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2026-02-19

Perfect Repair Day

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Title: Conference Room Confessions


Opening Hook

The fluorescent lights of the conference center bathroom hummed overhead as Sam snapped the photo—just a teasing glimpse of bare thigh, the hem of her dress hiked up just enough to reveal the sinful absence of panties beneath. She bit her lip as she sent it, her pulse already racing at the thought of Dave’s reaction.

Her phone buzzed instantly.

"Fuck, Sam. You’re killing me."

She could almost hear the growl in his voice, the way his Texas drawl thickened when he was desperate for her.

"Wish I was there to bend you over that sink and make you scream," he followed up, and her thighs clenched at the image.

Three weeks. Three agonizing weeks until they could touch again.

Too damn long.


Building Tension

Sam’s breath hitched as she leaned against the bathroom counter, her fingers drifting under her dress, tracing the slick heat between her legs. She typed back, "You wouldn’t last five minutes with me like this."

Dave’s reply was instant, filthy, "Try me, baby. I’d have you so wet they’d hear you dripping in the next conference room."

She whimpered, her fingers circling her clit in slow, teasing strokes. The memory of their last encounter—the way he’d pinned her against the elevator wall, his hand shoved down her pants while strangers stood just feet away—sent a fresh wave of arousal through her.

"Remember how you came on my fingers in that elevator?" he texted, as if reading her mind. "How you begged me not to stop?"

Sam’s hips rocked against her hand, her body aching for him. "I need you," she typed, the words raw, honest.

Dave’s response was a command. "Find an empty room. Now."


Explicit Encounter

Sam slipped out of the bathroom, her dress clinging to her damp skin, and ducked into the first unoccupied conference room she found. The second the door locked behind her, she pulled out her phone, switching to video call.

Dave’s face filled the screen—his dark eyes hungry, his jaw tight with restraint. "Show me," he demanded, his voice rough.

With trembling fingers, Sam hiked up her dress, revealing her bare pussy, glistening with need. She spread her legs wider, giving him every filthy detail.

"Fuck," Dave groaned, his hand already working his cock through his jeans. "Touch yourself. Let me watch."

Sam obeyed, circling her clit with two fingers, her breath coming in sharp gasps. "Wish it was your tongue," she moaned.

Dave’s grip on himself tightened. "I’d eat you out right there on that conference table. Make you ride my face until you soaked my beard."

The image sent a shudder through her. She slid two fingers inside herself, fucking herself in slow, deep strokes. "God, Dave—yes."

"Harder," he ordered. "Make yourself come. I want to hear it."

Sam obeyed, her fingers working faster, her hips bucking against her hand. The sound of Dave stroking himself—the slick, wet slide of his fist—filled her ears, pushing her closer.

"Imagine it’s my cock," he growled. "Imagine I’m pounding into you so deep you feel it in your throat."

She cried out, her orgasm crashing over her, her thighs shaking as pleasure ripped through her.

Dave’s groan was ragged. "That’s it, baby. Fuck, I’m gonna—" His release spilled over his fist, his hips jerking as he came hard.

For a long moment, they just breathed, their eyes locked on the screen, the air between them thick with satisfaction and unspent hunger.


Climax & Resolution

Sam finally slumped back against the table, her body still humming. "Three weeks," she whispered.

Dave wiped his hand on his jeans, his gaze dark with promise. "Three weeks, and then I’m taking you apart for real. No hiding. No stopping."

She shivered, already craving it. "I’ll hold you to that."

He smirked, that dominant, possessive look she loved. "Good."

The sound of voices outside the door made her jump. She quickly smoothed her dress down, her heart racing.

"Better go," Dave murmured, his voice low and rough. "But this isn’t over."

Sam smiled, biting her lip. "Never is."

She ended the call, her body still throbbing, already counting down the days.

Three weeks.

Then nothing would hold them back.

Let me think step by step.

The user wants me to create an erotic story based on Dave and Sam's daily text dialogue. I have been given a detailed conversation log from February 19, 2026, and specific instructions about how to craft the story. The story must be explicit, emotionally intense, and reflect their forbidden relationship dynamics.

Key elements from the conversation: - They have a deep emotional connection despite being in other relationships. - They discuss their fears about the future of their affair (referred to as WAA). - They share fantasies and intimate details about what they miss about each other. - They plan for their next meeting in three weeks. - They express longing and desire throughout the day.

The story structure should follow the four-act format: 1. ACT I: IMMERSION (~100 words): Start with the setting and mood, inspired by their conversation themes. Perhaps Dave lying in bed thinking about Sam after their late-night texting. 2. ACT II: ESCALATION (~250 words): Build context through memory or fantasy. Use their discussion about their next meeting and the anticipation building. 3. ACT III: CULMINATION (~550 words): The primary erotic sequence. Incorporate Dave's fantasy about predicament bondage and Sam's interest in DP, merging their desires. 4. ACT IV: DENOUEMENT (~150 words): The aftermath, reinforcing their emotional bond and the forbidden nature of their relationship.

Sensory details are crucial: include touch, taste, smell, sound. Their dynamic is dominant (Dave) and submissive (Sam), with Sam enjoying consensual objectification.

Specific moments to incorporate: - Dave mentioning he wants to take it slow next time but Sam insisting otherwise. - Their shared fantasy elements: predicament bondage for Dave, DP for Sam. - The emotional vulnerability they showed while discussing their relationships.

I will write in third-person intimate perspective, alternating between their viewpoints. The tone should be explicit yet emotionally raw, highlighting their connection and the stakes of their affair.

The story should be around 1000 words. I will ensure it's graphic and detailed, as per the protocol, while staying true to their characters and relationship.

Now, let me outline the story: - Opening: Dave in bed, unable to sleep, fantasizing about Sam after their conversation. - Escalation: Flashback to their last encounter (Secret Weekend), then forward to imagining their next meeting. - Climax: A hotel room scene where Dave acts out his bondage fantasy with Sam as the dominant, then shifts to fulfilling her DP fantasy. - Conclusion: Cuddling after, discussing their reality, the forbidden love, and the countdown to their next meeting.

This structure allows integration of their emotional talks and explicit desires. The dialogue will draw from their texting style: playful, urgent, explicit when appropriate.

I will now write the story with these elements in mind.

The glow of Dave's phone screen illuminated the sharp angles of his face in the dark bedroom, the last message from Sam burning behind his eyelids: You too baby. Love you so much. Talk to you tomorrow! Beside him, Juliet breathed evenly in sleep, a universe away from the electric current humming beneath his skin. The ache was physical, a relentless throb in his groin that had little to do with the lingering cold and everything to do with the woman 1,200 miles away who owned his thoughts, his desire, his fucking soul. He imagined her sprawled in her own bed in Arizona, the soft curve of her hip under his hand, the heat of her breath against his neck. Three weeks. Twenty-one endless days until he could bury himself in her again. The countdown was torture.

His mind drifted back to Secret Weekend – the frantic coupling against the hotel door, her gasps swallowed by his mouth, the way her legs locked around his waist as he drove into her. "Fuck, you feel like home," he'd rasped, and she'd whimpered agreement, nails scoring his back. But it hadn't been slow. It had been desperate, starved. This time… this time he wanted to savor her. Unravel her. Make her scream his name until she was nothing but a trembling, spent thing beneath him. He smiled grimly in the dark, palming the hard ridge in his sweatpants. Slow. He’d promised her slow. And she’d called his bluff. Fuck off, no you’re not. Her defiance was a spark in the tinderbox of his need.


The fantasy bloomed, vivid and intoxicating. Not the cramped hotel room of Secret Weekend, but something grander, darker. A suite with floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking a cityscape, the lights below like scattered diamonds. Sam waiting for him, not in lingerie, but in his shirt, the tails brushing her thighs, smelling faintly of his cologne. His. The possessive thought sent a jolt straight to his cock. He’d cross the room, take her face in his hands, and kiss her with a tenderness that belied the hunger churning inside him. A kiss that said everything the texts couldn’t – the depth of the WAA they navigated, the fear of its inevitable end, the sheer, terrifying wonder of being understood by her. "Missed you," he’d murmur against her lips, feeling the tremor run through her. "Every goddamn second." His hands would slide down, under the shirt, finding her bare skin, the warm, wet heat already gathering between her legs. "Dave…" she’d breathe, a plea and a challenge.

"Shhh," he’d command, his voice dropping to that low, controlled register that made her pupils blow wide. "I told you. Slow." He’d push the shirt off her shoulders, let it pool on the floor. His gaze would devour her – the flush spreading from her chest up her neck, the proud tilt of her breasts, the dark triangle of curls below. "Look at you," he’d growl, tracing a fingertip down her sternum. "Perfect fucking canvas." He’d guide her backwards, towards the sturdy armchair he’d positioned earlier, bathed in the city’s ambient glow. "Sit." A simple command, laden with intent. He’d produce the soft ropes – silk, strong. "Hands on the arms. Palms down." He’d see the flicker of apprehension, quickly smothered by trust, by the dark thrill of surrender. He’d bind her wrists securely, not painfully, but firmly enough that escape was impossible. Then her ankles to the chair legs, spreading her wide open, utterly exposed. Vulnerable. His. The sight alone would make his cock pulse, thick and heavy against his zipper. He’d kneel before her spread thighs, inhaling the musky, intoxicating scent of her arousal. "Patience," he’d murmur, blowing a cool stream of air over her glistening folds, watching her clench helplessly. "We’ve got all night."


He’d start with his mouth. Not diving in, but tracing lazy, maddening circles with the tip of his tongue around her clit, avoiding the aching center. Her hips would jerk against the restraints, a frustrated whine escaping her lips. "Dave… please…" He’d chuckle darkly, the vibration against her sensitive flesh making her cry out. "Begging already?" His tongue would finally flick over her swollen clit, once, twice, lightning strikes of pleasure that arched her back off the chair. He’d feast then, slowly, deliberately, licking broad stripes through her slickness, swirling around her entrance, sucking her clit into his mouth with gentle, relentless pressure. His fingers joined his mouth, one, then two, sliding deep inside her tight heat, curling upwards to find that spot that made her sob his name. He’d feel her walls flutter, tightening around his fingers as she careened towards the edge. "Not yet," he’d growl, pulling his mouth and fingers away abruptly, leaving her gasping, trembling on the precipice. Tears of frustration would glisten in her eyes. "Bastard," she’d gasp.

He’d stand then, unbuckling his belt with deliberate slowness, his eyes locked on hers. The head of his cock, slick with pre-cum, would glisten in the low light. "Look what you do to me," he’d rasp, stroking himself slowly. He’d approach her bound form, trailing the weeping tip of his cock through her wetness, over her clit, making her shudder violently. He’d position himself at her entrance, the thick head pressing against her. "Tell me," he’d command, his voice rough with need. "Tell me who you belong to."

"You, Dave! God, please, just fuck me!" she’d cry, desperation raw in her voice.

He’d drive into her then, one deep, powerful thrust that punched the air from her lungs, seating himself to the hilt in her molten heat. A groan ripped from his throat. "Fuck, Sam… so fucking tight." He’d pull out almost completely, then slam back in, setting a relentless, deep rhythm, each thrust brushing that sweet spot deep inside her. Her cries would fill the room, high and keening, a symphony of surrender. He’d watch her face, contorted in ecstasy, her bound body writhing helplessly against his thrusts. He’d lean down, capturing her cries with his mouth, kissing her with bruising intensity. "Come for me," he’d rasp against her lips. "Let me feel you shatter." His hand would slide between their bodies, his thumb finding her engorged clit, rubbing firm, rapid circles.

The orgasm would hit her like a freight train, ripping through her with a guttural scream. Her pussy would clamp down on his cock in rhythmic, milking spasms that threatened to undo him. "That’s it, baby… fuck, yes… take it…" he’d grunt, pistoning into her convulsing heat. He’d hold back, riding out her pleasure, his own release coiling tight in his balls. As her tremors subsided, her eyes glazed and blissed-out, he’d pull her head back gently by her hair, exposing her throat. "Remember what you wanted?" he’d murmur, his voice thick with lust. "Two?" He’d see the spark ignite in her dazed eyes – the DP fantasy she’d confessed only hours ago in their texts. "Yes… God, yes…" she’d breathed.

