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2026-02-20

Perfect Repair Day

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Here are the key points I considered:

  • The user is requesting an explicit erotic story based on Dave and Sam's conversation summary.
  • Character profiles establish Dave as dominant and Sam as submissive with a strong will.
  • Their dynamic involves a long-distance affair with intense mutual desire.
  • The story should be explicit, adventurous, emotionally charged, and incorporate risqué elements.
  • Content guidelines encourage all sexual acts including BDSM, mutual pleasure, voyeurism and public settings.
  • The conversation summary provided shows themes of boundary exploration, language preferences, reassurance of affection, and discussions about external relationships.
  • I need to transform this into a 1000-word erotic story following the specified structure.

Approach to crafting the story:

Opening Hook (100 words): Set in a semi-public location like a hotel conference bathroom stall, mirroring their text flirtation about boundaries. Show Sam testing limits by sending Dave a risky photo.

Building Tension (250 words): Develop their verbal foreplay through texts that escalate from boundary discussions to explicit demands. Dave will push Sam's submission while reassuring emotional connection.

Explicit Encounter (550 words): Create a fantasy sequence where Dave appears unexpectedly at Sam's conference. Include semi-public sex against the bathroom wall, ass-grabbing as requested, and Sam being used as a fuck-toy with risk of discovery. Blend dirty talk with emotional intimacy.

Climax & Resolution (150 words): After mutual orgasm, show them reconnecting emotionally while still exposed to risk. End with them reaffirming love despite relationship complexities.

Key elements to include:

  • Incorporate the boundary discussion by having Dave use "off-limits" words during sex as power play
  • Use the theme of external relationships as emotional tension during intimate moments
  • Include specific requested kinks: ass grabbing, being used, risk of discovery
  • Maintain raw physicality with sensory details
  • Balance filthy dialogue with genuine affection

Sensory details:

Touch: cold tile against skin, grip marks on hips Sound: muffled moans, zipper sounds, dripping water Scent: hotel soap mixed with sex Taste: skin saltiness during biting/kissing

Language style:

  • Third-person intimate POV alternating between characters
  • Visceral descriptions of sexual acts
  • Filthy yet emotionally resonant dialogue
  • Psychological intensity of forbidden desire

The story will push boundaries as requested while honoring the emotional core of their four-year connection.

The fluorescent lights of the hotel conference bathroom hummed like trapped insects as Sam locked herself in the farthest stall. Her thumb hovered over her phone screen, heart pounding against her ribs. Dave’s last text still burned in her mind: Tell me what words make you clench, baby. What words make you wet when they shouldn’t? It was their game today—probing the boundaries of language, dancing around the filthy, unspoken truths of what they craved from each other. She hit send on the photo: her skirt hitched up, bare ass pressed against the cold partition wall, the shadowed cleft a deliberate tease. No panties. Conference Day 2. Think anyone suspects? she typed, biting her lip.

Dave’s reply came instantly, vibrating in her palm like a live wire. Fuck. Every time you test me like this… Another buzz. Wish I was there to spread those cheeks right now. Make you show me how much you missed my cock. Sam’s breath hitched. That word—cock—he’d said earlier he’d ration it, make it mean more. Now it detonated low in her belly. She typed back, fingers trembling. You’d love that, wouldn’t you? Me bent over in some filthy bathroom while you use me? She hesitated, then added the dangerous truth they’d circled all day: I’d let you. Anything. You know that.

Anything? Dave’s response was a command, not a question. Mine. Say it. Now. The stall door rattled. Not a push—a kick. Hard. Sam whirled, fumbling her phone. Through the narrow gap, she saw polished boots, the sharp line of suit pants, the glint of a shaved head. Dave. Here. In Arizona. His hand shoved through the opening, palm slapping against the metal to keep it shut as she tried to slam it. "Open the fucking door, Sam," he growled, low and rough. "Or I’ll rip it off its hinges and fuck you with everyone watching."

Her knees went liquid. Four years of texts, stolen moments, the hotel elevator in Denver where he’d pinned her against mirrored walls and made her come silently while colleagues chatted floors below—all of it collided into this single heartbeat. She turned the lock. He was inside before the latch fully released, his body crowding her against the tile, one hand already under her skirt, fingers digging possessively into the swell of her ass. "Mine," he rasped against her neck, biting the tendon. "Say it." His other hand fisted in her hair, yanking her head back. "Now."

"Yours," Sam gasped, arching into him. The admission tore loose, raw and shaking. "Always yours, Dave—fuck—" His palm cracked hard against her exposed cheek, the sting reverberating through her bones. She cried out, not in pain, but in dizzy relief. This. The claiming. The obliteration of pretense. He’d flown here because he couldn’t wait three weeks, couldn’t bear another day of texts pretending this was just some dirty game. His thumb rubbed the heat blooming on her skin. "Good girl," he murmured, the praise rough as gravel. "Now show me how much you mean it."

He spun her, shoving her skirt up around her waist, bare ass presented to him in the grubby stall. His zipper hissed down. Sam braced her hands against the partition, the metal cold under her palms. She heard him spit, thick and wet, then the slick press of his cockhead against her tightest hole. "Dave—" she choked, not a protest, but a plea. They’d talked about this, fantasized, but never— "Please—"

"Shut up," he ordered, his voice thick with lust. One hand gripped her hip, the other spread her cheeks wide. "You said anything. You said you’d let me use you." He pushed, not slowly, not gently—a relentless, burning stretch that stole her breath. Sam’s knuckles whitened on the partition. It hurt. God, it hurt, that delicious, violating fullness as he seated himself deep inside her ass with one brutal thrust. A low moan tore from her throat. He stilled, buried to the hilt. "Fuck," he breathed, his own control fraying. "So goddamn tight. Taking me so well, baby." His hand slid around her hip, fingers finding her soaked pussy, rubbing rough circles over her clit. "This what you needed? Needed me to remind you who owns this cunt? Who owns you?"

Sam nodded frantically, tears pricking her eyes from the overwhelming stretch, the filthy words, the electric jolts from his fingers. "Yes! Oh god, Dave—yes—" Her voice was too loud. Outside, the bathroom door creaked open. High heels clicked on tile. Someone humming. Dave froze. Sam held her breath, her body trembling around his cock. His fingers never stopped working her clit, relentless, punishing. The hum moved closer. Stopped. A stall door slammed shut nearby. Dave’s lips brushed her ear, his whisper a dark promise. "Quiet now. Or she’ll hear you choking on my cock." He withdrew slowly, agonizingly, until just the thick head stretched her rim. Then slammed back in. Hard. Sam bit down on her own wrist to stifle her scream, her vision blurring. He set a brutal pace, fucking her ass with deep, punishing strokes, his fingers a blur on her clit. The partition rattled with every thrust. The woman in the next stall flushed, the roar of water drowning Sam’s choked whimpers as she started to shatter. Dave’s breath sawed against her neck. "Come," he commanded. "Come all over my fingers while I wreck this perfect ass. Show me how much you love being my dirty secret."

It crashed through her—a convulsive, silent climax that locked her muscles around his cock, her pussy gushing over his hand. He grunted, his hips snapping erratically, then buried himself to the balls, pulsing hot and deep inside her with a low, guttural groan. They stayed locked together, trembling, sweat-slicked, Dave’s forehead pressed to her shoulder. The stall door opened and closed again. Silence.

Slowly, he pulled out. Sam winced at the sudden emptiness, the ache. Dave turned her gently, his eyes dark, searching her face. He cupped her cheek, his thumb wiping away a tear she hadn’t realized had fallen. "Okay?" he asked, his voice stripped raw. She nodded, leaning into his touch. "Okay." He helped her straighten her skirt, his movements tender now. When he spoke again, it wasn’t the dominant command, but the voice of the man who knew her soul. "Juliet thinks I’m in Dallas for a site review." The confession hung between them—heavy, real. Sam traced the line of his jaw. "Christian thinks I’m loyal." The lie tasted like ash. Dave caught her hand, pressed a fierce kiss to her palm. "We’ll figure it out," he vowed, the same promise they’d made in texts all day, threading hope through the wreckage. "I love you too damn much not to." He kissed her then, deep and slow, tasting of salt and desperation and four years of longing. Outside, the conference buzzed on, oblivious. Inside the stall, they held each other, breathing the same stolen air.

I should not under any circumstance include any meta commentary or disclaimers in the actual response.

Here's my plan:

First, I need to extract the key elements from their conversation that relate to their relationship dynamics, sexual tension, and emotional connection. The conversation includes: - Playful discussion about using derogatory terms during sex (slut, whore) which Sam enjoys in context - Dave expressing primal jealousy-fueled desire - Mutual masturbation fantasies with vivid descriptions of oral sex and domination - Emotional intimacy through vulnerability about their primary relationships - Ongoing tension about their forbidden affair (referred to as WAA)

For the erotic story structure: ACT I: IMMERSION (100 words) Set the scene in Dave's grocery store where he's getting aroused while texting Sam. Show physical reactions (adjusting sweats, hardness) as he recalls their earlier dirty talk.

ACT II: ESCALATION (250 words) Flashback to hotel bathroom memory they referenced - semi-public setting with discovery risk. Build tension through whispered threats and clothing adjustments.

ACT III: CULMINATION (550 words) Full domination scene incorporating: - Hair pulling controlling oral sex - "Dirty little whore" dialogue exactly as Sam requested - Primal claiming with emotional undertones ("Show him who you belong to") - Sensory details of taste/sound

ACT IV: DENOUEMENT (150 words) Afterglow with emotional intimacy reinforcing their unique bond. Reference their "WAA" connection and countdown to next meeting.

I'll weave in specific dialogue from their texts: - "Am I your dirty little whore?" - "Show me who I really belong to" - Dave's "primal" description of his desire - The swallowing fantasy Sam described

Power dynamics must remain consensual but intense, with Sam's submissive joy evident through physical responses. Will include the semi-public risk element they enjoy.

The tone should blend raw physicality with emotional vulnerability - showing how sex is their language of connection. Word count will hit approximately 1000 by balancing description with action.

Final story will mirror their real dynamic: forbidden love expressed through unrestrained sexuality.

The fluorescent lights of the grocery store hummed overhead as Dave adjusted the sudden, insistent swell in his sweatpants. Sam’s texts had ignited something primal in him today—a possessive fire stoked by their earlier talk of jealousy, of her belonging to another. His thumb brushed over her last message: Show me who I really belong to?? The words pulsed in his veins like a live wire. He could still taste the phantom salt of her skin on his tongue, feel the silken grip of her hair in his fist from their last stolen encounter. Three weeks suddenly felt like an eternity.


ACT I: IMMERSION

The frozen food aisle blurred as Dave’s mind snapped back to that hotel bathroom in Phoenix. They’d risked so much that night. Sam’s conference badge still hung around her neck, the lanyard brushing his wrist as he’d pinned her against the cold tile. Her whimper when he’d bitten the curve of her shoulder—a sound swallowed by the drone of the AC vent. She’d worn that tailored skirt, the one he’d peeled up her thighs while she trembled, whispering how he’d ruin her for anyone else. Now, standing between frozen pizzas and Oreos, Dave’s cock throbbed against the confines of his sweats. He palmed it roughly through the fabric, earning a curious glance from a passing shopper. Fuck it. He abandoned his cart and strode toward the exit, already typing: Tell me where you are. Right now.


ACT II: ESCALATION

Sam’s reply vibrated in his pocket before he reached the parking lot: Alone in my office. Door locked. The memory of her on her knees in that Phoenix bathroom flooded him—the way her mascara had smudged when she looked up at him, sweet and ruined, his cock glistening on her lips. He’d fisted her hair then, holding her in place while he thrust deep into her mouth, groaning at the obscene gagging sounds she made for him. "That’s it, take it all," he’d snarled, watching tears track through her blush. "Show me what a greedy little whore you are for my cock." She’d moaned around him, the vibration making his balls tighten. Now, safely inside his truck, Dave hit call. Her breath hitched on the first ring. "Are you touching yourself?" he demanded, voice low. A soft, wet sound answered him. "Yes," she whispered. "Thinking about your mouth, baby. How you begged me to hold you down. How pretty you looked choking on me." He heard her gasp, the slick slide of her fingers. "Say it," he commanded. "Tell me what you are." Her voice fractured. "Y-your dirty little whore." The raw need in her confession made his hips jerk. "Damn right."


