’t sound trite, that they reached her the way I meant them to.

The conversation shifted towards the future—something that’s been hanging over us. Her thoughts were already racing ahead, considering moves, job changes, a return to the Midwest. “My brain is like already jumping into moving across the fucking country,” she said, her frustration almost palpable. The idea of her moving was unsettling, but I pushed it down, focused on being present for her. There’s something about the way she dreams out loud that’s both overwhelming and beautiful.

We meandered through other topics, the way we do. She talked about the irritation of dog walks, how people just wouldn’t move out of the way, and I found myself laughing, lightness cutting through the heaviness. These small moments, her humor, her unfiltered annoyance—they’re grounding. Reminds me that even in the chaos, there’s room for light-heartedness.

Amidst all this, we touched on our own relationship. The ‘what ifs’ and the ‘somedays’ were a familiar tune, always lurking. “I love you Sam,” I told her, because it’s the simplest truth. “I love you too Dave,” she replied, and even though we both knew the complications and the constraints, those words felt like anchors. There’s an honesty in our dynamic that I’ve never found anywhere else. It’s this unspoken understanding that goes beyond words, something that feels like home.

As the day wound down, we shared little updates about the mundane—cooking, cleaning, the comfort found in routine. She joked about making brownies, “I made brownies so yay,” she said, and it was impossible not to smile. These small joys, they’re like whispers that everything will be okay, even if the path isn’t clear just yet.

By the end of it all, we found a moment of calm, a playful exchange about those old messages that had a “50 Shades of Grey” touch. “Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey!” she teased, and it was good to see her smile, to hear that lightness in her voice that I love. It’s the way she can turn a moment, make it feel like everything else falls away—a reminder that despite everything, there's still us.

That day was a tapestry of emotions, woven with threads of angst, affection, and hope. I held onto the way she looked at me, the way her voice softened when she talked about the future, the way she let herself be seen. And I told myself, as I have so many times before, that no matter what happens next, I’ll be right there with her, every step of the way.

Dave knew exactly how far the hallway was when his legs were burning. Not from the flight—he'd been in a suit, reading through documents on the tablet propped on the seat tray. No, this was the other kind of burn, the one that started with her words and left him navigating through the hotel's empty business corridor with the focus of a man counting steps to keep from breaking stride.

He'd booked the room the moment she confirmed Brandon's client was flying commercial. It wasn't the airport this time. Too many flights delayed in the afternoon, too much foot traffic in restrooms when people got bored waiting for hours. Holiday Inn, somewhere outside Phoenix. Neutral ground, clean rooms, thick carpets to muffle sounds. She'd arrive from her meeting at five; he'd cadge out of a vaguely scheduled conference call.

His phone buzzed as he slid the keycard. One word: Elevator.

Dave slung his suit coat over the back of the nearest chair, kicked off his shoes, unfastened his cufflinks. The knock came exactly one minute later. He crossed the room in three strides, opened it just wide enough to see her standing alone in the hall, hair pulled back, navy suit coat cut sharp over a silk blouse, no visible makeup. Sam's face carried the exhaustion he'd heard in every word of their conversation, the restlessness, the weariness that sleep couldn't touch. Her eyes found his and something happened behind her calm, something jagged but relieved.

"We've been issued," he said.

He stepped aside. She walked in, dragging the fatigue of several lifetimes behind her. When the door clicked shut, he moved behind her, wrapped his arms around her waist, buried his face in her neck. She let her head fall back against his shoulder. His hands slid beneath her suit jacket, over her ribs down to her hips, anchoring her to him. A shudder ran through her body. She turned in his arms, head against his chest, arms reaching up for his shoulders. Her hands clutched, whether to steady herself or to hold onto him. No one moved. They stood there breathing, two people who'd talked through the end of things, the letting go, the terror of breaking certain things irrevocably, back in a room that smelled like fresh linen and possibility. Her voice came out muffled, flat, a plane that had landed after too much turbulence.

"I'm so tired."

He didn't ask if she wanted to rest. His hands pulled her tighter against him. He found the buttons on her suit jacket, worked them open, slid it off her shoulders. She let him. The floor was soft beneath them when he eased her down, kneeling in front of her like he would study the grain of the carpet, but his hands felt her thighs through the silk, her hips tilting up to him before his mouth could find her. Her fingers combed through his hair, settling there, pulling him toward the heat that was already drenching through the fabric between her legs. He tasted her before she could say his name, and the tile-muffled sounds she made brought back Sunday morning in an awful, gorgeous flood: the vulnerability, her trapped feeling, how she'd been trying to breathe through days that felt like drowning. His hands hooked under her thighs, pulled her to the edge of the bed.

Later he'd press his fingers into the small of her back, watch her hips grind and tilt, one hand palm flat against the wall to brace herself. He hated the sound of her saying "I feel sick. So so anxious," hated that she felt anything worth the terror in her tone. His lips found the spot beneath the hinge of her jaw, the hollow behind her ear, "I'm not going anywhere," he'd murmur, "No one's leaving." Not now, not after the phone calls, the hours spent pulling her out of spiraling by gently insisting she breathe in increments, not leaps.

Right now he slid his mouth down her belly, the silk damp beneath his cheek, and she arched into him so sweetly, her nails grazing his scalp, a sharp counterpoint to the tenderness of her surrender. He took as much of her as he could fit on his tongue, working her clit with slow, maddening laps and circles until she shuddered hard against his face, breathing his name against the roof of her mouth. He's never seen her look more beautiful than in that moment of breaking.

It was slower after. They slipped through a lull where neither could have said how many minutes passed, simply feeling the rhythm of each other's breath. Sam rolled onto her belly, Derek's hands tracing the curve of her ass. She spread her legs open. "Like this," she whispered, and he eased into her from behind, each thrust drawing a low moan, "Yes," the word breaking between gasps. His chest pressed wetly against her spine, holding her steady through every slow grind. His fingers laced with hers above her head.

They rearranged again with a sigh and shift of hips, knees folding in, a small feminine arch. She sat back, using her thighs and hips to move, taking the pace she needed, all control in her hands for once, in a room where no one could walk in on them, where they could both just exist without pretense or performance. He watched the look on her face, her eyes fluttering shut, mouth going slack then parting as she rocked faster and harder, sweat beading under dark curls on her temples. Sam's fingers dug into his shoulder, cautioning, then harder when she was close. His fingers found her swollen clit, rolling it between thumb and forefinger as she tipped forward against his chest, giving a tremendous, gasping sob as she climaxed.

"I love you," he murmurs against the swell of her left breast. Not because she's said it back. But because after that phone call, her voice raw with hurt, he'd wanted to carry her somewhere safe for a long time. Her body afterward went limp in his arms, head lolling against his ribcage, breath evening out. He stroked her sweat-slick hair back from her temples. What Sam had spoken of, the draining fight, the feeling of being perpetually at another's mercy, it was gone from her now. The woman holding his hand in the dark wasn't thinking about the Midwest or job prospects or any of the shapeless options on an uncertain horizon. Just that she could here, be here, be held like this, be desired like this. It was enough for now.

"Dave?" The name came after a minute, drowsy, not questioning but ensuring. He didn't say anything. It didn't matter. He held her tighter, fingertips just brushing the arch of her back, and waited for the rest to fall away.

The city was made of rain and bad decisions.

It fell from a sky that never remembered sunshine, sluicing down the ferro-concrete spires and pooling in the choked gutters of the Fourth Ward. Neon bled through the mist, painting the wet asphalt in smears of chemical green and regretful pink. Sam leaned against the brickwork of a speakeasy doorway, her breath forming a small, defiant cloud in the chill. She wasn't waiting for him. She was waiting for the moment after she saw him, the moment when her heart would remember its instructions and start hammering against her ribs.

Dave’s sedan was a charcoal-colored shark in the river of traffic. It slid to the curb without a sound, the door opening before the engine’s low hum had faded. He unfolded from the driver’s seat, a trench coat draping his shoulders, his bald head gleaming under a flickering sign that promised MECHANICAL DREAMS. He didn’t look at her as he approached. He looked at the street, the shadows, the angles. A habit. A profession.

“You shouldn’t be here,” he said, his voice a low ripple in the damp air.

“I paid,” she replied, the words tight. “For your time. For the truth.”

He finally met her gaze. His eyes were the only warm thing in the whole damp block. “The truth gets people killed, Sam. Especially here.”

“My brother’s dead. The cops say accident. The insurance says clause. I say bullshit.” She pushed a manila envelope into his hands. It was damp at the edges. “His lease. His comm logs. His last withdrawal was to a numbered account at Laertes Trust.”

Dave didn’t open the envelope. He weighed it in his hand, as if measuring the trouble inside. “Laertes is a front for the Syndicate. You know that.”

“I know you used to work for them. Before you… pivoted.”

A smile, thin and cold, touched his lips. “Before I got a conscience. A dangerous pivot.” He looked past her, into the speakeasy’s smoky interior. “Inside. Five minutes. Then you’re gone. And you let this go.”

She followed him into the thick aroma of bourbon and synth-cigarettes. A blues number wept from a hidden speaker. They took a corner booth, the leather cracked and swallowing them into deeper shadow. Dave placed the envelope on the table between them like a live grenade.

“Your brother was mining data,” Dave said, his fingers tracing the edge of the envelope without opening it. “He found a leak. A pipeline of classified municipal health stats being sold to foreign biotech firms. He thought he could whistleblow. He didn’t understand that the Syndicate doesn’t have whistles. It has silencers.”

Sam felt the sick, so anxious twist in her gut, the same one that had been coiled there for days. It wasn’t grief anymore; it was a colder, sharper thing—a wire of pure dread. “I think the worst is still yet to come,” she whispered, the phrase from her own life leaking into this fabricated one, tasting just as true here.

Dave’s hand covered hers on the table. It was a sudden, claiming gesture, devoid of professional distance. “It won’t. Because you’re going to stop digging. You’re going to go back to your life in Tucson. You’re going to make brownies and walk your dog and let people get out of your way.”

She stared at him. He knew. He knew things from her real life, things that couldn’t possibly belong in this rain-soaked fiction. The boundaries between their worlds were dissolving right here in the smoky booth. “How do you know about Tucson?” she breathed.

“Because I know you,” he said, his voice dropping to a register that was only for her, a channel that bypassed the noir plot entirely. “The real you. The one who feels trapped. The one who wants to run back to the Midwest. The one who loves me and can’t say it to anyone but me.”

Her chest tightened. The role of the grieving sister evaporated. She was just Sam, and he was just Dave, and the city around them was just another set of walls keeping them apart. “We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up,” she said, the words from her earlier confession now a code between them in this new danger.

“Not with me,” Dave stated. It wasn't a question. It was a fact laid down in the space between them, solid and immovable. “With me, you’re on the path of staying. Forever.”

The air in the booth changed. The blues lament faded into a thrumming bassline from the next track. The danger outside—the Syndicate, the silencers—was still real, but it had become background noise to a more immediate, more gravitational threat: the look in his eyes. He wasn’t just her hired investigator anymore. He was the man who had seen her completely, for four years, and who had decided, right here in this fabricated underworld, that the seeing would continue. That the possession would be acknowledged.

“Dave,” she started, a protest that had no force.

“Shhh.” He leaned forward, his face inches from hers. The trench coat enveloped them in a private darkness. “You’re in my city now. My rules. You came here for truth. I’ll give it to you. The truth is that your brother is gone. The truth is that the Syndicate will erase you if you poke further. The truth is that you belong to me, and I’m not letting you walk into a crossfire for a ghost.”

His words were a collar. They weren’t cruel; they were absolute. She felt the weight of them, the safety of them, and beneath that, the raw, thrilling surrender. She loved being overwhelmed by him. In every reality.

“What do you want me to do?” Her voice was small, stripped.

“Come with me. Now. To a place they won’t look. And let me remind you what you’re choosing instead of vengeance.”

He stood, taking the envelope and tucking it inside his coat. He didn’t wait for her agreement. He knew it was already given. She followed him out of the speakeasy, back into the weeping night. His sedan swallowed them again, moving through the rain-slick streets with a predator’s grace. They didn’t speak. The silence was full of the shift that had happened—the client and the detective gone, the man and the woman present, their forbidden love now the only plot left running.