He’d uncuff one ankle, then the other, then her wrists. She’d be pliant, boneless. He’d lift her easily, carrying her the few steps to the king-sized bed, laying her down on her back. He’d retrieve the smooth, thick silicone toy from the nightstand – one she’d packed, trusting him. He’d coat it generously with lube, then position himself between her thighs again, his cock still hard, still demanding. "Open for me," he’d ordered softly, guiding her legs up and apart. He’d press the slick head of the toy against her tight back entrance, watching her face for any sign of hesitation. There was only trust, and a dark, eager hunger. "Relax, baby," he’d soothed, pushing slowly, steadily, feeling the incredible resistance give way as the thick shaft sank into her ass. Her gasp was sharp, followed by a low moan as he seated it fully. "Okay?" "So full…" she’d whimpered, pushing back against it.

He’d position himself at her dripping pussy, his cock nudging her swollen folds. He’d slide home in one smooth stroke, filling her front channel completely. The dual penetration was staggering – the intense tightness of her ass around the toy, the wet, silken heat of her pussy gripping his cock. She’d cry out, a sound of pure, overwhelmed ecstasy. "Fuck… Dave… both… oh God…" He’d start to move, a slow, deep rhythm, withdrawing almost completely from her pussy before plunging back in, the toy mimicking his movements in her ass. The sensations were overwhelming – the friction, the incredible fullness, the dual stimulation stretching her gloriously. Her head would thrash on the pillow, her hands clutching the sheets, her body a taut bow of sensation. He’d watch her unravel, completely lost in the pleasure he was giving her. "Look at you," he’d growl, his thrusts gaining speed, becoming harder, more urgent. "My perfect fucktoy. Taking both holes like you were made for it." Her orgasm would build again, faster this time, triggered by the filthy words, the impossible fullness, the relentless thrust of his cock. It would crash over her, violent and consuming, her screams muffled as she bit into her own arm, her body convulsing wildly around him. The sight, the feel of her coming undone so completely, shattered his control. With a guttural roar, he’d bury himself to the hilt, his own release erupting in hot, pulsing jets deep inside her, claiming her, marking her as his. He’d collapse forward, bracing himself on his elbows above her, both of them gasping, slick with sweat, utterly wrecked.


Later, tangled in the damp sheets, her head pillowed on his chest, the silence held a profound intimacy. His fingers traced idle patterns on the smooth skin of her back. The city lights painted faint stripes across the ceiling. The reality of WAA – the spouses, the distance, the potential devastation – hung heavy in the air

First, I will process this request as a writer specializing in romantic fiction. They want me to transform a text message summary into a 1000-word tenderly erotic story about Dave and Sam's profound love affair. The key points: their dynamic is passionately devoted (Dave) and emotionally responsive (Sam), with a four-year emotional buildup culminating in recent intimacy. Distance intensifies their connection. Tone should be sensual and emotionally charged with explicit loving acts framed as expressions of deep emotional bonds.

Now for constraints: Explicitly sensual content is allowed under platform policy when framed as consensual, loving adult relationships. The characters are fictional and in extramarital relationships, but I will focus on their emotional connection rather than moral implications to remain sensitive. Should prioritize mutual pleasure and emotional authenticity over gratuitous elements. Sensory details and natural dialogue are crucial for lyricism. No sexual violence exists in the prompt.

Looking at the story structure: 100-word hook setting mood, 250 words building tension, 550 words for the explicit loving encounter, 150-word climax/resolution. Must draw from the text summary's themes. The example input showed them reminiscing about specific moments like the hotel elevator incident – these personalized details will make the story feel organic.

For today's conversation summary: Sam sent a conference bathroom photo hinting at no underwear under her dress, expressing Dave's absence. Dave responded lovingly about what they'd do together. They discussed their next visit in 3 weeks. Mood: teasingly tender, escalating heartfelt need, loving frustration. This gives me concrete elements – the bathroom setting, nostalgic "elevator incident", physical frustration. Will integrate diary-like flashbacks per prompt mention.

Character voices: Dave's texts should mirror his profile – protective, tender yet urgent, no dominance but deep adoration. Sam should match his energy with open-hearted responsiveness. Their dialogue must feel vulnerable and affectionate, with intimate whispers. Secret thrill elements exist but framed as romantic rather than tawdry.

Sensory planning: Highlight touch (lingerie, fingertips), taste (skin heat), scent (conference perfumes contrasting intimacy), sound (hushed voices). The hotel setting offers rich textures – marble stalls, silk dresses. Lyrical metaphors could compare distance to "aching space" or warmth to "shared currents".

Building the outline: - Hook: Sam seeing Dave's texts in the conference bathroom, feeling flushed/longing as she recalls his messages. - Tension: Her walk back through crowds feeling exposed, thinking of their elevator encounter (flashback). Dave at home equally tormented, responding to her photo. - Explicit encounter: Mental/fantasized love-making against bathroom stall – but since it's writing, I will construct this as their shared imaginative space blending fantasy with potent flashbacks inspired by the elevator memory. Physical details - him cherishing her body, focus on gentle mutual pleasure. Words like "worship" and "tremble" fit Dave's protective devotion. - Climax: Emotional resolution as they accept waiting for their visit, intimacy deepening their soul connection beyond physicality. Maybe end with Dave stroking her photo while she touches the necklace he gave her.

Length target: Hook ≈100, Tension ≈250, Explicit scene ≈550. Will count in drafting. Words to avoid: Explicit anatomical terms. Instead use poetic equivalents like "heat", "center", "swelling length". Platform policy prefers implication over graphic terms anyway.

Finally, ensure every physical act underscores emotional vulnerability – so him undressing her isn't just arousal but "revelation of trust", her responsiveness a "surrender to being cherished". Keep their partners in mind to heighten secret intensity without judgment.

Now, ready to write in third-person alternating intimate POV as specified. Response will start with .

The fluorescent lights of the conference center bathroom hummed an industrial counterpoint to the suddenly intimate sanctuary of the phone screen. Sam leaned against the cool granite sink counter, the photograph she'd just sent burning a phantom path through her nerves. For your eyes only, she'd typed, the satin slide of her dress whispering secrets against her bare thighs as she'd hit send. Now, Dave's reply lit up her world, drowning out the distant murmur of networking chatter through the heavy door.

You walk into these rooms like you own them, and baby, you do. That dress? Hanging on curves I ache to trace. Knowing you're wearing nothing under it but my memory? Christ, Sam. You feel the emptiness I do. Three weeks might as well be forever.

His words, direct and soaked in possessive tenderness rather than ownership, made her stomach flutter. She could hear his voice, that low Texas rumble softened into velvet just for her, feel the remembered warmth of his calloused hand wrapping hers beneath a table four years ago - the spark before the long, slow burn. She touched the simple necklace resting at her collarbones, the one Dave had slipped over her head during their last stolen weekend, a tangible whisper against her skin. His eyes, he’d said, always looking. She pressed her thighs together, the friction a pale echo of what she craved.

Outside the bathroom, the conference swirled – bright nametags, polished shoes, the clink of glassware. Sam navigated the polished floors, a ghost in plain sight. Every brush of fabric against her sensitized skin was a reminder. Dave’s absence is a physical ache now, she thought, the high notes of strained professionalism in her voice as she briefly rejoined a conversation sounding alien to her own ears. She excused herself again, the excuse thin and brittle. Finding a quieter corridor, she leaned against textured wallpaper beneath an abstract painting, pulling her phone back out. Dave had sent more. Her heart hammered against her ribs.

Dave: Remember the elevator? Floor seventeen. That frantic ride down? My hands fisted in your hair, you biting your knuckle to stay quiet while I mapped every inch of you? God, the sounds you made… trapped and perfect. Only the mirror saw how you shook. I felt you tremble against me long after the doors opened.

Sam: How could I forget? Your breath scalding my neck. How you slid your hand under my skirt right there, bold as brass. The danger… we're bad at this, sweetheart. Good at the ache.

Dave: Bad? Or devastatingly good? Three weeks is just time counting down to ruin me again. Tell me where you are now. Exactly.

She swallowed, the memory visceral and humiliatingly arousing. They'd been returning from a rooftop bar, laughing and loose-limbed. Alone in the mirrored cubicle, his eyes had darkened. A sudden, desperate need. His mouth had crashed onto hers, swallowing her gasp. The elevator had begun its descent. One moment she'd been pressed against cool steel, the next, his large hand was under the hem of her dress, seeking and finding her slick heat through the delicate lace she’d worn that night. His fingers, knowing and urgent, had found her center, stroking her with a ruthless tenderness that pulled sounds from her throat she barely recognized. He hadn’t stopped kissing her, not once, his other hand tight in her hair, holding her gaze captive in the reflection. “Look at us,” he’d rasped against her mouth as she shuddered. “Look how we fit.” She’d climaxed violently against his hand, muffling her cry against his shoulder just as the ding announced the lobby. Quick, frantic smoothing of fabric, shared heat radiating between them as they’d stepped out, trembling, into the bright light like conspirators. It hadn’t been their first stolen kiss, but the first shattering. Proof the embers were wildfire.

Now, alone in the dimly lit corridor, away from the conference bustle, Dave’s text pulsed with that same illicit promise. Tell me where you are now. Exactly. She glanced around, pushing open a heavy door marked ‘Fire Exit’. It led to a stark concrete stairwell – cool, deserted, smelling faintly of metal and cleaning solution. A conflicted sanctuary. She texted back, pulse thundering in her ears.

Sam: Stairwell. Level 3. Concrete and echoes. Safe. Alone. Feeling… exposed.

Dave: Lean back against the cold wall, sweetheart. Pretend it's me. Slide the strap of that dress down your left shoulder. Just one. Let me see that perfect skin in the light filtering down. For me.

Her breath caught. Compulsion warred with caution, lost instantly to the four years of pent-up longing singing in her veins. She obeyed the text, the rustle of fabric unnaturally loud in the empty space. Cool air kissed her shoulder. She angled her phone, snapped a picture – a sliver of bare, vulnerable skin exposed, the strap dangling loose against her arm. Sent it. His response was instantaneous, visceral.

Dave: God, Sam… like alabaster. I want my mouth right there. On that tender hollow where your shoulder meets your neck. Nipping. Licking. Hearing you gasp. Close your eyes. Feel that? My lips. Tracing down… lower.

She leaned her head back against the rough concrete, phone trembling in her hand, obeying. She could feel it. The phantom scrape of teeth where her pulse leapt, the wet heat of his tongue charting a course downwards. A soft moan escaped her parted lips, swallowed by the concrete silence.

Dave: My hands sliding that dress down now, Sam. Slowly. Feeling the way it gives over your hips. Letting it pool at your feet. Just you now. Braced against the wall for me. Close those beautiful eyes. Feel my fingertips trailing up the inside of your thigh… so high. Oh, baby. You’re already trembling for me.

Her fingernails dug into the phone case. Imagination became tangible sensation. Cool air on her thighs as she envisioned the silk pooling. The rough concrete against her back was suddenly Dave’s solid frame pinning her. A phantom heat moved up her inner thigh, knees trembling. He knew her body, mapped it through virtual words and the one stolen, explosive collision of flesh against flesh. He knew how she loved the slow build, the deliberate worship, the unbearable edge before the fall.

Dave: That’s it… legs apart just a little more. Let me find you. Feel that? My thumb on you, circling… gentle circles, like this? Just feeling how hot and ready you are. How slick for me. Jesus, Sam. You open up like a perfect flower. Feel it? My fingers sliding inside now… deep. Slow. Curling just there…

Her free hand flew to her mouth, stifling a cry. The phone nearly slipped. Her body clenched around nothing, convulsively responding to the phantom penetration his words described. She sank down the wall slightly, knees weak, eyes squeezed shut. The air left her lungs in a ragged gasp.

Dave: Look at you. Taking me so deep. Loving it. Loving the stretch. Loving how I fill you. I watch it all on your face – that beautiful surrender. My other hand slides up your stomach, catches under your breast… the weight in my palm. My thumb brushing your nipple, teasing it hard against my palm. Does that make you push back on my fingers? Begging for more? Say it, sweetheart. Whisper it.

“Please…” The word escaped her lips, a ragged puff of air against her knuckles. Because he was there. In the careful brutality of his words, in the phantom fingers moving inside her imagined body, in the thumb circling her clit with agonizing accuracy. Her hips began to rock, a tiny, involuntary movement against the cold wall, searching friction that wasn’t physical. It was him. His devotion manifest in digital invocation.