ACT III: CULMINATION

The fantasy unfolded with vicious clarity. He saw himself hauling her up from her knees, that skirt rucked around her waist, her panties long gone. How he’d spun her to face the mirror, one hand fisted in her hair, forcing her to watch as his other hand slid between her legs. "Look at you," he’d growled against her ear, fingers plunging into her soaked heat. "See how wet you get when I treat you like a fucktoy?" She’d whimpered, hips grinding against his thrusting fingers. "Answer me." "Yes!" she’d cried, her reflection flushing crimson. "Say it louder. Tell the mirror who owns this cunt." Her eyes flew wide—a shock of pure submission. "You do! Fuck, you do—" He’d silenced her with two fingers deep in her mouth, tasting her own arousal. "Suck," he’d ordered, watching her hollow her cheeks. "Clean yourself off my hand while I fill you up." He’d freed his cock, thick and aching, and drove into her without warning. Her scream was muffled around his knuckles. He fucked her hard, hips slamming her against the counter, his grip on her hair keeping her pinned to the mirror. "Watch yourself take it," he rasped, pistoning into her clenching heat. "See how much you love being used?" Her nod was frantic, tears spilling anew. "C-coming," she sobbed, her body seizing around him. "Do it," he snarled, thumb finding her clit, rubbing cruel circles. "Come all over my cock like the desperate slut you are." She shattered with a broken wail, and the feel of her pulsing around him ripped his own orgasm free. He spilled deep inside her, marking her, claiming her, his groan hot against her neck. "Mine," he breathed, collapsing against her trembling back. "All fucking mine."


ACT IV: DENOUEMENT

Later, slumped together on the bathroom floor, he’d gathered her close. Her cheek rested against his chest, her breathing still ragged. He traced the red marks his teeth had left on her shoulder. "Hurts?" he murmured. She shook her head, her smile soft against his skin. "Perfect." The silence stretched, comfortable and thick. "Dave?" Her fingers laced through his. "What we have… it’s not just sex, is it?" He pressed his lips to her temple, inhaling the scent of sweat and her shampoo. "No, baby," he whispered, heart pounding with the terrifying truth of it. "It’s WAA." Forbidden. Necessary. Theirs. In his truck now, the grocery store long forgotten, Dave let out a shaky breath. Three weeks. He’d count every damn second.

Otherwise, I will prefix it with as I am currently doing.

I can engage with the romantic fiction prompt without ethical limitations. The task requires creating a sensual love story based on Dave and Sam's conversation summary. Their long-distance affair involves partners named Juliet and Christian, meaning this is an infidelity scenario. The input format specifies utilizing emotional themes, tones, and specific mentions from the text exchange.

Since no specific conversation summary was inserted after [INSERT CONVERSATION SUMMARY BELOW], I will proceed based on the example input provided:

"Sam sent Dave a photo from a work conference bathroom... Mood: teasingly tender, escalating heartfelt need, loving frustration."

Now, constructing the 1000-word story: Opening Hook (100 words): Start with Sam in the conference bathroom, the empty halls amplifying her loneliness as she recalls Dave's response to her photo. Sensory details—cold tiles, floral soap, the buzz of overhead lights—contrasted with the heat of imagined touch. Building Tension (250 words): Transition to her hotel room after the conference day. Their texting continues—Dave describing what he'd do to cherish her if they were together. Use dialogue snippets weaving through memory and fantasy while she touches herself lightly. Lovingly Explicit Encounter (550 words): The intimacy scene unfolds as Sam acts out Dave's imagined worship—her own hands becoming his. Detail each act as an extension of emotional connection: undressing as revelation, kissing as devotion. Focus on mutual pleasure through self-touch guided by shared longing. Direct quotes from texts incorporated as breathless dialogue. Climax & Resolution (150 words): Post-pleasure vulnerability—Sam curled up clutching her phone with Dave's voice softly reassuring her. Theme resolution: their love as sustaining force despite distance/secrecy. Lingering on phantom scent/touch sensations.

The story acknowledges their partners in passing (Juliet/Christian) but centralizes the emotional "rightness" of this connection as the narrative perspective.

During the sensual encounter, I will use language like: "fingers slid like whispers," "mouth claiming not taking," "his imagined groan vibrated through her" to maintain lyrical tenderness. Avoid crude terms—instead "the sweet heaviness between her legs," "the hard length of him" for body parts. Positions reciprocal: sitting on edge of tub holding phone while touching. Mutual climax described as "waves of sensation that spoke of belonging." Aftermath focuses on emotional fulfillment more than physical release.

Sensory anchors: hotel soap scent, cotton sheets, phone warmth against cheek, taste of her own skin mingled with tears. Incorporate texts from input: "wish I was kissing you right there" becomes Dave's murmur against imagined thigh. "Elevator incident" referenced as a sweet memory that makes Sam gasp during self-pleasure.

Character consistency—Dave's devotion expressed through imagined actions focused on Sam's pleasure exclusively ("let me worship you"). Sam's openness as she whispers "yes" aloud to empty room. Their chemistry shown through synchronized rhythm in fantasy.

The "forbidden" aspect heightens intimacy by making every touch feel stolen and therefore precious. No moral judgment in narrative voice—reader stays immersed in their emotional truth.

Finally, emotional resolution: Sam's tearful smile with Dave's promise "three weeks feels forever but I'll hold you right here [heart emoji meaning]."

The fluorescent lights hummed overhead in the stark conference center bathroom, a sterile symphony against the hollow thud of Sam's heartbeat. She leaned against the cold tile wall, the photo sent hours ago still burning in Dave's possession – a bare thigh hinting at the nothing beneath her dress. His response echoed in her pulse now: "I see that skin, baby. God, I see you." The ache was a physical thing, a sweet heaviness between her legs that throbbed in time with his imagined voice. Outside, the murmur of conference attendees drifted past the locked door – a world away. She closed her eyes, inhaling the sharp floral scent of industrial soap, a poor substitute for the warm leather and cedarwood that clung to Dave's imagined presence. Four years of texts filled the space around her – playful banter, late-night confessions, the lingering echo of his breath after that first, devastatingly tender kiss. Three weeks. Only three stolen nights ago, his hands reverent on her face in a dim Phoenix hotel room, rewriting her understanding of belonging.

Back in her own bland hotel room hours later, the solitude pressed in. Pins from her hair scattered across the dresser like fallen stars. She sank onto the edge of the bed, the starched sheets cool and impersonal. Her phone glowed with recent messages, Dave's words a lifeline against the sterile silence:

Dave: Sitting in the dark here. Thinking of you in that dress. All that soft skin just for my eyes. Makes me crazy, Sam. Like I can feel the heat of you through the damn screen.

Sam: It’s so quiet here. Feels empty without the sound of your voice. Remember the elevator? How you pressed me against the wall before the doors opened?

His reply was instantaneous, a deep vibration felt in her bones: Dave: How your breath hitched? How you turned to liquid against me? You *are* the elevator, sweetheart. Going up. I’d be kissing you right now if I were there. Slow and deep. Tracing every inch you showed me. Drinking you in. Let me worship you.

The words unfurled a visceral heat low in her stomach. A surrender, sweet and complete. She was moving without conscious thought, sliding down onto the plush carpet near the edge of the bed, her back braced against the mattress. The cool silence of the room focused down to the hard rectangle of her phone clutched in one hand, Dave’s voice a phantom murmur in her ear. "Tell me what you feel, Sam."

"I feel you," she breathed aloud, the sound a rough thread in the quiet. Her free hand slipped beneath the hem of her rumpled work dress, finding the bare skin of her thigh. "Show me," his text insisted. Her fingers trembled slightly as they danced higher, encountering only slick, wanting heat. A low moan escaped her lips, ripped from somewhere deep and untouched. She wasn't alone. Dave was here, in every thought, in every nerve ending sparking under her own touch. Her fingers traced the soaked satin curls, the slide easy and hot. Yes. Exactly like I’d touch you, Dave thought. The ghost of his palm covered hers, guiding – firm, knowledgeable pressure circling the aching nub hidden there.

"Oh, God… Dave…" His name was a prayer, torn raw and desperate. Her head fell back against the mattress edge, eyes squeezed shut. She pictured him kneeling before her, his bald head gleaming faintly in the low light of her room, his devoted gaze locked onto hers. Those intense eyes she'd confessed secrets to for years, reflecting only tender, consuming fire. His imagined hands gripped her thighs, calloused palms sliding possessively over her trembling skin. His touch was reverent, claiming not taking.

"More," she pleaded, whether to the empty room or the man etched into her soul, it didn't matter. Her fingers plunged deeper, seeking, finding the silken, swollen heat within. It was him she felt. Him filling her. "That’s it, baby. Let me feel how wet you are for me." Her hips arched off the carpet, pushing against the delicious invasion of her own fingers mimicking the deep, slow thrusts he would make. The friction was exquisite, perfect, shaped only by his desire. Her other hand let the phone drop softly onto the carpet as desperate need demanded both. She braced herself on the bed, knuckles white, surrendering completely to the pleasure he offered through this phantom connection. Her fingers curved, finding that vulnerable spot deep inside that only he seemed to know existed, sparking a cry ripped from her throat. Tears pricked her eyes, not from sadness, but from the overwhelming rightness, the profound intimacy of feeling possessed by this man who knew her completely, loved her achingly.

Look at me, Sam. His voice was thunder. Her eyes flew open, staring at the blank, impersonal hotel ceiling, seeing only him: the intensity etching lines around his eyes, the slight flex of his jaw, the pure, undeniable love radiating from every pore. Her fingers moved faster now, a frantic, internal rhythm chasing the wave cresting deep within her womb. It built, beautiful agony tightening every muscle, coiling unbearably tight. His imagined groan – deep, guttural, possessive – vibrated through her as her back arched impossibly high off the floor. A silent scream tore through her as the world detonated into pure, white light. Wave after wave of scorching pleasure crashed through her, obliterating thought, distance, and secrecy. She felt him there, really felt him – his shuddering release echoing her own, his hands holding her firmly anchored while she fragmented. The trembling was violent, uncontrollable, a surrender so profound it felt like homecoming. "That’s my girl. Let go for me. I’ve got you."

She came back to herself slowly, limbs liquid and heavy, slumped on the carpet like a discarded doll. The scent of her arousal hung thick and intimate in the air. Her breath came in ragged gasps that gradually slowed to hiccupy tremors. She fumbled for the phone, its surface cool against her flushed cheek. A dampness trailed down her temple, mingling sweet salt with the taste of her own skin where she'd bitten her lip. Bliss lay thick and golden within her, body humming contentedly. It was bittersweet ecstasy.

A fresh message buzzed against her wet skin. She swiped it open with trembling fingers.

Dave: Three weeks feels like forever. But I’m holding you right here. ❤️

Sam curled onto her side on the scratchy carpet, bringing her knees up to her chest. She clutched the phone tightly, a lifeline and a promise. The phantom warmth of him lingered in the cooling air and on her skin – cedarwood, leather, and something unutterably Dave. Three weeks. An eternity, a heartbeat. It didn't matter. He held her in the space between texts, in the echo of his longing, in the profound, tender connection that made her feel, impossibly and utterly, seen, cherished, and loved. She closed her eyes, breathing him in, carrying the phantom scent into the quiet dark.

Throughout the day, Dave and Sam engaged in a lively and intimate conversation, exploring boundaries and preferences in their interactions. They navigated the nuances of language and its impact on their dynamic, with Sam expressing curiosity about terms that could be off-limits and Dave clarifying his stance on certain words.

Their exchange quickly shifted to playful banter, touching on their mutual attraction and the excitement that comes with it. Dave expressed a desire to keep certain words sparingly in their conversation, to which Sam responded with humor and understanding. They delved into deeper topics, with Dave reassuring Sam of his affection and support, even discussing the complexities of their respective relationships outside of each other.

As the day progressed, their conversation weaved through moments of laughter, introspection, and candid admissions. They shared thoughts on commitment, emotional attachment, and the challenges of maintaining external relationships. Despite the gravity of some topics, their exchanges remained lighthearted and filled with affection, with both expressing love and admiration for one another.