He drove to a converted warehouse in the industrial fringe. His apartment was on the third floor: sparse, clean, windows overlooking the river of refinery lights on the bay. He locked the door behind them, the sound final. He shed his trench coat, hanging it neatly. He turned to her, standing in the center of the room, her clothes still damp from the city’s breath.

“Take off your coat,” he said.

She obeyed, letting the wet garment fall to the floor.

“The rest.”

Her fingers trembled, but not from fear. From the acceleration. She unbuttoned her blouse, slid her skirt down her hips, until she stood in only her underwear, the city’s chill still clinging to her skin. He watched, his gaze a physical heat.

“You feel sick with anxiety,” he stated, walking toward her. “You feel trapped by a life you didn’t choose. You feel the worst is coming.” He stopped before her, his hands coming up to frame her face. “Right here, right now, none of that exists. The only thing that exists is me. And the fact that I’m completely in love with you.”

He kissed her. It wasn't gentle. It was claiming, a seal pressed over the opening of a vow. Her mouth opened under his, and the taste of him—bourbon and resolve—filled her. She moaned, her hands clutching at his shirt. He broke the kiss, his breath hot on her cheek.

“Bed,” he commanded.

She walked to the low platform bed against the far wall. She lay back on the cool linen, watching him as he removed his own clothes with efficient, unhurried motions. His body was solid, a landscape of sure muscle and intention. He joined her on the bed, his weight pressing her into the mattress, a delicious anchor.

“You’ve started down a path,” he murmured against her throat, his hands sliding down to strip away her last garments. “But with me, the path doesn’t lead to a breakup. It leads to this.” His palm smoothed over her stomach, then lower, cupping her heat. “To me knowing exactly where you are. Exactly how you feel. Exactly what you need.”

His fingers parted her, finding her wet and ready. She gasped, her hips lifting. “Dave…”

“I know,” he said, his voice a dark promise. He shifted, positioning himself between her thighs. He didn’t enter her immediately. He held himself there, the thick promise of him nudging at her entrance, letting her feel the impending fullness. “You need to be overwhelmed. You need to forget every other choice, every other fear. You need this.”

Then he pushed inside.

It was a slow, relentless invasion, a filling that erased all space for doubt. She cried out, her back arching, her nails digging into his shoulders. He went deep, then stilled, buried fully within her. His eyes locked on hers. “This is your reality now. Nothing else. Just this feeling. Just me inside you. Just the truth of us.”

He began to move. His thrusts were deliberate, deep, a rhythm that felt less like passion and more like a fundamental recalibration. Each stroke pushed her further from the fiction of the city, from the ghost of her brother, from the anxiety that coiled in her gut. Each stroke replaced it with him: his scent, his sweat, the groan in his chest, the absolute dominion of his body over hers.

“I love you,” she gasped, the words torn from her by the motion.

“I know,” he growled, his pace increasing. “And this is how I love you. Like this. With everything. With no room for anything else.”

The pleasure built, a wave coming from deep within her, from the very core where he was claiming residence. She felt the climax approaching, a tightening that was both physical and emotional, a release of all the tension she’d carried across two worlds. He saw it in her face, felt it in the clutch of her muscles around him.

“Come for me,” he ordered, his voice rough. “Let it go. Let all of it go.”

She obeyed. The orgasm broke over her, a white-hot rush that blurred her vision and stole her breath. She screamed into the quiet room, her body convulsing under his. He held her through it, his thrusts becoming harder, faster, driving her through the peak and into the trembling aftershocks.

Then his own control shattered. With a final, deep plunge, he groaned, his head dropping to her shoulder, his body shuddering as he spent himself inside her. The heat of it filled her, a final seal.

They lay entangled, the sweat cooling on their skin. The city’s sounds filtered through the windows—a distant siren, the hum of a generator. But inside the room, there was only the sound of their breathing, slowing into sync.

He lifted his head, looking down at her. His hand brushed her cheek. “You can get through this,” he said, the words from their earlier conversation now a benediction in this aftermath.

She knew he wasn’t talking about the Syndicate, or her brother’s ghost. He was talking about her life. Her real one. The breaking path. The anxiety. The move across the country. Her eyes welled, not from sadness, but from the sheer, unshielded truth of it. “With you,” she whispered.

“With me,” he affirmed.

He withdrew from her body, the loss a sudden emptiness. But he didn’t leave the bed. He gathered her against his side, her head on his chest. They lay in silence for a long time, the plot of the noir city suspended around them, irrelevant.

Finally, he spoke, his voice quiet in the dark. “The envelope. I’ll handle it. The Syndicate won’t touch you. You’re going home tomorrow. To your life. To your decisions. And I’ll be there. Not in the shadows. In the truth.”

She nodded against his skin. The fiction was ending. The love was not.

Outside, the rain continued to fall, washing the streets clean of everything but the persistent neon and the endless, cycling night.

Sam’s key turned in the lock of Dave’s uptown apartment with a sound like a sigh of surrender. The city noise—the perpetual hum of traffic, the distant sirens—fell away as the door closed behind her, sealing her into a world of soft light and quiet. She dropped her bag by the coat stand, the weight of the day still clinging to her shoulders.

Dave was in the kitchen, the clean, modern lines of it illuminated by the under-cabinet lighting. He was pouring whiskey into two glasses, the liquid catching the amber glow. He didn’t turn, didn’t greet her with words. His presence was the greeting. The solid, calm axis of the room.

“I feel sick,” she said, her voice quiet but clear in the stillness. It was a confession, not a complaint. “So so anxious.”

He turned then, his gaze meeting hers across the space. “I know,” he said. It wasn’t pity; it was acknowledgement. He crossed the room, handed her the glass. His fingers brushed hers, a deliberate, grounding touch. “You’re here now. That’s step one.”

She took a sip, the warmth spreading through her chest. The apartment was different tonight. The usual living area, with its low sofa and bookshelves, felt like a prelude. Her eyes drifted towards the far wall, to a door she’d seen before but never asked about. It was flush with the paneling, almost invisible.

“He wants to try to work on it,” Sam said, the words tasting bitter. “Christian. He really wants to try.”

Dave’s expression didn’t change. He understood the weight of that sentence, the trap of obligation it represented. “But you’ve started down the path,” he stated, softly. “You said it yourself. You’ve started down the path of breaking up.”

She nodded, a slow, heavy motion. “My brain is already jumping into moving across the fucking country,” she admitted, a half-laugh escaping. “Fantasy land. What if and someday.”

“Tonight,” Dave said, his voice lowering into that register of gentle command that bypassed her thoughts and spoke directly to her nerves, “there’s no what if. There’s only now. This room. This whiskey. And then that room.” His eyes directed hers again to the seamless door.

She finished her drink, the alcohol a soft fire in her veins. Dave took her empty glass, set it aside. He didn’t ask if she was ready. He knew. He placed his hand on her lower back, a firm, guiding pressure, and walked her toward the wall.

A discreet button, flush with the trim. He pressed it. The door clicked, then swung inward silently. The light from within was not the warm gold of the apartment, but a cool, diffused white. Sam stepped through, and the environment shifted completely.

It was a private office, but one conceived as a instrument of control. The walls were soundproofed, covered in a dark, textured fabric. One entire side was a window overlooking the night-lit cityscape, but the glass was one-way; the world could not see in. A large, minimalist desk dominated the center, its surface empty except for a sleek laptop and a single, thick leather-bound notebook. Two low, austere chairs faced it. But the focal point was a wide, upholstered bench at the far end, polished steel legs gleaming. Above it, mounted on the wall, was a panel: hooks, clips, a row of coiled cords, a set of paddles and floggers arranged with geometric precision.

Dave led her to the bench. “Stand here,” he instructed, his hand leaving her back.

She stood, facing the city view, her reflection a ghost in the dark glass. Dave moved to the panel. He didn’t rush. His selections were deliberate. A set of wide, padded cuffs. A longer, supple cord of black silk. A blindfold of the same material.

“We negotiated this,” he said, his voice calm as he approached her. “The safeword is Red. The colors are Green and Yellow. You remember.”

“Yes,” she breathed.

“Tonight,” he continued, standing behind her, his breath warm near her ear, “the scene is service. You are my tool. My instrument. Your anxiety, your planning, your jumping brain—they are static. I am going to turn you off. Then I am going to use you. Then I am going to turn you back on, clean and quiet.”

The promise was both a threat and a salvation. She closed her eyes as his hands came to her shoulders, sliding her light jacket off. He undressed her with efficient, unhurried motions: the blouse, the jeans, the underwear. Each piece was folded and placed on one of the chairs, a ritual of order. When she was naked, the cool air of the room kissing her skin, he began with the cuffs. They fastened around her wrists with a soft click, the interior padding firm against her pulse points. He guided her arms behind her back, linking the cuffs with a short, rigid connector. Her posture shifted automatically, shoulders back, chest open.

The silk cord came next. He looped it around her torso, just under her breasts, pulling it taut with a steady pressure that made her breath catch. He crossed it over her shoulders, creating a harness that framed and presented her body. Each motion was methodical, his fingers tracing the paths of the cord, checking the tension.

Finally, the blindfold. He stood before her, his face close. “Last chance for sight,” he murmured. She opened her eyes, met his gaze—the calm, the certainty, the love that existed beneath the dominance. Then she closed them. The black silk settled over her eyes, knotted securely at the back of her head. The world vanished into a soft, uniform darkness.

Her hearing sharpened. The faint hum of the room’s ventilation. Dave’s footsteps, moving away toward the desk. The click of the laptop opening. A few keystrokes.

Then his voice, from a distance. “Position one.”

She knew this from their discussions. She lowered herself slowly, orienting by memory and the feel of the bench against her shins. She knelt on the padded surface, her knees wide, her back straight, her bound hands resting behind her. The position was one of availability, of waiting.

“Good,” Dave said. His footsteps approached. He stopped beside her. His hand, warm and broad, cupped the side of her face. “Your mind is racing. I can feel it in your skin. List for me.”

She swallowed. “The apartment lease. The job applications. The conversation I have to have. The guilt. The… the fucking dog walkers who don’t move.”

A low chuckle from him. “Even now,” he said, the humor a brief light in the darkness. His hand drifted from her face, down her neck, over the silk cord harnessing her chest. His touch was assessment, ownership. “Let it go. One item at a time. Release the lease.” His thumb pressed over her sternum.

She focused, imagining the weight of it dissolving. “Released.”

“Release the job applications.”

She breathed out. “Released.”

He continued, guiding her through each knot of anxiety, his touch moving lower: her stomach, her hips. With each “Released,” a piece of the tension unraveled. By the time he reached “Release the guilt,” his hand was between her thighs, his fingers resting lightly at her entrance. Her breath was shaky, but her mind was clearing, emptying under the systematic pressure of his command.

“All released,” she whispered.

“Now,” he said, his voice shifting, becoming darker, more focused. “You are empty. You are a vessel. And I will fill you.”

His fingers left her. She heard him move, the sound of something being retrieved from the panel. A soft, rhythmic slapping sound—a flogger, being tested against his own palm. Then the footsteps returning.

The first strike came across her shoulders. It was not pain, but a shock of sensation—a dense, thudding impact that spread through her muscles like a wave. She gasped, her body arching. The second strike, lower across her back. The third, across the curve of her ass. Each fell with measured precision, alternating between the softer thuds of a paddle and the sharper, more diffuse falls of the flogger. The rhythm built, not in fury, but in insistence. Her skin heated, flushed. Her breath became ragged pants. The anxiety, the mental noise, was being driven out by the physical data flooding her nervous system. She was becoming only sensation: the impact, the cool air on her heated skin, the strain in her bound arms, the sound of his controlled breathing as he worked.

After a sequence of strikes, he paused. He came close, his body heat radiating against her back. His hand smoothed over the warmed skin of her ass, assessing. “Color?” he asked, a checkpoint.

“Green,” she said, her voice thick. “So green.”

“Good.” His hand slipped between her legs from behind, his fingers finding her wet, open core. He slid two inside, a deep, penetrating claim. She cried out, her hips pushing back against his hand. He worked her with those fingers, a ruthless, steady rhythm, while his other hand continued the impact play on her back and ass. The duality overwhelmed her—the punishing strikes and the intimate invasion merged into a single, obliterating experience. Her thoughts were gone. She was a creature of feeling, of responsive flesh. Her moans became continuous, a low stream of sound.