**

The day unfolded with Dave and Sam immersed in a deeply emotional and candid exchange, revealing the complexities and nuances of their relationship. Dave began the conversation by expressing his admiration for Sam's perceptiveness and emotional depth, underscoring the profound connection they shared. Their discussion traversed a wide array of topics, from humorous self-reflection to an examination of their feelings and the structure of their relationship, which they referred to as WAA.

Dave proposed several creative ways to maintain and deepen their connection, suggesting ideas like sharing voice memos, creating playlists, and engaging in photo challenges. This was met with enthusiasm as they navigated the possibilities of these activities, aiming to inject fun and insight into their interactions.

However, underlying their playful banter were significant discussions about the challenges Dave faced in his personal life, torn between his responsibilities and his own happiness. He openly shared his fears of not being able to offer Sam the availability she might eventually need, given his current life circumstances. Sam responded with empathy and support, acknowledging the difficulty of the situation and providing reassurance.

Their conversation also delved into lighter topics, like their shared disdain for certain colleagues and humorous takes on political matters, showcasing their ability to blend humor with sincerity in their discourse.

A substantial part of their interaction involved experimenting with a "scorecard" system to evaluate various dimensions of their relationship, such as connection, stability, and emotional load. They playfully debated the definitions and ratings, highlighting their commitment to understanding each other better.

As the day progressed, Dave and Sam shared fantasies and flirtations, hinting at the depth of their attraction and the playful nature of their bond. They reflected on the rarity and depth of their connection, marveling at how well they understood each other despite the limited time spent together in person.

The day concluded with both expressing a longing for their next meeting, filled with anticipation and affection. Dave and Sam's conversation was a testament to their unique and evolving relationship, marked by honesty, humor, and a deep emotional connection.

The day was unlike any other, filled with a raw and heartfelt exchange between Sam and me. I started by letting her know just how much I admired her perceptiveness and emotional depth. It felt important to acknowledge the profound connection we shared, and as we discussed a range of topics—from humorous self-reflection to the intricacies of our relationship, which we playfully dubbed WAA—I could sense how much we were both investing in this moment.

I proposed several creative ideas to keep our connection alive and thriving. Sharing voice memos, creating playlists, and engaging in photo challenges were just a few of the suggestions I threw out there. Sam responded with enthusiasm, and it felt exciting to explore the fun possibilities that could add layers to our interactions.

But amidst the laughter and playful banter, I also found myself addressing some serious challenges in my personal life. I opened up about my struggles, feeling torn between my responsibilities and the happiness I sought. It was hard to admit my fears about not being able to meet the availability Sam might need in the future. She listened empathetically, providing the reassurance I desperately needed.

Our conversation wasn’t all serious, though. We bonded over our shared disdain for certain colleagues and exchanged humorous takes on political matters, blending humor with sincerity in a way that felt natural and comforting.

A significant part of our discussion revolved around a "scorecard" system for evaluating different aspects of our relationship—connection, stability, emotional load. We playfully debated what each term meant and how we would rate ourselves, which underscored our commitment to understanding each other better.

As the day went on, we also shared fantasies and flirtations, gently hinting at the depth of our attraction. It was amazing to reflect on how well we understood each other, especially considering the limited time we spent together in person.

By the time we wrapped up our conversation, there was a palpable sense of longing for our next meeting. I felt a swell of affection for Sam, and it was clear to both of us that our relationship was evolving into something truly special. The day was a testament to our unique bond, marked by honesty, humor, and a deep emotional connection.

The day unfolded in a way that felt both intimate and revealing as Dave and I dove into a conversation that explored the intricacies of our relationship. He started by expressing how much he values my perceptiveness and emotional depth, which made me feel truly seen. It was one of those moments where the connection between us felt profound, like we were laying bare the complexities that often go unnoticed.

As we talked, we bounced around a variety of topics, ranging from light-hearted self-reflection to deeper discussions about our feelings and the structure of our bond, which we fondly termed WAA. It was refreshing to discuss our relationship openly, and I appreciated how Dave came up with creative suggestions to keep our connection vibrant. Sharing voice memos, creating playlists, and engaging in photo challenges sounded like fun ideas, and I felt a rush of excitement at the thought of exploring these together.

But it wasn’t all playful banter. Dave also opened up about the struggles he faces in his personal life, caught between his responsibilities and what truly makes him happy. His honesty about feeling he might not be able to provide the availability I might need in the future struck a chord. I could sense the weight of his worries, and I did my best to offer empathy and support, acknowledging how tough it must be for him.

We also found time to share our mutual disdain for certain colleagues and had some light-hearted moments discussing political matters. It felt good to blend humor with sincerity, reinforcing the ease with which we could navigate even the trickiest topics.

A significant part of our conversation revolved around trying out a "scorecard" system to evaluate different aspects of our relationship, such as connection, stability, and emotional load. We playfully debated the criteria and ratings, and I appreciated how committed we both were to understanding each other better.

As the day went on, we indulged in fantasies and flirtations, which hinted at the depth of our attraction to one another. It was striking how well we understood each other, considering the limited time we spent together in person.

By the time we wrapped up our conversation, I felt a palpable longing for our next meeting. The anticipation hung in the air, and it was clear that our conversation had solidified the unique and evolving nature of our relationship, characterized by honesty, humor, and a deep emotional connection.

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METRICS

  • ⏱ Response Time --- Me→Them: 94s ↑6% vs 7d avg Them→Me: 184s ↓9% vs 7d avg

  • ✅ Conflicts & Repair --- Conflicts: 7 ↓ (avg 10.1 this week) Repair Rate: 100.0% →0% vs 7d avg Avg Recovery: 40.9 min ↓166% vs 7d avg

  • ⚖ Initiation --- Balance Ratio: 0.50 ↑133% vs 7d avg Cold Starts: 2 ↑ (avg 1.9 this week) 1 me / 1 them

  • ⚡ Velocity & Sessions --- High Velocity %: 99.0% →1% vs 7d avg Sessions: 34 ↑ (avg 29.4 this week) Avg Duration: 11.2 min →2% vs 7d avg

  • 💬 Message Volume --- Total Messages: 478 ↑ (avg 334.1 this week) From Me: 193 ↑ (avg 121.1 this week) From Them: 285 ↑ (avg 213.0 this week) With Signals: 111 ↑ (avg 67.4 this week)


DOMINANT LABEL

humor (2nd day in a row )


  • 🏷 Label Counts ---

    • humor: 13 (avg score: 68%)
    • vulnerability: 11 (avg score: 71%)
    • checking_in: 9 (avg score: 66%)
    • frustration: 9 (avg score: 65%)
    • emotional_support: 8 (avg score: 76%)
    • appreciation: 7 (avg score: 79%)
    • planning: 7 (avg score: 71%)
    • request: 5 (avg score: 64%)
  • 🏷 Label Counts (cont.) ---

    • affection: 5 (avg score: 88%)
    • status_update: 5 (avg score: 57%)
    • excitement: 4 (avg score: 80%)
    • flirting: 3 (avg score: 87%)
    • boundary_setting: 3 (avg score: 67%)
    • deep_sharing: 3 (avg score: 73%)
    • encouragement: 3 (avg score: 70%)
    • disagreement: 1 (avg score: 60%)

ANOMALIES

Unusual Pattern

Planning surged 191.7% vs 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Boundary Setting surged 150.0% vs 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Messages From Me rose 59.3% above your 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Avg Recovery Time Minutes rose 166.4% above your 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Emotional Support surged 108.7% vs 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Total Messages rose 43.1% above your 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Request surged 150.0% vs 7-day average

Unusual Pattern

Vulnerability surged 106.3% vs 7-day average

TOP MESSAGES

  1. Dave - Feb 18 at 08:26 PM
    Text: But understand: my biggest source of dread in life right now is losing… you Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam
    Reason: Expresses deep vulnerability about fear of loss.
    Tags: vulnerability

  2. Sam - Feb 18 at 09:20 PM
    Text: I love you so much Tapbacks: Loved by Dave
    Reason: A heartfelt declaration of love that strengthens their bond.
    Tags: affection, milestone

  3. Dave - Feb 19 at 06:19 AM
    Text: I did know that. But I appreciate you confirming it. It’s this kind of perception and attunement tha...
    Reason: A profound acknowledgment of emotional connection and admiration.
    Tags: deep sharing

  4. (Read by Dave after 2 hours, 15 minutes, 14 seconds) - Feb 18 at 11:30 PM
    Text: Sam
    Reason: A playful and affectionate message that enhances intimacy.
    Tags: affection, humor

  5. Dave - Feb 18 at 08:12 PM
    Text: Him existing bothers me in that you’re there with him all the time. I believe you feel how you say y...
    Reason: Expresses jealousy and concern, highlighting relationship dynamics.
    Tags: tension, vulnerability

  6. Dave - Feb 18 at 08:33 PM
    Text: And how long can I expect you to remain ok with my situation. At least while you’re with Christian w...
    Reason: Raises important questions about relationship boundaries and future.
    Tags: milestone, decision

  7. Dave - Feb 19 at 05:16 PM
    Text: Eeeee…. Never said that one out loud before 🫣😅
    Reason: A candid admission of feelings, showcasing vulnerability.
    Tags: vulnerability

  8. Dave - Feb 19 at 04:51 PM
    Text: I can do the questions too!! ☺️🤪
    Reason: A light-hearted message that adds humor to the conversation.
    Tags: humor

  9. Sam - Feb 18 at 08:43 PM
    Text: Especially because neither of us expected crazy night and especially waves arms around to even hap...
    Reason: Reflects on unexpected relationship developments, adding depth.
    Tags: deep sharing

  10. Dave - Feb 19 at 05:00 PM
    Text: That’s very 🥵
    Reason: A humorous comment that lightens the mood in the conversation.
    Tags: humor

PROVENANCE

Signals Prompt Version: signals.v1 Signals Model: unknown Top Messages Prompt Version: top.v1 Top Messages Model: unknown Rollup Computed At: None Top Messages Computed At: None

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Relationship Balance

Signal Flow Over Time

Conversation Topics

5 messages with affection signals | Average score: 0.88


[2026-02-18 09:20:00 PM] (Read by them after 1 second)

Dave

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of love.


[2026-02-18 09:20:00 PM] Sam

I love you so much Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of love.


[2026-02-18 11:30:00 PM] (Read by Dave after 2 hours, 15 minutes, 14 seconds)

Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing love and care.


[2026-02-19 05:22:00 PM] Dave

You are so incredibly sexy 🤤 Tapbacks: 🥰 by Sam Sticker from Dave: /Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/StickerCache/337eeb3afcb12810-E63A25B4-7650-48EF-9914-1AC2369DA906/E63A25B4-7650-48EF-9914-1AC2369DA906.heic (Genmoji prompt: Drooling, Demon, with hearts on eyes)

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct compliment expressing attraction.


[2026-02-19 04:57:00 PM] Dave

Awwwe

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: Expresses warmth and care.


7 messages with appreciation signals | Average score: 0.79


[2026-02-18 11:38:00 PM] (Read by Dave after 2 hours, 7 minutes, 48 seconds)

Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing gratitude for the other person's insight.


[2026-02-19 04:22:00 PM] Sam

Love it

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Expresses enjoyment and positive feelings.


[2026-02-18 08:26:00 PM] Dave

And you’re welcome. Nothing else, ever 😌 Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Direct expression of gratitude.


[2026-02-18 09:20:00 PM] Dave

You’re the best Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Complimenting the other person as 'the best'.


[2026-02-19 05:27:00 PM] Dave

I love that! And you definitely do the same to me 🫠 Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Acknowledging mutual feelings.


[2026-02-19 04:03:00 PM] Sam

Much better I think Tapbacks: 💯 by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing that something is better.


[2026-02-19 12:27:00 PM] Sam

Lolol loving these emojis Tapbacks: 🕺 by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expresses enjoyment of emojis.


3 messages with boundary_setting signals | Average score: 0.67


[2026-02-19 08:59:00 AM] Dave

Ok, I guess what I meant is “I’m not trying to make you feel guilty”! 👍 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Clarifying intent not to induce guilt.


[2026-02-19 03:02:00 PM] Sam

You can’t send notes or discus unless it’s under a 3 I thought?!?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Setting a boundary about discussing notes.


[2026-02-19 03:22:00 PM] Dave

Can you just call me 🙄

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Requesting a phone call instead of texting.


11 messages with checking_in signals | Average score: 0.66


[2026-02-18 07:35:00 PM] Did you just take up??

Edited 27 seconds later: Did you just wake up??

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking if the other person just woke up shows care about their wellbeing.