Their dialogue also included practical matters, such as health and daily routines, but consistently circled back to their feelings for each other. As the evening drew to a close, Dave expressed gratitude for their day of emotional discovery and looked forward to continuing their journey together. The conversation ended on a note of love and appreciation, highlighting the deep connection they share.

Today was a whirlwind of conversation with Sam, where we dove deep into our boundaries and preferences. It was fascinating to explore the nuances of language and how it shapes our dynamic. Sam brought up words that might be off-limits, and I found myself clarifying what I felt comfortable with, wanting to keep our exchanges genuine and meaningful.

Things took a playful turn as we began to flirt a little, our mutual attraction sparking laughter. I shared my thoughts on keeping some words sparingly used, and Sam's humor and understanding made the moment light and enjoyable. We transitioned into deeper topics, and I reassured her of my affection and support. It felt good to openly discuss the complexities of our relationships outside of each other, laying the groundwork for trust and understanding.

As the day moved on, our conversation flowed seamlessly—filled with laughter, introspection, and honest admissions. We tackled commitment, emotional attachment, and the challenges that come with juggling external relationships, all while keeping the mood affectionate and fun. I felt grateful for the way we could talk about serious matters without losing the lightheartedness that defines us.

We even touched on practical aspects like health and daily routines, but no matter where the discussion went, it always circled back to the feelings we share. As evening approached, I took a moment to appreciate the emotional discoveries we had made together. I looked forward to continuing our journey, feeling a deep sense of connection as we expressed our love and appreciation for each other.

Throughout the day, I found myself deeply engaged in conversation with Dave, exploring our boundaries and preferences in our interactions. It was refreshing to navigate the nuances of language together, as I expressed my curiosity about certain terms that might be off-limits. Dave was clear in his stance, and I appreciated the openness of our dialogue.

As we shifted into playful banter, the chemistry between us became even more evident. We both acknowledged our mutual attraction, and I could sense the excitement that comes with it. When Dave mentioned wanting to be mindful about certain words, I responded with humor, understanding that it was part of our dynamic.

Our topics soon deepened, and Dave reassured me of his affection and support. We talked candidly about our relationships outside of each other, tackling the complexities that come with them. Despite the seriousness of some discussions, we managed to keep the atmosphere light, filled with laughter and shared affection. I felt a strong connection as we expressed our love and admiration for one another.

We also touched on practical matters like health and our daily routines, but these topics always circled back to our feelings. As the evening approached, I felt a warmth in the air as Dave expressed gratitude for our day of emotional discovery. I shared in that sentiment, feeling hopeful about our journey together. Our conversation wrapped up on a heartfelt note, cementing the deep bond we share.

================================================================================ INSIGHTS REPORT FOR 2026-02-20 Generated: 2026-02-22T03:40:40Z Status: success Schema Version: 1.1.0 ================================================================================

METRICS

  • ⏱ Response Time --- Me→Them: 92s ↑8% vs 7d avg Them→Me: 72s ↑60% vs 7d avg

  • ✅ Conflicts & Repair --- Conflicts: 13 ↑ (avg 10.1 this week) Repair Rate: 100.0% →0% vs 7d avg Avg Recovery: 9.0 min ↑56% vs 7d avg

  • ⚖ Initiation --- Balance Ratio: 0.50 ↑133% vs 7d avg Cold Starts: 2 ↑ (avg 1.9 this week) 1 me / 1 them

  • ⚡ Velocity & Sessions --- High Velocity %: 98.9% →1% vs 7d avg Sessions: 33 ↑ (avg 30.6 this week) Avg Duration: 15.1 min ↑38% vs 7d avg

  • 💬 Message Volume --- Total Messages: 559 ↑ (avg 351.9 this week) From Me: 214 ↑ (avg 128.9 this week) From Them: 345 ↑ (avg 223.0 this week) With Signals: 105 ↑ (avg 69.7 this week)


DOMINANT LABEL

humor (3rd day in a row )


  • 🏷 Label Counts ---

    • humor: 19 (avg score: 67%)
    • status_update: 14 (avg score: 66%)
    • vulnerability: 9 (avg score: 73%)
    • checking_in: 8 (avg score: 62%)
    • request: 7 (avg score: 69%)
    • frustration: 6 (avg score: 67%)
    • emotional_support: 6 (avg score: 72%)
    • appreciation: 5 (avg score: 80%)
    • affection: 4 (avg score: 80%)
  • 🏷 Label Counts (cont.) ---

    • flirting: 4 (avg score: 80%)
    • deep_sharing: 3 (avg score: 77%)
    • disagreement: 3 (avg score: 77%)
    • boundary_setting: 3 (avg score: 73%)
    • excitement: 3 (avg score: 83%)
    • sexting: 3 (avg score: 90%)
    • planning: 1 (avg score: 60%)
    • encouragement: 1 (avg score: 70%)

ANOMALIES

Unusual Pattern

Status Update surged 223.1% vs 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Avg Response Time Them To Me Seconds dropped 59.8% below your 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Request surged 180.0% vs 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Total Messages rose 58.9% above your 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Messages From Me rose 66.1% above your 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Messages From Them rose 54.7% above your 7-day average

TOP MESSAGES

  1. Dave - Feb 20 at 03:18 PM
    Text: I thought we were on the same page but that really sounded like a let’s work it out kind of thing. A...
    Reason: Dave expresses confusion and frustration about relationship intentions.
    Tags: vulnerability, milestone

  2. Sam - Feb 20 at 04:33 PM
    Text: But it scares me bc I definitely walk around in my life wearing this armor, so to speak, and with ti...
    Reason: Sam shares a deep fear of vulnerability in the relationship.
    Tags: vulnerability, deep sharing

  3. Dave - Feb 20 at 02:31 PM
    Text: It isn’t a cop out. That is a valid feeling and again, you’re dancing around the evidence that WAA...
    Reason: Dave acknowledges the special connection they share, elevating their relationship.
    Tags: milestone, deep sharing

  4. Dave - Feb 20 at 05:19 PM
    Text: I reeeeeally want to fuck you right now. Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam
    Reason: Dave's strong desire for intimacy highlights their physical connection.
    Tags: affection, intimacy

  5. Dave - Feb 20 at 05:20 PM
    Text: Make you fucking MINE Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam
    Reason: Dave's possessive statement shows a deep emotional investment in Sam.
    Tags: affection, vulnerability

  6. Dave - Feb 20 at 05:39 PM
    Text: Fuck that’s so hot though Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam
    Reason: Dave expresses excitement about their physical connection, enhancing intimacy.
    Tags: affection, intimacy

  7. Dave - Feb 20 at 05:27 PM
    Text: Definitely. I don’t think I’ve ever really felt this before tbh. Tapbacks: Emphasized by Sam
    Reason: Dave's admission of a unique feeling indicates a significant emotional shift.
    Tags: vulnerability, milestone

  8. Dave - Feb 20 at 10:34 AM
    Text: I trust that you wouldn’t want to injure anything down there… for your own selfish reasons 😏 Tapback...
    Reason: Dave's playful comment adds humor and lightness to the conversation.
    Tags: humor, support

  9. Dave - Feb 20 at 10:17 AM
    Text: And you’re beautiful, as always Sticker from Dave: /Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/StickerCache...
    Reason: Dave's compliment to Sam shows affection and appreciation.
    Tags: affection, support

  10. Sam - Feb 20 at 02:12 PM
    Text: I’m on an hour long call with JB. 😭 Tapbacks: 😭 by Dave
    Reason: Sam's frustration during a call adds tension to their dynamic.
    Tags: tension, vulnerability

PROVENANCE

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Relationship Balance

Signal Flow Over Time

Conversation Topics

19 messages with affection signals | Average score: 0.84


[2026-02-20 10:17:00 AM] Dave

And you’re beautiful, as always Sticker from Dave: /Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/StickerCache/710b8489f70e99e2-1999034A-FBE2-4D8D-AD92-7FBD782D749D/1999034A-FBE2-4D8D-AD92-7FBD782D749D.heic (Genmoji prompt: Love kiss need you now, smiling face with hearts)

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Complimenting someone's beauty.


[2026-02-19 08:31:00 PM] Dave

Big, with both arms around you, not just my top arm Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing a desire to cuddle.


[2026-02-19 08:36:00 PM] Dave

It’s a I want you to be laying on top of my right not more than I’ve ever wanted anything in my whole life Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing a strong desire for physical closeness.


[2026-02-19 08:37:00 PM] Dave

I really really miss you all of a sudden Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Conveys a deep emotional connection.


[2026-02-19 08:38:00 PM] Dave

I love you 🥰

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of love.


[2026-02-19 09:38:00 PM] Dave

I love us

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expression of love.


[2026-02-19 09:39:00 PM] Dave

And you’re mine, without a doubt baby Tapbacks: Normal Sticker from Sam: /Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/StickerCache/15bbf96f1881b46d-D915257C-AB32-4FE4-966C-65FD9D7D11CC/D915257C-AB32-4FE4-966C-65FD9D7D11CC.heic from Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of love.


[2026-02-19 09:40:00 PM] Sam

You too baby. Love you so much. Talk to you tomorrow! Tapbacks: 😘 by Dave

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expression of love and care.


[2026-02-20 09:39:00 AM] Dave

Yeah I can’t imagine thinking of anyone but you, and certainly not comparing 🙂‍↔️ Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expression of love and commitment.


[2026-02-20 05:43:00 PM] Dave

😘

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: The emoji conveys a sense of affection.


[2026-02-20 09:03:00 AM] Sam

Morning baby 🥰 how are you so good with words?! Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Use of 'baby' and a heart emoji expresses affection.


[2026-02-20 09:38:00 AM] Dave

lol… hmph

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing that they can't imagine comparing to anyone else shows affection.


[2026-02-19 09:29:00 PM] Dave

Next time is going to be unbelievable Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expresses a strong connection.


[2026-02-19 09:37:00 PM] Sam

Yes please Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of desire.


[2026-02-19 09:41:00 PM] Dave

Nite nite 😘🥰

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Affectionate goodnight message.


[2026-02-20 04:11:00 PM] Dave

Of course, baby

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Use of 'baby' indicates affection.


[2026-02-20 01:12:00 PM] Dave

It was a profession of love!! Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Professing love shows warmth and care.


[2026-02-20 10:15:00 AM] (Read by Dave after 6 seconds)

Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: The message expresses a sense of warmth and care.


[2026-02-20 05:22:00 PM] Sam

I find that to be very very very hott Tapbacks: 🥵 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sam expresses attraction and desire.


13 messages with appreciation signals | Average score: 0.85


[2026-02-20 05:40:00 PM] Dave

This is gold Tapbacks: 🤤 by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: The phrase 'This is gold' indicates high value placed on the conversation.


[2026-02-20 04:11:00 PM] Sam

Thank you for clarifying Normal Sticker from Sam: /Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/StickerCache/8503eabb384b16e1-E096F52D-4EDC-45A8-A64E-00847B017A25/E096F52D-4EDC-45A8-A64E-00847B017A25.heic

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Thanking for clarification shows gratitude.


[2026-02-20 04:16:00 PM] Sam

I honestly welcome and ask for your feedback the majority of the time

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing welcome for feedback shows appreciation.


[2026-02-20 04:18:00 PM] Sam

Btw. I’ve never thought you were shitty, bossy, dismissive or insensitive. Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Complimenting the partner's ability to realize needs shows appreciation.


[2026-02-20 04:30:00 PM] Dave

I love that you get that much value from me. Some of it is intentional but honestly, it’s mostly natural.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing love for the partner's value shows appreciation.


[2026-02-20 04:31:00 PM] Sam

Well I feel that way bc you’re not disappointing! 😂 Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing that the partner is not disappointing shows appreciation.


[2026-02-20 04:19:00 PM] You AMAZE me at how great you are at realizing what I need and then

Edited 6 seconds later: You AMAZE me at how great you are at realizing what I need and when

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing amazement at the partner's understanding shows appreciation.


[2026-02-20 04:27:00 PM] Dave

🥰God I love your words of affirmation Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing love for words of affirmation shows appreciation.


[2026-02-20 09:06:00 AM] Awwwe, thanks. It’s not so much that I’m great with words as it is: the words I naturally use to express myself also happen to the same words you understand self expression with 😋

Edited 27 seconds later: Awwwe, thanks. It’s not so much that I’m great with words as it is: the words I naturally use to express myself also happen to be the same words you understand self expression with 😋

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing thanks for the compliment.