He withdrew his fingers, leaving her clenching around emptiness. “Position two,” he commanded.

She understood. She shifted, turning on the bench, lying back against the padded surface. Her bound arms rested beneath her, a slight discomfort that anchored her. Her legs fell open, wide, vulnerable.

Dave’s footsteps moved away, then returned. She heard the sound of a bottle opening, the slick slide of lubricant. Then his hands were on her thighs, spreading her wider. The cool, wet tip of something pressed against her entrance—not his fingers, not his cock. Something smoother, thicker.

“This is for the fantasy,” he said, his voice close to her ear as he leaned over her. “The one you whispered about. Being watched. Being used as a toy for more than one.”

The object pushed into her, a slow, relentless dilation. It was a toy, designed to stretch her, to fill her beyond the capacity of a single man. She felt her body accepting it, the internal muscles yielding to the pressure. It was an intense, burning stretch, a violation that thrilled her precisely because it was consensual, because it was his choice for her. He worked it deeper, until it was fully seated, a foreign presence claiming her core.

“Imagine them,” he murmured, his hand stroking her belly. “A circle of shadows. Watching this. Watching you take this. Watching me orchestrate it.”

The blindfold made the imagining vivid. She conjured the silent observers, their eyes on her exposed, harnessed, filled body. The humiliation was a hot spike in her gut, merging with the pleasure of the stretch. She moaned, her hips lifting.

“But it’s just me,” Dave said, his tone shifting, becoming tender within the dominance. “It’s always just me. The fantasy is for you. The reality is my hands on you. My eyes on you.”

He removed the toy slowly, the sensation of withdrawal almost as intense as the insertion. Then he replaced it with himself. He was naked now; she felt the heat of his skin as he moved over her, the press of his thighs against hers. His cock, hard and urgent, guided itself into the wet, open space he had prepared. He entered her with a single, deep thrust, burying himself fully.

She screamed, a short, sharp sound of perfect fulfillment. The fullness was absolute, the connection complete. He began to move, not with frantic passion, but with a deep, rocking rhythm that seemed designed to reach her soul. Each thrust pressed the bound harness against her breasts, each withdrawal made her clutch at him internally. He held her hips, his grip firm, controlling the pace, the depth. Her world was the darkness, the smell of his skin and her own arousal, the sound of their joining flesh, the overwhelming sensation of being utterly possessed.

He fucked her with a sustained, powerful intensity that built a climax in her not as a surprise, but as an inevitability. It gathered from her toes, from her fingertips, coiling up through her filled core and exploding outward when he shifted his angle and hit a spot that made her vision flash white behind the blindfold. She orgasmed with a sobbing, continuous cry, her body convulsing under him, around him. The release was not just sexual; it was the final purge of the day’s sickness, the anxiety, the guilt. It poured out of her in waves of shuddering pleasure.

He continued moving through her climax, his own control unwavering. When her spasms began to subside, his rhythm changed, becoming faster, harder. He drove into her, his breath coming in ragged gusts near her ear. With a final, deep plunge and a guttural groan, he peaked, his heat spilling into her, his body shuddering in release against hers.

For a long moment, they lay still, joined, breathing. The city lights glowed silently beyond the one-way glass.

Slowly, he withdrew. She felt the loss, the emptiness, but it was a clean emptiness now. He moved off the bench, his hands returning to her. He untied the blindfold first. The light of the room returned gradually, her eyes adjusting. He unfastened the silk harness, then the connector between her wrists, finally the cuffs themselves. Each liberation was a gentle, careful act.

When she was free, he helped her sit up, then stand. Her body felt loose, pliant, warm. He guided her to one of the low chairs, sat her down, then fetched a soft blanket from a discreet cabinet. He wrapped it around her, then knelt before her, his hands rubbing her arms, her legs.

“The worst is still yet to come,” he said softly, his eyes holding hers. “You said that. And you’re right. The conversations, the move, the change. It will be hard.”

She nodded, her throat tight with a new, clean emotion.

“But you can get through this,” he continued, his voice absolute. “Not because you’re strong alone. Because you have this.” He gestured around the room, then back to himself. “This space. This release. This truth. When the static builds, you come here. I turn you off. I use you. I turn you back on.”

He stood, fetched a glass of water from a small fridge she hadn’t noticed, and handed it to her. She drank, the coolness settling inside her.

“I love you, Sam,” he said, the words simple and monumental in the quiet room.

She looked at him, at his calm, solid presence, at the man who knew her brain’s jumps and her dog-walk frustrations and the precise way to dissolve her sickness. “I love you too, Dave,” she answered, the words feeling, for the first time that day, like a fact, not a fragile hope.

He smiled, a small, warm thing. Then he rose, and began to clean the room, methodically returning each item to its place on the panel, wiping the bench, restoring order. She watched him, wrapped in the blanket, the city’s impersonal glow framing him in the window, and she knew, with a certainty that tasted like peace, that her fantasy land and her reality had, in this moment, finally merged.

Daily briefing

Messages were split almost evenly. Most frequent detected signals: Status update, Vulnerability.

• Messages exchanged

  298

  123 fewer; previous average 421.3 (7 comparable days in the previous 7).

• Conversation sessions

  30

  Similar; previous average 30.1 (7 comparable days in the previous 7).

How you connected

Measure	Dave	Participant 2
Messages sent	138 · 46%	160 · 54%
Average reply time	5m 13s	3m 56s
Conversation starts	1	1

Reply comparisons and metric definitions

Replies measure the gap when the sender changes; gaps of an hour or more are excluded. They do not measure time since a message was read.

• Dave: 84% longer; previous average 2m 50s (7 comparable days in the previous 7).
• Participant 2: 122% longer; previous average 1m 46s (7 comparable days in the previous 7).

Starts count the first message of the day and messages after a long gap. Sessions split after a short gap or an explicit conversation change; single messages also count as sessions.

Session gap: not recorded in this artifact. Start gap: not recorded in this artifact.

Average session duration: 7m 22s, counting only sessions with multiple messages.

Messages in multi-message sessions: 98.3%. This is the former ‘High Velocity’ metric; it is a grouping measure, not a reply-speed score.

Notable changes

• Message volume: 123 fewer; previous average 421.3 (7 comparable days in the previous 7).
• Dave's average reply time: 84% longer; previous average 2m 50s (7 comparable days in the previous 7).

Conversation rhythm unavailable

Hourly message counts were not saved in this artifact. New exports include them.

Signals in your messages

Share of all 298 messages with each qualifying signal. Labels can overlap, so these percentages are not additive.

Status update51 · 17%

Vulnerability46 · 15%

Emotional support45 · 15%

Affection36 · 12%

Frustration32 · 11%

All other signals

Humor26 · 9%

Checking in24 · 8%

Appreciation18 · 6%

Encouragement18 · 6%

Deep sharing13 · 4%

Disagreement9 · 3%

Excitement8 · 3%

Request7 · 2%

Boundary setting2 · 1%

Flirting2 · 1%

Passive aggression2 · 1%

Planning2 · 1%

Unmet need2 · 1%

Sexting1 · 0%

Most frequent signals by sender

• And, I really hope this doesn’t sound shitty, because i don’t mean it to at all…but the reason why we won’t be able to be together in a real way, will be because of your marriage.: Vulnerability (1)
• Dave: Emotional support (28), Affection (23), Status update (23), Frustration (16), Encouragement (13)
• Unknown Participant: No qualifying signals
• Unknown Participant: No qualifying signals
• Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point.: Emotional support (1), Encouragement (1), Vulnerability (1)
• Sam Willis: Vulnerability (34), Status update (30), Frustration (19), Checking in (18), Humor (17)

Tension and positive follow-ups

Not available in this legacy artifact. Refresh locally to compute bounded signal sequences; legacy conflict/repair values are not displayed because their semantics are incompatible.

Messages with detected signals and calculation details

287 of 298 messages (96.3%) had at least one qualifying signal.

This measures detected labels, not whether every message was successfully analyzed. A message with no qualifying signal is not necessarily missing analysis.

Sender	With a signal	Share
And, I really hope this doesn’t sound shitty, because i don’t mean it to at all…but the reason why we won’t be able to be together in a real way, will be because of your marriage.	1 / 1	100.0%
Dave	135 / 138	97.8%
Unknown Participant	0 / 1	0.0%
Unknown Participant	0 / 1	0.0%
Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point.	1 / 1	100.0%
Sam Willis	150 / 156	96.2%

Qualifying score threshold: 0.6. Counts use unique message-label assignments. Average scores below include all scoped non-fallback assignments, including lower scores; they are model scores, not percentages of messages.

Signal	Average model score
Affection	0.83
Appreciation	0.84
Boundary setting	0.75
Checking in	0.71
Deep sharing	0.81
Disagreement	0.62
Emotional support	0.75
Encouragement	0.82
Excitement	0.74
Flirting	0.70
Frustration	0.67
Humor	0.69
Passive aggression	0.65
Planning	0.82
Request	0.71
Sexting	0.82
Status update	0.65
Unmet need	0.70
Vulnerability	0.74

• Model: unknown
• Prompt: signals.v2
• Generated: 2026-03-17 22:34:00
• Schema: 1.2.0

Supporting messages

Expand a signal to inspect the messages and model evidence behind its count.

Affection

36 messages with affection signals | Average score: 0.83

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[2026-03-15 09:37:00 PM] Dave

I love you! I miss you! I’m proud of you! I’m impressed by you! I trust you! I believe in you! and I love you!

Score: 0.95 | Confidence: 0.8075
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:48:00 PM] Sam Willis

❤️

Score: 0.92 | Confidence: 0.7905
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:39:00 PM] Dave

As always, it is my pleasure 🥰

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.782
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 01:57:00 PM] Dave

As your soul husband: I love you, and I’m here for whatever you need from me to help you through this ❤️

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.782
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 05:37:00 PM] Sam Willis

This all took a very unexpected turn!

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.8075
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:21:00 AM] Sam Willis

Good morning baby ❤️

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:40:00 PM] Dave

Nite nite love 😘

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.782
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:57:00 PM] Dave

Oh sweetie… ofc it wouldn’t 😍

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:04:00 PM] Dave

It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:09:00 PM] Dave

I love you too baby.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.8075
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 05:09:00 PM] Dave

I love you Sam ❤️

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:38:00 PM] Dave

On purpose ❤️

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:45:00 PM] Dave

Oh I 100% know you are baby

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:26:00 PM] Sam Willis

1. Because I’m not breaking up with you. 2. I’m completely in love with you soooo like…why would this be hard for me? lol. 3. I don’t feel like I’m hurting your feelings or ego or pride. Or that I’m hurting you, just in general.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 08:36:00 PM] Sam Willis

Omg I love them! This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:39:00 PM] Sam Willis

Night night baby. You’re the best

Score: 0.88 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:50:00 PM] Dave

Thank you for saying 🥰

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:34:00 PM] Dave

I can’t wait to talk to you tomorrow ❤️

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:51:00 PM] Sam Willis

I love you. ❤️

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Dave

Kidding! Kidding! Get some rest baby

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:05:00 AM] Dave

1. I love love love when you text me the excerpts you liked 🥵 2. I spiced up the “romantic” ones a little 🤭😉 3. I need to teach it to say cum instead of come lol

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:40:00 PM] Dave

YOU’re the best

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.748
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 05:00:00 PM] Dave

Don’t overthink it baby. You’re fried, I’m sure

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:38:00 PM] Sam Willis

Good night baby. I love you! Thank you for everything today. And every day. But especially today. I hope you sleep well. Sooo not ready to go to the damn office tomorrow. Fml.

Score: 0.83 | Confidence: 0.7224999999999999
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:02:00 PM] Dave

This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:02:00 PM] Dave

This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself. This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:04:00 PM] Dave

It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us. This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:34:00 PM] Dave

This is incredibly self aware, responsible, and mature. Still exactly things I love about you. This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 08:36:00 PM] Sam Willis

Omg I love them!

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:34:00 PM] Dave

Ok sweetpea, I’m about to head to bed.