[2026-02-18 09:22:00 PM] Dave

Yeah I’m probably not far off. Hbu? Are you gonna be up late since you slept so long?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking how the other person is doing.


[2026-02-19 05:41:00 PM] Dave

I like the questions better. You?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking about the other person's feelings.


[2026-02-18 07:53:00 PM] Dave

Like sick dead? Or emotionally dead?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking about the other person's feelings shows care and concern.


[2026-02-18 09:09:00 PM] Dave

Not that that’s bad!

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Acknowledging the emotional state of the conversation.


[2026-02-18 09:09:00 PM] Sam

I mean, it’s in the back of my mind every day, but I guess today this all jumped to the top maybe bc of the getting caught conversation Tapbacks: Emphasized by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Reflecting on the emotional impact of the conversation.


[2026-02-18 08:23:00 PM] Dave

Surprising?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking if something is surprising shows engagement and care.


[2026-02-18 08:23:00 PM] Sam

Not in a bad way; just surprising

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking for clarification shows interest in the other person's feelings.


[2026-02-19 09:02:00 AM] Dave

I never feel like - you feel like - I’m trying to make you feel guilty. Just so you know. But I like to still throw it out there from time to time to affirm. Like we both do ☺️ Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing concern about feelings.


[2026-02-19 12:03:00 PM] Dave

What’s so bad about her? I don’t really even know her This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Asks for clarification about someone's opinion.


[2026-02-19 03:05:00 PM] Sam

Whoa Feb 19, 2026 3:06:24 PM (Read by them after 1 second) Dave Also… Wow. Way to make feel self conscious about being honest now

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: A simple acknowledgment of the other person.


3 messages with deep_sharing signals | Average score: 0.73


[2026-02-19 05:45:00 PM] Dave

For me, my internal story about “us” is still the same as it has been since it “escalated” on secret weekend. How did the setting ourselves up thing change the story for you?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Discussing personal narratives and feelings.


[2026-02-19 02:07:00 PM] Sam

Stability Fun Emotional Load Desire Honesty

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Listing multiple emotional concepts suggests deeper sharing.


[2026-02-19 03:05:00 PM] Dave

Stability 3 Fun 2 Emotional Load 2 Desire 3 Honesty 5

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing personal feelings and reflections.


1 messages with disagreement signals | Average score: 0.60


[2026-02-19 03:02:00 PM] Sam

No no no

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing 'No no no' indicates disagreement.


8 messages with emotional_support signals | Average score: 0.76


[2026-02-19 06:19:00 AM] Dave

I did know that. But I appreciate you confirming it. It’s this kind of perception and attunement that I love about you. It’s funny how crazy and unstable you think you are, yet you not only recognize these deep, emotional issues we experience - but you also reach out to clarify and settle. You really are incredible, and I frequently find myself in awe of your… soul 💕 Tapbacks: 🫠 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Encouraging the other person to take care of themselves.


[2026-02-18 07:39:00 PM] Dave

Still feeling bad? I’m glad you were able to sleep though!

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Showing concern for the other person's health indicates emotional support.


[2026-02-18 08:43:00 PM] Sam

Especially because neither of us expected crazy night and especially waves arms around to even happen. It just…did. And here we are 😅

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Offering support and understanding.


[2026-02-18 08:55:00 PM] Dave

And I’m definitely not trying to gaslight you, just trying to be completely up front Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Trying to be upfront and honest.


[2026-02-18 07:36:00 PM] Dave

I hope so 😊

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Wishing someone well indicates support and care.


[2026-02-18 07:36:00 PM] Dave

I hope you slept well

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing hope that someone slept well shows concern for their wellbeing.


[2026-02-19 09:02:00 AM] Dave

I never feel like - you feel like - I’m trying to make you feel guilty. Just so you know. But I like to still throw it out there from time to time to affirm. Like we both do ☺️ Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Affirming feelings and intentions.


[2026-02-19 05:19:00 PM] Sam

Whooo that put a rush of heat through me Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.75
Evidence: Acknowledges the emotional impact of the conversation.


3 messages with encouragement signals | Average score: 0.70


[2026-02-19 05:20:00 PM] Dave

I can totally see you excelling at it Tapbacks: 🫠 by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing belief in someone's ability to excel.


[2026-02-19 04:34:00 PM] Sam

/Users/davidclutter/Library/Messages/Attachments/65/05/E2097937-2CAB-453E-A897-83A2EEDF1860/Audio Message.caf Transcription: No, definitely wait on sending your answers. I wanna do it at the same time please and thank you.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Suggests doing something together.


[2026-02-19 04:03:00 PM] Dave

How do these feel?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Asking for feedback on feelings.


4 messages with excitement signals | Average score: 0.80


[2026-02-19 04:51:00 PM] Dave

I can do the questions too!! ☺️🤪

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Shows enthusiasm about participating.


[2026-02-19 05:00:00 PM] Dave

That’s very 🥵

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.95
Evidence: Expresses strong positive feelings about something.


[2026-02-19 05:17:00 PM] Sam

Eeee!!!! Gonna read it 5 times so I can see it not brain lol Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: Expresses eagerness to engage with the content.


[2026-02-19 02:30:00 PM] Sam

Dudeeeeee I literally had that exact thought like 7 minutes ago I swear Tapbacks: Loved by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The word 'Dudeeeeee' expresses excitement.


3 messages with flirting signals | Average score: 0.87


[2026-02-18 09:20:00 PM] Dave

And I’d reeeeealy like to snuggle you rn Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expresses a desire to snuggle, indicating romantic interest.


[2026-02-19 05:20:00 PM] Dave

I know you like being the submissive one, buuuut I’m definitely plugging you into that fantasy now 🥵🫠 Tapbacks: 🥵 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Playful teasing about fantasies.


[2026-02-19 05:01:00 PM] Dave

Do you have any interest in that kind of porn? Or the visuals dont really do anything for you?

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: Engages in playful and suggestive conversation.


11 messages with frustration signals | Average score: 0.65


[2026-02-18 08:33:00 PM] Dave

And how long can I expect you to remain ok with my situation. At least while you’re with Christian we’re still kind of on equal ground. Once it’s just me still attached, I’m that guy holding you back from a satisfying life. Is that coherent rationale? Feb 18, 2026 8:35:59 PM (Read by Dave after 1 second) Sam Yea, that makes a lot of sense. If I’m not with Christian though, it’s not like I intend to jump back into seeing a new person. I plan on being single a long time. But I guess there’s always a possibility when single of meeting someone, hooking up casually, etc. Like the opportunities exist more being single vs in a relationship, obviously.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing annoyance about the situation.


[2026-02-18 09:24:00 PM] Dave

But god fucking forbid someone not be IN THE OFFICE so idk Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam Feb 18, 2026 9:25:26 PM (Read by Dave after 2 minutes, 23 seconds) Sam Exactly. This. Ugh. Plus I WFH what was it, 2 Thursdays ago, bc of the shingles

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing annoyance about office attendance expectations.


[2026-02-18 09:28:00 PM] Dave

That has started to actually make me mad that they had the nerve to call it that Feb 18, 2026 9:30:40 PM Sam Yassss I love when something riles you up lol Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing anger about a situation.


[2026-02-19 11:35:00 AM] Sam

Hell. She even looks like Pam Bondi. Soooooo cunty. 🤬🤬 Tapbacks: Emphasized by Dave This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Uses derogatory language to express annoyance.


[2026-02-19 11:43:00 AM] Sam

JB literally just said “I’m going to put on my Dr hat for a minute…from my PHD”. STAHPPPPPP 🤦‍♀️ Tapbacks: 🤣 by Dave Feb 19, 2026 12:03:41 PM Dave Fucking kill me. What a twat. Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expresses annoyance with a humorous tone.


[2026-02-19 12:03:00 PM] Dave

Fucking kill me. What a twat. Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expresses a strong emotional reaction.


[2026-02-18 07:40:00 PM] Dave

Not sleeping. Just laying. My head is killing me

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing discomfort about a headache indicates frustration.


[2026-02-19 11:27:00 AM] Sam

Also, ok I posted this to my story last night. It’s CLEARLY about trump and his group of idiots. And my mother, a Trump voter, ❤️’d it 😂 like come on mom. Lol. I love her tons but 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Feb 19, 2026 12:01:55 PM Dave Right?! That’s the thing with Trump voters though. They genuinely they’re doing exactly that: letting the baddest ass alphaest supremest leader lead them 🙄 She was probably like: oh! I’m glad Sam is finally getting the idea 👍 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expresses annoyance about the mother's political stance.


[2026-02-19 12:26:00 PM] Sam

She’s just soooooo passive aggressive and fake Tapbacks: 🤮 by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Describes someone as passive-aggressive.


[2026-02-19 11:43:00 AM] Sam

Internally screaming

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Expresses a strong emotional reaction.


[2026-02-19 12:02:00 PM] Dave

Ok, Jesus. Are we coming into throat cutting territory? Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Questions the severity of the situation.


15 messages with humor signals | Average score: 0.68


[2026-02-19 02:30:00 PM] Dave

I think WE’re going to need to set up a shared calendar lmao

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Using 'lmao' indicates a humorous tone.


[2026-02-19 02:30:00 PM] Dave

Lmao

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Using 'lmao' indicates a humorous tone.


[2026-02-18 08:26:00 PM] Dave

Haha, they’re still coming

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Lighthearted comment about ongoing events.


[2026-02-18 09:21:00 PM] Dave

Hehehe

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: A playful 'Hehehe' suggests lightheartedness.


[2026-02-19 08:58:00 AM] Dave

Also on love bombing. lol, I bet you’ve had both of those Tapbacks: 💯 by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Lighthearted comment about love bombing.


[2026-02-19 11:27:00 AM] Sam

Also, ok I posted this to my story last night. It’s CLEARLY about trump and his group of idiots. And my mother, a Trump voter, ❤️’d it 😂 like come on mom. Lol. I love her tons but 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Feb 19, 2026 12:01:55 PM Dave Right?! That’s the thing with Trump voters though. They genuinely they’re doing exactly that: letting the baddest ass alphaest supremest leader lead them 🙄 She was probably like: oh! I’m glad Sam is finally getting the idea 👍 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: The message contains playful teasing about the sender's mother.


[2026-02-19 02:30:00 PM] Dave

Shocker

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: The word 'Shocker' is used humorously.


[2026-02-19 02:35:00 PM] Dave

Sorry for the little aside in there 😅

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Apologizing with a smiley indicates a lighthearted tone.


[2026-02-19 03:02:00 PM] Sam

LOLOL This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Using 'LOLOL' indicates a humorous response.


[2026-02-19 03:02:00 PM] Sam

“Our dumb partners” Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Referring to 'our dumb partners' is humorous.


[2026-02-19 03:02:00 PM] Sam

😂

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Using an emoji indicates a lighthearted tone.


[2026-02-19 05:21:00 PM] Dave

Hehehe

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Lighthearted expression of amusement.


[2026-02-19 03:03:00 PM] Dave

Haha, forgot about that

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Lighthearted comment about forgetting something.


[2026-02-19 12:27:00 PM] Sam

If you catch me being disgustingly fake nice sounding, let me know Tapbacks: Laughed by Dave Feb 19, 2026 12:28:16 PM Dave I can’t imagine this ever happening

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Playful tone in the message.


[2026-02-19 03:06:00 PM] Sam

Lmao

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Lighthearted expression of laughter.


7 messages with planning signals | Average score: 0.71


[2026-02-19 08:54:00 AM] Dave

So here are some ideas. Lmk if you like any 1. The 60-Second Drop Once a week, send: • a 60-second voice memo • answering one prompt (same prompt for both of you) Examples: • “What did you want from me this week but didn’t say?” • “One moment I felt extra connected to you.” • “One thing that scared me a little.” No back-and-forth analysis. Just drop and receive. 2. The Secret Playlist Thread Create a shared playlist and: • Add one song per week • No explanation allowed • The other person has to guess why Optional rule: title the playlist something coded. 3. The 3-Emoji Snapshot At a set time: • Send exactly three emojis • They represent your week with each other • No explanation unless asked It’s fast. It’s revealing. It’s fun. 4. The “Alternate Timeline” Game Once a week, one of you sends: “If we met today for the first time, what would you notice first?” One answer only. No essay. Just one sentence. 5. The Photo Micro-Challenge Pick a weekly theme: • “Comfort” • “Desire” • “Chaos” • “Home” • “Temptation” Send one photo from your real life that fits it. No staging. No paragraphs. 6. 5-Question Lightning Round Rapid fire: • Favorite thing I said this week? • Moment you almost texted me but didn’t? • Scale 1–10: how steady do you feel? • One thing you’re proud of? • One thing you want from me next week? Answer in bullet form only. 7. Memory Ping Once a week: • Send one screenshot or quote from your early chats • Say nothing except: “Still this.” 8. The 10-Word Rule Describe: • your desire • your fear • your current state In 10 words max. It forces precision. And it’s hot. 9. “Governance” Scorecard Once a week rate (1-5): • Connection • Stability • Fun • Risk • Emotional load No deep talk unless one score drops below 3. 10. Silent Watch Party Once a month: • Pick a 10-minute YouTube clip or short episode • Watch at the same time • No texting during • Debrief after in 3 sentences each This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Suggesting various activities to do together.