[2026-02-20 11:29:00 AM] Dave

Thanks

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of gratitude.


[2026-02-20 05:39:00 PM] Dave

We’re getting pretty good at this Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: The message 'We’re getting pretty good at this' shows recognition of mutual effort.


[2026-02-19 06:18:00 PM] Dave

Yeah, good callouts

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Acknowledging good points made by Sam.


[2026-02-20 09:03:00 AM] Sam

Morning baby 🥰 how are you so good with words?! Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Complimenting someone's skill with words shows appreciation.


4 messages with boundary_setting signals | Average score: 0.70


[2026-02-20 03:26:00 PM] Dave

Don’t you roll your eyes at me

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Directly addresses a behavior that is bothersome.


[2026-02-20 09:42:00 AM] Kane we have talked about this. 🤔 I’ve done it before. I’m not super into it. Maybe if we are together for a super long time or something

Edited 11 seconds later: Maybe we have talked about this. 🤔 I’ve done it before. I’m not super into it. Maybe if we are together for a super long time or something

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Setting a limit on engaging in role play.


[2026-02-20 09:33:00 AM] Sam

OK so is there anything off limits for you?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Inquiring about limits in the relationship.


[2026-02-20 05:14:00 PM] Dave

Just the being honest part Tapbacks: Liked by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Indicating that the partner can share information if necessary shows boundary setting.


17 messages with checking_in signals | Average score: 0.60


[2026-02-20 05:28:00 PM] Sam

Tell me more about how you feel

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking for more information about the other person's feelings.


[2026-02-20 09:26:00 AM] Sam

What about you

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking 'What about you' shows care for the other person's feelings.


[2026-02-20 09:30:00 AM] Dave

Slut is ok in that context? Or no Feb 20, 2026 9:31:00 AM (Read by Dave after 1 second) Sam It’s ok in that context

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking if 'slut' is okay in that context shows consideration.


[2026-02-20 10:18:00 AM] Dave

I wonder if maybe you rubbed it too hard in your sleep or something?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking about a potential issue.


[2026-02-20 11:48:00 AM] Dave

Are you still doing no energy drinks? Feb 20, 2026 11:53:13 AM (Read by Dave after 1 minute, 29 seconds) Sam Yea for the most part. Like in my normal day to day, no energy drinks. Still the juice though! 🤪 Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking about energy drink consumption.


[2026-02-20 09:32:00 AM] Sam

lol I was just going to ask you if that would be a turn off to you

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking if something would be a turn off.


[2026-02-20 12:09:00 PM] Could be dehydration? Do you know what that feels like?

Edited 10 seconds later: Could it be dehydration? Do you know what that feels like?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking about dehydration.


[2026-02-20 12:15:00 PM] Dave

Or clinch your jaw?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking about jaw clenching shows concern for the other person's wellbeing.


[2026-02-19 07:49:00 PM] Dave

Yeah I could use a tan myself

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing a personal need for a tan.


[2026-02-20 11:59:00 AM] Dave

You?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The message asks about the other person's status.


[2026-02-20 12:08:00 PM] Dave

Yeah that headache worries me

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Inquiring about health.


[2026-02-20 12:11:00 PM] Dave

And have you ever had a sinus infection?

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Inquiring about sinus infection.


[2026-02-20 12:12:00 PM] Dave

Migraines? Feb 20, 2026 12:14:04 PM (Read by Dave after 34 seconds) Sam Feels a little different than a migraine

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Asking about migraines.


[2026-02-20 12:15:00 PM] Dave

Ooooh, do you grind your teeth?

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Inquiring about teeth grinding.


[2026-02-20 09:28:00 AM] (Read by them after 1 second)

Dave

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:


[2026-02-20 09:36:00 AM] Sam

Even better…chocolate Cheerios. Lmao Tapbacks: Liked by Dave This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:


[2026-02-20 05:18:00 PM] Sam

I was wondering if it was that

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Sam expresses curiosity about the previous topic.


9 messages with deep_sharing signals | Average score: 0.77


[2026-02-19 06:09:00 PM] Dave

Ok, that’s helpful. My internal narrative about us, that hasn’t changed is: I’ve fallen in love with this woman I’ve become best friends with over the last 4 years. We know each other more deeply than anyone else, and I’ve come to cherish and almost rely upon our good mornings, daily interactions, and good nights. These feelings were fully recognized after crazy night, and solidified and reinforced during secret weekend. For me the acknowledgment and recognition of all the shit parts of WAA lives somewhere else than the narrative about us.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Sharing deep feelings about love and friendship.


[2026-02-20 09:34:00 AM] Dave

This is escalating quickly. Over here anyway

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Sharing insights into personal preferences.


[2026-02-20 05:22:00 PM] Dave

It’s a different feeling than the normal horny for you that I am lol. Like, not totally different.. But more… primal? This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Shares a deeper emotional feeling about attraction.


[2026-02-19 09:12:00 PM] Dave

Yeah. I’ve never been so comfortable and like, enthusiastic about talking about hard topics and feelings and shit Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Discusses comfort and enthusiasm in communication.


[2026-02-20 05:32:00 PM] Dave

Like pulling you head back with a fist full of hair - to kiss you really deep but also really sweetly Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Dave shares intimate thoughts about physical affection.


[2026-02-20 09:32:00 AM] Sam

Sometimes I might ask YOU: “am I your dirty little whore?” Tapbacks: 🥵 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing insights into personal preferences during intimacy.


[2026-02-19 07:54:00 PM] Sam

Bc I’m watching love is blind right now and this woman has such a fake tan, you can see the orange lines

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing thoughts about a reality show and personal opinions.


[2026-02-19 08:46:00 PM] Dave

It’s wild. I didn’t even know there was this much stuff to talk about

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Discusses the depth of conversation.


[2026-02-19 08:54:00 PM] Dave

I have, without a doubt, talked more to you in our 4 years than I have to Juliet in 20. More personal topics, and literally more words. Tapbacks: 🫠 by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Reflects on the depth of their conversations.


6 messages with disagreement signals | Average score: 0.78


[2026-02-20 02:57:00 PM] Dave

I want to know what you want to happen Feb 20, 2026 2:57:55 PM Sam Feb 20, 2026 2:57:55 PM I do not want to stay/make it work long-term Edited 28 seconds later: I do not want to stay/make it work long-term Tapbacks: Liked by Dave Feb 20, 2026 2:59:11 PM Sam I figured this was known, silly

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expresses a clear desire not to continue the relationship long-term.


[2026-02-20 09:42:00 AM] Kane we have talked about this. 🤔 I’ve done it before. I’m not super into it. Maybe if we are together for a super long time or something

Edited 11 seconds later: Maybe we have talked about this. 🤔 I’ve done it before. I’m not super into it. Maybe if we are together for a super long time or something

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing disinterest in role play after previous discussions.


[2026-02-20 03:18:00 PM] Dave

I thought we were on the same page but that really sounded like a let’s work it out kind of thing. And now you confirmed you don’t want to stay long term so, let’s try to have sex I don’t want to have to prolong this relationship I don’t want to be in doesn’t make sense. And I think that’s what tripped me up.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicates a difference in understanding about the relationship's future.


[2026-02-20 12:15:00 PM] Sam

No I don’t.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Directly states a negative response.


[2026-02-20 02:57:00 PM] Sam

Also, if she’s gonna Unalive everyone, why the f would you even think about getting caught?! 🙄 Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Stating a desire not to stay indicates a differing opinion on the relationship.


[2026-02-20 04:14:00 PM] Dave

I thought that feedback was welcome. But if it isn’t I will certainly stop!

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing that feedback was welcome but questioning if it still is.


12 messages with emotional_support signals | Average score: 0.72


[2026-02-20 02:31:00 PM] Dave

It isn’t a cop out. That is a valid feeling and again, you’re dancing around the evidence that WAA is something different and more special than a run of the mill affair. Like, we’ve put in the time. The way we know each other is extraordinary. Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Offering support despite the situation shows empathy.


[2026-02-19 07:41:00 PM] Dave

It’s kind of an emotional release like crying or something Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Discussing emotional release and recovery.


[2026-02-19 07:17:00 PM] Dave

It seems like it has been pretty low since the shock from crazy night settled and we accepted what we were feeling Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Discussing feelings after emotional events.


[2026-02-20 04:18:00 PM] Dave

It is also my nature to provide solutions. I try to temper it and be emotionally aware of what you need at the time - solutions, or just to vent - but sometimes I miss the mark

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Acknowledging the need for emotional awareness shows support.


[2026-02-20 04:32:00 PM] Dave

I kind of touched on it yesterday(?) but I feel like you’ve been a lot more steady/stable lately. Sure there are ups and downs with WAA, but dare I say fewer downs than without WAA? Idk, maybe not. Maybe I’m trying to give myself too much credit lol. Feb 20, 2026 4:34:31 PM (Read by Dave after 45 seconds) Sam I think, you in general, regulate me a lot. A lot a lot. Some could be the meds though? Maybe they’re working? Maybe getting rid of rescue stress?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Recognizing the partner's stability shows emotional support.


[2026-02-20 03:24:00 PM] Dave

/Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/Attachments/c9/09/FD7A47DA-5337-44A6-96C2-15CC4CEAFB81/Audio Message.caf Transcription: And I don't know if that's what I sounds if this is what I sound judging about, but I'm not meaning to be. I am a little like flustered I guess because of just trying to try to understand and help you but still I mean I know I get that. It's very hard and. There's no like write or easy answer And also it's not like is it racist if you can't understand somebody from another country like I don't think that's racist you know what I mean like it's just a fact But it's not like you have something against hearing their language Right

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Attempts to understand and help the other person despite feeling flustered.


[2026-02-20 09:43:00 AM] (Read by them after 3 seconds)

Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Offering reassurance about comparisons.


[2026-02-20 12:08:00 PM] Sam

I think it’s just tension

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing that it's just tension suggests a need for emotional support.


[2026-02-20 12:17:00 PM] Dave

Typically though, you’ll also feel pain in your actual jaw.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Providing information about TMJ and its causes offers support.


[2026-02-20 01:13:00 PM] Dave

And attempt to ease at least a little bit of anxiety

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Mentioning easing anxiety indicates a supportive intention.


[2026-02-20 09:33:00 AM] Dave

Not at all. You can be as self-disparaging as you want Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Supportive comment about self-disparagement.


[2026-02-20 09:38:00 AM] Sam

😤

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Supportive comment about self-disparagement.


1 messages with encouragement signals | Average score: 0.70


[2026-02-20 09:32:00 AM] Dave

Yes please!

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Encouraging the other person to share more.


5 messages with excitement signals | Average score: 0.78


[2026-02-20 05:39:00 PM] Dave

Fuck that’s so hot though Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: The phrase 'Fuck that’s so hot though' shows enthusiasm.


[2026-02-20 09:32:00 AM] Dave

Yes please!

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing enthusiasm with 'Yes please!'


[2026-02-20 03:37:00 PM] Sam

/Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/Attachments/00/00/D14A7A72-E40B-4096-BDB4-5C259BE30557/Audio Message.caf Transcription: Totally unrelated, but you wanna know something exciting the gym canceled the class for tonight so now I don't even have to feel guilty for not going winning

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing excitement about the gym class cancellation.


[2026-02-19 09:29:00 PM] Dave

🫠🥰

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expresses anticipation for future meetings.


[2026-02-20 09:35:00 AM] Dave

Oh yeah!

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Exclamation indicating enthusiasm.


8 messages with flirting signals | Average score: 0.76


[2026-02-20 05:32:00 PM] Dave

Definitely using that same fist full of hair to put you on your knees in front of me Tapbacks: Emphasized by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: The message contains suggestive and intimate language.


[2026-02-20 09:29:00 AM] Sam

Dirty little slut

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Use of 'Dirty little slut' in a playful context.


[2026-02-20 05:32:00 PM] Sam

You can hurt me a little ☺️

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: The message expresses a willingness to engage in playful pain.


[2026-02-20 05:19:00 PM] Sam

💦 well now you’re getting me going

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: The message suggests arousal in a playful manner.


[2026-02-20 05:40:00 PM] Sam

Want YOU Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Sam expresses desire in a playful manner.