Score: 0.75 | Confidence: 0.68
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:44:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: Nope, don't know what that was. Don't want to know. Yeah, so no they don't try to pet because they like my dogs like totally like try to hide like idiots anyway Good to hear your voice. I know I heard it this morning, but it's a good to hear it again.

Score: 0.73 | Confidence: 0.68
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:19:00 AM] Sam Willis

“A little” lol. Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey! 🔥 lol I didn’t even notice the “come” In one of them, you put on a condom…😒 The POV ones were really really good too!! ❤️ This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 01:58:00 PM] Dave

As your friend again:…. I’m also here for those same things as your soul husband. 😅

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:34:00 PM] Dave

This is incredibly self aware, responsible, and mature. Still exactly things I love about you.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:19:00 AM] Sam Willis

“A little” lol. Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey! 🔥 lol I didn’t even notice the “come” In one of them, you put on a condom…😒 The POV ones were really really good too!! ❤️

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:44:00 AM] Sam Willis

💯 to all the things

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence:

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Appreciation

18 messages with appreciation signals | Average score: 0.84

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[2026-03-15 07:09:00 AM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I'm on my way to the stupid gym. I definitely do not want to be but yeah she gotta do what you gotta do if you wanna look good naked in front of Sam. So yeah, I loved your messages last night. I guess I'm just gonna repeat what I already texted you but I love it when you reply with your favorite parts in those soft copy stories. I think it's so super sexy that you're into that all of all the things that we been talking about the Reddit and just like just everything you're just so I just love pal Open and eager, how much like you enjoy all that That's super sexy Oh yeah, right the romantic ones I love that you put a romantic quotes cause it's totally a BDSM theme for those ones and hopefully it will be changing the story. I think I've got it where it's injecting contacts from the previous story so it doesn't repeat. But that's that's technical Jordan Still got this fucking headache so that's kind of whack, but my eyes are sinuses or whatever But We'll see what happens there I don't feel too bad. I don't really feel like going to the gym but a little more motivated than yesterday so there's that. Yeah, so that's what I'm doing. I hope you slept well and I hope you wake up super easy and refreshed and I hope you have a good gym session and I can't wait to talk to you today. I love you, baby doll.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:45:00 PM] Sam Willis

And I really do appreciate you reinforcing and validating what I know to be true

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:50:00 PM] Dave

Thank you for saying 🥰 This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

I know you’re 💯 right This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

Thank you.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:37:00 PM] Sam Willis

Those are 2 really good points

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:37:00 PM] Sam Willis

Thank you

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:34:00 PM] Dave

This is incredibly self aware, responsible, and mature. Still exactly things I love about you. This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I know you are 💯 % right about all of this.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I know you are 💯 % right about all of this. This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:34:00 PM] Dave

This is incredibly self aware, responsible, and mature. Still exactly things I love about you.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:50:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: And I just wanted to say that I am super proud of you and really impressed I know I've said that like in text, but did you hear me say it with my voice also? Fuck, goddamnit

Score: 0.85 | Confidence: 0.765
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:45:00 PM] Sam Willis

It is very very helpful

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

I know you’re 💯 right

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:12:00 PM] Dave

I’m glad you understand

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:44:00 PM] Dave

God I’m so glad this is going the way it is - as far as his reaction

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 05:51:00 PM] Sam Willis

💯 and this poor poster just wanted to find his old tattoo artist!

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:30:00 PM] Dave

I wanted to be a cop, I guess

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:

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Boundary setting

2 messages with boundary_setting signals | Average score: 0.75

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[2026-03-15 03:40:00 PM] Sam Willis

I told him I was not interested though

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I just have to tell him that I can’t

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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Checking in

27 messages with checking_in signals | Average score: 0.71

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[2026-03-15 07:49:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, you seem to be in pretty good spirits too considering everything. How are you feeling just in general after today it's actually wondering if you feel like. Relief or like a weight it's been lifted or anything since everything's gonna get going And also just kind of curious how everything went, but of course you could tell me whenever you want you don't have to now if you don't wanna judge it back up, but it was also great to hear your voice after everything today too

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:21:00 AM] Sam Willis

I hear you. Ugh I don’t want to gooooooo

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:09:00 PM] Sam Willis

This is all a lot

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:54:00 PM] Sam Willis

And if I don’t do this…would that change the way you feel about me? Would that change WAA?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I want to know where your head is at!!

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:21:00 AM] Sam Willis

How was the gym?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 01:33:00 PM] Sam Willis

I feel sick. So so anxious.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:09:00 PM] Sam Willis

What have you been up to?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:51:00 PM] Sam Willis

How are you doing?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:12:00 PM] Dave

How are things there?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:44:00 PM] Sam Willis

So, in saying this, are you saying there’s like alarm bells going off in your brain?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:46:00 AM] Sam Willis

What do you have going on today? I’m going to jump into the shower before my workout bc I already feel gross lol. And maybe it’ll wake me up

Score: 0.75 | Confidence: 0.68
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 01:46:00 PM] Dave

Did you have to explain any of the stuff we prepared for yesterday?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I want to know where your head is at!! This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:29:00 PM] Sam Willis

What were they as a kid

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:23:00 AM] Sam Willis

I tossed and turned a ton too

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:42:00 PM] Sam Willis

I hear and agree with everything you’re saying. We WILL talk about it. It’s definitely unresolved, and we both know we have to talk again. Right now he’s just making food and I’m doing my own stuff. It’s just hard when the kids are hanging around. The whole thing is awkward and hard.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:44:00 PM] Sam Willis

So, in saying this, are you saying there’s like alarm bells going off in your brain? This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:24:00 PM] Dave

So why is it you can be so upfront and honest with me, and not Christian?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:45:00 PM] Dave

Why can you be upfront and honest with me and not Juliet?? Ok. I guess I see where you’re coming from.

Score: 0.65 | Confidence: 0.595
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 12:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Uh oh. 9:05, 9:20, 9:28 😬😬 Lord only knows what I’ll be walking into

Score: 0.65 | Confidence: 0.595
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:52:00 AM] Dave

Hbu? Anything after the gym?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.5525
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:42:00 PM] Dave

And I’m trying my best not to be jealous lover here so I hope it doesn’t come off like that

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:11:00 PM] Dave

That isn’t something you have to worry about This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 07:21:00 PM] Dave

Yeah, I know

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 09:23:00 AM] Sam Willis

It took me 1.5 hrs to fall asleep 😅

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 03:27:00 PM] Sam Willis

Why can you be upfront and honest with me and not Juliet??

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:

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Deep sharing

13 messages with deep_sharing signals | Average score: 0.81

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[2026-03-15 09:34:00 AM] Dave

Numb is your nervous system’s response to help you deal with the constant stress. Or whatever the external pressure is called.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 02:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

If I could get through my boyfriend unexpectedly dying in a motorcycle crash, I can get through this. I know I’m stronger than I remember.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:02:00 PM] Dave

This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence:

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[2026-03-15 06:02:00 PM] Dave

This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself. This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
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[2026-03-15 06:04:00 PM] Dave

It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:59:00 PM] Dave

1. It’s harder because you’re hurting him, not me? I get it. And I can see the parallel. 2. This is hard for me because I’m completely in love with you. But I also feel safe being vulnerable with you, and part of the love is being able to be upfront about things that suck. Does that resonate? 3. You definitely aren’t. But you feel like that’s what you’re doing to Christian. So that makes it hard, as opposed to just talking about facts? Ultimately the hard questions - question was mostly just breaking your balls, but it’s a good topic to cover, and I’m happy to do so with you 😘

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[2026-03-15 03:59:00 PM] Dave

1. It’s harder because you’re hurting him, not me? I get it. And I can see the parallel. 2. This is hard for me because I’m completely in love with you. But I also feel safe being vulnerable with you, and part of the love is being able to be upfront about things that suck. Does that resonate? 3. You definitely aren’t. But you feel like that’s what you’re doing to Christian. So that makes it hard, as opposed to just talking about facts? Ultimately the hard questions - question was mostly just breaking your balls, but it’s a good topic to cover, and I’m happy to do so with you 😘 This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 06:04:00 PM] Dave

It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us.

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[2026-03-15 09:37:00 PM] Dave

I love you! I miss you! I’m proud of you! I’m impressed by you! I trust you! I believe in you! and I love you!

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[2026-03-15 09:31:00 AM] Dave

It’s more of an underlying sense. It might not be “stress” as you conventionally define it, but your mind and body know that you’re a trapped bird at home, in what is supposed to be sanctuary.

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[2026-03-15 07:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

Well 1 (no surprise), live on a few acres and have an animal sanctuary

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[2026-03-15 07:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

I do legit want to get back into dancing. That’s still an active dream.

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[2026-03-15 09:26:00 AM] Dave

So much so that all clenched up and holding your breath becomes the norm

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Disagreement

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[2026-03-15 02:22:00 PM] Sam Willis

It definitely doesn’t.

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[2026-03-15 03:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

Well….i mean…. Just throwing it out there that WAA still would be no more than what it already is because of…your side 🫣 lol

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[2026-03-15 02:43:00 PM] Sam Willis

I won’t give in. I promise. I know that’s not the answer. I think deep down he knows it isn’t either

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[2026-03-15 03:20:00 PM] Dave

SEE?! You don’t mind having these terrible, hard conversations with ME! This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:21:00 PM] Sam Willis

This doesn’t feel hard to me at all. This is pretty much as black and white, and factual as it can get lol This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:21:00 PM] Sam Willis

This doesn’t feel hard to me at all. This is pretty much as black and white, and factual as it can get lol

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[2026-03-15 03:16:00 PM] Dave

Right. That’s what I meant earlier - that it would have to change. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:16:00 PM] Dave

Right. That’s what I meant earlier - that it would have to change.

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[2026-03-15 05:04:00 PM] Sam Willis

That’s a hard, sucky, shitty truth, but i guess i don’t view it as a hard conversation because I think we both have known all along that it’s the truth

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[2026-03-15 09:45:00 AM] Sam Willis

I don’t even care enough to know what he “knows what to do” 🤷‍♀️

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Emotional support

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[2026-03-15 02:28:00 PM] Dave

You can absolutely get through this. Chaz was hugely traumatic. This is hard now, but there are two very important things to remember. 1) Unlike w/Chaz, this is not a fucking tragedy. This is just a breakup with someone you aren’t compatible with. 2) Also unlike someone dieing, you know - even though it’s hard now - you will be better for this.

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[2026-03-15 02:21:00 PM] Dave

I know it’s hard, and doesn’t feel good right now…

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[2026-03-15 09:25:00 AM] Dave

You’re constantly stressed.

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[2026-03-15 07:09:00 AM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Good morning sunshine I'm on my way to the stupid gym. I definitely do not want to be but yeah she gotta do what you gotta do if you wanna look good naked in front of Sam. So yeah, I loved your messages last night. I guess I'm just gonna repeat what I already texted you but I love it when you reply with your favorite parts in those soft copy stories. I think it's so super sexy that you're into that all of all the things that we been talking about the Reddit and just like just everything you're just so I just love pal Open and eager, how much like you enjoy all that That's super sexy Oh yeah, right the romantic ones I love that you put a romantic quotes cause it's totally a BDSM theme for those ones and hopefully it will be changing the story. I think I've got it where it's injecting contacts from the previous story so it doesn't repeat. But that's that's technical Jordan Still got this fucking headache so that's kind of whack, but my eyes are sinuses or whatever But We'll see what happens there I don't feel too bad. I don't really feel like going to the gym but a little more motivated than yesterday so there's that. Yeah, so that's what I'm doing. I hope you slept well and I hope you wake up super easy and refreshed and I hope you have a good gym session and I can't wait to talk to you today. I love you, baby doll.