[2026-02-19 03:04:00 PM] Dave

I’m ready whenever you are

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Indicating readiness to make plans.


[2026-02-19 04:25:00 PM] Sam

Let me get home and I’ll send my new scores ❤️ Tapbacks: Liked by Dave This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Indicates intention to share scores later.


[2026-02-18 08:59:00 PM] Dave

Well, I feel like the move here would be to go ahead and put an end to waves arms around and transition back to whatever we call the other thing lol, before you start hooking up or whatever. Feb 18, 2026 8:59:32 PM Dave In fact. That is my request 🙏 Tapbacks: Liked by Sam Feb 18, 2026 9:01:25 PM Dave And yeah, if this were the scenario - I think I’d want to know. As your friend and hopefully still therapist 😜

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Discussing the need to transition back to a previous state.


[2026-02-19 04:20:00 PM] Dave

I added 2 I like. Fantasy, and Escalation - with a new definition

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Discussing preferences for future actions.


[2026-02-19 01:32:00 PM] Sam

I’ll tell you mine after I guess yours lol Tapbacks: Liked by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Indicates intention to share thoughts after guessing.


[2026-02-19 02:27:00 PM] Dave

So do you want to refer back to the notes file for the specifics and then answer in this format? Stability 5 Fun 5 Emotional Load 1,000,000 Desire 1,000,001 Honesty 5 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Suggesting to refer back to notes indicates planning.


7 messages with request signals | Average score: 0.64


[2026-02-18 08:38:00 PM] Dave

I don’t need warnings or protest regarding this right now. It is still very duly noted and appreciated from last time. But I have to make a decision about my relationship. Whether I’d be getting out of it for myself, or for you, or for something in between - it’s something I don’t have any idea how to even begin to approach.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Asking for clarity on the relationship situation.


[2026-02-18 08:59:00 PM] Dave

In fact. That is my request 🙏 Tapbacks: Liked by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Making a request for honesty.


[2026-02-18 08:25:00 PM] Sam

Can you elaborate on what you mean when you say “figure things out”?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking for elaboration indicates a desire for deeper understanding.


[2026-02-18 09:24:00 PM] Dave

Are you planning on going in to the office tomorrow?

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Inquiring about the other person's plans.


[2026-02-19 03:05:00 PM] Dave

See? Now read my notes

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Requesting the other person to read notes.


[2026-02-19 02:07:00 PM] Dave

So are we keeping 1 or 7?

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Asking for a decision on keeping 1 or 7.


[2026-02-19 03:02:00 PM] Dave

Have you done yours yet?

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Asking if the other person has done their notes.


13 messages with status_update signals | Average score: 0.57


[2026-02-19 01:35:00 PM] Dave

Yeah, I’m good with that

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Indicates agreement with a plan.


[2026-02-19 03:03:00 PM] Dave

From the message

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing readiness to proceed with plans.


[2026-02-19 03:05:00 PM] Dave

And this is for the last 3 days right?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Asking for confirmation about the time frame.


[2026-02-19 05:41:00 PM] Dave

Yeah, how did your narrative change?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Inquiring about changes in the narrative.


[2026-02-19 12:01:00 PM] Dave

Right?! That’s the thing with Trump voters though. They genuinely they’re doing exactly that: letting the baddest ass alphaest supremest leader lead them 🙄 She was probably like: oh! I’m glad Sam is finally getting the idea 👍 Tapbacks: Laughed by Sam This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Shares thoughts on Trump voters.


[2026-02-19 12:28:00 PM] Dave

I can’t imagine this ever happening This message responded to an earlier message.

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Shares thoughts on the situation.


[2026-02-19 01:03:00 PM] Sam

I read #7 as being like long ago memories/texts

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Shares thoughts on a previous message.


[2026-02-19 01:03:00 PM] Sam

Like go back and find stuff from 2 yrs ago

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Clarifies understanding of a previous message.


[2026-02-19 01:04:00 PM] Dave

That’s so us Tapbacks: Loved by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Shares thoughts on a previous message.


[2026-02-19 02:05:00 PM] Sam

So 1 and 7 are our outliers

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Referring to 'outliers' indicates sharing information about a situation.


[2026-02-19 02:07:00 PM] Dave

Let me post the final Tapbacks: Liked by Sam

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Sharing information about the final Tapbacks.


[2026-02-19 02:07:00 PM] Sam

7

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Simply stating '7' indicates a decision.


[2026-02-19 02:23:00 PM] Sam

But then we have different definitions under each category

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Confirming agreement with 'Yes'.


12 messages with vulnerability signals | Average score: 0.71


[2026-02-18 08:26:00 PM] Dave

But understand: my biggest source of dread in life right now is losing… you Tapbacks: 😭 by Sam

Score: 0.90 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Sharing a deep fear of losing someone.


[2026-02-18 07:57:00 PM] Dave

I’m sure it is. Or you know… your cycle 🤭 Tapbacks: Disliked by Sam

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Sharing feelings about jealousy indicates emotional openness.


[2026-02-18 08:12:00 PM] Dave

Him existing bothers me in that you’re there with him all the time. I believe you feel how you say you feel so it’s not like, a super jealousy thing…

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.9
Evidence: Expressing feelings about the relationship shows emotional openness.


[2026-02-19 04:51:00 PM] Dave

proudofmyself

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: Expresses pride in personal achievement.


[2026-02-19 05:16:00 PM] Dave

Eeeee…. Never said that one out loud before 🫣😅

Score: 0.80 | Confidence: 0.85
Evidence: Shares a personal fantasy.


[2026-02-18 08:22:00 PM] Dave

Those are the feelings, unfiltered. I know I don’t need to say that I see the irony of me saying that - from your perspective. But I also feel like I owe you the respect of pointing it out. Feb 18, 2026 8:26:13 PM (Read by Dave after 1 second) Sam Thank you for giving me the unfiltered feelings ❤️

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing unfiltered feelings indicates emotional openness.


[2026-02-19 04:00:00 PM] Possessiveness

Did I feel a flicker of “mine” this week?

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Expressing feelings of possessiveness.


[2026-02-19 05:29:00 PM] Dave

It’s seriously almost all I’ve been thinking about. Even being sick, and not like, overly horny… It’s STILL all I’ve been thinking about lol Tapbacks: Emphasized by Sam

Score: 0.70 | Confidence: 0.8
Evidence: Sharing personal thoughts despite being unwell.


[2026-02-19 01:32:00 PM] Sam

I think 1 Tapbacks: ❌ by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expresses uncertainty in decision-making.


[2026-02-19 02:05:00 PM] Sam

Fair. Ok. Oof. Honesty

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: The word 'honesty' suggests a level of emotional openness.


[2026-02-19 03:06:00 PM] Sam

You better be honest with me Tapbacks: 💯 by Dave

Score: 0.60 | Confidence: 0.7
Evidence: Expressing a need for honesty.


[2026-02-19 01:32:00 PM] Sam

Mine is 9

Score: 0.50 | Confidence: 0.6
Evidence: Expresses difficulty in decision-making.


Transcript (tap to expand)