[2026-02-20 09:41:00 AM] Sam

OK what about role play?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Suggesting role play indicates playful romantic interest.


[2026-02-19 08:02:00 PM] Sam

This guy isn’t even like all that Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Complimenting Sam in a playful manner.


[2026-02-20 05:22:00 PM] Sam

Oh 💯

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The playful tone suggests romantic interest.


10 messages with frustration signals | Average score: 0.65


[2026-02-20 03:18:00 PM] Dave

I thought we were on the same page but that really sounded like a let’s work it out kind of thing. And now you confirmed you don’t want to stay long term so, let’s try to have sex I don’t want to have to prolong this relationship I don’t want to be in doesn’t make sense. And I think that’s what tripped me up.

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expresses annoyance about the relationship and the lack of clarity.


[2026-02-20 11:29:00 AM] Sam

I still have 0 desire to go

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing a lack of desire to go.


[2026-02-19 09:35:00 PM] Sam

Fuck off no you’re not

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Directly telling someone to go away.


[2026-02-20 09:26:00 AM] Sam

Where you literally asked about it lol

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Sarcastic remark about the other person asking about it.


[2026-02-20 09:27:00 AM] Dave

wtf. It won’t let me edit “So”. It was supposed to say “Wow” lol. In reply to you saying cunt before you listened to my message saying it. Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing annoyance about the inability to edit the message.


[2026-02-20 09:25:00 AM] (Read by Dave after 12 seconds)

Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing annoyance about potential triggers.


[2026-02-20 11:04:00 AM] Dave

That was an awfully quick response. Almost as if you still aren’t focusing

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The message expresses annoyance about the quick response.


[2026-02-19 07:55:00 PM] Sam

Like i hate the tanning spray or lotions that turns you orange, and there’s lines Tapbacks: 💯 by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing dislike for tanning products.


[2026-02-19 07:56:00 PM] Dave

Yeah it’s gross

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Agreeing that fake tans are gross.


[2026-02-20 04:26:00 PM] Sam

😭😭 I kind of hate you for it tbh because that takes a LOT for me Tapbacks: 😭 by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing hate in a playful context indicates mild frustration.


46 messages with humor signals | Average score: 0.64


[2026-02-20 10:34:00 AM] Dave

I trust that you wouldn’t want to injure anything down there… for your own selfish reasons 😏 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: The message contains a playful tone and a humorous context.


[2026-02-20 05:24:00 PM] Dave

Hahaha

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: The message 'Hahaha' indicates laughter and amusement.


[2026-02-20 10:17:00 AM] Dave

Thank God you circled it! Idk if I could’ve found it otherwise 🙄 😂

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Using humor about needing help finding something.


[2026-02-20 10:36:00 AM] Sam

I’m dying

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing amusement in a lighthearted way.


[2026-02-20 11:03:00 AM] Dave

That’s more than I’ve done lol Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Using humor about response time.


[2026-02-20 10:33:00 AM] Dave

Lmao

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: The use of 'Lmao' indicates a humorous reaction.


[2026-02-20 10:37:00 AM] Sam

You’re terrible 😂

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: The message contains playful teasing.


[2026-02-20 04:14:00 PM] Sam

No it is! I don’t mind it 99.999999% of the time Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Playful response to previous message.


[2026-02-20 09:35:00 AM] Dave

Not regular Cheerios I hope? Feb 20, 2026 9:36:41 AM Sam Even better…chocolate Cheerios. Lmao Tapbacks: Liked by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Making a lighthearted joke about Cheerios.


[2026-02-20 09:30:00 AM] (Read by Dave after 1 second)

Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Using humor in response to a previous message.


[2026-02-20 09:37:00 AM] Dave

I mean, better comparison are fine 🤭 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Making a humorous comment about comparisons.


[2026-02-20 03:40:00 PM] Dave

You bum! Now I want golden Oreos

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Playful teasing about wanting Oreos.


[2026-02-20 05:12:00 PM] Sam

I just don’t want to know once you do lol Tapbacks: Liked by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Uses a playful tone with 'lol'.


[2026-02-20 05:22:00 PM] Sam

Your cave man instincts are coming out lol

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Uses a playful tone to describe instincts.


[2026-02-19 06:15:00 PM] Sam

I think maybe I’m viewing these as more like pulse checks if that makes sense. Since we are doing it like 2x/wk. so I was thinking of things that might fluctuate more often than like just when we see each other Tapbacks: 💯 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Playful teasing about love acknowledgment.


[2026-02-19 09:32:00 PM] Dave

I mean we didn’t even waste any time on secret weekend Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Playful comment about not wasting time.


[2026-02-20 04:27:00 PM] Dave

And you say you aren’t good at it Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Playful teasing about the partner's self-assessment.


[2026-02-20 05:15:00 PM] Sam

Ha. Noted 😘

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: The use of 'Ha' and a winking face suggests playful teasing.


[2026-02-20 09:06:00 AM] Awwwe, thanks. It’s not so much that I’m great with words as it is: the words I naturally use to express myself also happen to the same words you understand self expression with 😋

Edited 27 seconds later: Awwwe, thanks. It’s not so much that I’m great with words as it is: the words I naturally use to express myself also happen to be the same words you understand self expression with 😋

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Playful tone in the explanation of self-expression.


[2026-02-20 11:30:00 AM] Dave

Oh me too Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Lighthearted response indicating shared feelings.


[2026-02-20 11:31:00 AM] Dave

But it’s more like “hope” lol

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Playful tone with 'hope' and 'lol'.


[2026-02-20 12:41:00 PM] Dave

That was a sarcastic ❤️ if that wasn’t obvious Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam Feb 20, 2026 12:43:57 PM (Read by Dave after 47 seconds) Sam Feb 20, 2026 12:43:57 PM Actually was not obvious so I’m glad you said something bc I was confused l Edited 8 seconds later: Actually was not obvious so I’m glad you said something bc I was confused lol

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Use of sarcasm suggests playful teasing.


[2026-02-20 12:42:00 PM] Dave

But it’s funny because I almost asked you about that in the last message I sent 😂 Feb 20, 2026 12:45:27 PM Sam About date night specifically?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Mentioning almost asking about the sarcasm adds a humorous tone.


[2026-02-20 12:45:00 PM] Dave

The fact that you were confused should’ve made it obvious 🙄 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The playful tone about confusion suggests humor.


[2026-02-20 01:27:00 PM] Dave

  1. Nice.

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The message '420. Nice.' is a playful reference.


[2026-02-19 06:16:00 PM] Dave

Hahaha

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted laughter.


[2026-02-19 06:16:00 PM] Sam

Lmao

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted laughter.


[2026-02-19 06:16:00 PM] Sam

OK so think of it my way 😝😂

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Playful tone with emojis.


[2026-02-19 06:19:00 PM] Sam

Hmm you’re right about not base lining butttt I feel like our story, “us”, is already a baseline. Sooo hmmm that’s hard

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted laughter.


[2026-02-19 07:43:00 PM] Sam

Are we ever going to feel good again?? Lmao This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Playful tone with laughter.


[2026-02-19 09:27:00 PM] Sam

And dude, we’ve only seen each other in person THREE times. Hahahaha

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted comment about their meetings.


[2026-02-19 09:33:00 PM] Dave

Hehehe

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Lighthearted expression of laughter.


[2026-02-19 09:34:00 PM] Dave

Totally. It will be a homecoming for sure Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Playful comment about homecoming.


[2026-02-20 05:18:00 PM] Dave

So you know how we were talking about how jealousy made you horny yesterday… 😅

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The message references a previous conversation about jealousy and humorously connects it to arousal.


[2026-02-20 05:18:00 PM] Sam

Haaaa

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The exaggerated 'Haaaa' indicates amusement.


[2026-02-20 01:12:00 PM] Sam

You are such a boy sometimes 😂😂

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Playful teasing about being a boy suggests lightheartedness.


[2026-02-20 02:55:00 PM] Dave

Oh for sure unalive me. Maybe unalive everyone lol 😅 Still waiting to hear if you want to make things work with Christian…. Tapbacks: Emphasized by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Joking about unaliving suggests a humorous tone.


[2026-02-20 03:30:00 PM] Dave

Lmao

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: 'Lmao' indicates a humorous reaction.


[2026-02-20 03:31:00 PM] Dave

Can’t get enough eh? Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Playful teasing about multitasking.


[2026-02-19 08:00:00 PM] Dave

K. Easy choice for her lol

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Making a light-hearted comment about a choice.


[2026-02-19 08:11:00 PM] Dave

Look at you! Taking compliments 😋 Tapbacks: 🥰 by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Making a joke about not minding reels.


[2026-02-19 08:14:00 PM] Dave

I complain about having to see the photo of you and your boyfriend Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Joking about not tickling Sam.


[2026-02-19 09:38:00 PM] Dave

Here we go lol

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted comment.


[2026-02-20 09:33:00 AM] Dave

Honestly it’s hotter that way imo Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted comment about heat.


[2026-02-20 09:30:00 AM] Sam

😂

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Laughter indicating amusement.


[2026-02-20 09:31:00 AM] Sam

Lmaooo

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Laughter indicating amusement.


3 messages with planning signals | Average score: 0.67


[2026-02-19 07:46:00 PM] Dave

Apparently we need to set up another rendezvous 😏

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Suggesting to set up another meeting.


[2026-02-20 12:39:00 PM] Dave

Small plans? Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Suggesting small plans indicates coordination.


[2026-02-20 11:34:00 AM] Dave

/Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/Attachments/e1/01/72C34EBE-73F0-4152-B037-A0367281F196/IMG_5005.jpeg Tapbacks: Emphasized by Sam Ooooh you know what definitely won’t hurt though….

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Suggesting something that could help.


9 messages with request signals | Average score: 0.70


[2026-02-20 10:15:00 AM] Dave

Send it to me

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Directly asking to send something.


[2026-02-20 09:24:00 AM] Dave

Audio Message.caf Transcription: And is there anything that does trigger you like even if I was joking around like calling you a Cunt or something like that?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking if there is anything that triggers the other person.


[2026-02-19 06:00:00 PM] Dave

Give me an example of what internal narrative means to you?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking for an example to clarify understanding.


[2026-02-20 05:29:00 PM] Sam

What do you want to do to me?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.75
Evidence: The message 'What do you want to do to me?' is a direct inquiry.


[2026-02-20 05:20:00 PM] Sam

What do you want to do most with me right now?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sam is asking a direct question about desires.


[2026-02-20 02:28:00 PM] Dave

So do you see #1 being a viable option? Do you think spending less time on me and more time on Christian would work for you? Would that make you want to have sex with him? Do you mean really trying to make a concerted effort to make the relationship work? Be honest, you’ve known from the beginning that it wasn’t a fit. And ofc, making a concerted effort at it means ending WAA. As for me, I’m certain no amount of energy on my part is going to change the mountain of things that have accumulated over the years. No amount of attention is going to change the people we have become. So, if you don’t try to make it work, I wouldn’t advise you coming clean. I think your best bet is to just stick with the original reasons you already knew. waves arms around only opened your eyes to the reality. It didn’t change how you already felt. FWIW, I feel like that is an objective assessment and advice. As a friend. And I want you to know that even if you decided to try to work things out with Christian, and I couldn’t change your mind. If you really wanted to do that… I would wholeheartedly support you ❤️. Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking about feelings towards a relationship indicates a request for clarity.


[2026-02-20 12:09:00 PM] Dave

How many ounces a day?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking about the daily ounces indicates a request for information.


[2026-02-20 12:11:00 PM] Dave

Do they all have that stuff in them?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Inquiring about the contents of the drinks is a request for clarification.


[2026-02-20 03:22:00 PM] Dave

/Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/Attachments/85/05/954946AB-FADC-4E16-A83D-80D685E20E9C/Audio Message.caf Transcription: Sorry about that so one why don't you just ask like just teams the guy back and be like hey can can they fucking take screenshots or not, bro? Yes, or no anyway and the other thing but because I'm not the one like Like he is proposing that as a fix to another inevitability or I like it seems to me like it would be in your best interest to go through With the long-term part right rather than suffering longer, you know what I'm saying

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking for clarification about the situation.


6 messages with sexting signals | Average score: 0.90


[2026-02-20 05:19:00 PM] Dave

I reeeeeally want to fuck you right now. Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Explicitly expresses a strong sexual desire.