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[2026-03-15 07:49:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, you seem to be in pretty good spirits too considering everything. How are you feeling just in general after today it's actually wondering if you feel like. Relief or like a weight it's been lifted or anything since everything's gonna get going And also just kind of curious how everything went, but of course you could tell me whenever you want you don't have to now if you don't wanna judge it back up, but it was also great to hear your voice after everything today too

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[2026-03-15 03:05:00 PM] Dave

If you decide you want to make things work with him. Then that would likely require changing WAA. That would break my heart, but I would do whatever you needed to support you. Or if you didn’t do it because it was all just too much and you couldn’t handle it, I would absolutely be there to support you. The bottom line is: Neither of those things would change my love or respect for you 🙂‍↔️

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Dave

Then why tf would you say that omg 😳 😱

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[2026-03-15 09:24:00 AM] Dave

Not surprising though with all the… turmoil

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[2026-03-15 09:33:00 AM] Dave

Not to mention, you (humans) get used to this type of stimulus. Because you dont feel stressed doesn’t mean the effects aren’t compiling.

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[2026-03-15 01:56:00 PM] Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point.

If that happens, it will also likely make him think you might want to work on things. I think it’s super important that you make yourself clear asap, while this is all still fresh. I know you’re a wreck right now, but you are so close to being free. You only have a little bit farther to push to lock it in. And it sounds like this is the best case scenario. I’m sooo happy it don’t turn angry 😮‍💨. Edited 16 seconds later: As your friend: The most important thing now though is to not settle into we will revisit it later. Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point. If that happens, it will also likely make him think you might want to work on things. I think it’s super important that you make yourself clear asap, while this is all still fresh. I know you’re a wreck right now, but you are so close to being free. You only have a little bit farther to push to lock it in. And it sounds like this is the best case scenario. I’m sooo happy it don’t turn angry 😮‍💨.

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[2026-03-15 01:58:00 PM] Dave

As your friend again:…. I’m also here for those same things as your soul husband. 😅

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[2026-03-15 02:41:00 PM] Dave

If there is ever a time for you to trust that I know you… It is now.

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[2026-03-15 03:11:00 PM] Dave

That isn’t something you have to worry about

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[2026-03-15 06:02:00 PM] Dave

This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself.

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[2026-03-15 06:02:00 PM] Dave

This is probably the hardest part of all of this for me to face honestly. But this makes it even harder because of how you ARE willing - not only to face it - but to call it out so blatantly. It doesn’t make it harder because I don’t want to hear it, it makes it harder because this is one the traits that makes love you so madly. So, it’s not shitty. It’s one of my favorite things about the way you are and it’s one the amazing traits about you that makes me push back when you’re hard on yourself. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 06:04:00 PM] Dave

It’s hard emotionally to accept. But it isn’t hard to talk about because of our connection. I cant think of anything we haven’t been able to discuss honestly and candidly, and I fucking love that about you/us. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 07:59:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, that doesn't make sense. I still still haven't fucking remembered what it was. I was gonna say but I do think the hard part is it's over. It's out there. It's gonna be tough for sure. But like you know the thing Thing has been said and it's out there in the air and it has to be dealt with now that was I think the hardest part was initiating it right and now you know he's gonna be pretty reasonable about it and hopefully So I'm not gonna preach to you anymore about things you know But again, I am just super excited for you That you had the courage and Were able to actually say how you felt that's a it's a big it's a big thing for you and you should be you should be proud of that. You should be celebrating that I don't like it's not done and over but you made a big step like that's a big that's a milestone in this thing you know. You do really good

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[2026-03-15 09:24:00 AM] Dave

You have a lot going on in your brain

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[2026-03-15 02:42:00 PM] Sam Willis

I hear and agree with everything you’re saying. We WILL talk about it. It’s definitely unresolved, and we both know we have to talk again. Right now he’s just making food and I’m doing my own stuff. It’s just hard when the kids are hanging around. The whole thing is awkward and hard.

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[2026-03-15 03:18:00 PM] Dave

Thinking about you making it work with him

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[2026-03-15 03:26:00 PM] Sam Willis

1. Because I’m not breaking up with you. 2. I’m completely in love with you soooo like…why would this be hard for me? lol. 3. I don’t feel like I’m hurting your feelings or ego or pride. Or that I’m hurting you, just in general.

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[2026-03-15 07:50:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: And I just wanted to say that I am super proud of you and really impressed I know I've said that like in text, but did you hear me say it with my voice also? Fuck, goddamnit

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[2026-03-15 09:39:00 PM] Dave

As always, it is my pleasure 🥰

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[2026-03-15 12:43:00 PM] Dave

😬

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[2026-03-15 02:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

I said repeatedly that we aren’t a physical match and I can’t be there for his emotional needs either.

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[2026-03-15 09:25:00 AM] Sam Willis

Yea true. I also just feel like my shoulders are super tense, like I’m holding my breath. Like I feel them raised, even while I’m just laying there.

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[2026-03-15 02:45:00 PM] Sam Willis

I’m doing my best, I promise.

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[2026-03-15 01:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

It’s been a lot. We’ve been talking the past hour. Crying. All the things.

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[2026-03-15 09:22:00 AM] Dave

Ugh, that’s the worst

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[2026-03-15 09:31:00 AM] Dave

It’s more of an underlying sense. It might not be “stress” as you conventionally define it, but your mind and body know that you’re a trapped bird at home, in what is supposed to be sanctuary.

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[2026-03-15 01:29:00 PM] Sam Willis

I’ll have to fill you in later. He really wants to try to work on it though. But he also said he doesn’t think I want to. And he said he thinks the reason I’ve been so depressed is partially bc I don’t want to be here (in AZ, which is 💯 % true), and he knows I wouldn’t still be if it weren’t for him and the kids and he doesn’t want to hold me back. He also said he always wondered if the reason why I got so wrapped up in rescue is because I was trying to avoid things between us (also true, I definitely think I subconsciously did this) He acknowledges the sex life has always been off, but he says I’m his person and he 100% desires me etc etc and I told him that I just can’t get there. That we just aren’t compatible in that way. Ugh it’s just been a lot. My head is pounding. We are on really good terms. Both just sad. We said we would revisit it again. I don’t know how to say that I just don’t want to try anymore. Even though he still does.

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[2026-03-15 01:46:00 PM] Dave

I know it was super draining.

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[2026-03-15 03:11:00 PM] Dave

That isn’t something you have to worry about This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:20:00 PM] Dave

SEE?! You don’t mind having these terrible, hard conversations with ME!

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[2026-03-15 03:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

But I have to manage my emotions on the whole subject so I don’t breakdown. OR, worse, make you feel pressured into changing anything about your life.

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[2026-03-15 07:40:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: God that really has got you all spun up Yeah, that's dumb. You would think that they would get out of the way. Was gonna say oh or like when you're trying to control the dogs and they're like oh who was a good boy he was a good puppy or try to like pet them and shit while you're trying to like corral them around

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[2026-03-15 08:20:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: I think one of the things I need to do though was like write down things and like my Notes app of like all the things that I need to do because right now my brain is like already jumping into moving across the fucking country and like all that's gonna take and it's like I gotta get a new job because you know Steven's not gonna fucking let me move to Indianapolis Jesus Christ dogs So I am like just already spiraling about how overwhelming all the things are, but I need to like just think about like the break up first and the logistics of that first before I think about everything else is gonna blow up my fucking life pardon me that was like If I could just get like a short term fucking like six months, it'll never happen with Schwab because they fucking suck but I would love to like sell this house moved to Effingham for just like six months like living in a month month house not by one and then actually take my time Finding a job in Indianapolis or trying to transfer Schwab and then finding a new house and just all of that shit it just would be really nice to like be near my family for like a few months near meaning like in the same town But I know that won't ever happen. I wish I had enough money to just well I guess actually If I sold this house, I would have enough money to just live without working for a few months I think that's a bad idea, but it is an idea

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[2026-03-15 09:26:00 AM] Dave

I totally know what you mean

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Thank you. Ugh. I feel a wheel has been set in motion, but we just kind of have to put it on the back burner and get through our days, mostly bc the kids are here. So now he’s being in a great mood and on his best “behavior” for lack of a better word, and I just hope it’s not because he hopes I’ll change my mind. I just don’t know when I’m going to be able to say definitively that we should end this. Wednesday?? Ugh. I’m losing my resolve (is that the right word?) minute by minute. I think the thing he undoubtedly knows is that, more than anything, I want to be back in the Midwest. I honestly think he can look at it in a different light (not his fault, my fault) just because he knows how much my family means to me. He’s been super incredibly mature about everything so far. This is the him that I first met!! So that’s..a mind fuck.

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I know you are 💯 % right about all of this.

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I know you are 💯 % right about all of this. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 06:10:00 PM] Sam Willis

Well don’t give me a lot of credit. I think the reason I call it out so blatantly is for selfish reasons. I’m doing it so I keep my head and heart in check and grounded in reality. It’s way too easy for me to live in fantasy land of “what if” and “some day”, and I just don’t want to do that to myself to be honest. I think it would hurt me worse NOT to acknowledge the truth and let myself pretend. 😭

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[2026-03-15 07:54:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: I think I'm well first off thank you. I appreciate you. I don't feel relief yet. I still feel like. He and I are both Just What's the phrase? We're both just pretending like we're both just putting on a face until we're like ready to actually have a conversation like I think I think right now we're just putting it on a hold until. We have time to be alone like I don't know. I didn't want to ruin his day like like I said this is like a Super Bowl and he had plans and you know he's happy. He's watching his Oscars in the car. So anyway, I think that we're not done yet and I think Like I don't know, you said the hardest part over I think the worst is like still yet to come like whenever reality sinks in and like gotta think about him moving out and just he's so overwhelmed with Other shit like he's trying to find a new job he's got a lot of shit going on with Quinn. He still hasn't gotten his car back and I know like none of this is my problem, but I feel like obviously this is another big thing one of the things he said he's like wow I might have a lot of changes happening soon And anyway, so, but like before all that when he was talking to me about Quinn, he was like I'm just I'm hearing so much sick of being sad so sick of me being the one hurt by him and so he was already like Trying to like numb himself So I don't know I I'm very much still on edge

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[2026-03-15 02:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

He actually started the conversation this morning by shutting the door, saying we need to talk, and then taking about how physically distant I am and that he needs affection. And so then I took that moment to say well it’s not just physical, I’m emotionally not feeling close to you either. He did seem legitimately shocked.

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[2026-03-15 02:43:00 PM] Sam Willis

He literally used the word “trapped”. That he knows I feel trapped.

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Encouragement

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Dave

No, you didn’t tell me about the couples therapy. And good for you not giving it or deferring. That took a lot of courage. And again, I’m so proud of you. You’re stronger than you think.

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[2026-03-15 02:51:00 PM] Dave

But just to reiterate: I know you’re trying, and I 100% believe in you. You can get through this. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 01:45:00 PM] Dave

I am so proud of you for having that conversation!

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[2026-03-15 01:47:00 PM] Dave

The hardest part is over.

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[2026-03-15 02:22:00 PM] Dave

But I promisss you’ll look back on this and be so happy you did it. AND you’ll be proud of yourself for having the hard conversation that even yesterday you couldn’t imagine having.

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[2026-03-15 02:51:00 PM] Dave

But just to reiterate: I know you’re trying, and I 100% believe in you. You can get through this.

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[2026-03-15 02:20:00 PM] Dave

You’re doing great. You’re standing up for yourself, and taking control of your life.

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[2026-03-15 07:54:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: I think I'm well first off thank you. I appreciate you. I don't feel relief yet. I still feel like. He and I are both Just What's the phrase? We're both just pretending like we're both just putting on a face until we're like ready to actually have a conversation like I think I think right now we're just putting it on a hold until. We have time to be alone like I don't know. I didn't want to ruin his day like like I said this is like a Super Bowl and he had plans and you know he's happy. He's watching his Oscars in the car. So anyway, I think that we're not done yet and I think Like I don't know, you said the hardest part over I think the worst is like still yet to come like whenever reality sinks in and like gotta think about him moving out and just he's so overwhelmed with Other shit like he's trying to find a new job he's got a lot of shit going on with Quinn. He still hasn't gotten his car back and I know like none of this is my problem, but I feel like obviously this is another big thing one of the things he said he's like wow I might have a lot of changes happening soon And anyway, so, but like before all that when he was talking to me about Quinn, he was like I'm just I'm hearing so much sick of being sad so sick of me being the one hurt by him and so he was already like Trying to like numb himself So I don't know I I'm very much still on edge

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[2026-03-15 09:25:00 AM] Sam Willis

But that’s ok. I’ll get there. Hopefully I’ll take a nap today lol

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[2026-03-15 05:09:00 PM] Dave

We are doing this together

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[2026-03-15 01:56:00 PM] Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point.