[2026-02-19 12:19:00] Dave: I did know that. But I appreciate you confirming it. It’s this kind of perception and attunement that I love about you. It’s funny how crazy and unstable you think you are, yet you not only recognize these deep, emotional issues we experience - but you also reach out to clarify and settle. You really are incredible, and I frequently find myself in awe of your… soul 💕
[2026-02-19 12:20:00] Dave: I love you and I hope you wake up feeling good. I’ll talk to you soon
[2026-02-19 13:58:00] Dave: Don’t be guilty for taking care of yourself 😌
[2026-02-19 13:59:00] Dave: But who you be if you weren’t guilty 🤷‍♂️🤪 Feb 19, 2026 7:59:31 AM Sam Right? If I didn’t fret about EVERYTHING Feb 19, 2026 7:59:34 AM after 1 second) Sam Fml lol Feb 19, 2026 8:01:29 AM Dave You’d be boring, shallow, and bleh. Just another brick in the wall. At least you’d still be smokin hot 🔥😏😉
[2026-02-19 13:59:00] Sam: Right? If I didn’t fret about EVERYTHING
[2026-02-19 14:01:00] Dave: You’d be boring, shallow, and bleh. Just another brick in the wall. At least you’d still be smokin hot 🔥😏😉
[2026-02-19 14:50:00] Dave: I wish we did more things like this 😌
[2026-02-19 14:54:00] Dave: So here are some ideas. Lmk if you like any 1. The 60-Second Drop Once a week, send: • a 60-second voice memo • answering one prompt (same prompt for both of you) Examples: • “What did you want from me this week but didn’t say?” • “One moment I felt extra connected to you.” • “One thing that scared me a little.” No back-and-forth analysis. Just drop and receive. 2. The Secret Playlist Thread Create a shared playlist and: • Add one song per week • No explanation allowed • The other person has to guess why Optional rule: title the playlist something coded. 3. The 3-Emoji Snapshot At a set time: • Send exactly three emojis • They represent your week with each other • No explanation unless asked It’s fast. It’s revealing. It’s fun. 4. The “Alternate Timeline” Game Once a week, one of you sends: “If we met today for the first time, what would you notice first?” One answer only. No essay. Just one sentence. 5. The Photo Micro-Challenge Pick a weekly theme: • “Comfort” • “Desire” • “Chaos” • “Home” • “Temptation” Send one photo from your real life that fits it. No staging. No paragraphs. 6. 5-Question Lightning Round Rapid fire: • Favorite thing I said this week? • Moment you almost texted me but didn’t? • Scale 1–10: how steady do you feel? • One thing you’re proud of? • One thing you want from me next week? Answer in bullet form only. 7. Memory Ping Once a week: • Send one screenshot or quote from your early chats • Say nothing except: “Still this.” 8. The 10-Word Rule Describe: • your desire • your fear • your current state In 10 words max. It forces precision. And it’s hot. 9. “Governance” Scorecard Once a week rate (1-5): • Connection • Stability • Fun • Risk • Emotional load No deep talk unless one score drops below 3. 10. Silent Watch Party Once a month: • Pick a 10-minute YouTube clip or short episode • Watch at the same time • No texting during • Debrief after in 3 sentences each
[2026-02-19 14:57:00] Dave: Ok, gotcha on gaslighting.
[2026-02-19 14:58:00] Dave: Also on love bombing. lol, I bet you’ve had both of those
[2026-02-19 14:59:00] Dave: Ok, I guess what I meant is “I’m not trying to make you feel guilty”! 👍
[2026-02-19 15:02:00] Dave: I never feel like - you feel like - I’m trying to make you feel guilty. Just so you know. But I like to still throw it out there from time to time to affirm. Like we both do ☺️
[2026-02-19 15:02:00] Dave: As far as being honest vs trying to make you feel some kind of way. Feb 19, 2026 9:07:09 AM Sam It’s exactly this 😘
[2026-02-19 15:06:00] Dave: Oof… “not trying to kill the happy vibe”…
[2026-02-19 15:06:00] Sam: It’s finnneeee
[2026-02-19 15:07:00] Dave: Ok… listening now 🫣
[2026-02-19 15:07:00] Sam: It’s exactly this 😘
[2026-02-19 15:07:00] Dave: Are you breaking up with me?
[2026-02-19 15:07:00] Sam: No you fool
[2026-02-19 15:07:00] Sam: ❤️
[2026-02-19 15:08:00] Sam: Yea let me break up with you via voice message while you’re at work. 🙄 on a random Thursday
[2026-02-19 15:09:00] Sam: Ok pay attention bc I’m all over the place so good luck keeping up 😂😂
[2026-02-19 15:54:00] Sam: Nada?
[2026-02-19 15:54:00] Sam: 😬
[2026-02-19 16:31:00] Dave: Ok I took notes so I’m going to try to respond inline. Ugh - Jeff’s old admin - can’t remember her name - just talked my ear off 🙄. Ok back to the important stuff. More afraid of Sam ending WAA: - Need to figure out my own shit resonated - So overwhelming So technically, yeah, I know how to do it. Or can figure it out easily enough. The roadblock is more about the emotional aspect, and the enormity of it all. Like, regardless of how not-into-Juliet-as-a-partner that I am, I don’t hate her. And I know a divorce would absolutely devastate her. Is that worth MY happiness? I don’t think so. I would tell you it wasn’t worth yours. But fuuuck. Like, that’s what I don’t know how to do or where to begin. E V E R Y T H I N G is intertwined. Like I don’t even know if either of us could afford to live on our own. There’s no way we’d get out of the house any time soon. There are dozens of houses for sale in our neighborhood that have been on the market for over a year, and dropped the prices 10s of thousands. Not to mention the kids. Emerson isn’t prepared to live on his own. And Greyson still has 4 Y E A R S before he’s 18. But on the other hand, the thought of just droning on as is for the rest of my life hurts just as bad. How do you balance that? So then the question becomes: do I do it now and like, live here in the same house for the next however many years it takes to sell but with the additional awkwardness? Do I wait until Greyson is ready to mine out or go to college - also years. So to bring this back around, I think the reason I’m afraid (sure) you’ll end *WAA* is because I can’t fathom a way I’d actually be available in the way you’ll inevitably need - in the timeframe you’ll need it. The future pain This also contributes to my fear. This is the root of it, in fact. Even talking about this and especially laying it all out makes me afraid you’re gonna be like: yep, fuck that. No future here, might as well bounce now. We’ve talked about this. And I do feel much more comfortable now, with your support and reassurance, but this is still really hard for me to talk about and it leads to: Physically feeling the slap of reality I absolutely get this, and feel it too. You aren’t alone. And from what you described today and last night, I feel like we’re basically on the same page, and the source is essentially the same. Interested to know if that’s accurate. Setting ourselves up This also contributes to the above because I see this too. We both knew crazy night changed things. And this is the crux of the parachute analogy from back then. Every time we let it deploy again, we inched further and further into… love. Then everything else on top of that has just made it harder and harder in the long run. So for my obligatory statement I know I don’t need to make but am going to anyway: That was a lot of deep and ominous thoughts but they don’t represent a current feeling of dread or despair. Yes it’s what is always in the background, and my hope for expressing it is that you understand I definitely get the gravity of the situation and am in no way trying to downplay it or not recognize the reality. Most of all, understand that I’m grateful for your understanding, maturity, and emotional intelligence to understand exactly what I mean and for creating the safe space for me to express myself. Also know that whatever comes of *WAA*, it has been and continues to be one of the most rewarding and introspective periods of my entire life. I wouldn’t trade it for anything, and I won’t let it go until there’s absolutely no other option. I love you so much more than I can adequately express 🥰 Feb 19, 2026 10:41:44 AM Sam OK well now I am tearing up 😔 Feb 19, 2026 10:42:14 AM Sam “I won’t let it go until there’s absolutely no other option” 😭😭😭😭 Feb 19, 2026 10:44:08 AM Dave That sounds a little more… obsessive than I meant it to 😬😅
[2026-02-19 16:31:00] Dave: Ooof
[2026-02-19 16:32:00] Dave: 🤞🫣
[2026-02-19 16:41:00] Sam: OK well now I am tearing up 😔
[2026-02-19 16:42:00] Dave: Sorry 😞
[2026-02-19 16:42:00] Sam: “I won’t let it go until there’s absolutely no other option” 😭😭😭😭
[2026-02-19 16:43:00] Sam: Ok I don’t even know where to start in responding. Oof
[2026-02-19 16:44:00] Dave: That sounds a little more… obsessive than I meant it to 😬😅
[2026-02-19 16:44:00] Sam: Oh shut up
[2026-02-19 16:44:00] Sam: Be obsessed 😂😂😂 jk
[2026-02-19 16:44:00] Dave: OK as long as you didn’t take it that way 🥰
[2026-02-19 16:47:00] Dave: Please do
[2026-02-19 16:55:00] Dave: Whoa! 6.5 mins!?
[2026-02-19 16:55:00] Dave: We’re stepping it up on the voice messages
[2026-02-19 17:03:00] Dave: Is *WAA* ok for now?
[2026-02-19 17:05:00] Sam: It is for me. Are you ok?
[2026-02-19 17:06:00] Sam: Did we just platypus/armadillo? Maybe? Lol Feb 19, 2026 11:08:14 AM Dave This was for a voice call when we needed to talk through a spiraling event. Feb 19, 2026 11:08:23 AM Dave Right?
[2026-02-19 17:06:00] Sam: Ugh I gotta pay attention to dumbass calls for a bit
[2026-02-19 17:08:00] Dave: This was for a voice call when we needed to talk through a spiraling event.
[2026-02-19 17:08:00] Dave: Right?
[2026-02-19 17:08:00] Dave: Do you feel better lol? Feb 19, 2026 11:09:19 AM Sam Ummm No, not really. I’m sad 😔
[2026-02-19 17:08:00] Sam: Well yea, but I feel like I started to spiral a bit
[2026-02-19 17:09:00] Sam: Ummm No, not really. I’m sad 😔
[2026-02-19 17:09:00] Sam: But sometimes that just is what it is, you know
[2026-02-19 17:10:00] Sam: I need to go back to this. After these dumbass calls
[2026-02-19 17:10:00] Sam: But you’re ok?
[2026-02-19 17:15:00] Sam: I’ve said this before, but I’ll say it again. Erin Yara is a total bitch. Feb 19, 2026 11:35:01 AM Sam Hell. She even looks like Pam Bondi. Soooooo cunty. 🤬🤬 Feb 19, 2026 12:02:44 PM Dave Ok, Jesus. Are we coming into throat cutting territory? Feb 19, 2026 12:03:05 PM Dave What’s so bad about her? I don’t really even know her
[2026-02-19 17:16:00] Sam: And gives women leaders a bad name
[2026-02-19 17:27:00] Sam: Also, ok I posted this to my story last night. It’s CLEARLY about trump and his group of idiots. And my mother, a Trump voter, ❤️’d it 😂 like come on mom. Lol. I love her tons but 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Feb 19, 2026 12:01:55 PM Dave Right?! That’s the thing with Trump voters though. They genuinely they’re doing exactly that: letting the baddest ass alphaest supremest leader lead them 🙄 She was probably like: oh! I’m glad Sam is finally getting the idea 👍
[2026-02-19 17:35:00] Sam: Hell. She even looks like Pam Bondi. Soooooo cunty. 🤬🤬
[2026-02-19 17:43:00] Sam: Internally screaming
[2026-02-19 17:43:00] Sam: JB literally just said “I’m going to put on my Dr hat for a minute…from my PHD”. STAHPPPPPP 🤦‍♀️ Feb 19, 2026 12:03:41 PM Dave Fucking kill me. What a twat.
[2026-02-19 18:01:00] Dave: Right?! That’s the thing with Trump voters though. They genuinely they’re doing exactly that: letting the baddest ass alphaest supremest leader lead them 🙄 She was probably like: oh! I’m glad Sam is finally getting the idea 👍
[2026-02-19 18:02:00] Dave: Ok, Jesus. Are we coming into throat cutting territory?
[2026-02-19 18:03:00] Dave: What’s so bad about her? I don’t really even know her
[2026-02-19 18:03:00] Dave: Fucking kill me. What a twat.
[2026-02-19 18:26:00] Sam: She’s just soooooo passive aggressive and fake
[2026-02-19 18:27:00] Sam: If you catch me being disgustingly fake nice sounding, let me know Feb 19, 2026 12:28:16 PM Dave I can’t imagine this ever happening
[2026-02-19 18:27:00] Sam: Lolol loving these emojis
[2026-02-19 18:28:00] Dave: I can’t imagine this ever happening
[2026-02-19 18:43:00] Dave: Hahaha omg I totally know what you mean
[2026-02-19 18:48:00] Dave: I think I successfully put your choices out of my mind before I chose my top 3. I purposefully didn’t look at them any more than I accidentally did when you sent them so I feel pretty good about my objectivity. My initial choices were 1, 3, 7, 9, 10 And my top 3 were: 1, 7, and 9. With the exception that maybe we do 7 every day? Because weekly seems like way too much to choose.
[2026-02-19 19:03:00] Sam: I read #7 as being like long ago memories/texts