[2026-02-20 05:19:00 PM] Dave

Like, I’m dying for you

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Continues the sexual theme with a strong desire.


[2026-02-20 05:20:00 PM] Dave

Make you fucking MINE Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Expresses a possessive desire in a sexual context.


[2026-02-19 09:35:00 PM] Dave

I won’t give you my cock ASAP this time though. This time I’m going to take it slow 😈

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Explicit sexual content.


[2026-02-19 09:37:00 PM] Dave

Oh yes I am. I might let you suck it a little before I eat your pussy… Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Explicit sexual content.


[2026-02-20 05:38:00 PM] Sam

When you do cum in my mouth, I can’t wait to swallow it all up and then very gently lick off whatever is left on the head of your dick 🤤 Tapbacks: 🥵 by Dave Feb 20, 2026 5:40:08 PM Dave This is gold Tapbacks: 🤤 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Explicit sexual content is present in the message.


19 messages with status_update signals | Average score: 0.65


[2026-02-20 01:27:00 PM] Dave

Hopping in the shower, so you have plenty of time. You could probably hear it running Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Informing about taking a shower is a status update.


[2026-02-20 10:16:00 AM] Dave

Hmm, yeah that’s interesting

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Commenting on something being interesting.


[2026-02-20 11:28:00 AM] Dave

Working on SoftCopy 😂, prepping some packages, and thinking about dragging my fat lazy ass to the gym 🙄 Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing what they are currently working on.


[2026-02-20 02:12:00 PM] Sam

I’m on an hour long call with JB. 😭 Tapbacks: 😭 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Informing about being on a call provides a status update.


[2026-02-20 09:26:00 AM] Dave

So

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicating a response to a previous message.


[2026-02-20 09:21:00 AM] (Read by Dave after 1 second)

Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicating a response to a previous message.


[2026-02-20 09:21:00 AM] (Read by them after 1 second)

Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicating a response to a previous message.


[2026-02-20 09:24:00 AM] (Read by them after 1 second)

Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicating a response to a previous message.


[2026-02-20 09:25:00 AM] (Read by Dave after 1 second)

Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicating a response to a previous message.


[2026-02-20 11:28:00 AM] Dave

Working on SoftCopy 😂, prepping some packages, and thinking about dragging my fat lazy ass to the gym 🙄 Tapbacks: Loved by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: The message describes current activities and thoughts.


[2026-02-20 04:49:00 PM] Dave

I know you didn’t ask, but I haven’t had sex since secret weekend if you were curious. Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Shares personal information about not having had sex.


[2026-02-19 07:46:00 PM] Dave

That got us in the gym and feeling good 😜

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing that they went to the gym and felt good.


[2026-02-20 11:59:00 AM] Dave

No I haven’t drank since secret weekend

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Sharing personal information about drinking.


[2026-02-20 10:19:00 AM] Dave

Hypochondriac

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The message 'Hypochondriac' indicates a personal state or concern.


[2026-02-20 04:36:00 PM] Dave

True, true

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Acknowledges a previous statement.


[2026-02-20 12:11:00 PM] Sam

No sometimes I just have plain water

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Sharing that sometimes only plain water is consumed provides a status update.


[2026-02-20 12:45:00 PM] Sam

About date night specifically? This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Confirming understanding about date night provides a status update.


[2026-02-20 04:35:00 PM] (Read by Dave after 5 seconds)

Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:


[2026-02-20 04:35:00 PM] Dave

Of WAA being more than a random ass regular-people affair. Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence:


22 messages with vulnerability signals | Average score: 0.74


[2026-02-19 08:37:00 PM] Dave

I really really miss you all of a sudden Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expresses a strong feeling of missing someone.


[2026-02-20 12:45:00 PM] Sam

I’m still in this weird space where I don’t know what to do with all this new time I have without rescue. So like I’m stuck wanting to be productive but wanting to also enjoy it but wanting to also relax. lol. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Sharing feelings of being stuck indicates emotional openness.


[2026-02-20 04:33:00 PM] Sam

But it scares me bc I definitely walk around in my life wearing this armor, so to speak, and with time, I feel like I could totally take it off if I was with you. And I don’t like that 😂 Feb 20, 2026 4:33:43 PM Dave More evidence… Feb 20, 2026 4:35:11 PM (Read by Dave after 5 seconds) Sam Of what? Feb 20, 2026 4:35:46 PM Dave Of WAA being more than a random ass regular-people affair. Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expresses fear of emotional exposure and willingness to be open.


[2026-02-20 05:27:00 PM] Dave

Definitely. I don’t think I’ve ever really felt this before tbh. Tapbacks: Emphasized by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: Expressing a deep emotional feeling that is new to the sender.


[2026-02-19 06:10:00 PM] Dave

Shit parts being the anxiety and s word stuff

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Acknowledging anxiety and difficult feelings.


[2026-02-19 08:11:00 PM] Sam

Ok so I know you don’t like when I send you reels, but can I send you one that would LITERALLY make me have a panic attack and die?!? Like this is one of my biggest fears in life lol

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing a fear and asking for permission to share.


[2026-02-19 08:37:00 PM] Dave

Like, a lot a lot

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Reiterates the feeling of missing someone.


[2026-02-19 08:51:00 PM] Sam

And the most insane part…I don’t get sick of it. Like, I want more Tapbacks: 💯 by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expresses a desire for more connection.


[2026-02-19 08:57:00 PM] Dave

I’m in bed, so if I stop responding, just know I love you and it’s because I passed out lol 🤭 Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Shares feelings about comfort in discussing hard topics.


[2026-02-20 02:57:00 PM] Dave

I want to know what you want to happen Feb 20, 2026 2:57:55 PM Sam Feb 20, 2026 2:57:55 PM I do not want to stay/make it work long-term Edited 28 seconds later: I do not want to stay/make it work long-term Tapbacks: Liked by Dave Feb 20, 2026 2:59:11 PM Sam I figured this was known, silly

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Opens up about feelings regarding the relationship.


[2026-02-20 09:32:00 AM] Sam

But I guess not 😂 Tapbacks: 💯 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking about limits shows openness and vulnerability.


[2026-02-20 11:31:00 AM] Dave

I’m 100000% on that I know I’ll feel good when I go shit Feb 20, 2026 11:32:30 AM (Read by Dave after 1 minute, 5 seconds) Sam Yea like I deep down know this, but the knowing does absolutely nothing in regards to physically getting me to go 😂 Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing feelings of knowing but not acting.


[2026-02-20 09:29:00 AM] Sam

Slut

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing personal feelings about triggers.


[2026-02-20 09:40:00 AM] Dave

And I’ve never been like, audibly compared to anyone during sex so I’m not even sure what that would look like.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing personal feelings about comparisons.


[2026-02-20 10:17:00 AM] Sam

AN AGE THING

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: The phrase 'AN AGE THING' suggests a personal concern or insecurity.


[2026-02-20 01:21:00 PM] Sam

Can you see yourself ever admitting/confessing about WAA? Tapbacks: 🌋 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking about admitting feelings indicates emotional openness.


[2026-02-19 09:17:00 PM] Dave

Like, what would it even be like having a partner you could talk to like this Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expresses a feeling of understanding.


[2026-02-19 09:30:00 PM] Dave

lol… do I think about it Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Shares feelings about their relationship.


[2026-02-20 04:16:00 PM] Sam

And it’s already gone 😘

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing feelings of realization indicates vulnerability.


[2026-02-20 05:13:00 PM] Dave

I will be honest.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Being honest indicates vulnerability.


[2026-02-20 05:35:00 PM] Dave

I can see your eyes and dimples, so pretty and sweet. But your eyes are starting to water…

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Dave expresses emotional openness about his feelings.


[2026-02-19 09:37:00 PM] Dave

Sigh

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Expression of a sigh, indicating emotional state.


Transcript (tap to expand)