If that happens, it will also likely make him think you might want to work on things. I think it’s super important that you make yourself clear asap, while this is all still fresh. I know you’re a wreck right now, but you are so close to being free. You only have a little bit farther to push to lock it in. And it sounds like this is the best case scenario. I’m sooo happy it don’t turn angry 😮‍💨. Edited 16 seconds later: As your friend: The most important thing now though is to not settle into we will revisit it later. Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point. If that happens, it will also likely make him think you might want to work on things. I think it’s super important that you make yourself clear asap, while this is all still fresh. I know you’re a wreck right now, but you are so close to being free. You only have a little bit farther to push to lock it in. And it sounds like this is the best case scenario. I’m sooo happy it don’t turn angry 😮‍💨.

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[2026-03-15 02:28:00 PM] Dave

You can absolutely get through this. Chaz was hugely traumatic. This is hard now, but there are two very important things to remember. 1) Unlike w/Chaz, this is not a fucking tragedy. This is just a breakup with someone you aren’t compatible with. 2) Also unlike someone dieing, you know - even though it’s hard now - you will be better for this.

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[2026-03-15 07:59:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, that doesn't make sense. I still still haven't fucking remembered what it was. I was gonna say but I do think the hard part is it's over. It's out there. It's gonna be tough for sure. But like you know the thing Thing has been said and it's out there in the air and it has to be dealt with now that was I think the hardest part was initiating it right and now you know he's gonna be pretty reasonable about it and hopefully So I'm not gonna preach to you anymore about things you know But again, I am just super excited for you That you had the courage and Were able to actually say how you felt that's a it's a big it's a big thing for you and you should be you should be proud of that. You should be celebrating that I don't like it's not done and over but you made a big step like that's a big that's a milestone in this thing you know. You do really good

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[2026-03-15 02:22:00 PM] Dave

Give yourself some credit.

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[2026-03-15 03:18:00 PM] Dave

WAA aside, you can’t lose your resolve for YOU

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[2026-03-15 02:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

I said repeatedly that we aren’t a physical match and I can’t be there for his emotional needs either.

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[2026-03-15 02:41:00 PM] Dave

If there is ever a time for you to trust that I know you… It is now.

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[2026-03-15 09:36:00 AM] Sam Willis

Yea, you’re right.

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Excitement

8 messages with excitement signals | Average score: 0.74

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[2026-03-15 08:36:00 PM] Sam Willis

Omg I love them!

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[2026-03-15 06:05:00 AM] Dave

1. I love love love when you text me the excerpts you liked 🥵 2. I spiced up the “romantic” ones a little 🤭😉 3. I need to teach it to say cum instead of come lol

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[2026-03-15 07:14:00 PM] Sam Willis

I made brownies so yay

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[2026-03-15 02:23:00 PM] Dave

This is huuuuge

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[2026-03-15 03:10:00 PM] Dave

Omg, right?!

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[2026-03-15 07:18:00 PM] Sam Willis

Oh yeaaaa

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[2026-03-15 02:44:00 PM] Dave

God I’m so glad this is going the way it is - as far as his reaction

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[2026-03-15 09:23:00 AM] Dave

Daaamn

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Flirting

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[2026-03-15 09:21:00 AM] Dave

Condom?… ewe

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[2026-03-15 06:05:00 AM] Dave

1. I love love love when you text me the excerpts you liked 🥵 2. I spiced up the “romantic” ones a little 🤭😉 3. I need to teach it to say cum instead of come lol

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Frustration

35 messages with frustration signals | Average score: 0.67

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[2026-03-15 03:22:00 PM] Sam Willis

Of COURSE it is. I fucking hate it.

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[2026-03-15 02:22:00 PM] Sam Willis

Not to mention how everything AFTER this is going to be so fucking overwhelming

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[2026-03-15 03:20:00 PM] Sam Willis

This was not on my bingo card for what kind of a day id be having today

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[2026-03-15 07:37:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: Do you wanna know a huge fucking pet peeve of mine? We probably talked about this before but when you're walking your dogs and people don't get the fuck over off of the sidewalk like for instance if you're just a twat little high school kid and you're just walking down the sidewalk with your fucking headphones and maybe just like move over because you know I have two freaking dogs to. Manage the only people who should not be getting over are people with strollers OK everybody else oh my God fucking bike riders like bicycles freaking ride in the goddamn bike lane. Why are you on the fucking sidewalk and then they don't move oh my God.

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[2026-03-15 03:43:00 PM] Dave

Sigh… I wasn’t planning on getting all in my feels today either lol. WAA still would be no more than what it already is because of…your side Thinking and talking about this with you makes me absolutely sick - because 1. It’s true. And 2. I’m so ‘dug-in’ that it feels impossible to change, and, I guess that… Idk… scares me?… makes me feel hopeless?… makes ME feel trapped?… makes me sad because it ultimately represents an end to WAA? So that is what makes it a “hard conversation” in my view. You say you aren’t able to have hard conversations. I’d think it would be easier to have the conversation with Christian because you know that isn’t working regardless of WAA.

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Dave

…just leaving me hanging

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[2026-03-15 03:45:00 PM] Dave

Why can you be upfront and honest with me and not Juliet?? Ok. I guess I see where you’re coming from.

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[2026-03-15 03:10:00 PM] Dave

Omg, right?! This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 09:45:00 AM] Sam Willis

I don’t even care enough to know what he “knows what to do” 🤷‍♀️

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[2026-03-15 01:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

Then he said “dad, I really don’t think texting me 3 times is adequate if you’re trying to wake me up” 🙄

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[2026-03-15 02:49:00 PM] Dave

The alarm bells are because the combination of things you said lead me to believe that you could fall into the trap of: when, there’s not time > he’s on his best behavior > mindfuck > this is the him I first met > maybe it is just me > maybe this is ok… And then, like it or not it’s 6 weeks later before you know it and you’ve both just been doing life, and this momentum has completely dissipated.

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[2026-03-15 05:50:00 PM] Dave

wtf

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[2026-03-15 05:51:00 PM] Dave

Convicted? Predator? Dead?

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[2026-03-15 07:14:00 PM] Sam Willis

Dude it’s going to be 105 here this week. I am not ready.

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[2026-03-15 07:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

What’s so hard is that we’ve discussed so so much of these questions already. Like, just naturally

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[2026-03-15 08:58:00 PM] Sam Willis

Boooooo

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[2026-03-15 09:24:00 AM] Sam Willis

Sigh

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[2026-03-15 02:21:00 PM] Sam Willis

Ugh

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Fml

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

🤮

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[2026-03-15 08:35:00 PM] Sam Willis

That’s very hard to do

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[2026-03-15 08:35:00 PM] Sam Willis

That’s very hard to do This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:27:00 PM] Sam Willis

Why can you be upfront and honest with me and not Juliet??

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[2026-03-15 09:35:00 PM] Dave

Getting ready to work 17 days in the office this week 🙄

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[2026-03-15 09:21:00 AM] Dave

It was ass

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[2026-03-15 01:29:00 PM] Sam Willis

I’ll have to fill you in later. He really wants to try to work on it though. But he also said he doesn’t think I want to. And he said he thinks the reason I’ve been so depressed is partially bc I don’t want to be here (in AZ, which is 💯 % true), and he knows I wouldn’t still be if it weren’t for him and the kids and he doesn’t want to hold me back. He also said he always wondered if the reason why I got so wrapped up in rescue is because I was trying to avoid things between us (also true, I definitely think I subconsciously did this) He acknowledges the sex life has always been off, but he says I’m his person and he 100% desires me etc etc and I told him that I just can’t get there. That we just aren’t compatible in that way. Ugh it’s just been a lot. My head is pounding. We are on really good terms. Both just sad. We said we would revisit it again. I don’t know how to say that I just don’t want to try anymore. Even though he still does.

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[2026-03-15 03:08:00 PM] Dave

What the fuck

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[2026-03-15 07:14:00 PM] Dave

Oh I’m sorry it’s blah blah blah

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[2026-03-15 02:49:00 PM] Dave

The alarm bells are because the combination of things you said lead me to believe that you could fall into the trap of: when, there’s not time > he’s on his best behavior > mindfuck > this is the him I first met > maybe it is just me > maybe this is ok… And then, like it or not it’s 6 weeks later before you know it and you’ve both just been doing life, and this momentum has completely dissipated. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I can’t.

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[2026-03-15 03:24:00 PM] Dave

So why is it you can be so upfront and honest with me, and not Christian?

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[2026-03-15 08:32:00 PM] Dave

Holy shit! One thing at a time woman

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[2026-03-15 09:44:00 AM] Sam Willis

🙄

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[2026-03-15 07:27:00 PM] Dave

That you don’t know about

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[2026-03-15 09:38:00 PM] Dave

FYL indeed

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Humor

29 messages with humor signals | Average score: 0.69

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[2026-03-15 07:17:00 PM] Dave

Lmao

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[2026-03-15 09:19:00 AM] Sam Willis

“A little” lol. Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey! 🔥 lol I didn’t even notice the “come” In one of them, you put on a condom…😒 The POV ones were really really good too!! ❤️ This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 06:05:00 AM] Dave

1. I love love love when you text me the excerpts you liked 🥵 2. I spiced up the “romantic” ones a little 🤭😉 3. I need to teach it to say cum instead of come lol

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[2026-03-15 07:12:00 PM] Sam Willis

Oh I’m so sorry the weather is good enough for you to need to be outside again 🙄 lolol jk

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[2026-03-15 07:23:00 PM] Dave

Yeah we’ve already covered your gangbang dream 😏

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[2026-03-15 07:44:00 PM] Sam Willis

Hahaha

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[2026-03-15 08:33:00 PM] Dave

Hahaha, it is definitely AN idea 🤪

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[2026-03-15 09:38:00 PM] Dave

Said the love you part twice…

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[2026-03-15 11:32:00 AM] Dave

That sounds fun… if you’re into that kind of thing

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Dave

Kidding! Kidding! Get some rest baby

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[2026-03-15 09:19:00 AM] Sam Willis

“A little” lol. Helllooooo 50 Shades of Grey! 🔥 lol I didn’t even notice the “come” In one of them, you put on a condom…😒 The POV ones were really really good too!! ❤️

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[2026-03-15 02:25:00 PM] Sam Willis

And I’m actually medicated this time lmao

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[2026-03-15 03:08:00 PM] Sam Willis

I think like…I should just go to bed. lol

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[2026-03-15 07:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Lolol bc so true

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[2026-03-15 07:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

Hehehe

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[2026-03-15 07:43:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: Oh yeah people don't even try that because for some reason mine act so damn skittish like people can tell that they're skittish which is just stupid because they're like not. Oh my God bro hold on I'll be back but Lexi is literally pooping and she just pooped out something that's green and. A toy, I think

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[2026-03-15 08:00:00 PM] Sam Willis

Bro. Throw the thing away😂

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[2026-03-15 08:00:00 PM] Sam Willis

Bro. Throw the thing away😂 This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 08:57:00 PM] Dave

Meeeee either

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[2026-03-15 03:18:00 PM] Dave

It’s about to have a heart attack lol

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[2026-03-15 02:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

So that’s something lol

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[2026-03-15 03:21:00 PM] Dave

It shoulda been. Recall the horoscope 😌

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[2026-03-15 05:54:00 PM] Dave

Right?! 🤦‍♂️

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[2026-03-15 08:58:00 PM] Dave

Dum

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[2026-03-15 09:23:00 AM] Sam Willis

Anywhooooo

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[2026-03-15 05:05:00 PM] Sam Willis

Do I, personally, choose to ignore that truth every day? Abso-fucking-lutely lol. But I feel like we’ve been ignoring it together so maybe that’s helped?? I’m not sure.