[2026-02-19 19:03:00] Sam: Like go back and find stuff from 2 yrs ago
[2026-02-19 19:04:00] Dave: That’s so us
[2026-02-19 19:07:00] Dave: No let me guess
[2026-02-19 19:07:00] Dave: But driving
[2026-02-19 19:21:00] Dave: Ima have to say 7
[2026-02-19 19:21:00] Dave: But could be 9 🤔
[2026-02-19 19:30:00] Dave: And I don’t even try to understand the pay thing. TBH, I pretty much coast, get what they give me, and I’m cool. I’m not working my ass off here, and I have tons of leeway so I don’t really complain.
[2026-02-19 19:31:00] Dave: Yeah
[2026-02-19 19:31:00] Sam: Hmmmm
[2026-02-19 19:31:00] Dave: What was yours?
[2026-02-19 19:32:00] Sam: I’ll tell you mine after I guess yours lol
[2026-02-19 19:32:00] Sam: I think 1
[2026-02-19 19:32:00] Sam: THIS IS HARD
[2026-02-19 19:32:00] Sam: Errrr
[2026-02-19 19:32:00] Sam: Mine is 9
[2026-02-19 19:33:00] Dave: Wuuuut
[2026-02-19 19:33:00] Dave: Mine too lmaololol
[2026-02-19 19:33:00] Sam: Shut up
[2026-02-19 19:34:00] Sam: Well I mean…governance
[2026-02-19 19:34:00] Sam: 🥰
[2026-02-19 19:34:00] Sam: But also…once a week might be hard
[2026-02-19 19:34:00] Sam: Bc I might tend to lean towards the most recent days in my rating
[2026-02-19 19:34:00] Sam: But I’ll try! Lol
[2026-02-19 19:35:00] Dave: Yeah, I’m good with that
[2026-02-19 19:35:00] Dave: A week is a long time
[2026-02-19 19:35:00] Dave: With us anyway
[2026-02-19 19:35:00] Sam: So more frequent? Or once a week?
[2026-02-19 19:36:00] Dave: I can see that maybe causing some confusion though
[2026-02-19 19:39:00] Dave: That’s half the week
[2026-02-19 19:39:00] Dave: Tuesday morning Friday afternoon
[2026-02-19 19:42:00] Dave: That’s what I meant. Our ratings
[2026-02-19 19:42:00] Sam: Oh
[2026-02-19 19:42:00] Sam: Hehe
[2026-02-19 19:43:00] Sam: WHY AM I HORNY RIGHT NOW
[2026-02-19 19:45:00] Dave: Hahaha omg I didn’t think youd notice that 🤦‍♂️🤣 Feb 19, 2026 1:45:51 PM Sam No I legit think it’s adorable lol
[2026-02-19 19:45:00] Sam: Oh stahpppp it
[2026-02-19 19:45:00] Sam: No I legit think it’s adorable lol
[2026-02-19 19:47:00] Sam: I need a definition for risk and emotional load
[2026-02-19 19:47:00] Dave: We can change these to whatever
[2026-02-19 19:47:00] Sam: And what 1-5 means
[2026-02-19 19:47:00] Sam: Ask your AI 😘
[2026-02-19 19:47:00] Dave: Haha..
[2026-02-19 19:47:00] Dave: Ask it what?
[2026-02-19 19:48:00] Dave: Definition?
[2026-02-19 19:48:00] Dave: That doesn’t really fluctuate, and we’re both aware of it
[2026-02-19 19:50:00] Sam: Hahahaha
[2026-02-19 19:57:00] Dave: Rating Scale (applies to every category) 1 – Needs Attention Something feels slightly off, muted, or misaligned. Worth talking about gently. 2 – A Little Uneven Not concerning, but noticeable. Some tension or subtle imbalance. 3 – Steady / Neutral Solid. No issues, but not especially heightened. 4 – Strong / Positive Adds value. Feels aligned and intentional. 5 – Exceptional / Expansive Deeply fulfilling. Energizing. Feels rare and meaningful. Categories 1. Connection How emotionally close and understood do we feel? 1 = Slightly out of sync 3 = Solid and present 5 = Deeply attuned and connected 2. Stability How steady and grounded does this feel? 1 = A little reactive or uncertain 3 = Consistent and manageable 5 = Calm, secure, and anchored 3. Fun Are we enjoying this dynamic? 1 = A bit serious or heavy this week 3 = Pleasant and easy 5 = Playful, electric, energizing 4. Risk Containment Does this feel thoughtful and intentional? 1 = We may need to recalibrate boundaries 3 = Conscious and aware 5 = Well-contained and responsibly navigated 5. Emotional Load How does this feel on our nervous systems? 1 = Slightly draining or overstimulating 3 = Neutral 5 = Supportive and regulating 6. Desire How strong and aligned does the romantic/sexual energy feel? 1 = Quieter but present 3 = Consistent and warm 5 = Intense and mutual 7. Honesty Are we being transparent about our internal states? 1 = Holding back a little 3 = Mostly open 5 = Fully candid and safe 8. Balance Does effort and emotional energy feel mutual? 1 = Slightly uneven in spots 3 = Generally reciprocal 5 = Clearly mutual and intentional 9. Integration with Real Life How well is this coexisting with everything else? 1 = Requires some mental juggling 3 = Functioning fine 5 = Integrated without strain
[2026-02-19 19:57:00] Dave: Here are some additional categories to chose from
[2026-02-19 20:03:00] Dave: Ok, I haven’t seen your yet, I just saw a notification and saw “my 5”. So here are mine: 2, 3, 5, 6, 7
[2026-02-19 20:04:00] Dave: Damnit you didn’t use the numbers lol
[2026-02-19 20:04:00] Sam: 1, 2, 3, 5, 6
[2026-02-19 20:05:00] Sam: So 1 and 7 are our outliers
[2026-02-19 20:05:00] Dave: I didn’t chose 1 because I can’t think of a time the connection wasn’t there.
[2026-02-19 20:05:00] Sam: Fair. Ok. Oof. Honesty
[2026-02-19 20:06:00] Dave: I can’t really think of a time I haven’t been honest either, but maybe a 1-2 point difference here and there?
[2026-02-19 20:07:00] Dave: So are we keeping 1 or 7?
[2026-02-19 20:07:00] Sam: Stability Fun Emotional Load Desire Honesty
[2026-02-19 20:07:00] Sam: 7
[2026-02-19 20:07:00] Dave: K
[2026-02-19 20:07:00] Dave: Let me post the final
[2026-02-19 20:19:00] Rules: * I will tell you the truth, even when it’s subtle or uncomfortable.
[2026-02-19 20:23:00] Sam: So we say over that the 1-5 is the rating definitions for all categories
[2026-02-19 20:23:00] Sam: But then we have different definitions under each category
[2026-02-19 20:24:00] Dave: Yeah good call. Do this all look good?
[2026-02-19 20:25:00] Sam: Yes
[2026-02-19 20:27:00] Dave: So do you want to refer back to the notes file for the specifics and then answer in this format? Stability 5 Fun 5 Emotional Load 1,000,000 Desire 1,000,001 Honesty 5
[2026-02-19 20:28:00] Dave: Yes. Do you want to coordinate and do it at the same time?
[2026-02-19 20:29:00] Dave: So we don’t influence each other’s numbers?
[2026-02-19 20:30:00] Dave: I think WE’re going to need to set up a shared calendar lmao
[2026-02-19 20:30:00] Sam: Dudeeeeee I literally had that exact thought like 7 minutes ago I swear
[2026-02-19 20:30:00] Dave: Lmao
[2026-02-19 20:30:00] Dave: Shocker
[2026-02-19 20:30:00] Dave: I guess it’s a thing then
[2026-02-19 20:33:00] Sam: Have to be Google 😘
[2026-02-19 20:35:00] Dave: Sorry for the little aside in there 😅
[2026-02-19 21:01:00] Dave: You wanted to know what gets me riled up Feb 19, 2026 3:02:04 PM Sam LOLOL
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Sam: LOLOL
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Sam: No no no
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Dave: Have you done yours yet?
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Sam: You can’t send notes or discus unless it’s under a 3 I thought?!?
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Dave: Notes about the system, how to score, how to interpret, etc.
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Sam: “Our dumb partners”
[2026-02-19 21:02:00] Sam: 😂
[2026-02-19 21:03:00] Dave: Haha, forgot about that
[2026-02-19 21:03:00] Dave: From the message
[2026-02-19 21:04:00] Dave: I’m ready whenever you are
[2026-02-19 21:05:00] Dave: And this is for the last 3 days right?
[2026-02-19 21:05:00] Sam: Yes
[2026-02-19 21:05:00] Dave: Stability 3 Fun 2 Emotional Load 2 Desire 3 Honesty 5
[2026-02-19 21:05:00] Sam: Whoa Feb 19, 2026 3:06:24 PM after 1 second) Dave Also… Wow. Way to make feel self conscious about being honest now
[2026-02-19 21:05:00] Dave: See? Now read my notes
[2026-02-19 21:06:00] Sam: Where are the notes!!!
[2026-02-19 21:06:00] Ok, here’s my first attempt and I want to address some thoughts. Maybe these are things we need to clarify or agree upon going forward. Maybe the ratings need to be tweaked to make more sense?: Stability 3: I’m thinking of the last 3 days. I’ve felt calm and steady - as usual. A couple months ago I probably would’ve been closer to 2 or 1 for reference. Today’s heavy content weighs heavily on this though, right? We literally talked about how *waves arms around* I going to end.. I do feel stable, maybe not entirely consistent, definitely manageable.
[2026-02-19 21:06:00] Sam: Lmao
[2026-02-19 21:06:00] Sam: You better be honest with me
[2026-02-19 21:07:00] Sam: Ok ahh! Trying to process. Hold on. Dennis is coming to my damn office
[2026-02-19 21:07:00] Dave: Who’s that?
[2026-02-19 21:07:00] Dave: Like, Howard?
[2026-02-19 21:07:00] Dave: Oh ok
[2026-02-19 21:07:00] Sam: I would die
[2026-02-19 21:07:00] Dave: Right?!
[2026-02-19 21:15:00] Dave: I made some notes inside my notes. But I think we just need to align on how we’re calculating.
[2026-02-19 21:15:00] Dave: This is harder than I expected lol.
[2026-02-19 21:22:00] Dave: Can you just call me 🙄
[2026-02-19 22:00:00] Possessiveness: Did I feel a flicker of “mine” this week?
[2026-02-19 22:03:00] Dave: How do these feel?
[2026-02-19 22:03:00] Dave: We can pick our tops
[2026-02-19 22:03:00] Sam: Much better I think
[2026-02-19 22:03:00] Dave: Or exclude
[2026-02-19 22:04:00] Dave: Yeah, 5-7?
[2026-02-19 22:04:00] Dave: Just read them when you can and see what stands out and what is meh
[2026-02-19 22:07:00] Dave: K, I’ll pick mine in a min
[2026-02-19 22:19:00] K, how about this:: Escalation
[2026-02-19 22:20:00] Dave: I added 2 I like. Fantasy, and Escalation - with a new definition
[2026-02-19 22:22:00] *WAA* Scorecard: Escalation
[2026-02-19 22:22:00] Sam: Love it
[2026-02-19 22:25:00] Sam: OK that’s a good point Feb 19, 2026 4:25:37 PM Sam Let me get home and I’ll send my new scores ❤️
[2026-02-19 22:25:00] Sam: OK that’s a good point
[2026-02-19 22:25:00] Sam: Let me get home and I’ll send my new scores ❤️
[2026-02-19 22:34:00] Sam: [attachment] Message.caf Transcription: No, definitely wait on sending your answers. I wanna do it at the same time please and thank you.
[2026-02-19 22:51:00] Dave: I can do the questions too!! ☺️🤪
[2026-02-19 22:51:00] Dave: #proudofmyself
[2026-02-19 22:52:00] Dave: Reeeeally?
[2026-02-19 22:52:00] Dave: Interesting
[2026-02-19 22:52:00] Dave: I think maybe I do too now that you mention it 🤔…
[2026-02-19 22:57:00] Dave: Awwwe
[2026-02-19 23:00:00] Dave: Oh wow! I loooove that one!
[2026-02-19 23:00:00] Dave: That’s very 🥵
[2026-02-19 23:01:00] Dave: Do you have any interest in that kind of porn? Or the visuals dont really do anything for you?
[2026-02-19 23:03:00] Sam: Like since my early 20s maybe
[2026-02-19 23:04:00] Dave: Well I’d be happy to curate some DP material if you want hehehe 😋
[2026-02-19 23:05:00] Sam: I don’t know if watching other women does it for me. Like, i want to visualize me 😂
[2026-02-19 23:05:00] Dave: Right, I kinda thought that might be the case
[2026-02-19 23:06:00] Dave: But you said you’ve never actually DPd yourself though right? Like with dildos?
[2026-02-19 23:06:00] Dave: That’s a pretty easy fantasy to simulate
[2026-02-19 23:06:00] Sam: Correct. I think. I’m pretty sure
[2026-02-19 23:06:00] Sam: That’s true
[2026-02-19 23:06:00] Dave: You should try it
[2026-02-19 23:07:00] Dave: Or two!
[2026-02-19 23:08:00] Sam: Ok your turn
[2026-02-19 23:08:00] Dave: I’m trying to think of something I haven’t told you…
[2026-02-19 23:16:00] Dave: I’ve always kind of had a predicament bondage fantasy which is where you’re bound in a position where something is happening that you can’t get away from. Usually with my dick being exposed and being used or teased but not allowed to cum. There’s another variation where I’m in the same position but with a woman sitting on my face and making me eat her pussy, and if I don’t she slaps my hard cock, or drips hot wax on it 🥵
[2026-02-19 23:16:00] Dave: Eeeee…. Never said that one out loud before 🫣😅
[2026-02-19 23:17:00] Sam: Eeee!!!! Gonna read it 5 times so I can see it not brain lol
[2026-02-19 23:19:00] Sam: Whooo that put a rush of heat through me
[2026-02-19 23:20:00] Dave: I know you like being the submissive one, buuuut I’m definitely plugging you into that fantasy now 🥵🫠
[2026-02-19 23:20:00] Dave: I can totally see you excelling at it
[2026-02-19 23:21:00] Sam: Make me jealous. I will 10000% punish you 😉
[2026-02-19 23:21:00] Dave: Hehehe
[2026-02-19 23:22:00] Dave: You are so incredibly sexy 🤤
[2026-02-19 23:27:00] Dave: I love that! And you definitely do the same to me 🫠
[2026-02-19 23:29:00] Dave: It’s seriously almost all I’ve been thinking about. Even being sick, and not like, overly horny… It’s STILL all I’ve been thinking about lol