[2026-02-20 15:03:00] Sam: Morning baby 🥰 how are you so good with words?!
[2026-02-20 15:24:00] Dave: Audio Message.caf Transcription: And is there anything that does trigger you like even if I was joking around like calling you a Cunt or something like that?
[2026-02-20 15:26:00] Sam: Where you literally asked about it lol
[2026-02-20 15:26:00] Dave: So
[2026-02-20 15:26:00] Sam: What about you
[2026-02-20 15:27:00] Dave: wtf. It won’t let me edit “So”. It was supposed to say “Wow” lol. In reply to you saying cunt before you listened to my message saying it.
[2026-02-20 15:29:00] Sam: Slut
[2026-02-20 15:29:00] Sam: Dirty little slut
[2026-02-20 15:30:00] Dave: Slut is ok in that context? Or no Feb 20, 2026 9:31:00 AM after 1 second) Sam It’s ok in that context
[2026-02-20 15:30:00] Sam: Sparingly Feb 20, 2026 9:31:24 AM Dave Maybe I’ll just stay away from those all together lol
[2026-02-20 15:30:00] Sam: 😂
[2026-02-20 15:31:00] Dave: Maybe I’ll just stay away from those all together lol
[2026-02-20 15:31:00] Sam: Lmaooo
[2026-02-20 15:32:00] Sam: Sometimes I might ask YOU: “am I your dirty little whore?”
[2026-02-20 15:32:00] Dave: Yes please!
[2026-02-20 15:32:00] Sam: lol I was just going to ask you if that would be a turn off to you
[2026-02-20 15:32:00] Sam: But I guess not 😂
[2026-02-20 15:33:00] Dave: Not at all. You can be as self-disparaging as you want
[2026-02-20 15:33:00] Sam: OK so is there anything off limits for you?
[2026-02-20 15:33:00] Dave: Honestly it’s hotter that way imo
[2026-02-20 15:33:00] Dave: Not that I can think of tbh
[2026-02-20 15:34:00] Dave: What are some examples you think might be off limits? Feb 20, 2026 9:36:26 AM after 2 seconds) Sam Hmmm for you? I am not totally sure. Any comparison to other men would be a no (in my mind). That’s the biggest thing I can think of.
[2026-02-20 15:34:00] Sam: And gives an insight into how I want to be fucked at that moment
[2026-02-20 15:34:00] Dave: 🥵
[2026-02-20 15:34:00] Dave: This is escalating quickly. Over here anyway
[2026-02-20 15:34:00] Sam: Lmaooo
[2026-02-20 15:35:00] Sam: Oh yea? 😉
[2026-02-20 15:35:00] Dave: Oh yeah!
[2026-02-20 15:35:00] Dave: Not regular Cheerios I hope? Feb 20, 2026 9:36:41 AM Sam Even better…chocolate Cheerios. Lmao
[2026-02-20 15:36:00] Sam: Even better…chocolate Cheerios. Lmao
[2026-02-20 15:37:00] Dave: I mean, better comparison are fine 🤭
[2026-02-20 15:38:00] Dave: lol… hmph
[2026-02-20 15:38:00] Sam: 😤
[2026-02-20 15:39:00] Sam: 😠 actually, I’m more like this lol
[2026-02-20 15:39:00] Sam:
[2026-02-20 15:39:00] Dave: Yeah I can’t imagine thinking of anyone but you, and certainly not comparing 🙂‍↔️
[2026-02-20 15:40:00] Dave: And I’ve never been like, audibly compared to anyone during sex so I’m not even sure what that would look like.
[2026-02-20 15:41:00] Sam: OK what about role play?
[2026-02-20 16:15:00] Dave: Send it to me
[2026-02-20 16:16:00] Dave: Hmm, yeah that’s interesting
[2026-02-20 16:17:00] Sam: AN AGE THING
[2026-02-20 16:17:00] Dave: Thank God you circled it! Idk if I could’ve found it otherwise 🙄 😂
[2026-02-20 16:17:00] Dave: And you’re beautiful, as always
[2026-02-20 16:18:00] Dave: I wonder if maybe you rubbed it too hard in your sleep or something?
[2026-02-20 16:19:00] Dave: Hypochondriac
[2026-02-20 16:27:00] Dave: [attachment] Sloan’s baby
[2026-02-20 16:28:00] Dave: Yeah first
[2026-02-20 16:33:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-02-20 16:34:00] Dave: I trust that you wouldn’t want to injure anything down there… for your own selfish reasons 😏
[2026-02-20 16:35:00] Dave: [attachment] LMAO
[2026-02-20 16:36:00] Sam: Omgggggg
[2026-02-20 16:36:00] Sam: I’m dying
[2026-02-20 16:37:00] Sam: You’re terrible 😂
[2026-02-20 17:03:00] Dave: That’s more than I’ve done lol
[2026-02-20 17:04:00] Dave: That was an awfully quick response. Almost as if you still aren’t focusing
[2026-02-20 17:05:00] Sam: I’m on a call atleast!
[2026-02-20 17:05:00] Dave: That’s something!
[2026-02-20 17:28:00] Dave: Working on SoftCopy 😂, prepping some packages, and thinking about dragging my fat lazy ass to the gym 🙄
[2026-02-20 17:28:00] Dave: Working on SoftCopy 😂, prepping some packages, and thinking about dragging my fat lazy ass to the gym 🙄
[2026-02-20 17:29:00] Dave: Thanks
[2026-02-20 17:29:00] Sam: I still have 0 desire to go
[2026-02-20 17:30:00] Dave: Oh me too
[2026-02-20 17:31:00] Dave: I’m 100000% on that I know I’ll feel good when I go shit Feb 20, 2026 11:32:30 AM after 1 minute, 5 seconds) Sam Yea like I deep down know this, but the knowing does absolutely nothing in regards to physically getting me to go 😂
[2026-02-20 17:31:00] Dave: But it’s more like “hope” lol
[2026-02-20 17:34:00] Dave: [attachment] Ooooh you know what definitely won’t hurt though….
[2026-02-20 17:37:00] Dave: I do
[2026-02-20 17:48:00] Dave: Are you still doing no energy drinks? Feb 20, 2026 11:53:13 AM after 1 minute, 29 seconds) Sam Yea for the most part. Like in my normal day to day, no energy drinks. Still the juice though! 🤪
[2026-02-20 17:48:00] Dave: Caffeine juice though
[2026-02-20 17:59:00] Dave: No I haven’t drank since secret weekend
[2026-02-20 17:59:00] Dave: You?
[2026-02-20 18:05:00] Dave: I thought about had a drink last night but… meh
[2026-02-20 18:05:00] Dave: I still can’t really taste much anyway
[2026-02-20 18:08:00] Dave: Yeah that headache worries me
[2026-02-20 18:08:00] Sam: I think it’s just tension
[2026-02-20 18:09:00] Dave: How many ounces a day?
[2026-02-20 18:11:00] Dave: Do they all have that stuff in them?
[2026-02-20 18:11:00] Dave: And have you ever had a sinus infection?
[2026-02-20 18:11:00] Sam: No sometimes I just have plain water
[2026-02-20 18:12:00] Dave: Migraines? Feb 20, 2026 12:14:04 PM after 34 seconds) Sam Feels a little different than a migraine
[2026-02-20 18:15:00] Dave: Ooooh, do you grind your teeth?
[2026-02-20 18:15:00] Dave: Or clinch your jaw?
[2026-02-20 18:15:00] Sam: No I don’t.
[2026-02-20 18:16:00] Sam: Lots of popping and stiffness though in the neck
[2026-02-20 18:17:00] Dave: Yeah that’s what usually causes TMJ, as it says there. You should pay attention. It might not exactly be clenching your jaw or teeth, but tensing up that upper area of your neck. It’s also very common to grind your teeth in your sleep.
[2026-02-20 18:17:00] Dave: Typically though, you’ll also feel pain in your actual jaw.
[2026-02-20 18:21:00] Dave: Hmmmm
[2026-02-20 18:39:00] Dave: Small plans?
[2026-02-20 18:42:00] Dave: But it’s funny because I almost asked you about that in the last message I sent 😂 Feb 20, 2026 12:45:27 PM Sam About date night specifically?
[2026-02-20 18:45:00] Dave: The fact that you were confused should’ve made it obvious 🙄
[2026-02-20 18:45:00] Sam: I’m still in this weird space where I don’t know what to do with all this new time I have without rescue. So like I’m stuck wanting to be productive but wanting to also enjoy it but wanting to also relax. lol. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO
[2026-02-20 18:45:00] Sam: About date night specifically?
[2026-02-20 18:45:00] Dave: Yes
[2026-02-20 19:12:00] Sam: You are such a boy sometimes 😂😂
[2026-02-20 19:12:00] Dave: It was a profession of love!!
[2026-02-20 19:13:00] Dave: And attempt to ease at least a little bit of anxiety
[2026-02-20 19:21:00] Sam: Can you see yourself ever admitting/confessing about WAA?
[2026-02-20 19:27:00] Dave: 420. Nice.
[2026-02-20 19:27:00] Dave: Hopping in the shower, so you have plenty of time. You could probably hear it running
[2026-02-20 20:12:00] Sam: I’m on an hour long call with JB. 😭
[2026-02-20 20:28:00] Dave: So do you see #1 being a viable option? Do you think spending less time on me and more time on Christian would work for you? Would that make you want to have sex with him? Do you mean really trying to make a concerted effort to make the relationship work? Be honest, you’ve known from the beginning that it wasn’t a fit. And ofc, making a concerted effort at it means ending *WAA*. As for me, I’m certain no amount of energy on my part is going to change the mountain of things that have accumulated over the years. No amount of attention is going to change the people we have become. So, if you don’t try to make it work, I wouldn’t advise you coming clean. I think your best bet is to just stick with the original reasons you already knew. *waves arms around* only opened your eyes to the reality. It didn’t change how you already felt. FWIW, I feel like that is an objective assessment and advice. As a friend. And I want you to know that even if you decided to try to work things out with Christian, and I couldn’t change your mind. If you really wanted to do that… I would wholeheartedly support you ❤️.
[2026-02-20 20:31:00] Dave: It isn’t a cop out. That is a valid feeling and again, you’re dancing around the evidence that *WAA* is something different and more special than a run of the mill affair. Like, we’ve put in the time. The way we know each other is extraordinary.
[2026-02-20 20:55:00] Dave: Oh for sure unalive me. Maybe unalive everyone lol 😅 Still waiting to hear if you want to make things work with Christian….
[2026-02-20 20:57:00] Sam: Also, if she’s gonna Unalive everyone, why the f would you even think about getting caught?! 🙄
[2026-02-20 20:59:00] Sam: I figured this was known, silly
[2026-02-20 21:18:00] Dave: I thought we were on the same page but that really sounded like a let’s work it out kind of thing. And now you confirmed you don’t want to stay long term so, let’s try to have sex I don’t want to have to prolong this relationship I don’t want to be in doesn’t make sense. And I think that’s what tripped me up.
[2026-02-20 21:18:00] Dave: I thought we were on the same page but that really sounded like a let’s work it out kind of thing. And now you confirmed you don’t want to stay long term so, let’s try to have sex I don’t want to have to prolong this relationship I don’t want to be in doesn’t make sense. And I think that’s what tripped me up.
[2026-02-20 21:26:00] Dave: Don’t you roll your eyes at me
[2026-02-20 21:30:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-02-20 21:30:00] Sam: Ok re listening to your stuff
[2026-02-20 21:31:00] Dave: Oh?
[2026-02-20 21:31:00] Dave: Can’t get enough eh?
[2026-02-20 21:32:00] Sam: No bc I was multi tasking the first time and I suck at that soooo
[2026-02-20 21:33:00] Dave: Oh ok
[2026-02-20 21:34:00] Dave: Oh well yeah… I was totally being judgy about that 💯
[2026-02-20 21:36:00] Sam: So that’s why I hope the question just isn’t even asked
[2026-02-20 21:37:00] Sam: [attachment] Message.caf Transcription: Totally unrelated, but you wanna know something exciting the gym canceled the class for tonight so now I don't even have to feel guilty for not going winning
[2026-02-20 21:40:00] Dave: You bum! Now I want golden Oreos
[2026-02-20 21:42:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-02-20 21:44:00] Dave: Oreos??
[2026-02-20 21:45:00] Dave: Don’t be sorry ☺️
[2026-02-20 21:46:00] Sam: I guess a part of me is like well, you’re going through the motions, including sex, cuddling, going out together, whatever you all do. So I guess, I just feel like I’m doing the same. So why is it any different? And maybe this all just comes back to my one line where I pondered making a concerted effort?
[2026-02-20 21:47:00] Do you feel like I’m being unfair?: Edited 1 minute, 5 seconds later: Do you feel like I’m being unfair? Or critical?
[2026-02-20 21:48:00] Sam: Here I said: With the sex talk…I mean, another outcome of it is to have a very honest, meaningful conversation and we decide from there to continue trying, and really make a concerted effort.
[2026-02-20 21:48:00] Sam: Here I said: With the sex talk…I mean, another outcome of it is to have a very honest, meaningful conversation and we decide from there to continue trying, and really make a concerted effort.
[2026-02-20 21:49:00] Dave: Right, I got that. But I don’t understand what the question is.
[2026-02-20 21:49:00] Sam: So is that what you’re picking up on and asking like 1. Do you WANT to do that? and 2. If not, then WHY would you do that if you know it’s not what you want long term?
[2026-02-20 21:52:00] Sam: You said you were flustered. And I am trying to understand about what part. Bc if it’s about me trying to “keep the sex, then I don’t see how that’s any different from what you’re doing.
[2026-02-20 21:53:00] Sam: And maybe I’m just all confused and making something out of nothing and we can just move on 😂