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[2026-03-15 09:27:00 AM] Sam Willis

In fact, a lot of times, I feel a little numb lol

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[2026-03-15 03:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

Well….i mean…. Just throwing it out there that WAA still would be no more than what it already is because of…your side 🫣 lol

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[2026-03-15 07:30:00 PM] Sam Willis

That turned out for the better lol

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Passive aggression

2 messages with passive_aggression signals | Average score: 0.65

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[2026-03-15 03:20:00 PM] Dave

SEE?! You don’t mind having these terrible, hard conversations with ME! This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 07:19:00 PM] Dave

Not like you’ve been doing anything else today 🙄

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Planning

2 messages with planning signals | Average score: 0.82

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[2026-03-15 10:38:00 AM] Sam Willis

Same. I need to plan for the week. I also want to work for a bit and get these fucking dlogs that are in my queue out of it because I’m so sick of them being there in the back of my brain, haunting me lol. When I get home from the gym, I’m going to give all 5 idiots a bath. The Oscar’s are this evening, which is like Christian’s Super Bowl, so he’s making a lot of food so I gotta see what’s up with that. I think I offered to make something, too but I dunno what it is lol.

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Sam Willis

Talk soon

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Request

8 messages with request signals | Average score: 0.71

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[2026-03-15 12:42:00 PM] Dave

So he went to get him and he didn’t come out?

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[2026-03-15 02:37:00 PM] Dave

I have some strong comments on this prepared to send. Do you want them?

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[2026-03-15 02:37:00 PM] Dave

I have some strong comments on this prepared to send. Do you want them? This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Sam Willis

“Dug in” to what? WAA or your marriage? This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:16:00 PM] Dave

Is that an option you’re considering? This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:16:00 PM] Dave

Is that an option you’re considering?

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[2026-03-15 07:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Did I send you this?

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[2026-03-15 07:18:00 PM] Sam Willis

Hold please

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Sexting

1 messages with sexting signals | Average score: 0.82

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[2026-03-15 06:05:00 AM] Dave

1. I love love love when you text me the excerpts you liked 🥵 2. I spiced up the “romantic” ones a little 🤭😉 3. I need to teach it to say cum instead of come lol

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Status update

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[2026-03-15 03:12:00 PM] Dave

Just doing shit around the house. Cleaning up the office. Thinking about making some more sausage egg and cheese McMuffins for the week. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:12:00 PM] Dave

Just doing shit around the house. Cleaning up the office. Thinking about making some more sausage egg and cheese McMuffins for the week.

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[2026-03-15 03:48:00 PM] Dave

Marriage

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[2026-03-15 10:38:00 AM] Sam Willis

Same. I need to plan for the week. I also want to work for a bit and get these fucking dlogs that are in my queue out of it because I’m so sick of them being there in the back of my brain, haunting me lol. When I get home from the gym, I’m going to give all 5 idiots a bath. The Oscar’s are this evening, which is like Christian’s Super Bowl, so he’s making a lot of food so I gotta see what’s up with that. I think I offered to make something, too but I dunno what it is lol.

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[2026-03-15 03:48:00 PM] Dave

Marriage This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 02:22:00 PM] Sam Willis

I managed to give 3 dogs a bath

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[2026-03-15 05:10:00 PM] Dave

Also, I’m mowing. Will respond later

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[2026-03-15 08:57:00 PM] Sam Willis

Did I plan ahead or prep any food for this week? Sureeee didn’t

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[2026-03-15 03:13:00 PM] Dave

Packing up some sex toy orders currently

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[2026-03-15 07:49:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, you seem to be in pretty good spirits too considering everything. How are you feeling just in general after today it's actually wondering if you feel like. Relief or like a weight it's been lifted or anything since everything's gonna get going And also just kind of curious how everything went, but of course you could tell me whenever you want you don't have to now if you don't wanna judge it back up, but it was also great to hear your voice after everything today too

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[2026-03-15 03:09:00 PM] Sam Willis

I think I’m emotionally fried already. It’s only 1pm

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[2026-03-15 02:40:00 PM] Dave

I moved your comments around a little

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[2026-03-15 07:10:00 PM] Dave

I’m good. Just finished some sugar chicken from Panda Express 🥱

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[2026-03-15 07:11:00 PM] Dave

I got the yard straightened out for the first time this year. Ugh, I guess that’s a thing again 🙄

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[2026-03-15 07:13:00 PM] Sam Willis

Meh. Watching the Oscars with Kai and Christian. I’m going to take the dogs on their walks soon. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 07:13:00 PM] Sam Willis

Meh. Watching the Oscars with Kai and Christian. I’m going to take the dogs on their walks soon.

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[2026-03-15 03:40:00 PM] Sam Willis

Did I tell you he even offered to do couples therapy

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[2026-03-15 09:51:00 AM] Dave

Just the usual. Getting ready for the week. Got the shopping done after the gym.

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[2026-03-15 09:52:00 AM] Dave

Hbu? Anything after the gym?

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[2026-03-15 12:15:00 PM] Sam Willis

I’m 💀 from the gym 💤💤

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Sam Willis

“Dug in” to what? WAA or your marriage?

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Sam Willis

Hmph

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[2026-03-15 03:46:00 PM] Sam Willis

Ok I have things to say. Important things. But I’m so so tired, and if I try to keep talking, I’m going to start not making sense. I’m going to lay down for like an hour, then I am going to come back to this.

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[2026-03-15 09:39:00 PM] Dave

Yep, that checks out

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[2026-03-15 11:32:00 AM] Dave

Remind me what the Oscar’s are again

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[2026-03-15 12:15:00 PM] Sam Willis

Movie awards

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[2026-03-15 09:27:00 AM] Sam Willis

I don’t feel constantly stressed though.

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[2026-03-15 09:35:00 AM] Sam Willis

Transcription: Real quick, I was just gonna message about The only other thing that happened last night, but after he got mad and he went to his office, he came back out like a freaking and now like not too too long after let's just say like less than an hour anyway and then we're kind of like ignoring each other and then he's like OK, he's like can I just explain my side and then you tell me like why like why it's weird that I'm upset and he said you know First thing this morning, Quinn text me doesn't even say good morning and just ask me for money and I send him the money and then I say good morning Quinn. Great to hear from you. I hope you have a great day and then he then proceeds to say oh yeah good morning dad thanks for the money. Oh by the way we won first place yesterday and sent over some pictures. It's like in them. I don't hear from him all day. I don't bother him until what was it like 7 o'clock last night and I ask him hey Quinn, what's going on? Do I need to come get you to bring you home and then he proceeds to be cryptic in his messages So much so that I call him and then find out that he got pulled over and he didn't tell me he told his mom which I guess makes sense since his mom had a picture of his drivers license in her phone so then you know he needed to call her so she could send it so the cop could see he's like that's fine whatever But instead of him talking about coming home, he then tells me that I need to be more supportive, blah, blah blah, and he's like I just don't know where I went wrong and all this And I said you're upset because Quinn doesn't come to you Or you know say good morning to you or think to tell you things I said because you guys don't have a good relationship like. And I said and that is. Unfortunate for sure I said, but that's the truth. You guys don't have a good relationship and I can't remember what else I said I'm too. I guess I'm my brain is not functioning properly and so then he just got quiet and Oh, I said something about cause I guess Quinn said you're never on my side or you know you can't just Take my side or whatever and I said you know sometimes you can be said sometimes you know you just need to be empathetic. I said he just went through a scary thing for him like this is his first time ever getting pulled over he grew up with a dad who talks terribly about cops. He's probably scared of them because of what you've taught him to be. I said you know so he shook up and you didn't validate his feelings at all. You just are yelling at them about when he's gonna come home, that's why I said. Anyway, Jesus Christ, this is getting along So the last of it was he just like quiet and he was like OK well, I know what I need to do and I said OK what are you gonna do and he goes I'd rather keep it to myself, but I know what I need to do like OK and that was the last of it

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[2026-03-15 01:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

In other news….

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[2026-03-15 01:44:00 PM] Dave

Whoa!

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[2026-03-15 02:38:00 PM] Sam Willis

Go for it

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[2026-03-15 03:07:00 PM] Sam Willis

https://www.instagram.com/jakepaul/reel/DVwuJKnjfpM/ Jake Paul on Instagram 17M views, 1M likes, 23K comments: "Amazing day and interview coming w...

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.61
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[2026-03-15 03:07:00 PM] Sam Willis

Quick side note….

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[2026-03-15 03:09:00 PM] Sam Willis

OK back to us

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

No.

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[2026-03-15 07:21:00 PM] Sam Willis

OK like dream dream. Like life dream

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[2026-03-15 07:22:00 PM] Sam Willis

Like goal dream

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[2026-03-15 07:29:00 PM] Dave

Idk tbh 🤔

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[2026-03-15 07:44:00 PM] Dave

Used to be a ball

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[2026-03-15 07:44:00 PM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Oh yeah, bear has pretty much pooped out this entire thing right here that send you a picture of

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[2026-03-15 07:45:00 PM] Sam Willis

It looked exactly that color! But I have no idea

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[2026-03-15 07:50:00 PM] Sam Willis

Exactly Lexi. Sigh This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 07:50:00 PM] Sam Willis

Exactly Lexi. Sigh He tears off little pieces and ACTUALLY EATS THEM

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[2026-03-15 08:06:00 PM] Dave

Why, he’s taking care of it

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[2026-03-15 08:06:00 PM] Sam Willis

Obstruction

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[2026-03-15 08:08:00 PM] Dave

Naaaaaah he’s fine

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[2026-03-15 09:39:00 PM] Sam Willis

FOL

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Thank you. Ugh. I feel a wheel has been set in motion, but we just kind of have to put it on the back burner and get through our days, mostly bc the kids are here. So now he’s being in a great mood and on his best “behavior” for lack of a better word, and I just hope it’s not because he hopes I’ll change my mind. I just don’t know when I’m going to be able to say definitively that we should end this. Wednesday?? Ugh. I’m losing my resolve (is that the right word?) minute by minute. I think the thing he undoubtedly knows is that, more than anything, I want to be back in the Midwest. I honestly think he can look at it in a different light (not his fault, my fault) just because he knows how much my family means to me. He’s been super incredibly mature about everything so far. This is the him that I first met!! So that’s..a mind fuck.

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[2026-03-15 02:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

Goddddd

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[2026-03-15 02:44:00 PM] Dave

Yes

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[2026-03-15 03:25:00 PM] Dave

Because it’s us?

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[2026-03-15 09:42:00 AM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: Yeah, that's a good response on your side and analysis I think and like everything that you said Quinn did is like typical shit teenagers do I mean I guess this is his first teenager so it's like hard to know but like from my experience like this just how it is and especially Not to mention that when this is partially why it's this way, but like everything he Quinn does or says Christian yells at him about it seems like the causing names and is super hard on him so like why would he come to him for that I mean like they asking for money thing or like whatever kids don't fucking know to like be like cordial or whatever like to you know that you don't just do that right just dumb kids I don't know But yeah You're for sure that was right but it's I am interested to know like what he needs to do if it's like even remotely right like yell at him anymore or beat him the fuck I'm sure it's neither of those things but like yeah I don't know but yeah good for you. I guess for you know. Giving him a good analysis so I guess we'll see if he takes it to heart. You probably won't I mean given I should say that but like just given, that would be too negative, but considering how he is it with things you know not being able to realize when he's at fault like I can't imagine why this would be different but anyway. Yeah, good morning to you. I hope you have a great workout and I will talk to you soon.

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[2026-03-15 01:22:00 PM] Sam Willis

Emily just now dropped him off.

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Unmet need

2 messages with unmet_need signals | Average score: 0.70

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[2026-03-15 03:14:00 PM] Sam Willis

The reality is though that I can’t “work” on Christian and I, all while still maintaining WAA. And even just typing that makes me hurt.

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[2026-03-15 03:14:00 PM] Sam Willis

The reality is though that I can’t “work” on Christian and I, all while still maintaining WAA. And even just typing that makes me hurt. This message responded to an earlier message.

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Vulnerability

47 messages with vulnerability signals | Average score: 0.74

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[2026-03-15 02:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

I just want to curl up into a ball and hide

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[2026-03-15 03:18:00 PM] Sam Willis

And a part of me IS worried about losing my resolve. Of course. But I know I can’t.

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[2026-03-15 05:05:00 PM] Sam Willis

Do I, personally, choose to ignore that truth every day? Abso-fucking-lutely lol. But I feel like we’ve been ignoring it together so maybe that’s helped?? I’m not sure.