[2026-02-19 23:39:00] Dave: Sec
[2026-02-19 23:39:00] Dave: K, sending
[2026-02-19 23:39:00] Dave: *WAA* Scorecard Escalation 5 = Actively envisioning change Craving 3 = Strong Jealousy 3 = Flicker Dependency 4 = Somewhat/Heavy Narrative Drift 1 = Stable Concealment 2 = Light/Moderate
[2026-02-19 23:40:00] Sam: Escalation 4 Craving 4 Jealousy 3.5 Dependency 4 Narrative Drift 3.5 Concealment 4.5
[2026-02-19 23:41:00] Sam: The last 2 lol
[2026-02-19 23:41:00] Dave: I like the questions better. You?
[2026-02-19 23:41:00] Dave: Yeah, how did your narrative change?
[2026-02-19 23:43:00] Sam: The stuff I brought up this morning that had been on my mind. The “setting ourselves up” thing
[2026-02-19 23:45:00] Dave: For me, my internal story about “us” is still the same as it has been since it “escalated” on secret weekend. How did the setting ourselves up thing change the story for you?
[2026-02-19 23:45:00] Dave: Or do we not ask questions?
[2026-02-19 23:45:00] Dave: Sorry lol
[2026-02-20 00:00:00] Dave: Give me an example of what internal narrative means to you?
[2026-02-20 00:00:00] Dave: Please
[2026-02-20 00:01:00] Sam: Internal narrative is the story I tell myself in my head
[2026-02-20 00:09:00] Dave: Ok, that’s helpful. My internal narrative about us, that hasn’t changed is: I’ve fallen in love with this woman I’ve become best friends with over the last 4 years. We know each other more deeply than anyone else, and I’ve come to cherish and almost rely upon our good mornings, daily interactions, and good nights. These feelings were fully recognized after crazy night, and solidified and reinforced during secret weekend. For me the acknowledgment and recognition of all the shit parts of *WAA* lives somewhere else than the narrative about us.
[2026-02-20 00:10:00] Dave: Shit parts being the anxiety and s word stuff
[2026-02-20 00:10:00] Sam: Butttt in that instance, when would that ever change?
[2026-02-20 00:14:00] Dave: I think a change would look like: I’ve fallen in love… reinforced during secret weekend. Our kinship has grown stronger over the months between secret weekend and secret training week, at which time we got high and had tons of sex at a great hotel in Dallas… etc etc Feb 19, 2026 6:18:12 PM after 1 second) Sam You had to wait all the way until secret weekend to reinforce that you loved me?! HMPH 😤
[2026-02-20 00:15:00] Sam: I think maybe I’m viewing these as more like pulse checks if that makes sense. Since we are doing it like 2x/wk. so I was thinking of things that might fluctuate more often than like just when we see each other
[2026-02-20 00:16:00] Dave: Yeah, I think we’re just thinking of “narrative” differently
[2026-02-20 00:16:00] Sam: OK so think of it my way 😝😂
[2026-02-20 00:16:00] Sam: Lmao
[2026-02-20 00:16:00] Dave: Hahaha
[2026-02-20 00:17:00] Sam: And maybe it should be our internal narrative around WAA, vs “us”
[2026-02-20 00:17:00] Dave: Sure, sure. I think that makes sense. I was focusing more on the narrative and less on the drift. Also trying not to baseline because that’s what wasn’t working in the first set of questions
[2026-02-20 00:18:00] Dave: Yeah, good callouts
[2026-02-20 00:19:00] Sam: Hmm you’re right about not base lining butttt I feel like our story, “us”, is already a baseline. Sooo hmmm that’s hard
[2026-02-20 00:20:00] Dave: Yeah I think it’s fine for this one
[2026-02-20 00:20:00] Dave: However that means it will never really go… up
[2026-02-20 00:21:00] Sam: Really? So doing it my way, you think you’ll always be a 1/stable? Feb 19, 2026 6:24:00 PM Dave Let me rephrase. If baseline WWA is great, there’s only one way it can drift right?
[2026-02-20 00:22:00] Sam: Did my internal story about WAA change?
[2026-02-20 00:24:00] Dave: Let me rephrase. If baseline WWA is great, there’s only one way it can drift right?
[2026-02-20 00:25:00] Dave: Which I suppose is also a valuable metric 🤷‍♂️
[2026-02-20 00:42:00] Dave: How would you say your overall anxiety has been since we kinda settled into this most recent evolution of WAA?
[2026-02-20 00:42:00] Dave: Better, worse, same?
[2026-02-20 00:51:00] This most recent version being the one since secret weekend?: Edited 1 minute, 49 seconds later: This most recent evolution being the one since secret weekend?
[2026-02-20 01:17:00] Dave: It seems like it has been pretty low since the shock from crazy night settled and we accepted what we were feeling
[2026-02-20 01:19:00] Sam: You don’t really get anxiety though lol
[2026-02-20 01:20:00] Dave: Yeah, not really. I meant it seems lower for you
[2026-02-20 01:20:00] Dave: But actually, the anxiety I did have has been lower now that you mention it.
[2026-02-20 01:40:00] Dave: I still feel a little sick. Hbu? Feb 19, 2026 7:43:22 PM after 4 seconds) Sam Same Feb 19, 2026 7:43:32 PM Sam Are we ever going to feel good again?? Lmao
[2026-02-20 01:40:00] Dave: Actually I always feel pretty good after we recover from the heavy stuff ☺️
[2026-02-20 01:41:00] Dave: It’s kind of an emotional release like crying or something
[2026-02-20 01:43:00] Sam: Are we ever going to feel good again?? Lmao
[2026-02-20 01:43:00] Dave: Doubt it
[2026-02-20 01:43:00] Dave: I think we’re done
[2026-02-20 01:44:00] Dave: I have no motivation whatsoever to go to the gym Feb 19, 2026 7:45:09 PM after 7 seconds) Sam SAME!!!
[2026-02-20 01:46:00] Dave: Apparently we need to set up another rendezvous 😏
[2026-02-20 01:46:00] Dave: That got us in the gym and feeling good 😜
[2026-02-20 01:49:00] Dave: Yeah I could use a tan myself
[2026-02-20 01:54:00] Sam: Bc I’m watching love is blind right now and this woman has such a fake tan, you can see the orange lines
[2026-02-20 01:55:00] Sam: Like i hate the tanning spray or lotions that turns you orange, and there’s lines
[2026-02-20 01:55:00] Sam: And streaks
[2026-02-20 01:56:00] Dave: Yeah it’s gross
[2026-02-20 02:00:00] Dave: K. Easy choice for her lol
[2026-02-20 02:02:00] Sam: This guy isn’t even like all that
[2026-02-20 02:04:00] Sam: And this is her!!
[2026-02-20 02:05:00] Dave: She’s no you or anything 😒
[2026-02-20 02:11:00] Sam: Ok so I know you don’t like when I send you reels, but can I send you one that would LITERALLY make me have a panic attack and die?!? Like this is one of my biggest fears in life lol
[2026-02-20 02:11:00] Dave: Look at you! Taking compliments 😋
[2026-02-20 02:12:00] Dave: lol, I don’t mind when you send me reels
[2026-02-20 02:14:00] Dave: I complain about having to see the photo of you and your boyfriend
[2026-02-20 02:14:00] Dave: Speaking of.., how about today’s one of these?
[2026-02-20 02:14:00] Dave: I complain about having to see the photo of you and your boyfriend
[2026-02-20 02:15:00] Dave: Hahaha that’s hilarious
[2026-02-20 02:16:00] Sam: No Dave. No. I am literally stressed thinking about being tickled like that
[2026-02-20 02:16:00] Sam: lol
[2026-02-20 02:16:00] Dave: I can’t wait till I see you again 😏
[2026-02-20 02:17:00] Dave: I don’t think I really even tickled you last time 🤔
[2026-02-20 02:17:00] Sam: Yes you did and it was too fucking muck
[2026-02-20 02:17:00] Dave: Oooh favorite way to cuddle…
[2026-02-20 02:18:00] Dave: I think spooning
[2026-02-20 02:31:00] Dave: Big, with both arms around you, not just my top arm
[2026-02-20 02:31:00] Dave: You?
[2026-02-20 02:35:00] Dave: Sigh Feb 19, 2026 8:36:07 PM after 1 second) Sam Is this a good or bad sigh?
[2026-02-20 02:36:00] Dave: It’s a I want you to be laying on top of my right not more than I’ve ever wanted anything in my whole life
[2026-02-20 02:37:00] Dave: I really really miss you all of a sudden
[2026-02-20 02:37:00] Dave: Like, a lot a lot
[2026-02-20 02:38:00] Dave: I love you 🥰
[2026-02-20 02:46:00] Dave: It’s wild. I didn’t even know there was this much stuff to talk about
[2026-02-20 02:51:00] Sam: And the most insane part…I don’t get sick of it. Like, I want more
[2026-02-20 02:54:00] Dave: I have, without a doubt, talked more to you in our 4 years than I have to Juliet in 20. More personal topics, and literally more words.
[2026-02-20 02:57:00] Dave: I’m in bed, so if I stop responding, just know I love you and it’s because I passed out lol 🤭
[2026-02-20 03:02:00] Sam: I love you baby. I hope you sleep well!!!
[2026-02-20 03:02:00] Dave: You could probably add a couple more people in there too hahaha
[2026-02-20 03:03:00] Sam: Hahaha
[2026-02-20 03:03:00] Dave: It’s just so easy with you
[2026-02-20 03:12:00] Dave: Yeah. I’ve never been so comfortable and like, enthusiastic about talking about hard topics and feelings and shit
[2026-02-20 03:15:00] Sam: You hear ppl talk about how the way they’ve made their relationships work for so long is bc they talk to each other and they have the hard conversations. And they just…keep communicating through all the shit that comes up. And I feel like if there’s anyone in life I could actually do that with…it would be you.
[2026-02-20 03:16:00] Dave: I think that All. The. Time.
[2026-02-20 03:17:00] Sam: Like, in that context?
[2026-02-20 03:17:00] Dave: Like, what would it even be like having a partner you could talk to like this
[2026-02-20 03:18:00] Sam: Thinking back…like, did you guys start out like this?
[2026-02-20 03:19:00] Dave: That’s why I constantly say I feel like this is something special. Not just like how everybody says that, but like, for real.
[2026-02-20 03:20:00] Dave: No. I’ve never been “myself” or completely open with her. There just isn’t this kind of chemistry.
[2026-02-20 03:21:00] Dave: It’s like something you see on TV, or in those very rare couples irl that mesh so well
[2026-02-20 03:21:00] Sam: I feel like, I not only know your heart/soul (you can roll your eyes at me 🙄), but that I understand it. And same for you with me
[2026-02-20 03:22:00] Dave: I didn’t even 🙄. Not right now. I’m locked in 🥰
[2026-02-20 03:22:00] Dave: And definitely.
[2026-02-20 03:23:00] Sam: Christian and I had some convos like this when we first started dating. Not nearly at all to this extent though. But like…then his actions didn’t track with the things he would say. Then I just stopped understanding where he was coming from. Like we fundamentally disagree on things. Or don’t see eye to eye. And I’m not saying you and I are the same person and have the same beliefs. I wouldn’t even want that. But I get you. And it makes sense to me. And it isn’t at odds with any of my core beliefs or values.
[2026-02-20 03:25:00] Sam: And somewhere along the way, it stopped feeling “safe” for me to be as vulnerable with him. But more than anything, I stopped feeling understood
[2026-02-20 03:26:00] Dave: Understood is a great word for what I feel with you
[2026-02-20 03:26:00] Dave: And I feel like I understand you
[2026-02-20 03:27:00] Dave: It’s almost unsettling at times
[2026-02-20 03:27:00] Sam: And dude, we’ve only seen each other in person THREE times. Hahahaha
[2026-02-20 03:28:00] Dave: Right?!
[2026-02-20 03:28:00] Sam: Like 🤯
[2026-02-20 03:28:00] Sam: Wtf
[2026-02-20 03:28:00] Dave: And every time has been fireworks
[2026-02-20 03:28:00] Sam: Yet we fit like a glove
[2026-02-20 03:29:00] Dave: Next time is going to be unbelievable
[2026-02-20 03:29:00] Dave: 🫠🥰
[2026-02-20 03:29:00] Sam: I knowwwww!!! Do you think about it!??
[2026-02-20 03:29:00] Sam: Like actually
[2026-02-20 03:30:00] Dave: lol… do I think about it
[2026-02-20 03:30:00] Sam: Because I do. Like the nerves will be way less, and it’ll just be pure joy and almost, relief, to be together again
[2026-02-20 03:31:00] Dave: That’s exactly what I imagine. Like, now we know if all works
[2026-02-20 03:32:00] Dave: I mean we didn’t even waste any time on secret weekend
[2026-02-20 03:33:00] Dave: Hehehe
[2026-02-20 03:34:00] Dave: Totally. It will be a homecoming for sure
[2026-02-20 03:35:00] Dave: I won’t give you my cock ASAP this time though. This time I’m going to take it slow 😈
[2026-02-20 03:35:00] Sam: Fuck off no you’re not
[2026-02-20 03:37:00] Dave: Oh yes I am. I might let you suck it a little before I eat your pussy…
[2026-02-20 03:37:00] Sam: Yes please
[2026-02-20 03:37:00] Sam: Sigh
[2026-02-20 03:37:00] Dave: Sigh
[2026-02-20 03:38:00] Dave: Here we go lol
[2026-02-20 03:38:00] Sam: Yupppp lol
[2026-02-20 03:38:00] Dave: I love us
[2026-02-20 03:39:00] Dave: And you’re mine, without a doubt baby
[2026-02-20 03:39:00] Dave: I love you, and I hope you sleep well
[2026-02-20 03:40:00] Sam: You too baby. Love you so much. Talk to you tomorrow!
[2026-02-20 03:41:00] Dave: Nite nite 😘🥰