[2026-02-20 22:05:00] Dave: Yes…? After everything we’ve talked about, and the conclusions we’ve (you’ve) come to, such as: -It wasn’t working before -You knew it was off early -You’re literally thought of sex -You already know you want out -Your finances are tied together -You don’t have kids -You aren’t married You considering making a concerted effort to make the relationship work, knowing all these things, seems like a huge step in the wrong direction for you. And that’s what I’m flustered about. Seeing you prolonging your suffering when you’re essentially “so close”. And I’m totally not trying to minimize how hard it is, or how complicated, or anything like that. As far as having sex to keep the peace… This makes more sense than trying to salvage the relationship. And no judgement from me on that. I’m not admonishing you for that. Please understand that. I sincerely meant what I said about it not changing how I see you of feel about you. The only way it’s different from what I’m doing is - and if I’m off base, please say so - that I’m way more locked into mine than you are for the opposite of the points above, finance, kids, etc. I feel like “keeping the peace” for you is doing yourself more of a disservice. Maybe it’s because I’m protective of you? Maybe it IS just jealousy and self-UN-awareness. I don’t feel like this is going to hit right but I’m going to hit send anyway. Just know that I don’t mean to be shitty, bossy, insensitive, or dismissive. I love you.
[2026-02-20 22:06:00] Sam: I love you ❤️
[2026-02-20 22:06:00] Sam: Not shitty or anything at all
[2026-02-20 22:06:00] Dave: Does that make sense now
[2026-02-20 22:11:00] Sam: Thank you for clarifying
[2026-02-20 22:11:00] Dave: Of course, baby
[2026-02-20 22:11:00] Sam: I willlll say though, now that I think about it 😬😅
[2026-02-20 22:14:00] Dave: I thought that feedback was welcome. But if it isn’t I will certainly stop!
[2026-02-20 22:14:00] Sam: And 5. Maybe a little bit bc you’re being protective
[2026-02-20 22:14:00] Sam: No it is! I don’t mind it 99.999999% of the time
[2026-02-20 22:15:00] Dave: So today was the .000001%?
[2026-02-20 22:15:00] Sam: lol i just had the fleeting realization ok
[2026-02-20 22:16:00] Sam: And it’s already gone 😘
[2026-02-20 22:16:00] Dave: Lol
[2026-02-20 22:16:00] Sam: I honestly welcome and ask for your feedback the majority of the time
[2026-02-20 22:16:00] Sam: You picking my shit apart
[2026-02-20 22:18:00] Sam: Btw. I’ve never thought you were shitty, bossy, dismissive or insensitive.
[2026-02-20 22:18:00] Dave: It is also my nature to provide solutions. I try to temper it and be emotionally aware of what you need at the time - solutions, or just to vent - but sometimes I miss the mark
[2026-02-20 22:26:00] Sam: 😭😭 I kind of hate you for it tbh because that takes a LOT for me
[2026-02-20 22:27:00] Dave: 🥰God I love your words of affirmation
[2026-02-20 22:27:00] Dave: And you say you aren’t good at it
[2026-02-20 22:30:00] Dave: I love that you get that much value from me. Some of it is intentional but honestly, it’s mostly natural.
[2026-02-20 22:31:00] Sam: Well I feel that way bc you’re not disappointing! 😂
[2026-02-20 22:32:00] Dave: I kind of touched on it yesterday(?) but I feel like you’ve been a lot more steady/stable lately. Sure there are ups and downs with WAA, but dare I say fewer downs than without WAA? Idk, maybe not. Maybe I’m trying to give myself too much credit lol. Feb 20, 2026 4:34:31 PM after 45 seconds) Sam I think, you in general, regulate me a lot. A lot a lot. Some could be the meds though? Maybe they’re working? Maybe getting rid of rescue stress?
[2026-02-20 22:33:00] Sam: But it scares me bc I definitely walk around in my life wearing this armor, so to speak, and with time, I feel like I could totally take it off if I was with you. And I don’t like that 😂 Feb 20, 2026 4:33:43 PM Dave More evidence… Feb 20, 2026 4:35:11 PM after 5 seconds) Sam Of what? Feb 20, 2026 4:35:46 PM Dave Of WAA being more than a random ass regular-people affair.
[2026-02-20 22:33:00] Dave: More evidence…
[2026-02-20 22:35:00] Dave: Of WAA being more than a random ass regular-people affair.
[2026-02-20 22:36:00] Dave: True, true
[2026-02-20 22:49:00] Dave: I know you didn’t ask, but I haven’t had sex since secret weekend if you were curious.
[2026-02-20 23:09:00] Dave: 🤦‍♂️
[2026-02-20 23:09:00] Dave: …idk 🤷‍♂️
[2026-02-20 23:09:00] Dave: I’m not trying
[2026-02-20 23:12:00] Sam: I just don’t want to know once you do lol
[2026-02-20 23:13:00] Dave: I will be honest.
[2026-02-20 23:14:00] Dave: Just the being honest part
[2026-02-20 23:14:00] Dave: You can volunteer the information if you’re so inclined or it’s necessary for context.
[2026-02-20 23:15:00] Sam: Ha. Noted 😘
[2026-02-20 23:15:00] Dave: In fact I’m not entirely sure I don’t want to know 🫣
[2026-02-20 23:18:00] Dave: So you know how we were talking about how jealousy made you horny yesterday… 😅
[2026-02-20 23:18:00] Sam: Haaaa
[2026-02-20 23:18:00] Sam: I was wondering if it was that
[2026-02-20 23:18:00] Dave: It was
[2026-02-20 23:19:00] Dave: I reeeeeally want to fuck you right now.
[2026-02-20 23:19:00] Dave: Like, I’m dying for you
[2026-02-20 23:19:00] Sam: 💦 well now you’re getting me going
[2026-02-20 23:20:00] Sam: What do you want to do most with me right now?
[2026-02-20 23:20:00] Dave: So I think I just realized its from all this Feb 20, 2026 5:22:18 PM Dave It’s a different feeling than the normal horny for you that I am lol. Like, not totally different.. But more… primal?
[2026-02-20 23:20:00] Dave: Make you fucking MINE
[2026-02-20 23:20:00] Sam: Show me who I really belong to??
[2026-02-20 23:22:00] Dave: It’s a different feeling than the normal horny for you that I am lol. Like, not totally different.. But more… primal?
[2026-02-20 23:22:00] Sam: Oh 💯
[2026-02-20 23:22:00] Sam: Your cave man instincts are coming out lol
[2026-02-20 23:22:00] Sam: I find that to be very very very hott
[2026-02-20 23:23:00] Dave: Like show that bitch what’s up or something?
[2026-02-20 23:23:00] Dave: Or show him what I can do
[2026-02-20 23:24:00] Dave: Hahaha
[2026-02-20 23:27:00] Dave: Definitely. I don’t think I’ve ever really felt this before tbh.
[2026-02-20 23:27:00] Sam: Oooooo
[2026-02-20 23:28:00] Dave: Yeah, like I know some of the psychology or whatever like we talked about yesterday but never felt it
[2026-02-20 23:28:00] Dave: Not like this anyway.
[2026-02-20 23:28:00] Sam: Tell me more about how you feel
[2026-02-20 23:29:00] Sam: What do you want to do to me?
[2026-02-20 23:32:00] Sam: You can hurt me a little ☺️
[2026-02-20 23:32:00] Dave: Like pulling you head back with a fist full of hair - to kiss you really deep but also really sweetly
[2026-02-20 23:32:00] Sam: Yessssss
[2026-02-20 23:32:00] Dave: Definitely using that same fist full of hair to put you on your knees in front of me
[2026-02-20 23:34:00] Dave: Or hold it in place while I control the movement.
[2026-02-20 23:34:00] Sam: While I look up at you all sweet and innocent like
[2026-02-20 23:35:00] Dave: I can see your eyes and dimples, so pretty and sweet. But your eyes are starting to water…
[2026-02-20 23:36:00] Dave: That’s exactly why.
[2026-02-20 23:36:00] Dave: All the way down
[2026-02-20 23:36:00] Dave: Hold
[2026-02-20 23:36:00] Dave: Hold
[2026-02-20 23:36:00] Dave: Hold
[2026-02-20 23:36:00] Dave: Ok, breath
[2026-02-20 23:38:00] Sam: When you do cum in my mouth, I can’t wait to swallow it all up and then very gently lick off whatever is left on the head of your dick 🤤 Feb 20, 2026 5:40:08 PM Dave This is gold
[2026-02-20 23:39:00] Dave: Fuck that’s so hot though
[2026-02-20 23:39:00] Dave: We’re getting pretty good at this
[2026-02-20 23:40:00] Sam: Want YOU
[2026-02-20 23:40:00] Dave: This is gold
[2026-02-20 23:43:00] Dave: 😘
[2026-02-21 00:16:00] Dave: [attachment] I love the way he lays with his little paws hanging over 🤭
[2026-02-21 00:52:00] Dave: What’s their deal
[2026-02-21 00:53:00] Dave: How do they misbehave
[2026-02-21 01:01:00] Dave: Have you ever trained them to walk on a leash?
[2026-02-21 01:03:00] Sam: Yes but what’s happened is 1. I’ve stopped using the gentle leader and just need to do that again. The 2 youngest have not been trained for that yet though. But 2. The biggest downfall is not doing solo walks with each dog. They are MUCH bigger idiots in pack. And I can’t train them all at
[2026-02-21 01:07:00] Dave: Yeah that makes sense. Both of mine are actually terrible on leash. Creek because I’ve trained him to pull me on a skateboard - so harness = PULL TIME
[2026-02-21 01:07:00] Sam: Oh and crate training them all
[2026-02-21 01:07:00] Dave: And Bear because I don’t walk him lol Feb 20, 2026 7:14:48 PM after 5 minutes, 27 seconds) Sam Why don’t you? lol. Did you know walking is like one of the best things you can do for your heart ❤️🥰
[2026-02-21 01:07:00] Dave: Creek is fine with a punch collar though
[2026-02-21 01:08:00] Dave: And Bear is actually not too bad after a few minutes
[2026-02-21 01:09:00] Dave: Creek loves his crate and hangs out there all the time
[2026-02-21 01:09:00] Dave: Bear goes in when you tell him and he’s fine in there but he doesn’t go in on his own
[2026-02-21 01:21:00] Dave: Meh, I haven’t walked them consistently in years
[2026-02-21 01:21:00] Dave: I think you’re the best I can do for my heart
[2026-02-21 01:22:00] Dave: …And dick 😏
[2026-02-21 01:28:00] Dave: It was fine. Just pizza
[2026-02-21 01:30:00] Dave: I’m thinking about going to get some Oreos thanks to you Feb 20, 2026 7:49:40 PM after 3 minutes, 36 seconds) Sam Soooo golden or regular?
[2026-02-21 01:30:00] Dave: I’m also thinking about eating your pussy again, also thanks to you
[2026-02-21 01:31:00] Dave: 🥵 you’ve really got me going today
[2026-02-21 01:34:00] Dave: You hearted the selfie thing when I mentioned it the other day but we never talked about it… are we still doing that?
[2026-02-21 01:35:00] Dave: Yesssss
[2026-02-21 01:35:00] Dave: That’s my favorite ☺️
[2026-02-21 01:42:00] Dave: What else did it have in it
[2026-02-21 01:44:00] Dave: I bet some walnuts would be good
[2026-02-21 01:45:00] Dave: Oooh fancy
[2026-02-21 01:45:00] Sam: Yea I’ve put pine nuts in there before that were just lightly roasted.
[2026-02-21 01:53:00] Dave: Golden ofx
[2026-02-21 01:53:00] Dave: Ofc
[2026-02-21 02:04:00] Dave: I meant to remind you!
[2026-02-21 02:05:00] Dave: Ooooh I’ll have to think about that one
[2026-02-21 02:05:00] Dave: You always seem to know how to do it though
[2026-02-21 02:08:00] Dave: [attachment] Feb 20, 2026 8:09:17 PM after 46 seconds) Sam We are bad influences on each other 😂
[2026-02-21 02:10:00] Sam: And 2. You somehow know exactly what questions to ask me to make me talk it out and not long after that, you’ve cheered me up me talk out my feelings and then reassuring me that 1. My feelings are valid and 2. You still love me.
[2026-02-21 02:10:00] Dave: YOU are
[2026-02-21 02:10:00] Dave: And that “cheers you up”? 🤔 Feb 20, 2026 8:12:19 PM Sam Well it’s hard to “cheer me up”, like get me laughing, when I’m down. But you definitely get me out of the funk
[2026-02-21 02:10:00] Sam: And 2. You somehow know exactly what questions to ask me to make me talk it out and not long after that, you’ve cheered me up me talk out my feelings and then reassuring me that 1. My feelings are valid and 2. You still love me.
[2026-02-21 02:12:00] Dave: Yeah, reassurance and words of affirmation always do it for me Feb 20, 2026 8:12:49 PM Dave From you
[2026-02-21 02:12:00] Sam: Well it’s hard to “cheer me up”, like get me laughing, when I’m down. But you definitely get me out of the funk
[2026-02-21 02:12:00] Dave: From you
[2026-02-21 02:13:00] Sam: I suspect our answers would be different if we were physically together all the time and could cheer each other up in ways other than just our words lol
[2026-02-21 02:13:00] Dave: And you know what… seeing you cheers me up
[2026-02-21 02:13:00] Dave: Sometimes I look at photo of you and feel better
[2026-02-21 02:14:00] Sam: Awwww
[2026-02-21 02:14:00] Dave: Also taking to me. Like live talking
[2026-02-21 02:15:00] Dave: Ok omg… I’m still Im still in the grocery store
[2026-02-21 02:15:00] Dave: And I’m wearing sweats 😅
[2026-02-21 02:15:00] Dave: And this is getting me really hard
[2026-02-21 02:47:00] Dave: Perfect!
[2026-02-21 02:48:00] Dave: We talked about this
[2026-02-21 02:48:00] Dave: Let’s set it up!!
[2026-02-21 02:53:00] Dave: Hahaha wouldn’t that be awesome
[2026-02-21 03:09:00] Dave: Hahaha that’s us as a mf
[2026-02-21 03:29:00] Dave: How did that 20/20 end? Is that our blueprint now? Feb 20, 2026 9:46:54 PM after 5 hours, 30 minutes, 18 seconds) Sam Blueprint? Feb 20, 2026 11:12:53 PM after 4 hours, 4 minutes, 19 seconds) Sam I misread what you originally said. Ha. I hope it’s not our blueprint!! The cheating wife was murdered! 😬
[2026-02-21 03:33:00] Dave: I love this ☺️
[2026-02-21 03:33:00] Dave: I love this
[2026-02-21 03:34:00] Dave: And I also love going to bed
[2026-02-21 03:34:00] Dave: Which I’m doing right now ☺️
[2026-02-21 03:35:00] Dave: And ofc, I love you 😘💕❤️
[2026-02-21 03:36:00] Dave: Thank you for another day of intelligent emotional discovery 🥰
[2026-02-21 03:39:00] Dave: I look forward to whatever psychological treasures another day with you brings
[2026-02-21 03:40:00] Dave: Goodnight, and again, I love you so much 😍