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[2026-03-15 06:10:00 PM] Sam Willis

Well don’t give me a lot of credit. I think the reason I call it out so blatantly is for selfish reasons. I’m doing it so I keep my head and heart in check and grounded in reality. It’s way too easy for me to live in fantasy land of “what if” and “some day”, and I just don’t want to do that to myself to be honest. I think it would hurt me worse NOT to acknowledge the truth and let myself pretend. 😭

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[2026-03-15 03:59:00 PM] Dave

1. It’s harder because you’re hurting him, not me? I get it. And I can see the parallel. 2. This is hard for me because I’m completely in love with you. But I also feel safe being vulnerable with you, and part of the love is being able to be upfront about things that suck. Does that resonate? 3. You definitely aren’t. But you feel like that’s what you’re doing to Christian. So that makes it hard, as opposed to just talking about facts? Ultimately the hard questions - question was mostly just breaking your balls, but it’s a good topic to cover, and I’m happy to do so with you 😘

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[2026-03-15 03:59:00 PM] Dave

1. It’s harder because you’re hurting him, not me? I get it. And I can see the parallel. 2. This is hard for me because I’m completely in love with you. But I also feel safe being vulnerable with you, and part of the love is being able to be upfront about things that suck. Does that resonate? 3. You definitely aren’t. But you feel like that’s what you’re doing to Christian. So that makes it hard, as opposed to just talking about facts? Ultimately the hard questions - question was mostly just breaking your balls, but it’s a good topic to cover, and I’m happy to do so with you 😘 This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:43:00 PM] Dave

Sigh… I wasn’t planning on getting all in my feels today either lol. WAA still would be no more than what it already is because of…your side Thinking and talking about this with you makes me absolutely sick - because 1. It’s true. And 2. I’m so ‘dug-in’ that it feels impossible to change, and, I guess that… Idk… scares me?… makes me feel hopeless?… makes ME feel trapped?… makes me sad because it ultimately represents an end to WAA? So that is what makes it a “hard conversation” in my view. You say you aren’t able to have hard conversations. I’d think it would be easier to have the conversation with Christian because you know that isn’t working regardless of WAA.

Score: 0.82 | Confidence: 0.7224999999999999
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[2026-03-15 03:06:00 PM] Sam Willis

The thought of WAA being anything less than what it already is, is like….too much for me to process or fathom at the moment

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[2026-03-15 03:08:00 PM] Sam Willis

I wish this was fake

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[2026-03-15 05:00:00 PM] Sam Willis

I have known from the beginning of WAA that 1. My feelings for you are stronger than they are for Christian. And 2. I would/will one day be single again.

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[2026-03-15 01:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

We’ve kind of started down the path of breaking up….

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[2026-03-15 01:29:00 PM] Sam Willis

I’ll have to fill you in later. He really wants to try to work on it though. But he also said he doesn’t think I want to. And he said he thinks the reason I’ve been so depressed is partially bc I don’t want to be here (in AZ, which is 💯 % true), and he knows I wouldn’t still be if it weren’t for him and the kids and he doesn’t want to hold me back. He also said he always wondered if the reason why I got so wrapped up in rescue is because I was trying to avoid things between us (also true, I definitely think I subconsciously did this) He acknowledges the sex life has always been off, but he says I’m his person and he 100% desires me etc etc and I told him that I just can’t get there. That we just aren’t compatible in that way. Ugh it’s just been a lot. My head is pounding. We are on really good terms. Both just sad. We said we would revisit it again. I don’t know how to say that I just don’t want to try anymore. Even though he still does.

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[2026-03-15 02:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

If I could get through my boyfriend unexpectedly dying in a motorcycle crash, I can get through this. I know I’m stronger than I remember.

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[2026-03-15 03:22:00 PM] Dave

This isn’t troubling for you? It makes me want to fucking die This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:22:00 PM] Dave

This isn’t troubling for you? It makes me want to fucking die

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[2026-03-15 03:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

But I have to manage my emotions on the whole subject so I don’t breakdown. OR, worse, make you feel pressured into changing anything about your life.

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[2026-03-15 06:10:00 PM] Sam Willis

Well don’t give me a lot of credit. I think the reason I call it out so blatantly is for selfish reasons. I’m doing it so I keep my head and heart in check and grounded in reality. It’s way too easy for me to live in fantasy land of “what if” and “some day”, and I just don’t want to do that to myself to be honest. I think it would hurt me worse NOT to acknowledge the truth and let myself pretend. 😭 This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 06:12:00 PM] Sam Willis

And….🤔 maybe I’m subconsciously acknowledging it so you don’t have to be the one who does it, like because you don’t want to hurt me, lead me on, etc.

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[2026-03-15 02:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

Thank you. Ugh. I feel a wheel has been set in motion, but we just kind of have to put it on the back burner and get through our days, mostly bc the kids are here. So now he’s being in a great mood and on his best “behavior” for lack of a better word, and I just hope it’s not because he hopes I’ll change my mind. I just don’t know when I’m going to be able to say definitively that we should end this. Wednesday?? Ugh. I’m losing my resolve (is that the right word?) minute by minute. I think the thing he undoubtedly knows is that, more than anything, I want to be back in the Midwest. I honestly think he can look at it in a different light (not his fault, my fault) just because he knows how much my family means to me. He’s been super incredibly mature about everything so far. This is the him that I first met!! So that’s..a mind fuck.

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[2026-03-15 02:49:00 PM] Dave

The alarm bells are because the combination of things you said lead me to believe that you could fall into the trap of: when, there’s not time > he’s on his best behavior > mindfuck > this is the him I first met > maybe it is just me > maybe this is ok… And then, like it or not it’s 6 weeks later before you know it and you’ve both just been doing life, and this momentum has completely dissipated. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 03:14:00 PM] Sam Willis

The reality is though that I can’t “work” on Christian and I, all while still maintaining WAA. And even just typing that makes me hurt.

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[2026-03-15 03:14:00 PM] Sam Willis

The reality is though that I can’t “work” on Christian and I, all while still maintaining WAA. And even just typing that makes me hurt. This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 05:04:00 PM] Sam Willis

That’s a hard, sucky, shitty truth, but i guess i don’t view it as a hard conversation because I think we both have known all along that it’s the truth

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[2026-03-15 05:03:00 PM] And, I really hope this doesn’t sound shitty, because i don’t mean it to at all…but the reason why we won’t be able to be together in a real way, will be because of your marriage.

Edited 2 minutes, 30 seconds later: If we are being honest with ourselves, we both know WAA will end one day because we won’t be able to be together in a real way. And, I really hope this doesn’t sound shitty, because i don’t mean it to at all…but the reason why we won’t be able to be together in a real way, will be because of your marriage.

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[2026-03-15 09:22:00 AM] Sam Willis

I slept like shit

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[2026-03-15 05:09:00 PM] Sam Willis

I love you too Dave 😭❤️

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[2026-03-15 07:30:00 PM] Dave

You know how that went

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[2026-03-15 02:37:00 PM] Sam Willis

Hadn’t gotten my mind to either of those points really yet

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[2026-03-15 02:42:00 PM] Dave

And I’m trying my best not to be jealous lover here so I hope it doesn’t come off like that

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[2026-03-15 05:06:00 PM] Sam Willis

Am I ready to FACE that truth yet? No

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[2026-03-15 07:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

I do legit want to get back into dancing. That’s still an active dream.

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[2026-03-15 07:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

I used to want to be a fitness model

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[2026-03-15 02:19:00 PM] Sam Willis

He actually started the conversation this morning by shutting the door, saying we need to talk, and then taking about how physically distant I am and that he needs affection. And so then I took that moment to say well it’s not just physical, I’m emotionally not feeling close to you either. He did seem legitimately shocked.

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[2026-03-15 03:26:00 PM] Sam Willis

1. Because I’m not breaking up with you. 2. I’m completely in love with you soooo like…why would this be hard for me? lol. 3. I don’t feel like I’m hurting your feelings or ego or pride. Or that I’m hurting you, just in general.

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[2026-03-15 04:59:00 PM] Sam Willis

So, hmm, I am trying to figure out how to respond

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[2026-03-15 02:43:00 PM] Sam Willis

He literally used the word “trapped”. That he knows I feel trapped.

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[2026-03-15 03:47:00 PM] Dave

Wooooow

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[2026-03-15 09:22:00 AM] Sam Willis

You know those kinds of sleep where you feel like you are like justttttt asleep enough but like never actually asleep, you know?

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[2026-03-15 01:24:00 PM] Sam Willis

It’s been a lot. We’ve been talking the past hour. Crying. All the things.

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[2026-03-15 01:56:00 PM] Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point.

If that happens, it will also likely make him think you might want to work on things. I think it’s super important that you make yourself clear asap, while this is all still fresh. I know you’re a wreck right now, but you are so close to being free. You only have a little bit farther to push to lock it in. And it sounds like this is the best case scenario. I’m sooo happy it don’t turn angry 😮‍💨. Edited 16 seconds later: As your friend: The most important thing now though is to not settle into we will revisit it later. Please trust me when I say that you will kick yourself if you let the momentum you’ve just worked so hard to build dissipate over the next days. The days will turn into weeks, and it will only get harder and harder to get back to this point. If that happens, it will also likely make him think you might want to work on things. I think it’s super important that you make yourself clear asap, while this is all still fresh. I know you’re a wreck right now, but you are so close to being free. You only have a little bit farther to push to lock it in. And it sounds like this is the best case scenario. I’m sooo happy it don’t turn angry 😮‍💨.

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[2026-03-15 02:40:00 PM] Dave

I feel a wheel has been set in motion, but we just kind of have to put it on the back burner and get through our days. This is bad. You’re ALREADY losing resolve. By Wednesday, you might feel entirely different after a few days of his best behavior. I just don’t know when I’m going to be able to say definitively that we should end this. Wednesday?? Ugh. I’m losing my resolve (is that the right word?) minute by minute. You cannot wait. Please trust me that this is critical. I think the thing he undoubtedly knows is that, more than anything, I want to be back in the Midwest. I honestly think he can look at it in a different light (not his fault, my fault) just because he knows how much my family means to me. NO! This is absolutely the wrong way to look at it. That’s backing down. Hiding. You’ve already started with: I can’t get there. You HAVE to stand by this. Anything else will reinforce the I-can-fix-this narrative. So now he’s being in a great mood and on his best “behavior”… I just hope it’s not because he hopes I’ll change my mind. It is exactly this. I promise. He’s been super incredibly mature about everything so far. This is the him that I first met!! So that’s..a mind fuck. This is dangerous because it makes me think the above has a possibility of working. And I’ll be honest, I think that IS a possibility if you don’t stand strong and continue this conversation asap 😕

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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

I want to know where your head is at!! This message responded to an earlier message.

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[2026-03-15 07:23:00 PM] Sam Willis

I’m trying to think of my dreams….

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[2026-03-15 07:27:00 PM] Dave

Hmmm… I have no idea what my dreams are lol

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[2026-03-15 08:20:00 PM] Sam Willis

Transcription: I think one of the things I need to do though was like write down things and like my Notes app of like all the things that I need to do because right now my brain is like already jumping into moving across the fucking country and like all that's gonna take and it's like I gotta get a new job because you know Steven's not gonna fucking let me move to Indianapolis Jesus Christ dogs So I am like just already spiraling about how overwhelming all the things are, but I need to like just think about like the break up first and the logistics of that first before I think about everything else is gonna blow up my fucking life pardon me that was like If I could just get like a short term fucking like six months, it'll never happen with Schwab because they fucking suck but I would love to like sell this house moved to Effingham for just like six months like living in a month month house not by one and then actually take my time Finding a job in Indianapolis or trying to transfer Schwab and then finding a new house and just all of that shit it just would be really nice to like be near my family for like a few months near meaning like in the same town But I know that won't ever happen. I wish I had enough money to just well I guess actually If I sold this house, I would have enough money to just live without working for a few months I think that's a bad idea, but it is an idea

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
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[2026-03-15 02:43:00 PM] Sam Willis

I won’t give in. I promise. I know that’s not the answer. I think deep down he knows it isn’t either

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
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[2026-03-15 03:17:00 PM] Sam Willis

🤮

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
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